Anupama so artificial

Nothing that anupama does nowadays looks real or from the heart

Whether she tickles anuj or showers him with care after returning from Shahs etc it looks so artificial only

Because you know her actions are not from the heart and soul

She never really loves anuj or she would not be sashaying or partying with shahs so much

I mean wifes do not attend brothers wedding if hubby is unwell in our families

Or grandmothers do not leave ailing husband and go to childrens house to take care of party at grandchild birth etc

That is why india and asia is known for being family oriented and culture

Otherwise iif all start behaving like anupama will it not become like USA a individual society where only ones happiness matters over family members or hubby

I cannot believe how anyone can defend anupama atroious behaviours with anuj kapadia and choti anu

No one treats even pet cats and dogs the way Baa is treating chotti anu yet n one stopping her

If someone comes with baby to home even pet cat or dog will check out new baby because its curious no one says keep pet cat or dog away it may harm etc its natural behaviour wether human or animal to check out new baby or small kids because they are curious to meet new person especially small baby

But Baa behaving worst than how people treat others pets also with their baby

And still anupama is quiet

Will anuj be quiet if Shah people misbeahve with choti anu in front of him?

Is she not a human or even worst than pet animals at others home?

Choti anu behaving orphan should not be allowed to be treated so badly by Baa or shahs as it will impact life long mind

In india and asia sons kids get preference when they go to grandparents house usuually and daughters kids feel left out usually

Choti anu being made to feel same way thats shes second class un wanted at nani nana house

Yes till a decade back parents kept quiet if kids are treated differential in nana nanais house as they are daughters kids but nowadays scenario changing as parents taking stand

Just do not take kid to shahs house leave her with GK and anuj no anupama

It shall impact little kids mind all life the way shes being treated at Shahs place

In india and asia sons are given preference brothers are given preference so daughters and sisters should accept and adjust. But that leaves terrible hurt and anger in mind of daughters and sisters all life.

This should not happen with little anu poor child is orphan already upset and vulneable unlike kids with real parents

Atleast anuj as orphan should have brains no as he was orhan can understand orphan psychology

Anuj is adult he can take bias from anupam anad shahs but a child may not be able to do that at 6 or 7 years

Anupama has no love for her hubby and kid. She is still Mr Shah's wife mentally.

Difference difference between function and party in function that is rasam everything should be done in particular muhurt muhurt and there is Pooja even and people even take Kuldevi Devta name 2 for their rasam that is function during function people don't eat non veg and don't even drink alcohol but in party there is no more muhurt no Pooja of Kuldevi Devta a people even drink alcohol and non veg to party word is use here totally wrong

I agree with a lot of the points.

Though even in western countries, there is individualism, people still consider others feelings and impact of environment. Here Anu is not caring for those things for choti Anu.

She definitely gives preferrential treatment to Shah's family than current husband/child.

Few questions:

1. What is Kavya's role in Shah House? If you don't give someone an opportunity how would anyone learn or know?

If it is the question of knowing Rasm, doesn't Leela know to guide Kavya or for that matter anyone? Is Leela being plain lazy and wanting a free full time maid? Are ALL rasm only known to Anupama? If that is the case, too bad, she did not pass on this Sanskaar to anyone including Leela?

So, Mr.Hansmukh only sides by daughters or DIL turned daughters? He will start siding Kavya once she divorces Vanraj👏? Some people never learn, I tell you.

2. Why is ALL their akad only towards their Ankush Bhaiyya and Barkha Bhabhi?

The Sanskaari Anuj and Anupama put up with injustice meted out on them from Shah's without an uff. Aren't they their elders and by their own logic, aren't elders respectable and can get away doing anything example Leela?

Happy to be corrected, wasn't it shown in the introductory episode Anuj did not want Adhik to call him Bhaiyya because he was quite younger to Ankush and Barkha (which in itself is questionable).

3. What is his (Anuj actually both husband and wife) anger towards Ankush and Barkha about? Property or treatment of Anupama?

Going by Anuj's own logic, Ankush and Barkha were thinking of snatching "a portion" of the property which they believe belonged to them (Ankush, Barkha, Sara (by virtue of being directly related) and Adhik(wonder by what logic)). Vanraj on the other hand actually took possession of the entire property from Malavika on the pretext of being involved.

Talking of differential treatment, well one doesn't have to even compare Shah house and Ankush-Barkha.

But today Dada and Dada-Buddy are like friends. I cannot remember Anuj or Anupama punishing anyone in Shah house ever.

Some rumors news that toshu ka jisse affair chlra tha woh ldki samne ayegi jiska character shivangi joshi play kregi....

It's not only in Asian culture but everywhere a wife cares for her husband. But here our anupama ji is least bothered about her child and husband.

All she wants to take care of her daughter in law and grandchild when in the true sense Rakhi and the entire Shah clan is there for kinjal. Kinjal doesn't need anupama babying her.

After watching some recent episodes of anupama I can clearly say that Anupama has hit the level low now. Nothing can justify her character any more.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

Anupama has no love for her hubby and kid. She is still Mr Shah's wife mentally.

Whenever mishter Shah gets angry, she calms him down with a glass of water. anuj ko pehli baar gussa aaya, woh toh bechara theek bhi nahi hai, usse pani nahi poocha. Iske BP ki chinta nahin hai

She has got ready for rasam acc to the status of kapadiyas but CA dress was like kisi door ke rishte daar ki baachi ko apne saath laayi hai. usko thoda feel karne de ki uske pap rich hai.

There is a thing line btw Unconditional Love N Duty. The Unconditional Love that was shown by Anuj hasn't changed accept ur partner without changing them but guide them when they are wrong.

The recent care Anu have been showing towards Anuj is of DUTY over Unconditional Love. Her Unconditional Love dims as she is not standing up for rights of others , with Shah H it was never Duty, never. As she always craved for acceptance that is why she was loyal despite them treating her like street trash.

Sure she is finishing her 'work' at Kapadia house and heading then to Shah F, wah how is that unconditional love towards Anuj, thats again DUTY.

Yes, ppl participate and celebrate in Rasam, being Indians only Dadima she is doing it too. In the name of Rasam how is it okay, that you smile, give lovely lovely looks and touches to your F ex who is abusive and who still abuse her? Don't tell me she doesnt know, Mata gave Pravachan on Mukku episode saying she knows he Emotionally Abused Her. What irks me is, she talks how she can't stand the man who is abusive but defends him with such gesto that she forgot basic humility towards CA and Anuj.

Couldn't she call Baa out on things with respect, I don't need 2weeks of torture episodes for devi to open her mouth on 3rd week and the words are wah wah and never followed.

Even Babuji stood up to Baa, Anuj never feared anyone. She claims she gets strength from him, how much can the guy do and take. Don't tell me Mata doesn't want to spoil her Dadi Fun, remember the Godh Barai episode where she told dboth Rakhi n Baa to fight, couldnt she say something to protect CA? I dont care anymore if this women standa for self or not, but she cannot say CA is my Beti, I am proud of her and not even taking a single stand for same said daughter. T, P, Baa N V Ke liye tho Talwar leke kadhi ho jathi hai.

They are showing S in name of Traditions, yes Ex can be friends, even with Abusive one there have to a line, it doesn't exist in her life as she never saw or sees him as Abuser. Some of the Rasams S they talk about don't even exist.

During Toshu wedding she at least was hesitant in joining V for Kanyadan, abhi she RUNS to do Pooja with him.

The Mahan Devi ckt is butchered before wedding and everyday it stoops to new lowwww