What the hell is going on!

How can someone walk in and insult you and stay in one piece? Where the hell is Kinjal? Where is Vanrajs spine? Even the dialogues fall flat. It feels like abhi mooh todd jawab ayega and then it’s just flat. This is the stupidest thing I’ve heard that just because the parents are divorced the new in-laws are FIL and StepMIL. The mother-in-law is always the kids mother and will always be. She’s not recognized by her husband, but her son! It’s the most outrageous thing I’ve heard.

for being an MBA graduate and a member of the elite society the two witches have live in the Stone Age for not being able to accept that an ex husband and ex wife can be friends for the sake of the children

Originally posted by: shivani8510

for being an MBA graduate and a member of the elite society the two witches have live in the Stone Age for not being able to accept that an ex husband and ex wife can be friends for the sake of the children

Disclaimer: My below reply is strictly to dedicated to writer only whose show I am watching. I am nowhere liking rakhi:kavya’s words/actions.

Ex husband and ex wife definitely can be coordinal , definitely can be a friend BUT IT IS COMPLETELY DEPENDS ON THEIR DIVORCE REASON.

They are conveniently ignore to forget what kind of mental harassment anupama had faced before and during divorce procedure from betrayal to getting tag of mentally abnormal from ex husband

They diverted entire divorce reason in the direction of “ ladka ladki kabhi dost nahi bann sakte” “ek husband ek wife kabhi dost nahi bann sakte” to justify anuraj’s friendship.

Today when vanraj said , humare bich 26 saal ki shaddi was and 3 bacche hai I was like usme se 8 saal se to tum bahar chalu the😆16 saal anupama ko ghar se bahar friend se Milne tak nahi jaane dete the! Kaisa rishta!! 😆

No one from elite class would behave the way rakhi behaves honestly. Koi real elite class wala dekhega tih inko sharam aa jayegi ki ye kaise portray kiya jaa raha hai unhe. Rakhi Dave is crass. From resort she has become that. Rakhi apni kinjal ke liye kuch kare toh she is worried mother, lekin agar Anupamaa kuch kare toh woh apne bacho sar pe chadati hai. And kinjal is well behaved bcoz clearly Pramod had more influence on her, kyunki agar rakhi ka influence zyada hita toh woh bhi uski tarah sochti aur middle class ghar main shaadi nahi karti. Same way Samar is well behaved because Anu had more influence on him. And toshu and pakhi are brats because it was vanraj who had more influence on them.

Originally posted by: shivani8510

How can someone walk in and insult you and stay in one piece? Where the hell is Kinjal? Where is Vanrajs spine? Even the dialogues fall flat. It feels like abhi mooh todd jawab ayega and then it’s just flat. This is the stupidest thing I’ve heard that just because the parents are divorced the new in-laws are FIL and StepMIL. The mother-in-law is always the kids mother and will always be. She’s not recognized by her husband, but her son! It’s the most outrageous thing I’ve heard.

for being an MBA graduate and a member of the elite society the two witches have live in the Stone Age for not being able to accept that an ex husband and ex wife can be friends for the sake of the children

Disclaimer : Talking only about character

Since day one of the divorce (Resort days) repeatedly it is highlighted via rakhi that now kavya is kinjal‘s mother in law which is baseless and absolutely it’s Ms. writer’s wish to portray things like that.

Instagram/India forum everywhere I have read that people are calling out this action because for any women, mother in law is husband’s mother and NOT father in law’s whatever number of new wife.

Today they added character assassination episode of anupama all to another level just to inform viewers that financial crunch is the reason ex wife current wife ex husband will continue to live under the safe roof since nobody have ability to have separate rented house.

The way they used chalu word for anupama and her helping nature was all together proving how writers are desperately trying to justify the reason of keeping these 3 in the same house so they added character assassination episode for Anupama.

Basically they have no willingness to show new partner for anupama, new life for anupama , solo journey of Anupamaa so using villains of the show writer created character assassination episode to compress anupama’s life around Mr Shah and his second wife.

Originally posted by: neo7

No one from elite class would behave the way rakhi behaves honestly. Koi real elite class wala dekhega tih inko sharam aa jayegi ki ye kaise portray kiya jaa raha hai unhe. Rakhi Dave is crass.

