I want Anupama and Vanraj to reconcile 🙈 - Page 3

Originally posted by: kooki07

no i am asking about kavia s ex

Oh! My bad 🤦‍♂️.

I don’t know the answer to that.

Originally posted by: Forbidden_Rose

in your past para you clearly said there are people in the forum “siding” with baa toshu pakhi. I have highlighted your quote in bold font

since this was in response to my original comment of course I would feel that it’s directed towards me.

I forgot I had said that, of course I didn't mean it directly as in agreeing with everything those characters think/do...

But if your noticing everything I said then you must have also noticed that I always said "people", not once did I say "you", which in itself is proof that I was referring to everyone saying they want reconciliation, not just you.

Originally posted by: kooki07

why is Anirudh still running after Kavia ?

I think he has given up now? Idk they haven't been showing him for a while so I'm assuming he has divorced Kavya and moved on

i dont think he will let vaniya go so easily

Originally posted by: Anjalika01

I forgot I had said that, of course I didn't mean it directly as in agreeing with everything those characters think/do...

But if your noticing everything I said then you must have also noticed that I always said "people", not once did I say "you", which in itself is proof that I was referring to everyone saying they want reconciliation, not just you.

Yes you did say people. But since the original comment was by me I thought it’s largely if not entirely directed at me. Anyways my ambiguity is over. So there is no point in discussing this any further. Peace out ✌🏽 from my end.

Some of us may sometimes feel strongly than the other and therefore the opinion may come across as pointing at the other person when it is not

Some of us may have strong opinions due to feeling the plight of the person or connecting that person to someone they know

I for example know a cousin who I have been super close to in the same position as Anupama

sometimes I feel all that pain 🥺

Originally posted by: Forbidden_Rose

I am not justifying Vanraj’s infidelity and his poor treatment of Anupama in the past. I also don’t believe that Anupama cannot survive without him and live her life with dignity. But as someone who has always lived with both his parents and watched them having khatti meethi nok jhoks all the time, it’s really difficult for me to imagine post-divorce life of Anupama and her kids. Specially I feel weird when I keep myself in the shoes of her 3 children. So although cheating on spouse is a horrible offence I somehow want Anupama to forgive Varnraj and be with him for the sake of their kids and baa. I feel ambiguous about this and would love to know the opinion and thoughts of other forum members.

Sometimes divorce is the best thing that we can do for the kids. Anupama and Vanraj are in a toxic relationship. There is nothing happy about it. Rather than living like this and going crazy and hurting each other it is better that they part ways. In Anupama's case its even not a big issue as the kids have grown up. Toshu is married, Samar already supports her mother. Yes Pakhi is having issues but that is something that can be handledly maturedly. And even if the kids were small if a marriage gives nothing but hurt then it should end with separation. Kids living in a toxic household suffer much more than the ones living separately.

If and by that a very big IF.... Vanraj and Anupama are to unite then Vanraj has to take responsibility and accept his mistakes and work towards correcting them. But he won't do it. He just won't, his ego is too big for it. I mean one day he falls in love with Kavya, leaves his house for her and that too when his father throws him out and all his deeds were out in the open. He didn't willfully take the decision. The next day he has an accident gets all luxuries of home and again falls in love with Anupama but the minute she refuses he is back to Kavya. He is still living with Kavya. But even after this that man doesn't have an ounce of self respect that he goes to his home to celebrate birthday and sits with Anupama in front of Kavya to do the Puja. Come on dude stay faithful to someone at least. This is the first ITV male I have seen who is happy being a ping pong. Had Vanraj been remorseful and taken the toll I would have considered them being together. But considering the way Vanraj is right now No... Not happening.... Never.....

Originally posted by: Forbidden_Rose

I am not justifying Vanraj’s infidelity and his poor treatment of Anupama in the past. I also don’t believe that Anupama cannot survive without him and live her life with dignity. But as someone who has always lived with both his parents and watched them having khatti meethi nok jhoks all the time, it’s really difficult for me to imagine post-divorce life of Anupama and her kids. Specially I feel weird when I keep myself in the shoes of her 3 children. So although cheating on spouse is a horrible offence I somehow want Anupama to forgive Varnraj and be with him for the sake of their kids and baa. I feel ambiguous about this and would love to know the opinion and thoughts of other forum members.

If it was one night stand - she may give him second chance for kids and family!

NOT - for full fledged affair of 6+ years - NOT POSSIBLE.