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Posted: 4 years ago
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No one from the elite class would behave the way Rakhi does, sure they wouldn't but an upset mother would definitely behave that way.

Remember Toshu and Kinjal eloped and got married following which she lost all her rights as a mother because now apparently Kinjal is Shah family's bahu and member and only they have a right to say and tell anything to her. She had agreed to the marriage on the condition that Paritosh would live with them as a ghar jamai to which he had even agreed but then Anupama came and dragged him away back home, and Kinjal earlier I guess had made it clear that she wouldn't go against her parents especially her mother but she did right and now she downgraded her lifestyle. Every parent aspires to see their child do well as per their standards and wants them to walk on the path they wish to see them treading upon. Rakhi never liked the Shah family especially owing to how Anupama had turned out to be during the introduction. So if she wants to insult and berate them tp her heart's content she actually can irrespective of what her class is or who she is especially if it makes her happy since she anyways can't get her daughter back and why complain when Paritosh does the exact same thing, seems like Rakhi and Toshu are on the same page.

If Anupama can scold Pakhi, lecture Toshu to walk on a certain path why can't Rakhi do the same? She wanted her daughter to get married into an elite household, where all her needs would get attended, where she could get all the luxuries which her mother believes she deserves instead of toiling around and slogging off all day from work to home back and forth. Yes Kinjal doesn't want all of that and she is an adult fine, but Toshu wants to live the elite life now doesn't he? Tomorrow if he buys a house of his own or gets a house of his own from Rakhi whatever it may be and decides to go and live there why does he and Rakhi get judged for it??? And don't say he got it as alms, anupama also didn't purchase the Shah house on her own dam she also got it as a gift only, now if you say its because she toiled and slogged of for that family for many years and is now their so called 'daughter' then toshu is also not exactly getting it for free, he is working for the Dave's too as their employee, and employers do provide their employees accommodation especially the top performers as perks even though he is also family member.

In this forum people conveniently ignore that as much as Paritosh is a member of the Shah family he is also a member of the Dave family, if he agrees with his in laws and supports them over his own family why is it so wrong when Kinjal does the exact same thing with Rakhi Dave??? If Kinjal disregards Rakhi, asks her to not worry or try to help her, keeps rejecting her help, disobeys her, then it's okay and not toxic but if Paritosh does the same to Anupama he is toxic. Kinjal literally takes Rakhi for granted, she would rather help the Shah's with the cafe instead of having dinner with her own parents. It's like now that she is married her responsibility is only limited to her sasuraal and her maayka is no longer important. I haven't seen her call and ask Rakhi or her dad of they are doing well, if they need her home in any manner, it's like she has no responsibility towards them at all and women like her are partly responsible for why the boy child is given a preference over the girl child, the assumption that once girls get married they rarely look back to their own family or care about them, she is literally proving that true, atleast Paritosh is filling in for her.

It's like as long as Anupama is supported by a character they are right but if they don't and turn against her they are bad.

I used to feel sorry Anupama earlier for how she was being treated but you know what I think she actually encouraged everyone to be that way given how she allowed everyone to just boss her around and she is still doing that by agreeing to stay in that house and she expects Kinjal to be the same although not so directly, that dialogue of hers, I learnt from my saas, and kinjal is learning from me. In short a donkey who works extremely hard, slog at office, slog at home and then expect nothing back in return or even if you expect and don't get it then just don't complain. And this is exactly what Rakhi hates, she wants her daughter to be headstrong, smart, calculative and self centred like herself not like her father or Anupama because those who arent get taken for a ride and Rakhi is not wrong. The fact of the matter is she doesn't trust the Shah's and yes she objects to them distributing pamphlets on the roadside because to her its an undignified job which could affect her daughter and her family reputation as well, remember she hasn't cut ties or disowned kinjal as her daughter.

Edited by Rein123 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Serenity_me

Rakhi's character wasn't that bad actually, there was time when she helped shah family, she understood anupama and stood by her and her equation with family also improved with time . She never wanted kavya in vanraaj life , she neither approved kavya as her daughter's new mil nor her friend . Its just writers and creatives of the show who is using Rakhi like a pendulum. kabhi yaha to kabhi waha ghoom jana .


Apart from this , Raakhi never behaves like a elite, she thinks her standards are very high but in reality its not. she can easily compete with those women who fights on road or gali .

If rakhi wants to know how elite people behave then she should see her own daughter , she is a perfect example of well behaved , smart and well to do women.

