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Posted: 11 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: shanti05

Lovely Jyo !!

As he Samarth walked out thikin he was a free bird (almost) & Ajay tellin him that Shobha messed it again his rage had started !!

Shobha the bond with garu is so beautiful indeed her princess her sister & her everything like a mom she has taken care of her the fear of leaving her & that Samarth will take her to task was just keeping them both stuck to each other ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ...

The rituals started & Vikram comin with Sanjay Saurav & Vineeta was so beautiful Vikram was very happy and the glow was on Shobha's face too and Sanju and Garu love beaming...

The pandit was starting with the rituals when the bell rang & Ajay raging in .. No one knows what happened except Garu Shobha & Sahrad Even Vikram was wondering why he was there... What is teh deal and as Shobha wanted to throw him out again Came the other terror Samarth ... Shobha was showing so many expressions on her face ...Even the kids Jiya & Rehaan were havin a smile a smile for seeing their father starting his blasting on Shobha and accusing Vikram also in the same tone for being a samaj sevak & always coming into their family matters !! Geez he was there to repair something he felt deeply broken about and indeed two wonderful people sanju & garu needed to be together...Samarth sayin he came for his sisters weddin & only with Ajay Shobha wanted to tell what Ajay had done But that guy was not ready to hear !! Vikram was also gettin angry But when it went out of control & Samarth how dare he raise his hand on Shobha & Vikram was there to stop Yes he as a friend he as a man who could'nt see this kinda behaviour had to stop Uff what all he accused her & also Vikram !! He was just not able to say anything as he mentioned to naani he just coudn't do anything as it was their family matter BUT I can't explain seeing Vikram he would have broken eveey bone of Samarth !! Sanju Saurav Had to controll this Vikram He was totally mad that erruption was visible even when he broke the tissue box...

Good that he did'nt go again to see the Tamasha & in a way Good Shobha got to know the complete story of Samarth from his mouth privately between Husband & wife I hope she knows now what is Samarth

Samarth insulted Saurav also horrible ... That guy as Saurav said TURNED INTO AN ANIMAL !!

Look at Rehaan & Jiya they were havin a 1 sec glow to see their father & as soon as he started bombarding at Shobha & then Rehaan had tears ๐Ÿ˜ญ

Ajay got hit hard from garima which he deserevd Such a RASCAL he is ...ONE

Now the bedroom Scene !! Felt sad for Shobha yes she should have given it BACK TO SAMARTH Hard verbally BUT again see she is tied with the family and D of Divorce is a LOT for her to carry BUT again the way Samarth was tellin her that he may have not loved her & he has no need of her in his loife BUT loves his KIDS & Family Wah !! what the HECK is that ๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก

Yes this Shobha was crumbling that strenght she had gathered somewhere saw herself down the lowest point of her life I guess now So let her rise again thats what I wish !! She needs to do that for herself & for herself now !! Still not clear if she signed the papers May NOT do it again thinking some redemption will happen from Samarth side I hope NOT !!

The scene was great I fealt I mean the lowest for a woman is something what Shobha experiences Marriage values & for good souls they try their level best to get the crumbling tower back in place for teh family she wants to do that and thats why she was requesting pleadning Samarth...

& more so she knew if she signed that then Garu will be pulled apart from her and He will make sure she gets married to Ajay !!

The cops were there But since at that time the families were taking things in their hand and gaurding the best they could they were not intervieing ...& since Samarth was on Parole they were for him & the lawyer..

Tomorrow was amazing with Sharda doing her bit of verbal statement to Samarth and asking him to get teh Hell out of there...๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘ He had the papers in his hand I am still confused if she signed & where is everyone else ?????





Shanti thats very well said ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘ .. I m in hurry and so had to reply briefly ... the thing which I felt a bit off was Shobha almost begging to Samarth in bedroom .. I know Divorce is big for her and she is attached to his family , but the way he humiliated her outside by linking her to her boss and also proudly talking about his affiar in front of all , after that any woman with self-respect will at least not beg in front of such a man even if she is attached to his family or worried about her kids .. and knowing Shobha , the way initially she confronted Samarth telling him how she can never forgive him , I was expecting her to b strong and independent enough to confront this guy and not beg


Me too love Garima-Shobha bond .. its so real and amazing despite both r not related by blood yet Garima connects to Shobha more than her own family ..

coming to Vikram , thank god Saurabh handled him on time or else his BP was already on the rise ๐Ÿ˜†
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Posted: 11 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: ddsoaps

Copy pasting what I said on my post!