I honestly thought rakhi would support anupama after divorce with the way she was talking at the time. I thought she was against vanraj and would love how she roasts him and Kavya. But nope.

As much as Vanraj says his family is everything…he’s very selective when it comes to speaking up for them…not for his parents, not for his kids…infact he plays favourites with his kids…id they support him they’re good…if they don’t then they’re bad…

Originally posted by: shivani8510

I honestly thought rakhi would support anupama after divorce with the way she was talking at the time. I thought she was against vanraj and would love how she roasts him and Kavya. But nope.

As much as Vanraj says his family is everything…he’s very selective when it comes to speaking up for them…not for his parents, not for his kids…infact he plays favourites with his kids…id they support him they’re good…if they don’t then they’re bad…

This is exactly I feel !

Villain will never gonna change their personality but look at so called 26 saal ka husband jiska Anupamaa ke sath 3 baccho ke wajah se friendship karna Banta hai is damn selective personality and neither speaking for his own parents , nor kids and as you said infact he plays favourite card with kids .

Today also they used villain for anupama’s character assassination but where is vanraj’s assassination?? After all the sab jamele ka karta-dharta toh vanraj shah hai. There is no character assassinations for vanraj . Why? He is getting spared every time because of Ms. writer’s gender biased nature.

Pagal samja hai Kya audience ko?! Dikhta nahi hai kya ki ex wife current wife ex husband ko ek ghar mai rakhne ke liye kya kya dikha rahe hai and kaise villain probes ka use kar rahi hai Ms. writer.

Yeh bhi dikh raha hai first attempt was badly failed because neither on India forums nor on Instagram audiences are able to digest anuraj’s so called friendship AFTER SEEING THEIR UGLY BREAKUP so for the second attempt they used character assassination/financial crunch card as a weapon just to keep all three together in the same house🤢

Lol Ms. writer is trying her best to keep these 3 together under the same roof using negative props rakhi/Pakhi/toshu/Kavya etc. pagal samja hai Kya jo itne se target ko samaj nahi payegi audience! 😆

Originally posted by: shivani8510

I honestly thought rakhi would support anupama after divorce with the way she was talking at the time. I thought she was against vanraj and would love how she roasts him and Kavya. But nope.

As much as Vanraj says his family is everything…he’s very selective when it comes to speaking up for them…not for his parents, not for his kids…infact he plays favourites with his kids…id they support him they’re good…if they don’t then they’re bad…

Rakhi dave calls herself educated and elite class. But she also showed her soch today by saying to anu that behenji ho behenji ban ke raho businesswoman banne ki koshish mat karo. So much for being high class and education.

Sahi hi hai not only men, even women cannot tolerate any other women trying to be independent. Ek taraf bolti hai meri beti ko job nahi karne doge and all amd ek taraf jab Anupamaa khud apne pairo pe khade hona chahti hai she is saying that, you are not worth it. Such low class thinking of the elite class people🤮🤮🤮

I have cousin and many friends who are divorced..

Peeps who have no children and split due to abuse will never see the others face incl me. I don't think I and my bro can even be civil to my ex

I know a couple who split due to incompatibility they are still casual friends.

Many of them have shared custody they are civil due to the children in cases of cheating and unforgivable cases.

Cases where one parent has custody and other only has supervised rights their case is terrible. Always someone accompanying the lady and son. Finally at 12 the boy said he does not want to continue meeting his biological father in court since he is irresponsible and uses foul lang for his mother.

I have seen so many in my bros and extended fam circle

Rakhi's character wasn't that bad actually, there was time when she helped shah family, she understood anupama and stood by her and her equation with family also improved with time . She never wanted kavya in vanraaj life , she neither approved kavya as her daughter's new mil nor her friend . Its just writers and creatives of the show who is using Rakhi like a pendulum. kabhi yaha to kabhi waha ghoom jana .

Apart from this , Raakhi never behaves like a elite, she thinks her standards are very high but in reality its not. she can easily compete with those women who fights on road or gali .

If rakhi wants to know how elite people behave then she should see her own daughter , she is a perfect example of well behaved , smart and well to do women.

All this is being done in the name of drama, and I am sorry to say this, but it feels like it has to do with offscreen groups also. Otherwise how come Rakhi who was completely against Kavya is suddenly for her and against Anupama who has treated her daughter as her own and never forced her to do anything (and in fact slaved away for her)?