@bold then why is it that elite people in Kdramas are shown using vulgar language, treating their staff as crap to literally assaulting them? I think it happens in real life too not just in kdramas. Being an elite does not necessarily mean one would behave in an agreeable manner all the time. Rakhi seems to be fine when she interacts with people from her own social circle, including her own staff but treats the Shah's like as if they are some gali ke gunde or criminals for which she has to drop to their own level to send any kind of message across.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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A request to writers


Before you end up destroying this show, please smarten up, stop playing musical chairs with vamps and villains, stop with extreme idiotic behaviors from some characters and concentrate on logic and positivity.

The following characters seem to decide every morning if they will be good or bad

Toshu

Vanraj

Paakhi

Rakhi (loved her brief positive change)

This character is completely idiotic, illogical and useless and needs to vanish - kavya

Why is vanraj so tolerant of kavya?

Why are shahs threatened by kavya? (Pre wedding time )

Why are they tolerating rakhi ?

Why does kinjal not put down her foot to rakhi?

Why is paakhi treated like a 4 year old?

Why is bapuji nice to kavya?

Edited by suresh555 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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I hope the writers answer your questions!! Agree with each and everyone. I want to add one more…

When will Anupama be shown doing something actually for herself and stop giving two hoots to some of the thankless members of her family?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Totally agree

In fact, the sample she gave kavya yesterday really did not really work because kavya is not any different today. Why not do what she said yesterday and really kick kavya out? Vanraj also does not seem to shut kavya up? Where is the arrogant dominant husband he was to anu? Why is he so timid despite kavya's insults? He seems to even be tolerant when kavya crows to his parents. Writers are really messing up

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Even keeping kinjal away while rakhi misbehaved with anu calling her chalu? And then toshu keeping kinjal away at rakhi's for few more days? Why? So kinjal does not find out and rakhi and toshu continue their vampishgiri ?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rein123

@bold then why is it that elite people in Kdramas are shown using vulgar language, treating their staff as crap to literally assaulting them? I think it happens in real life too not just in kdramas. Being an elite does not necessarily mean one would behave in an agreeable manner all the time. Rakhi seems to be fine when she interacts with people from her own social circle, including her own staff but treats the Shah's like as if they are some gali ke gunde or criminals for which she has to drop to their own level to send any kind of message across.

You are absolutely right in pointing out this fact. People actually do behave like this in real life also, they tend to change their behavior pattern, opinions, perspective, language , emotions as par situation and people around them. Its about mentality and personal choice whom you want to please and whom you want to demean. Sometime people become very subjective.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: suresh555

Totally agree

In fact, the sample she gave kavya yesterday really did not really work because kavya is not any different today. Why not do what she said yesterday and really kick kavya out? Vanraj also does not seem to shut kavya up? Where is the arrogant dominant husband he was to anu? Why is he so timid despite kavya's insults? He seems to even be tolerant when kavya crows to his parents. Writers are really messing up

@ red He was dominant and arrogant to anu because it was anu's fault , she never gave him back to his insults which gave him courage to insult her more and then it became his habit.

@ blue:- Kavya is not mute and meek like anu. she knows how to fight back and she is not the one who will take any shit from anybody. If Vanraj dares to give same treatment to kavya then next second he will be in jail with his entire family.

Kavya ke jaisa bhi hona chhahiye otherwise people take you forgranted.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Serenity_me

@ red He was dominant and arrogant to anu because it was anu's fault , she never gave him back to his insults which gave him courage to insult her more and then it became his habit.

@ blue:- Kavya is not mute and meek like anu. she knows how to fight back and she is not the one who will take any shit from anybody. If Vanraj dares to give same treatment to kavya then next second he will be in jail with his entire family.

Kavya ke jaisa bhi hona chhahiye otherwise people take you forgranted.

I am not sure its that simple

Anu was from a poor family and a totally unwanted by baa and vanraj. Even if she had spoken back, it would have never worked. On stupid little things, vanraj had locked her out of the house. He was way too aggressive for her and his mom supported him. You can't blame Anu for being raised in a family as hers, or being a passive naive girl

About Kavya, again its not that she can singlehandedly send him and his family to jail. Law requires proof and kavya would never be able to prove anything. Anu being his first wife would expose kavya"s lies and even nandini would support shahs is it came down to it. If he wanted to divorce kavya on the basis of incompatibility, its not a crime. Kavya is doing unnecessary panga with his family and that can be easily proven

Edited by suresh555 - 4 years ago

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