Self-Destruction of Samarth Sachdev Begins.. - Page 2

Copy pasting what I said on my post!

Jyo as always your post is in such detail and well analyzed. Love it!

What a harsh, emotional yet brilliant episode by the Creatives!

Originally posted by: KyunkiImafan

Agree with your post, I would like to add one more point.

Those Divorce papers shouldn't be signed by Shobha. As Samarth clearly said that he will keep the kids, that Shobha will have nothing to do with them. They need to get divorce but on Shobha's terms, where she has full custody of her kids. Without fully reading and understanding the clauses in papers given by Samarth, I hope she doesn't sign them.

After everything Samarth has done, said and shown I agree Shobha should have been stronger and not helpless like she was yesterday. She knew this was coming, agree it was extremely hurtful to hear it but she should have at least slapped him for saying all the things he said about her being boring, ugly, characterless!!

Originally posted by: ddsoaps

Copy pasting what I said on my post!

Jyo as always your post is in such detail and well analyzed. Love it!

What a harsh, emotional yet brilliant episode by the Creatives!

Phew! Samarth the sick, scum bag, skunk, arrogant MCP, moronic of a husband. What acting by Harsh!

Shobha breaking into pieces and shattered with every word and accusation thrown at her.

Still she begs and wants to cling to the sham relationship for the sake of her children and 9 years of nurturing. How do you end it with a sign?

The most painful bit when he says he does not love her and will now enjoy sleeping around! You want Shobha to slap, he could go to hell. But its never as easy as it sounds. 😭

Loved Vikram for protecting Shobha from Samarth's physical attack. The verbal abuse just does not stop.👏

Garima stood tall against the pervert Ajay. Her slap and reply was fitting.👏

And the mother sat there actually stunned by what was happening around her.

Loved Loved loved the precap. What a turnaround..the cutting of the umbilical cord...I mean when do mothers really cut it off? The connect stays forever...but she does it...as it has becoming cancerous, a disease she had to get rid of...finally!

Hugs

dd

Add on to the two points.

The first about Samarth not being told about Ajay forcing himself on Garima.

The reason would have been that Shobha did not want to bring it up in front of everyone. And I feel this matter (or the dialogue) would be left for the mother to raise tomorrow. Shobha takes him into the bedroom and all he is talking of is getting her to sign. Garima issue was forgotten during that moment. Focus was on trying to convince him to sit and think and not to take such a drastic decision.

Though I feel Samarth has already got the drift of it. He himself called Ajay a kamina when behind bars. Telling or not telling does not make any difference to Samarth.

And about Shobha being an abla naari. My post puts some clarity on it. Its easier said than done. Every relationship deserves a second chance. The kids have to be thought of. Shobha is only on the verge of becoming independent. Not an established independent woman.

The house where she lives is someone else's. And the aftermath of the divorce is to be thought of. She loses the children now that he is out. Court may handover custody to a caretaker until things are sorted. Not sure of the legalities here. Its something a couple talk it over before making a final decision.

Yes it would make great drama for Shobha to sign it off right away and fling the paper on his face. But I feel the CVs are showing it in a more realistic manner. Yeah I would have loved it if she had said "YOu can go to hell"...but Shobha is a character written with great finesse. There is a side to her which is strong, sensible, mature, yet a very vulnerable side to her nature.

Just my POV...

