Confrontation with honesty and maturity - Page 2

Whenever confronted with a POV different to ours people begin to react. The higher the decibel the more valid , they conclude. That is what the idiots and sometimes the other shahs do.

Anuj, Anupamaa and Hasmukh on the other hand try to explain sometimes bordering on a lecture. What s necessary in problem solving is assertion not aggression. One can assert ones point of view by expressing in a way the other is ready to hear you out. We saw Anupama today had a dialogue with Leela. The manner in which she put forth her view was very clear and straight forward. It was not a sermon but stems from commonsense, understanding and compassion.

Ladla has taken after Leela and resorts to blame games and aggression and ends up shutting off others. The way Hasmukh held Anupamaas hands when confronting Leela and the way Leela held Anupamaa's when confronted by Ladla shows their dependence on her tact and discernment in solving their problems.

No woman should express her point of view like Leela. No one should adopt the moral high ground and blame others like Ladla.

Originally posted by: yuvanaa

I know many MaAnians here wld be bored with today's epi as anuj was not there. And i know this too that u all know this is a family drama and show revolves around titular character anupamaa and her equation with everyone related to her not just anuj.

Anyway coming to today's epi, i found baa and anu's confrontation a much matured, honest and understanding one. No ott drama and all, two women speaking honestly what they thought and what were the reasons for their actions, what the other feels abt the other one's actions. There was no hesitation.

Anu put forth her pov clearly strongly and respectfully.

All of us speak abt humanity, being kind towards others many a times but seldom implement it or go criticising others if they do it.

Many times during such fights all of us let our ego take over and escalate the fight and insulting the opponent like kavya for instance. But only few try to put forth their points in strong yet calm manner like anupamaa.

Today anupamaa confronted baa honestly along with it made her understand the imp and value of her pati. Anupamaa somewhere made baa realise the value of her marriage and her relationship with her husband.

Not many take this measure to make opponent understand and rectify their mistake. 90% only confront.

And that is why she is Anupama.

Also baa spoke out her insecurity of losing anupamaa and her hope of having anupamaa vanraj back together and also put an end to it by saying ' u live ur life '.

Coming to vanraj, what anupamaa said was right ' one mistake cannot be solved by making another mistake '.

I have seen many men who shout like lord at their own parents threatening to throw them out , insulting them, using curse words for them etc... all i can say is a brave man is not who shouts and threatens to prove his pov.

Vanraj shah while shouting at his mother and asking her to get out of the house, etc all showed what pure MISOGYNY looks like. His own mother got shook and trembled with fear. That time one thing crossed my mind and i give this as an advice to my friends here whatever age group u belong to.

" love ur children but don't be dependent on them at any stage of ur life. Their love may always be pure but still change is the only constant. Respect and love urself and ur life partner and lead ur life for urself till d end.BE FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT so that u need not get threats or face insults, or be thrown out homeless at any stage of ur life by ur own children, relatives even ur partner. DO NOT GIVE AWAY UR LIFE INTO SOME OTHER PERSON'S HANDS "

Sry for the long post .

Btw Mr. Short term memory loss raj saying 'maine itni badi galti kabhi nahin ki ' is THE BIGGEST JOKE OF THE CENTURY 👏👏👏

@bold ❤️ huh vanraj cheated his wife,bool gaya

Honestly I started watching Anupama regularly after Anuj entered, But I enjoy the show on a wholesome basis and not just for Maan scenes only. Even yesterday's episode where Bapuji assertively puts Leela to her place and very decently communicates with her, I LOVED that scene.

Havent yet watched today's episode, so reserving my comment on that. I even enjoy Kavya's hilarious monologues with herself LOL. 'This old lady has fully gone crazy' was the funniest line I have heard in a long time!🤣

I am a MaAn fan myself. What i wanted to convey through that line was we cannot hurt ourselves with expectation of MaAn since these makers wld show high voltage drama at every instance.

I am on d same page as u who wld not want light hearted scenes ?.

Very well put Yuva.

I didn't know which smiley to use to react to your post. That last line cracked me up. When he said that, I was half expecting Anu to give it back fir usko yaad aya focus on the main issue ye to kuch bhi bolt hai 😆

Baa still has to mean all of this even after things are sorted. In fact wo Anupamaa ka rishta leke jaye Anuj ke paas to maanu 😛

Aww thank u dear ❤

Baa getting MaAn married wld be 😍😍😍🤗🤗😅😅🤞🤞

Originally posted by: yuvanaa

Aww thank u dear ❤

Baa getting MaAn married wld be 😍😍😍🤗🤗😅😅🤞🤞

Bhai tab forum pe ladki wale and ladke wale aise team banegi and it has to be equal. Isliye mein abhi se apne aap ko Ladke wale ki list mein enlist kar rahi hu.

I am #TeamDulha 🤣❤️

Main bhi main bhi...team dulha🤩🤩😂😛

Originally posted by: iamcurious

Very well put Yuva.

I didn't know which smiley to use to react to your post. That last line cracked me up. When he said that, I was half expecting Anu to give it back fir usko yaad aya focus on the main issue ye to kuch bhi bolt hai 😆

Baa still has to mean all of this even after things are sorted. In fact wo Anupamaa ka rishta leke jaye Anuj ke paas to maanu 😛

ohhhhh this will be ubber classic!!!!

Wait and watch ye sab hoga.