Should I talk 2 him or not????? ):

Hi everyone :)
So there's this guy -- he is very shy and he doesn't talk to girls a lot b/c of his religion and I respect that!
I met him at the place he works at.. I used to go there over the summer and he used to come out there to help me find things :)
Then I couldn't go back there for a few months.... During that time, I started working! I work at fast food restaurant -- one day his brother came at my job and told me somethings about him :) so I added the guy I like on facebook.... Till then we didnt even know each others name so We started talking more and more... Then after like a month he asked me out and I said yes!
I didn't have my phone for some reasons so we couldn't rely talk on the phone and everything... He only talked to me like 5 times after he asked me out... Then when he didn't talk 2 me at all... I sent him message asking what happened he was like he is jus busy with his college and work. I was like okay bt u can atleast jus write hi...
So 2 days went by he still didn't say anything ):
I even tried to get my phone for him.... So then I sent him message asking his number so I could call him bt he never talked to me again... I'm rely lonely and I like him soo much.... Bt I don't think if he wants to talk to me..,, i can't go to his work b/c I know he won't come and talk to me so what should I do???i was thinking bout adding him again on facebook b/c he deleted me before idk why.... Its like im willing to change everithing for him so Plz help me everyone...,., I can't live without him ):

heya

Leave the person alone. If he likes you, he will come back. Otherwise, there are other fish in the pond.

You shudn't let the guy treat u like that!!

Thanks everyone for taking ur time and readin this :)
so this is what happened in past 2 days... Yesterday I sent him friend requet again... He accepted... I also told him that this was da last time I was ever gonna try to talk to him.. He didn't reply to my message bt we talked on the chat today and he said he got busy with his college work and stuff... I asked him how's life been and everithing.... He was like not too great! So now what should I do??? Jus keep talking To him..and see what happens i don't even know anymore..... Bt I do wanna thank God and all of u guys here.... Thank u soo much :) u guys rely change ppls lives!!!

Originally posted by: pearls1124

Thanks everyone for taking ur time and readin this :)
so this is what happened in past 2 days... Yesterday I sent him friend requet again... He accepted... I also told him that this was da last time I was ever gonna try to talk to him.. He didn't reply to my message bt we talked on the chat today and he said he got busy with his college work and stuff... I asked him how's life been and everithing.... He was like not too great! So now what should I do??? Jus keep talking To him..and see what happens i don't even know anymore..... Bt I do wanna thank God and all of u guys here.... Thank u soo much :) u guys rely change ppls lives!!!

You guys have been going out and you like him so its like BF & GF, but the way he is treating you is like you are nothing for him. You can't go out with someone and suddenly ignore that person and come back again say that your busy and all that.

What you should tell him is that: 'We have been going out but then you completely ignore me, so i want to know whats really on your mind, do you like me, or are we friends or name our relationship because i seriously want to know.'

Thats what you should ask him, because girl nobody can treat you the way he treated you. Ask him once and for all whether he likes you or not and what is it with ignoring you. Dont stay in the black. Just talk to him.

Hope this helps
Good Luck :)