@ bold : I absolutely agree with u. the show is based on reality and for the 1st time atleast they r showing realistic approach towards this sensitive issue. no middle-class Indian woman married for 9 yrs and have two kids will throw a divorce paper and walk away from the husband, no matter how much kameena that man is.such drama can gather taliyar briefly but it would be realistic at all . she knows whatever she is doing is wrong, this man has no right to abuse and insult her, the psychopath doesnot even deserve her, but still she tries her best to save the marriage if not for her then atleast for her children...india is still hesitant to accept a loving step dad or an independent single mother...I know it is horribly wrong and unjust , and should be changed immediately but this is reality too...and everyone usually 1st try working according to the norms of the prevalent society before rebelling against it ...it happens when ultimately patience wears off.even at21st century if a woman remarries in India, the children have to hear taunts and crude remarks from their peers...''iske maa doosri saadi kar li haha...which is equivalent to '' look his / her mother is as good as a wh**e.'' and these nonstop jarrings literally drive them mad and make them against their own mother or the new father. or even she doesnot remarry, and remain single, tab bhi baap ko lekar baat hoti i rehgi, and gradually all fingers would point to the woman, iski i koi kami hogi and all nonsense. And thatz why sobha is trying her best to save her marriage and procet her chindren from such future insults and pain of broken marriage...and moreover she is pleading samarth to take time as these decisions should not be taken impulsively. alas, that bas***d has neither time to listen nor heart to realize her word. which is a boon in disguise. and

another thing diana !
sam is not out on bail, he came to attend the marriage on parole. so he will be back on jail. and given samarth's scandalous history do u think he would ever get children's custody if shova decides to contest...srif dhamki se shobha ko darna nehi chahiya now.

Originally posted by: ddsoaps

Copy pasting what I said on my post!

Jyo as always your post is in such detail and well analyzed. Love it!

What a harsh, emotional yet brilliant episode by the Creatives!

Phew! Samarth the sick, scum bag, skunk, arrogant MCP, moronic of a husband. What acting by Harsh!

Shobha breaking into pieces and shattered with every word and accusation thrown at her.

Still she begs and wants to cling to the sham relationship for the sake of her children and 9 years of nurturing. How do you end it with a sign?

The most painful bit when he says he does not love her and will now enjoy sleeping around! You want Shobha to slap, he could go to hell. But its never as easy as it sounds. 😭

Loved Vikram for protecting Shobha from Samarth's physical attack. The verbal abuse just does not stop.👏

Garima stood tall against the pervert Ajay. Her slap and reply was fitting.👏

And the mother sat there actually stunned by what was happening around her.

Loved Loved loved the precap. What a turnaround..the cutting of the umbilical cord...I mean when do mothers really cut it off? The connect stays forever...but she does it...as it has becoming cancerous, a disease she had to get rid of...finally!

Hugs

dd

Add on to the two points.

The first about Samarth not being told about Ajay forcing himself on Garima.

The reason would have been that Shobha did not want to bring it up in front of everyone. And I feel this matter (or the dialogue) would be left for the mother to raise tomorrow. Shobha takes him into the bedroom and all he is talking of is getting her to sign. Garima issue was forgotten during that moment. Focus was on trying to convince him to sit and think and not to take such a drastic decision.

Though I feel Samarth has already got the drift of it. He himself called Ajay a kamina when behind bars. Telling or not telling does not make any difference to Samarth.

And about Shobha being an abla naari. My post puts some clarity on it. Its easier said than done. Every relationship deserves a second chance. The kids have to be thought of. Shobha is only on the verge of becoming independent. Not an established independent woman.

The house where she lives is someone else's. And the aftermath of the divorce is to be thought of. She loses the children now that he is out. Court may handover custody to a caretaker until things are sorted. Not sure of the legalities here. Its something a couple talk it over before making a final decision.

Yes it would make great drama for Shobha to sign it off right away and fling the paper on his face. But I feel the CVs are showing it in a more realistic manner. Yeah I would have loved it if she had said "YOu can go to hell"...but Shobha is a character written with great finesse. There is a side to her which is strong, sensible, mature, yet a very vulnerable side to her nature.

Just my POV...

Originally posted by: jyoti06

Now that was another powerpacked episode especially the precap where I felt like saying "Go Sharda Go" for the first time 😎 .. Finally she opened her eyes and got out of that long sleep to realise the true ugly face of her son 😡 ...Today when she was sitting like a stone and watching the humiliation of Shobha-Garima quietly , I literally felt like shaking her up , though I realised that its not easy for a mother to suddenly see this ugly face of her son and come out of her disbelief , but I m glad finally she got her spine back tomorrow 👏👏👏



I have only two complains about the otherwise fab episode ..

