imehwish thumbnail
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Okayy i really need help!!

he like me or not.?
okay i like one boy.. his name is adam,last year like april 08 i started liked him because hes being nice and freidnly to me! hes sweet person! i always look at him..then my bestfreind noticed adam statrted look at me and stare at me with being smilee.. .one day i was like talking to my friend..[that perosn is a boy] .. so adam came and say heyyy to my friend..they kept talking.. i was like huh... then i went back do work.. adam was like smile.. we have manyy lock-eyes.. like bump into him and we stare at each other.. few months laters i found out he has a gf.. im soo sad.. i decided didnt like him anymore..one day i was like omgg i will see my ex crush in my clas.. i cant see him! .. i have to act normal..i was like enter the class with bring a television. then i saw adam was there. he was like sit.. then he saw me then he stand and smile to me.. i was like ingore him.. i was like put on televesion.. i was soo nervous.. i feel adam is stand back me and closer to me..i was like walking around. and we almost kiss!! then my head moves and i was like wallking away. adam was lik saddd...i kept ingore him. but i cant stopp being love him! then i found out he didnt have gf !!im really happy lol then like october 08.my bestfriend told me that i should tell to adam that i really like him..i said i cantt.. yu know.. im sooo shy girl!! she saaid i know but yu shouldd..she respect me .but other my friiends fousc me to tell him .im not really ready for that. so i have to do it for their sakee!but my frriend sent a email to him.. but didnt relpy back.. then i have to write a letter .bc my friends fousc me to do.. then i did and sent to him.. he didnt relpy back.. laterr 4 days later.he told to my riend.. he was like ohh relyy mehwish like me soo sweett! but i have a gf at other school!.. and he said he feell soo sorry for mee!my friend said ohh okay but yu put '' single '' on your facebook?? he said bec i dont wanna lets people know. my friend said ohh okayy . i was like soo sad.. but happy for him. if hes happy then im happy. bit my heart is soo hurttt and about wanna kill myself.. bc i love adam so muchh!! myfriends said dont do that! later.. i decided didnt like him.. then i found other new guyy. i like new guy. but i cant forget adam! .we alway look at each other.. and i ingore him...he kept look at mee. i stil love adam..im getting ookay wit that . i was like talking wit friends.. my bestfriend get a feeling that adam didnt have any gfs.. adam always hang outt with boys.. and my bestfriend noticed adam always look at me and smile to me.i have to admit that i still lovee adam.. and when adam's friends talk to him.. he ingore me.. if no one talk to him then he will look at me and smile to me.. and his locker is almost clsoe to my locker.when im going to clas.. he always see me and smile thats werid.. whyy he always see me and smilee when im here.?? if im not here. then adam will like looking for me. i love him for 1 year and almost 1 month.. he like me or not..my bestfriend sayd that adam like me.. of course i trust her alot.. maybe shes right .. but i always think that adam never like me
please help mee!

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I think that maybe he does, and he's afraid to admit his feelings for you. But either way, it doesn't seem like he's pushing the relationship any further. Things are always repeating themselves, and if you want to go somewhere with this, confront Adam and ask him himself. Ask for an honest and straight answer, and don't make your friend go up to him or anything. There'sa chance that he could be in love with you too, but it seems that you should take action if he won't.
Hope I helped,
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Well, if he has a girlfriend and he's still interested in you then I would say that's not the guy you want. If he doesn't have a girlfriend and maybe he's shy to admit his feelings too, then you should go ahead.

Things like bumping into each other and looking at each other will keep happening and there's no point in upsetting yourself if you can just confront him and speak of your heart. If he says no, then you have a reason to move on. He might say yes too. I think relationships reach to a point where it becomes necessary to confess. It seems like yours is reaching that stage.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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okayy thanks yu all for helpp!! most of my friends dont think that adam have a gf....=/

few of my friend told me that i should go to him and tell him that i love him on last day of school =S but im really scaredd =(
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: ~*Mehwish*~

okayy thanks yu all for helpp!! most of my friends dont think that adam have a gf....=/

few of my friend told me that i should go to him and tell him that i love him on last day of school =S but im really scaredd =(

I know what you mean. Of course, everyone would be scared in thsi situation! But one thing, before you go up to him, brace yourself for how things may turn out. Imagine him saying no and saying yes, so you'll be prepared and ready to give him an answer.
-Aish
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Your friend says that 'Adam doesn't have a girl-friend'.

