'Another day she stayed silent and her abuser thrived in that silence' - Page 10

Originally posted by: Km181

Nahi dear.. she always maintain that divorce is only because of EMA... At least I can't recall a single dialogue where she accepted that she was abused.

Yes, we know EMA was blessing in disguise but Anupama has never acknowledged this. She maintains he was not good husband to her because he never loved her and she was not fit for me. Apart from this one point according to her he is ideal - achcha beta, pita, insaan..

Anupama is regressive, has low confidence and believes as long as male is earning for family he is perfect. She never believed in her worth so whenever he abused her she always felt that it was her own fault..

If I still want to believe in Anupama, these are the only probable reason I can think of, behind her still calling Vanraj good human...fact is she is kuaa ka mendak, she hasn't seen the world.

And if this is what makers have in mind.. then this time Anuj should be one telling her this and making Vanraj pay for his deeds.. if Anupama fights Vanraj then it won't make sense to me.

I totally agree with this. That's why i am happy ki ye Domestic Violence ki awareness episode mein Anuj ne di naa ki Anupama ne👏I feel ki Domestic violence ki full knowledge usse hai hi nahi she is too too nadaan or fool in that department.

Originally posted by: Km181

See here another one. This is the reason why instead of praising the makers, I find them hypocrite with double standards. They are touching sensitive issues only to make money, really they don't care about any social message.

They conveniently ignored DV in case of Anu, brushed it under the carpet..infact they showed her to remain silent and mahaan where she stayed with Shah for family, such a big sacrifice.

Baa and Vanraj both were her abuser but makers forget punishment, actually never even showed them guilty and even called them out openly as abusers ever.

Vanraj is mahaan who earned for family (Shivaratri), poor guy got married to wrong women (actually he himself liked Anu and said yes, as he saw wife in her) and Baa sacrificed for family when they were poor (diwali).

so both baa ladla are entitled to abuse and Anu being mahaan, ideal here when she calls then baa bhagwan and achcha insaan.

And if all this was not enough they added Vanraj again in Mukku track, are showing Anuj as weak due to his guilt. I want this time Anuj only to make Vanraj pay like he did in case of Muku.

If Anupama does, it won't go well because this lady should have done it long back If she had done it in past, vanraj would have thought multiple times before repeating with Kavya and now muku.. so, Anupama is guilty too.

https://twitter.com/AajKiRadha/status/1479839635123499009?s=20

Read the response here, Rupali has silently just acknowledged, she can't control the story, it's not in her hands..

And one more

https://twitter.com/woahh_11/status/1479887836216135685?s=20

meri mother dekhti thi to kabhi kabhi koi episode dekh leti thi aur wahi mere tolerance level ke bahar tha maine anuj ki entry ke baad show dekhna start kiya but wo bhi main shahs ke scenes skip maar deti thi

ye jo tumne second clip dali yehi dekhkar mujhe kuch ho raha h i just can't understand is lady ne 25 saal ye sab kaise tolerate kiya aur kaise ye apne pati ko bhagwan manti thi 😕

chalo kiya to kiya divorce ke baad aise khandan ke saath rahi kaise ye because isne jo bhi tolerate kiya bhale hi kisi ne iske saath galat na kiya ho but us waqt iska saath bhi kisi ne nahi diya bapuji bade the wo agar kuch bolte to shayad isko itna tolerate na karna padta 😵

aur ye sabke baad bhi ye divorce ke baad usi ghar mein rahi this is shocking for me

then rahi to rahi us insaan ko accha kaise bol sakti h ye us insaan se dosti kaise kar sakti h

i mean aap past bhoolkar aage badhna chahte ho you are more than welcome but kam se kam us past ko peeche to chodo uske saath koi bhi wasta rakhne ki kya need h

and you are absolutely right this is literally a mental and emotional abuse is show ki writers sab ladies h and unhe vanraj jaise insaan ko anupama ke muh se accha insaan bolte hue ajeeb nahi lagta 😵

uske upar use mukku ke is track mein dal diya jabardasti wo bhi as a helping hand😡

and about rupali answer can you share it here please😊

Originally posted by: magicalM

I feel Anupama is innocent and too bholi. wo yahi sochti hai ki ye sab poor houses mein hota hai ya phir uneducated women ke saath hota hai. She was shocked jab wo couple lad rahe the and that man was threatening to beat his wife. She said aise bade bade ghar ke log bhi then Anuj face was Anu u r too bholi.