Jyo as always your post is in such detail and well analyzed. Love it!

What a harsh, emotional yet brilliant episode by the Creatives!

Phew! Samarth the sick, scum bag, skunk, arrogant MCP, moronic of a husband. What acting by Harsh!

Shobha breaking into pieces and shattered with every word and accusation thrown at her.

Still she begs and wants to cling to the sham relationship for the sake of her children and 9 years of nurturing. How do you end it with a sign?

The most painful bit when he says he does not love her and will now enjoy sleeping around! You want Shobha to slap, he could go to hell. But its never as easy as it sounds. ๐Ÿ˜ญ

Loved Vikram for protecting Shobha from Samarth's physical attack. The verbal abuse just does not stop.๐Ÿ‘

Garima stood tall against the pervert Ajay. Her slap and reply was fitting.๐Ÿ‘

And the mother sat there actually stunned by what was happening around her.

Loved Loved loved the precap. What a turnaround..the cutting of the umbilical cord...I mean when do mothers really cut it off? The connect stays forever...but she does it...as it has becoming cancerous, a disease she had to get rid of...finally!

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Add on to the two points.

The first about Samarth not being told about Ajay forcing himself on Garima.

The reason would have been that Shobha did not want to bring it up in front of everyone. And I feel this matter (or the dialogue) would be left for the mother to raise tomorrow. Shobha takes him into the bedroom and all he is talking of is getting her to sign. Garima issue was forgotten during that moment. Focus was on trying to convince him to sit and think and not to take such a drastic decision.

Though I feel Samarth has already got the drift of it. He himself called Ajay a kamina when behind bars. Telling or not telling does not make any difference to Samarth.

And about Shobha being an abla naari. My post puts some clarity on it. Its easier said than done. Every relationship deserves a second chance. The kids have to be thought of. Shobha is only on the verge of becoming independent. Not an established independent woman.

The house where she lives is someone else's. And the aftermath of the divorce is to be thought of. She loses the children now that he is out. Court may handover custody to a caretaker until things are sorted. Not sure of the legalities here. Its something a couple talk it over before making a final decision.

Yes it would make great drama for Shobha to sign it off right away and fling the paper on his face. But I feel the CVs are showing it in a more realistic manner. Yeah I would have loved it if she had said "YOu can go to hell"...but Shobha is a character written with great finesse. There is a side to her which is strong, sensible, mature, yet a very vulnerable side to her nature.

Just my POV...






u really made all points clear ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘ ...

Coming to the first point , I agree that today Sharda might tell Samarth about what Ajay did and even then if Samarth forces this marriage , we might finally see the precap where Sharda will kick him out of the house finally ...

And yup I guess u r right .. she really dint want to bring the matter in front of all ... so she was just hinting him saying u hv no idea what Ajay did and I too feel Samarth guessed it too but he had to act ignorant for his own selfish motives ๐Ÿ˜ก


Coming to Shobha matter , I agree its easier said than done and Shobha is just a norma human being who is on the verge of becoming independent but she is yet to find that fulll confidence in herself .. agree with all these points .. but I just felt that in earlier episodes she was shown stronger than what she is portrayed now .. and the irony is that time she was not even aware of the whole truth about his affair , yet she used to speak so confidently with Samarth whereas now she knows it all , yet she lost that confidence while speaking to him and is even ready to forgive and forget which I found weird and I thought its a bit of character inconsistency mayb ๐Ÿค”,...

In fact I would hv loved if she had thrown the divorce paper on his face saying she wont sign it now .. go whatever u want to do instead of begging to him which actually gave him the upperhand more .. ๐Ÿค”
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Posted: 11 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: KyunkiImafan

Agree with your post, I would like to add one more point.

Those Divorce papers shouldn't be signed by Shobha. As Samarth clearly said that he will keep the kids, that Shobha will have nothing to do with them. They need to get divorce but on Shobha's terms, where she has full custody of her kids. Without fully reading and understanding the clauses in papers given by Samarth, I hope she doesn't sign them.