First is Though I know Samarth will not believe even if someone tells him how Ajay tried molesting Garima , but still my point is why noone bothered to tell this truth to Samarth when he was forcing Garima to sit in the mandap with Ajay 😕 ; Shobha kept on pleading to Samarth to open his eyes and realise his mistakes but not once she tried to tell him what Ajay did ?? 😕 ..I know Samarth would not hv believed it in any case or even if he believed it , he would hv said so what , its his right being the fiance 🤢 , well thats the kind of mentality Samarth has 😡 but even then I would hv preferred if someone at least tried to tell him what Ajay did .. Hope tomorrow his mother does that and even then if Samarth forcibly tries to marry off Garima with Ajay , then finally we might see that revolt and outburst from Sharda against Samarth as per precap 🤔

Second complain is why CVs suddenly made Shobha so subdued and weak like an abla naari who almost pleads to her husband not to divorce her for the sake of kids when that guy is repeatedly insulting ,abusing , humiliating and even accusing her of having an affair with her boss .. Where has Shobha's self-respect gone being an independent working woman of today ?? ... I understand her pleading about Garima-Sanjay marriage since Samarth is the brother here and so Shobha tried her best to convince the brother even if it means pleading but why the hell she had to plead him for not giving the divorce especially when the husband is repeatedly making your tamasha in front of all by proudly talking about his multiple affairs 😡🤢... I hope tomorrow Sharda asks Shobha not to waste her tears on such a guy and sign the divorce papers without regretting anything because this man is just not worth anyone's regret or love 😡


I just want to request the CVs not to show Shobha like an abla naari in the show because she is not ; I really dont want Shobha to waste her precious tears on such a jerk who was proudly talking about his affairs and comparing his wife to regular chawal-daal from whom he wants to get rid of .. sheeshh what a pathetic thought process 🤢 ... He clearly told Shobha that he does not love her and kept on humiliating her as a woman , this should b enough for Shobha to move on in life and never look back or regret about this marriage 😡 ;She will hv enough support in Sharda , Garima and Vikram .. She does not need this MCP for her kids now .. So plss can we get the strong Shobha back who detests Samarth for all his sins instead of this abla naari Shobha who was almost begging that guy to save their marriage ...


Apart from these above 2 issues , rest of the episode was really good and my most favourite moment got to b the Samarth-Vikram one on one little fight in middle when Samarth was about to slap Shobha but Vikram comes in middle and grabs his hand like a true hero of Shobha 😎👏👏 ;

My fav moment too 😳

I bet Vikram would hv literally killed Samarth today if Saurabh and Sanjay dint hold him tightly 😆😆 ;

Vikram said to his naani he stopped himself from harming samarth for kids of shobha and saurav 👏. Such a thoughtful great guy and a father was doing all this drama right in front of his own kids and shobha had the sense to take him inside 😭

And I wish those two never hold him 😡 , I so wanted to see Vikram give few solid punches on that jerk's face 😡😆...

hopefully we will see that soon, I want samarth get the slap of his life 😆🤢

The kind of language he was using there for his own wife and her boss in front of all was just sick mentality 🤢 .. No wonder his own mother was watching it all in disbelief , almost like a stone as the reality of her son was slowly sinking in ...

I was waiting and waiting for sharda to do something and my patience was rewarded by the amazing precap. 👏

Till now Sharda believed that Samarth was misunderstood by all when in reality he will never want bad for his family but today when she saw him being converted into an animal forcing his own sister to marry Ajay with his emotional blackmailling about the money he had spent on her upbringing , thats when Sharda realised the extent to which her son can go for his own selfish motives ; Glad that finally the bubble busted and Sharda could witnesss the real Samarth in action 👍🏼
yes , samarth showed his true colors to his mom today

It was funny the way police were standing behind like a statue , blind to all thats happening in the house because their duty is to just take Samarth from here to there .. basss 😆😆...


