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Pehi baat anupama ne malvika ko nahin ghusaya hai ghar mein

Doosri baat malvika already shah house mein ghar mein reh rahi thi jub anupama ne yeh bhi nahin bola tha ki malvika yahan reh sakti

Teesri baat mukku ne anupama ko gale lagaya because anupama support malvika because of her kiddish behaviour

But kya kareien anupama har baar galat hi hoti hai

Anupama isa kyon bola beech mein kyon boli usne aise kapde kyon pehne har baar bus anupama hi galat hoti

Anupama ne kya kiya hai acha aaj tuk woh to bus bevakoof gadhi hai

Aaj kul jinke andar se patience hai doosre ki help karte hain woh gadhe kehlaate hain aur jo padhe likhe hain aur doosre ke husband steal karte hain woh smart keh laate aur practical. Keh laate hain wah kya baat hai

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Pehi baat anupama ne malvika ko nahin ghusaya hai ghar mein

Doosri baat malvika already shah house mein ghar mein reh rahi thi jub anupama ne yeh bhi nahin bola tha ki malvika yahan reh sakti

Teesri baat mukku ne anupama ko gale lagaya because anupama support malvika because of her kiddish behaviour

But kya kareien anupama har baar galat hi hoti hai

Anupama isa kyon bola beech mein kyon boli usne aise kapde kyon pehne har baar bus anupama hi galat hoti

Anupama ne kya kiya hai acha aaj tuk woh to bus bevakoof gadhi hai

Aaj kul jinke andar se patience hai doosre ki help karte hain woh gadhe kehlaate hain aur jo padhe likhe hain aur doosre ke husband steal karte hain woh smart keh laate aur practical. Keh laate hain wah kya baat hai

Lol dedh shani anupama ek mauka nahi chodti purane sasural mai ghus kar haqq jamane mai! Aise he mauka dekh kar ghus gayi thi uski baa 🐑 ki wedding planner bann kar mehendi pisne !

Kaun sa haq jamaya hai anupama ne

Anupama kya diwali mein gayi thi haq jamane lekinn tabhi kavya ko chain nahin tha anupama chali bhi gayi phir kavya aag daanlne ka kaam kar rahi thi

Sach toh yeh kavya anupama pe haq jamane ki koshish karti hai. Anupama na bhi involve hona chahiye but kavya jaise logon ko chain nahin milta anupama apni zindagi jee kaise rahi hai

Yeh kavya to kaale saye ki tarah anupama ke peeche padi rehti hai kavya kabhi anupama ki chain jeene nahi deti

Anupama ghar chod ke chali bhi gayi to bhi yeh kavya anupama ke peeche padi rshi

Aur anupama koi wedding planner nahin bani thi . She. Was just helpijg . Anupama invite hone pur baa aur bapuji ki ghar gayi thi aur woh help. Kar rahi thi. As a guest gayi thi not as wedding planner

I agree. The point being Kavya’s character is kind of negative. And her habit of interfering fits her character. Anupama’s character is supposed to portray a strong woman who has decided to take control of her life and venture into the World. Uss hisaab se how the character is being written is not consistent at all.

Plus, taane maarna and ghar ke decisions lena are two different things. Kavya taane maarti hai, Anupama, atleast in this case, ne ghar ke maamle mein bola.

And the fact that Anupama Shah house mein ruki after divorce WAS a BIG mistake. Woh Babuji ke blackmailing ke wajah se ruki. And Anuj ke ghar sirf to take care of him. Both these instances, Anu did not stay in those houses by choice. And agar Malvika yeh examples de rahi hai, then Anu needs to explain the problem with those examples.

Agar bachcha zidd karta hai toh use samjhana chahiye. Unreasonable zidd puri nahin karni chahiye as that will cause issues of its own later in life. If a child is provided with every unreasonable request, then they grow up feeling privileged and often disrespect the unfortunate and always feel like the world revolves around them. An excellent example of this is Malvika. Bachpan mein Anuj ne sar par nahin chadhaya hota toh aisi harkatein na karti woh.

Kavya had every right to ask Malvika to leave. She is the daughter in law of the house. And she was not alone. Baa also hesitated in allowing Malvika to stay. Just because ghar Kavya ke naam par nahin hai doesn’t mean she has no right to object to this insanity. She is married to Vanraj and kayde se jo Vanraj ka hai, woh uska bhi hai. And ghar ki DIL hone ke haq se she has a say in kaun reh sakta hai and kaun nahin.

And seriously, everyone in the house knows that Vanraj and Kavya ka delicate situation hai abhi. They all were sympathizing with her. Usko dimaag mein rakhkar hi mana kar dete.

Kavya poori tarah anupama ko dominate karti aayi hai. Kavya ne khud bola hamla ki woh anuj ke saath kaam nahin nahi karogi. Aur office mein aisse phateecar kapde pehan ke jaaogi to kavya cleay dominsting anupama

And please as a wife of vanraj kavya can say to stay away from vanraj to malvika but she is not owner of house so she cant say to anyone who can stay or not

I see no point in this discussion. Anupama has no concept of personal space/boundaries, continues to stick her nose into everyones matters and conveniently labels it manavta. Some of us find this bizzare, but others call this mahaanta. So be it! 🤪

End of the day, it doesnt really matter, Shahs & the Kapadias will be seen happily hosting lavish party in the coming week🤔

And this is the precise reason that many married women in India are like Anupama. People with the mentality that Bahu ka ghar par and ghar se related decisions par koi haq nahin hai. Now, I can completely understand why you feel that Anupama ne jo kiya sahi kiya.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Kavya ko kya right tha kehne ka malvika tum yahan nahin reh sakti yeh ghar to baa aur bapuji j ka hai

Baa aur bapuji ke ghar mein kaun nahin aayega who is kavya to decide when house does not belong to kavya

Are you serious? 🤓

Kavya us ghar ki daughter in law hai..Abe ghar ki daughter in law ke naam uska sasural nahi hai it means wo apne rights ke liye nahi bol sakti?😡

Isliye india me females ke ye haal hain..kyunki logo ki thinking aisi hai..

To fir to vanraj..or ghar ke baaki logo ko bhi bich me nahi bolna chahye..ghar to baa bapji ka hai..jiska ghar uska decision haina🤢

To fir bhi anupama kyun boli😆 Anupama ka to ekdum bhi nahi hai ye ghar..anupama ko unnecessary justify karna band kardo yaar..