After everything Samarth has done, said and shown I agree Shobha should have been stronger and not helpless like she was yesterday. She knew this was coming, agree it was extremely hurtful to hear it but she should have at least slapped him for saying all the things he said about her being boring, ugly, characterless!!




I m sure no court will give kids custody to a criminal and right now Samarth is not proved innocent .. so as it is he wont get the kids even if she signs the divorce papers ... Samarth is just being delusional in this case and Shobha too has no knowledge about this whole legal matter I feel and so is easily getting scared by Samarth's fake words ..


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: asdpsanmol

A well pointed out fact ๐Ÿ‘. I agree Shobha is very emotional and weak right . She cant take a life changing decision at this stage . one day she will herself bring divorce papers for Samarth to sign .

I guess some love for husband and father of her kids is still there which tries to pinpoint mistakes and tries to change opinion of husband. Later it need not be told Shobha did not try to save her marriage. No body on this earth can blame her later on for not trying hard. what they showed yesterday was very realistic if we think realistically and not soapy style ๐Ÿ˜Š



YYes she is still attached to Samarth .. its not love but certain attachment of 9 yrs ... what we saw yesterday might hv its share of flaws but I do agree that it was more or less a realistic portrayal of a daily household women in such situation ...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: shreya_rc


And about Shobha being an abla naari. My post puts some clarity on it. Its easier said than done. Every relationship deserves a second chance. The kids have to be thought of. Shobha is only on the verge of becoming independent. Not an established independent woman.

The house where she lives is someone else's. And the aftermath of the divorce is to be thought of. She loses the children now that he is out. Court may handover custody to a caretaker until things are sorted. Not sure of the legalities here. Its something a couple talk it over before making a final decision.

Yes it would make great drama for Shobha to sign it off right away and fling the paper on his face. But I feel the CVs are showing it in a more realistic manner. Yeah I would have loved it if she had said "YOu can go to hell"...but Shobha is a character written with great finesse. There is a side to her which is strong, sensible, mature, yet a very vulnerable side to her nature.

Just my POV...





@ bold : I absolutely agree with u. the show is based on reality and for the 1st time atleast they r showing realistic approach towards this sensitive issue. no middle-class Indian woman married for 9 yrs and have two kids will throw a divorce paper and walk away from the husband, no matter how much kameena that man is.such drama can gather taliyar briefly but it would be realistic at all . she knows whatever she is doing is wrong, this man has no right to abuse and insult her, the psychopath doesnot even deserve her, but still she tries her best to save the marriage if not for her then atleast for her children...india is still hesitant to accept a loving step dad or an independent single mother...I know it is horribly wrong and unjust , and should be changed immediately but this is reality too...and everyone usually 1st try working according to the norms of the prevalent society before rebelling against it ...it happens when ultimately patience wears off.even at21st century if a woman remarries in India, the children have to hear taunts and crude remarks from their peers...''iske maa doosri saadi kar li haha...which is equivalent to '' look his / her mother is as good as a wh**e.'' and these nonstop jarrings literally drive them mad and make them against their own mother or the new father. or even she doesnot remarry, and remain single, tab bhi baap ko lekar baat hoti i rehgi, and gradually all fingers would point to the woman, iski i koi kami hogi and all nonsense. And thatz why sobha is trying her best to save her marriage and procet her chindren from such future insults and pain of broken marriage...and moreover she is pleading samarth to take time as these decisions should not be taken impulsively. alas, that bas***d has neither time to listen nor heart to realize her word. which is a boon in disguise. and

another thing diana !
sam is not out on bail, he came to attend the marriage on parole. so he will be back on jail. and given samarth's scandalous history do u think he would ever get children's custody if shova decides to contest...srif dhamki se shobha ko darna nehi chahiya now.



