Confrontation with honesty and maturity

I know many MaAnians here wld be bored with today's epi as anuj was not there. And i know this too that u all know this is a family drama and show revolves around titular character anupamaa and her equation with everyone related to her not just anuj.

Anyway coming to today's epi, i found baa and anu's confrontation a much matured, honest and understanding one. No ott drama and all, two women speaking honestly what they thought and what were the reasons for their actions, what the other feels abt the other one's actions. There was no hesitation.

Anu put forth her pov clearly strongly and respectfully.

All of us speak abt humanity, being kind towards others many a times but seldom implement it or go criticising others if they do it.

Many times during such fights all of us let our ego take over and escalate the fight and insulting the opponent like kavya for instance. But only few try to put forth their points in strong yet calm manner like anupamaa.

Today anupamaa confronted baa honestly along with it made her understand the imp and value of her pati. Anupamaa somewhere made baa realise the value of her marriage and her relationship with her husband.

Not many take this measure to make opponent understand and rectify their mistake. 90% only confront.

And that is why she is Anupama.

Also baa spoke out her insecurity of losing anupamaa and her hope of having anupamaa vanraj back together and also put an end to it by saying ' u live ur life '.

Coming to vanraj, what anupamaa said was right ' one mistake cannot be solved by making another mistake '.

I have seen many men who shout like lord at their own parents threatening to throw them out , insulting them, using curse words for them etc... all i can say is a brave man is not who shouts and threatens to prove his pov.

Vanraj shah while shouting at his mother and asking her to get out of the house, etc all showed what pure MISOGYNY looks like. His own mother got shook and trembled with fear. That time one thing crossed my mind and i give this as an advice to my friends here whatever age group u belong to.

" love ur children but don't be dependent on them at any stage of ur life. Their love may always be pure but still change is the only constant. Respect and love urself and ur life partner and lead ur life for urself till d end.BE FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT so that u need not get threats or face insults, or be thrown out homeless at any stage of ur life by ur own children, relatives even ur partner. DO NOT GIVE AWAY UR LIFE INTO SOME OTHER PERSON'S HANDS "

Sry for the long post .

Btw Mr. Short term memory loss raj saying 'maine itni badi galti kabhi nahin ki ' is THE BIGGEST JOKE OF THE CENTURY 👏👏👏

Tagging more friends..

Thanks yuvanaa for positive post👏🤗

Agreed anu handle this with honesty and maturity 👏 and yes don't give your child to the power to shout at you or abuse you....baa aur baa ka ladla same to same hai..baa ne Vanraj ke liye bapuji ka apman kiya to Vanraj ne bapuji ke liye baa ka🤔 do galat milke ek sahi nahi bana sakte ye baat dono bhul gaye dekhte hai kal bapuji kya karte hai...par please sab milke Anupama ke ghar mat chale jana

Thank u dipali 🤗 yeah i hope everyone does not go to anu's house now 🤞

agree yuva it was a matured and honest conversation no ott and no jhaap phew 😅

Glad baa said live your life

Story is progressing

Two expectations (scared to even use this word 😅😅😅)

1. The coming maan scene after this should be worth the wait.

2. When the house is sold and bought wanna see AK the business tycoon ka swag 😎😎.

Let's see if these two happen I ll happily watch this . Also the sadistic I'll get watching baa suffer and v ka ghussa ego slaughtered brutally by his louve

Yes v ka that line did crack me up.

I guess anu also at times should give that

Are u serious look

Hmm some ffs and os will do to pass the day being in the maan desert 🏜️

Originally posted by: yuvanaa

I know many MaAnians here wld be bored with today's epi as anuj was not there. And i know this too that u all know this is a family drama and show revolves around titular character anupamaa and her equation with everyone related to her not just anuj.

Anyway coming to today's epi, i found baa and anu's confrontation a much matured, honest and understanding one. No ott drama and all, two women speaking honestly what they thought and what were the reasons for their actions, what the other feels abt the other one's actions. There was no hesitation.

Anu put forth her pov clearly strongly and respectfully.

All of us speak abt humanity, being kind towards others many a times but seldom implement it or go criticising others if they do it.

Many times during such fights all of us let our ego take over and escalate the fight and insulting the opponent like kavya for instance. But only few try to put forth their points in strong yet calm manner like anupamaa.

Today anupamaa confronted baa honestly along with it made her understand the imp and value of her pati. Anupamaa somewhere made baa realise the value of her marriage and her relationship with her husband.

Not many take this measure to make opponent understand and rectify their mistake. 90% only confront.

And that is why she is Anupama.

Also baa spoke out her insecurity of losing anupamaa and her hope of having anupamaa vanraj back together and also put an end to it by saying ' u live ur life '.

Coming to vanraj, what anupamaa said was right ' one mistake cannot be solved by making another mistake '.

I have seen many men who shout like lord at their own parents threatening to throw them out , insulting them, using curse words for them etc... all i can say is a brave man is not who shouts and threatens to prove his pov.

Vanraj shah while shouting at his mother and asking her to get out of the house, etc all showed what pure MISOGYNY looks like. His own mother got shook and trembled with fear. That time one thing crossed my mind and i give this as an advice to my friends here whatever age group u belong to.

" love ur children but don't be dependent on them at any stage of ur life. Their love may always be pure but still change is the only constant. Respect and love urself and ur life partner and lead ur life for urself till d end.BE FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT so that u need not get threats or face insults, or be thrown out homeless at any stage of ur life by ur own children, relatives even ur partner. DO NOT GIVE AWAY UR LIFE INTO SOME OTHER PERSON'S HANDS "

Sry for the long post .

Btw Mr. Short term memory loss raj saying 'maine itni badi galti kabhi nahin ki ' is THE BIGGEST JOKE OF THE CENTURY 👏👏👏

So nicely you have put your thoughts yuvaa ❤️ mainly the part where no one should hand over their lives to anyone else!! Very well said. We become so dependent on our kids at some point that if they don't lend that hand then we are like nowhere!!! I have seen this in so many families and ultimately they land in ashrams 😒

yes moniii. these 2 cld make us watch the episodes happily. yeah and MaAn scene after this whole drama should be worth the wait hopefully☺️

thank u G 🤗 yeah have seen many elderly ppl lose respect from their children just bcoz they r retired and sitting at home without doing any work as if they r a burden to these ppl.😒

Ur post is fine but ur point that other the story revolves around Anupama and all her connections are important and that they can’t only show MaAn is wrong..no one is asking the makers to show full 21 mins MaAn scenes only..but out of the 21 mins atleast 2-3 mins all the fans deserve the romance..the prob with makers is MaAn scenes (be it office,be it Anuj or Anupamas home) are shown for less timing compared to the drama of the shahs..I agree for trps the drama is imp but even light hearted scenes are v much imp for a show to b successful..Anupama is at no 1 for a v long time but the recent dramas that are shown are too much to digest and that too back to back..Bhoomi Poojan,Rohan kaand,garba kaand,Anupama leaving the house kaand,Anuj confession n now baa-baapuji kaand..I mean give a break ..atleast 2-3 episodes should b absolutely light hearted..eg. GK and Anuj playing mahal mahal,anu getting her new home and Anuj ka gifting keychain n al..too much of anything spoils and from my personal experience I was always v excited for upcoming tracks in Anupama but from past 2-3 days I don’t even feel like watching it at all..

I want anu to miss him

Maybe girls oogling him and she getting jealous and wondering why .

She not wanting to leave him and go

All those symptoms of love . She was madly in love with v for 25 yrs knowing how he is .

So we all wilk be hyperventilating when she falls for him it d be so beautiful to watch