Vikram-Nani scene was quite good too .. Poor Nani was so confused whether to send Vikram there or not .. Its like Nani wanted him to b there for Shobha as a friend but then she also dont want Samarth to further torture Shobha because of his presense .. Poor Nani was in real dillema today and so was Vikram who wanted to b there for Shobha's rescue but also he knows he cant interfere much after a point ...

Anyways aaj Samarth address Vikram as Shobha ka bodyguard 😆 .. Tomorrow he might actually become her lifetime bodyguard 😉 .. I bet Samarth's reaction will b priceless then 😆 .. He wants to divorce Shobha for his ego just to prove a point that a single divorced woman in this society will b ripped apart but he has no idea that this divorce might actually turn out to b blessing in disguise for her as she might finally find a true soulmate in Vikram 😳 .. I bet once Samarth sees ViBha coming close , then his ego will again want Shobha back in his life just to prove that I m the only man she is suppose to worship 😡😡 ; But by that time Shobha might hv moved on with Vikram and hopefully will b strong enough to confront Samarth with a slap

Hopefully tomorrow we will see both a contract .. Marriage and a blissful start on one end and Divorce along with new beginning on other end 👍🏼.. Both will b a positive turn of events in the show as Garima's dream will b finally fulfilled and Shobha can finally become independent and breathe freely ...


Last but not the least can Ajay be arrested for forcing himself on Garima and today too gatecrashing their house to forcibly marry an adult against her wish 😡 .. It will b wonderful to see the Trimurtis (Samarth-Tarun-Ajay) chakki pissing together in jail forever 😆😆 ...


Overall superb action packed episode followed by a dhamaka Precap ⭐️

Completely agree with you Jyoti.
Shobha doesn't need a husband who will treat her like crap. She should have asked him for a divorce and kicked him out of the house for good. I expected a strong comeback when he said he will keep her away from the kids but was disappointed with her pleading. While it makes sense for her to ask him to reconsider his decision regarding Garu's marriage. Accepting his mistakes and proposing that they should work out their differences was too much to stomach.
Another thing that annoyed me was what the cops were doing. They just stood watching a man drag his sister around the mantap and force her to marry someone she hates. Isn't it their job to protect civilians from people like Samarth and Ajay?
Apart from Vikram scenes, the other part that appealed to me was how Sanjay's family supported Garu inspite of her brother being rude to them. They truly care about Sanjay and Garu's happiness. And with their support Garu managed to slap Ajay. I loved that scene.
Hopefully Samrath will get slapped before his mother kicks him out in today's episode.

Ladies thanks for the wondeful comments.

Agree Shreya, society has "zero" leniency towards a woman. Even a widow is not spared.

Oh so he is on parole...This man knows Shobha's weakness and that is him. He has great control over her, hence all those dhamkis...

Also another very important thing, Shobha's direct family is not around to support her. They must show her mum and sister Ridhima.

Vikram and Naani and his family are still just friends and a great employer. But her immediate family's intervention and support is needed for Shobha to take the right decision and sign those documents.

Shobha at this point thinks maybe counselling, talking it out, working on the cheating problem will resolve Samarth's issues. But its deeper than that. She has to think hard over it. And someone else has to give her that little push, booster to do it.

This booster will come from her MIL as her own mother is not shown.

Originally posted by: ddsoaps

Ladies thanks for the wondeful comments.

Agree Shreya, society has "zero" leniency towards a woman. Even a widow is not spared.

Oh so he is on parole...This man knows Shobha's weakness and that is him. He has great control over her, hence all those dhamkis...

Also another very important thing, Shobha's direct family is not around to support her. They must show her mum and sister Ridhima.

Vikram and Naani and his family are still just friends and a great employer. But her immediate family's intervention and support is needed for Shobha to take the right decision and sign those documents.

Shobha at this point thinks maybe counselling, talking it out, working on the cheating problem will resolve Samarth's issues. But its deeper than that. She has to think hard over it. And someone else has to give her that little push, booster to do it.

This booster will come from her MIL as her own mother is not shown.

diana,
can u plz copy our part of discussion on your today's discussion thread ?

diana,
can u plz copy our part of discussion on your today's discussion thread ?


will do that