I agree its realistic portrayal , but at times daily soaps too can give out strong and positive message by actually showing a woman walking out of her marriage without begging in such situation even if its fictional so that the right msg can go out to our society I feel ๐Ÿค”
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Posted: 11 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: asdpsanmol





Vikram said to his naani he stopped himself from harming samarth for kids of shobha and saurav ๐Ÿ‘. Such a thoughtful great guy and a father was doing all this drama right in front of his own kids and shobha had the sense to take him inside ๐Ÿ˜ญ



So agree with this point .. Virkam looked like a real matured husband and father figure compare to Samarth .. ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘
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Posted: 11 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: rithureuben

Completely agree with you Jyoti.
Shobha doesn't need a husband who will treat her like crap. She should have asked him for a divorce and kicked him out of the house for good. I expected a strong comeback when he said he will keep her away from the kids but was disappointed with her pleading. While it makes sense for her to ask him to reconsider his decision regarding Garu's marriage. Accepting his mistakes and proposing that they should work out their differences was too much to stomach.
Another thing that annoyed me was what the cops were doing. They just stood watching a man drag his sister around the mantap and force her to marry someone she hates. Isn't it their job to protect civilians from people like Samarth and Ajay?
Apart from Vikram scenes, the other part that appealed to me was how Sanjay's family supported Garu inspite of her brother being rude to them. They truly care about Sanjay and Garu's happiness. And with their support Garu managed to slap Ajay. I loved that scene.
Hopefully Samrath will get slapped before his mother kicks him out in today's episode.



I guess Cops were assigned a duty to just take Samarth out on parole and get him back .. rest what happens in his family is none of their business unless the family complains to the cops .. mayb thats why they all stood like a statue watching the tamasha ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†


About Shobha's pleading I agree , I do understand her emotions and it was real too but I wish she was strong enough to handle it with pride and not beg and I still hope that happens today once Sharda too stands in her support
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Posted: 11 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: -Swetha-

^ Awesome post by u, Gags! ๐Ÿ‘

Precap was brilliant.. ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ˜Ž
I hope Shobhi doesn't blindly sign divorce papers w/o reading terms and conditions.. ๐Ÿค”
Divorce should happen wrt to Shobha's terms ie she should get the custody of her kids!



I agree .. she need to read the papers before signing it or mayb she herself came make her papers based on her terms and conditions now that she has support of her MIL too ..
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Posted: 11 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: skanda12

@Jyoti:

Superb post, Jyoti. Just perfect! That too I am reading your post after missing one full week of them!๐Ÿ‘
Yesterday ... what can I say. This Samarth behaved like the jackass of the universe! I mean the whole episode was a saga of misbehaviour ... and then there are two additional things I did not like ... one, I didn't like the way Shobha was begging and pleading, really! And two, I also didn't like the way Garima was blubbering instead of getting aggressive.

I have seen that whenever Shobha gets aggressive this Samarth immediately pipes down. See in the precap how the mother Sharda is shouting at him, and did you see his face like a hunted animal?
Anyway, at least for the tamasha I loved the way four times people tred to hold back Vikram, but four times he went as if he was subsiding but then got another spurt of energy to make a lunge at Samarth. that part was too funny!
Anyway I am now dying of curiosity to see why Sharda has suddenly felt that she had enough ... and the good part is that without Sharda support how can Samarth keep the kids even if he thinks he can divorce Shobha and refuse to give her the kids. he needs his mother to look after the kids otherwise he is making just empty dhamkis, na?



Mansi about Garima , I guess she cant get aggressive with her brother on whom she is still financially dependent .. I mean she is yet to do a job and b independent .. so thats why Samarth had the upperhand

whereas Shobha could hv got aggressive with Samarth because she is financially independent now .. however if u read few of the reactions in this post in Shobha's defence , that too makes sense about how its realistic in actual world for a women to try and continue the marriage of 9 yrs for the sake of kids and sort of compromise in it because of the initial attachment she feels .. guess Shobha is in that stage too ...

I agree about the Vikram part .. he was getting those jhatkas and wanting to kick Samarth ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜† .. tomorrow its Sharda ka turn now and Shobha will b holding her ๐Ÿ˜† .. Samarth is a coward actually and if someone comes strong to him , he backs out ...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: tweetie19

Lovely analysis Jyoti...๐Ÿ‘

It was a good episode...I felt like punching Samarth hard on his face...what a douche...๐Ÿคข๐Ÿคข

As u pointed out, his downfall will begin from here...Also it will be the beginning of Shobha's new life...Samarth will one day realise what he has lot...but it will be too late to repent...



True .. it will b beginning of both Garima and Shobha's new life ๐Ÿ˜ƒ and Samarth's downfall ...

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