We need a track where Anu learns how to draw some bloody boundaries - Page 5

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Kavya can say to malvika ki vanraj se door raho but kavya yeh nahin keh sakti tumhe is ghar mein nahin rehna hai kyonki yeh kavya ka ghar nahin hai yeh in law ka ghar hai

As i told according to law daughter in law ka koi right father in law mother in law ki property mein nahin hota hai

Afterthought: I think I get it to some degree..... Anupama is smart, if Malvika stays in shah house, she can have Mr.AK all to herself in the kapadia house. 😉😳

Anupsma ne permission di hai really? . Kul ko. Anupsma kahegi ki jaao jakir shahar ghar mein bartan jhaadu pochha karo to kya malvika karne jhaadu pochha karne lag jaayrgi shah house mein

Yes mujhe anupsma ne permission di ki jhaadu pocha lagao isliye main jhaadu pochha lag rahi hoon

Kyonki malvika khud nahin samajh sakti ki mujhe kya karna chahiye

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Butvyahan malvika vanraj ki girl friend ban ke nahi jaa rahi hai . Kavya bus itna keh sakti hai vanraj se door raho but kavya has no. Legal right to say not stay in house

Waise kavya to keh rahi hai ki ghar mut aao but malvika to vanraj ki पार्टनर hai chalo ghar mein aane se rok legi kyonki kavya ko. Darr hai kshin vanraj malvika malvika mujhe na chod de but ghar ke bahat bhi vanraj aur malvika as partner milte rahege tub kavya kya karegi

Arey jise affair chalana hoga woh ghar ke bahar bhi. Chala lega to. Ghar mein malvika no. Entry dene se kya hoga malvika aur vanraj tp . Chup. Chuaaap bhi bahar affair chala lega jaise vanraj ne chalaya aur anupsma ko 8 saal tuk nahin pata chala ki vanraj affair chal raha hai

Kisi bhi Shaddi mai sirf legal rights yeh ek he angle se na chalta hai na hota hai .

As I said agar koi mai ka laal rights and property ka dabdaba dikha kar kisi bhi bahu ko chup karane ki koshish karega toh shaadishuda aurat ko samaj , kanoon and nari sanstha sab ka saath milega .

Totally! Both she and Anuj were wrong today. She had no business interfering with the decisions that the members of the household take. Bas beech mein ghusna hai isko kisi bhi tarah. She just doesn’t want to stay out of things. And Anuj has no business talking to Kavya like that. He should have asked his sister to shut up and leave the house rather than asking the ACTUAL lady of the house to shut up. Apni behen ki harkatein dekhi hain issne! Growing up thoda dhyaan deta toh yeh naubat nahin aati. Instead of minding their actual business, these two just like to interfere in other people’s business. Some business tycoon Anuj is! Very disappointing!

And, frankly speaking, the Anu-Anuj romance seems very forced right now. Smooth transition nahin hai. It seems very abrupt and not romantic.

Kavya ne bhi kam interfere nahin kiya hai. Pehle kavya bhi anuj aur anupama ke rekation mein bahut inteeferece karti thi be it professinal aur personal

Now what is interfere

Agar woh baat aapke against hai to woh inteeferece hai aur agar woh baat aapke for mein hai to woh support hai

Like in resort when anupama use to show humanity to kavya during resort when she ate sleeping pillai tub kavya ne kabhi nahin bola ki inteeferece mut karo yeh aur mere vanraj ki beech ki baat hai kyonki baat kavya ke for ( support) mein thi

Kabhi kabhi kavya khud anupama ko permission deti aayi hai interfere karne ko kyonki baat kavya ke for mein thi

Kul ko. Anupama phir agar kavya ke Support mein boleg agar vanraj aur kavya ke beech ladaai h7i i tub kavya ko gussa nahin aayega, anupama pe ki tum hoti kaun ho inteeferece karne wali vanraj jaise bhi mere husband hai aur tumhe aur husband ke beech bone la adhikaar nahin hai

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Now what is interfere

Agar woh baat aapke against hai to woh inteeferece hai aur agar woh baat aapke for mein to woh support hai

Like in resort when anupama use to show humanity to kavya during resort when she ate sleeping pillai tub kavya ne kabhi nahin bola ki inteeferece mut karo yeh aur mere vanraj ki beech ki baat hai kyonki baat kavya ke for mein thi

Kabhi kabhi kavya khud anupama ko permission deti aayi hai interfere karne ko kyonki baat kavya ke for mein thi

Do you mean anupama is also as wrong as Kavya by acting same?

My post is not about who is right or wromg. My post is about wtong abdul right change according to situation

As i said kavya ko isliye gussa nahin aaya ki anupama beech mein boli. Kyonki agar kavya ko beech mein se bolna gussa aata hota to woh tub bhi bol. Deti anupama se mere aur husband ke beech mein mut bolo jub anupama vanraj ko keh rahi thi soch samajh ke faisla li jiye aur kavya ko console kkar rahi thi

Kavya ko isliye gussa aaya, hai kyonki anupama kavya ke against jaa ke boli

Nahin to jise beech mein anupama ka bolna nahi pasand hai to anupama kavya ko support bhi kare to kavya yeh kahe ki main khud handle kar loongi tumhe beech mein bolne ki jaroort nahin hai but kavya kabhi yeh baat nahin kehti agar anu kavya ko support karti hai

Actually, resort mein and resort se aane ke baad, whenever she spoke between Vanraaj and Kavya, woh bhi interference hi tha. The only difference was ki unn instances mein she had a bit of stake. Before divorce, she was still linked to the family and Vanraj and thus needed to speak. After divorce, ghar ka ek hissa uska tha. So, she needed to speak about what happens in the house. But now, neither is she attached to Vanraaj in any way nor is she a part of the house. She has no business making decisions for Vanraaj and Kavya nkw.

Jaise kavya ne anupama ko vanraj ki business party mein anupama aur anu ke beech inteeferece kaene ki koshish ki ab to anuj ki sister aa gayi tum. Akeli ho. Gayi ho tumhe akele ghar jaana chahiye jub malvika anuj ka haath pakad ke anuj ghar le gayi

Tub anupama ne kaha kavya se ki tum apni life mein dhyan do to jise inteeferece ka shauk nahi woh har haal mein third person ko beech mein bolne se mana, kar de chahe woh baat uske support mein ho ya against