Mujhe Anu ka wo dialogue yaad hai jab resort mein Vanraaj ne kavya par haath uthana chaha tab Anu ne Kavya se kaha tum to independent ho tum kyu haaye bechari ban rahi ho. baat independence ki nahi hai. Ek Independent women bhi kar baar Domestic violence ko face karti hai.

Ye sirf India ki problem nahi whole world ki hai. Mujhe USA mein ek case yaad hai ek working woman ko bhi uske pati ne maara tha tab usne police case kiya police le gayi par ek do din ke baad shayd kisi ke pressure mein aakar case wapas le liya.

@red : Could be I have not seen the episode yet dear.. and don't have plans yet.. maybe once this track is over, I might see all episodes together or skip for ever..

@blue : yes I recall this..but today Anu is independent still she is not calling out Vanraj is wrong infact she looked her approval in hospital and then coffee in office.

Agree, this is problem across the world seen both in developing and developed countries likewise..

Rupali's answer

"Thank you Anuradhaji 🙏"

Exactly word by word only this. She can't say much but she acknowledge, that says a lot I guess.

If I try to be reasonable and give benefit of doubt to Anupama I can only think of this as her low self confidence.. see my other comment.

Even I have seen earlier episodes in bits and pieces. Became regular after Anuj.. as earlier it was too much negativity and Anuj added some positivity.. now it's again becoming too much negative to handle for me

Originally posted by: Km181

Rupali's answer

"Thank you Anuradhaji 🙏"

Exactly word by word only this. She can't say much but she acknowledge, that says a lot I guess.

If I try to be reasonable and give benefit of doubt to Anupama I can only think of this as her low self confidence.. see my other comment.

Even I have seen earlier episodes in bits and pieces. Became regular after Anuj.. as earlier it was too much negativity and Anuj added some positivity.. now it's again becoming too much negative to handle for me

How much they put vanraj Shah in good light viewers will not accept it muh ke bal girenge

Originally posted by: mithilalovesksg

How much they put vanraj Shah in good light viewers will not accept it muh ke bal girenge

I know it's became a cycle.. they try, audience voice there disgust, they rush the track.. and try again with new track 😬

Happy sunday guys. Yesterday I was super busy in my 3 year old birthday celebration, so couldn't make it. Thanks for the tags guys😊

Pri your title is the need to understand🤗

This is the topic we should be more aware concerned and supportive not on pity but to fight for it, to help the victims to overcome it and most important not to tolerate in any manner of any type even in our lives coz single tolerance give them enough queue for giving them authority for more regressive torture.

First 👏👏for Aneri, hats off girl. To portray this you need to feel it, to absorb the effect and you are splendid girl. It pricked instantly to my heart or rather I would say some of my own past incidences came alive, anyway you were natural so so natural. It take a toll mentally, physically and emotionally. You were 💥 of emotions. The guilt, anxiety and suffering, zone out feeling of family members, fabulously conveyed well done Gaurav. Rupali being shocked, practical, sanity and a strong supporter, one person should be there to handle this, such great work. And for makers well done for writing it so sensitively for all the correct messages to pass.👏

G you put out all the valid points which need to be joined calculatively.

Till date storyline, it is clear mukku created wall against her that not even her brother can see it. It seems like parents death then not any emotional support from bhai coz of obvious reason to nurture her,him to handle family business, then again her love akshay was out from her life by her bro again reason is correct but still then got married with bhai's choice and violence happened, she was so lonely all along. Though her bhai brought her out from there but still she was lonely. She bottled up everything in her and tightened the cap to not to be seen by anyone. Are these the reasons she is running away all the time.

These bro sis duo are still looking unaware of each others. What are the things?

All in all this should be given proper meaningful closure.

Like Anuj every parent of girls who suffered blamed themselves, are guilty but its actually not their fault, it is suffering their child which make them suffer. Marriage is the ultimate goal of girls' life in our society, this forced our parents, brothers for finding the correct guy for their daughter. It backfired then the guilt start seeping into them. People have different ways to deal with, one is of Anuj to drown himself in work, he felt himself non worthy. I totally agree with you G the reason of Anuj being elated as praised by Anu.

G not only finding life partner and getting married is enough for society, they even forced you to sacrifice yourself at any cost just to maintain this alignment. Marriage is very beautiful only with the right partner. I'm a single mother of 3 year old son, left him a year ago and still fighting for my decision not only with them but to the society and society is nothing, they are your own relatives, family. Mental and emotional violence was the thing with me and Physical I wont let him. I too sacrificed 4 years of my marriage just to make him understand the things and sometime feared sometime fierced but that was enough coz samjhne wale samjh jate itna waqt ni lagate h or even they will get more brutal even. This is my story, I wont buzz a little now coz every one needs to be happy and I too deserve the same and my child need healthy environment to grow. The point is when nobody literally nobody care for you for your happiness dont giveup on ownself stand and become selfish to be happy to taking care of your ownself coz literally like literally nobody make you happy the way you do to yourself. Scars are always deep they wont vanish but by moving further in life gives you confidence, satisfaction, respect and all above happiness and pain will be reduced, it will stop affecting you, make them your strength.

Originally posted by: ayushijindal

Happy sunday guys. Yesterday I was super busy in my 3 year old birthday celebration, so couldn't make it. Thanks for the tags guys😊

Pri your title is the need to understand🤗

This is the topic we should be more aware concerned and supportive not on pity but to fight for it, to help the victims to overcome it and most important not to tolerate in any manner of any type even in our lives coz single tolerance give them enough queue for giving them authority for more regressive torture.

First 👏👏for Aneri, hats off girl. To portray this you need to feel it, to absorb the effect and you are splendid girl. It pricked instantly to my heart or rather I would say some of my own past incidences came alive, anyway you were natural so so natural. It take a toll mentally, physically and emotionally. You were 💥 of emotions. The guilt, anxiety and suffering, zone out feeling of family members, fabulously conveyed well done Gaurav. Rupali being shocked, practical, sanity and a strong supporter, one person should be there to handle this, such great work. And for makers well done for writing it so sensitively for all the correct messages to pass.👏

G you put out all the valid points which need to be joined calculatively.

Till date storyline, it is clear mukku created wall against her that not even her brother can see it. It seems like parents death then not any emotional support from bhai coz of obvious reason to nurture her,him to handle family business, then again her love akshay was out from her life by her bro again reason is correct but still then got married with bhai's choice and violence happened, she was so lonely all along. Though her bhai brought her out from there but still she was lonely. She bottled up everything in her and tightened the cap to not to be seen by anyone. Are these the reasons she is running away all the time.

These bro sis duo are still looking unaware of each others. What are the things?

All in all this should be given proper meaningful closure.

Like Anuj every parent of girls who suffered blamed themselves, are guilty but its actually not their fault, it is suffering their child which make them suffer. Marriage is the ultimate goal of girls' life in our society, this forced our parents, brothers for finding the correct guy for their daughter. It backfired then the guilt start seeping into them. People have different ways to deal with, one is of Anuj to drown himself in work, he felt himself non worthy. I totally agree with you G the reason of Anuj being elated as praised by Anu.

G not only finding life partner and getting married is enough for society, they even forced you to sacrifice yourself at any cost just to maintain this alignment. Marriage is very beautiful only with the right partner. I'm a single mother of 3 year old son, left him a year ago and still fighting for my decision not only with them but to the society and society is nothing, they are your own relatives, family. Mental and emotional violence was the thing with me and Physical I wont let him. I too sacrificed 4 years of my marriage just to make him understand the things and sometime feared sometime fierced but that was enough coz samjhne wale samjh jate itna waqt ni lagate h or even they will get more brutal even. This is my story, I wont buzz a little now coz every one needs to be happy and I too deserve the same and my child need healthy environment to grow. The point is when nobody literally nobody care for you for your happiness dont giveup on ownself stand and become selfish to be happy to taking care of your ownself coz literally like literally nobody make you happy the way you do to yourself. Scars are always deep they wont vanish but by moving further in life gives you confidence, satisfaction, respect and all above happiness and pain will be reduced, it will stop affecting you, make them your strength.

BOLD - 👏👏👏, when it comes to issues the world turns their back Ayushi!!! We all know that very well. Hence it is us or rather I who has to face every damn thing.....so we better become selfish when needed, after all its just one life.

🤗🤗🤗 Rightly said, scars dont vanish...they might slowly slowly fade, but memories can come back anytime. Let it come as we are strong enough to cry and laugh with it.

Originally posted by: Km181

I know it's became a cycle.. they try, audience voice there disgust, they rush the track.. and try again with new track 😬

As much as possible, as much as its in our control, we as audience wont let him do this Komal...

Read all your points and I do agree. Just that I cant do anything about it :( :(

The day I stop writing, you will come to know that the story has stopped connecting with me totally!!