My advice would be that you go and tell Adam that you Love Him.Look into his eyes and tell him to give an Answer truthfully.If its the day before the last day of school it'd be better.In case Adam needs one day to consider.

And yup like Aish mentioned,you should consider all situations.Like if he says 'Yes' or 'No'.So that you will be in full control of your self.

Trust me you are a brave girl! 🤗
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: ~*Mehwish*~

okayy thanks yu all for helpp!! most of my friends dont think that adam have a gf....=/

few of my friend told me that i should go to him and tell him that i love him on last day of school =S but im really scaredd =(



I can understand, Mehwish. Being scared is only natural here. I would be too, because if you really like him you wouldn't want to lose him as a friend.

But it's important that you get it cleared because it might hurt for the while but it will be better for the long term. And who knows?! Maybe he will say yes!

All the best!

-Mahi
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Posted: 16 years ago
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from my own experience and knowledge......he i think he does like you too but I think he lied about him having a girlfriend at another school because he doesnt want your friends to know he likes you back.....guys prefer keeping their girlfriend a secret from friends.....believe me, guys are scared letting people know they like a certain girl.....i will give u a real life example.....my boyfriend pretends he hates me in front of his friends and certain coworkers but behind their back, he's all sweet and stuff......guys are usually scared of loosing the girl they really like.....that's why they lie about not liking the girl that likes him and he likes her back.
that would be the best time to tell him but be friends with him in general to get to know him a little bit, especially his personality.....don't move too fast in the relationship, it can be a really big heartbreaker at the end......start out as friends first then move into the relationship.....don't do anything for the sake of your friends, just do it for yourself......sorry for sounding harsh but you can be heartbroken at the end.....i think you should make your own decisions by doing what you feel is right.
I strongly recommend you to catch him before it's too late that's why i think you should be friends with him first......just do the general talking as you do with all your friends then you will automatically be comfortable with him.....i agree with everyone else in you trying to be prepared if he rejects you or accepts you.....try to do that too in your spare time..
best of luck!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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@*Dakoo_Minzy* thanks so much for advice! but my friend sent him a message about i like him. again i wrote a letter to him. if i did again then mayebe it will make him annoy? =s

@ -Mystery- well.i did practice said like i wanna tell yu something,okayy i love you adam etccc.. but its made me nervousss and scareddd =(
@xsweetbabygyalx omgg you r seriosulyy! he like me back too ?? my bestfriend said this same thing to me many timeee! i cant ask him for be friends. bc i kneww his friends didnt like me =( but few friends of him re my friends too but didnt really talk wit them.. but i cant be friends with adam. bc im soo scareddd! lol
when hes getting closer to me then my heart is getting beatt so fasstt and nervoussss!😆😳
yeastursday soo werid. because when i was like walkingg on stairs.. and i saw adam was there. and he turn so fast and see me. then he was like lil smile and we have a lock eyes. 😳 then he looked at other wayy. then i kept walking and he tried move lil and his bag is almost touch me.. 😆😕😳
Okay i better stop talking about adam anyway thanks yu all for helpp!! love ya all!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I came here to seek advice, so I am not sure if I am entitled to offer any. Anyhow, here is my point of view ...

You wrote - "... and when adam's friends talk to him.. he ingore me.."
This line bothers me a little. Is Adam shy ?

Is this a cross cultural issue? If it is, then it may need more time to become truly meaningful. So give it more time.

I am sure he is a hunk ... but is he good friend material? *You* must find out. 😊

Have you thought about asking Adam out? Ask him out as a friend. No pressure, no strings attached. Convey that you want to spend some time with him, just for (clean) fun. If he says no the first time, give him a second chance. If he says "No" again ... then you know. 😊

On the other hand, if he says yes, go for lunch, dinner, a picnic, a movie, long walks ... talk to him, get to know him and help him get to know you.

Perhaps after you have known him, you may discover that you are not right for each other. 😊
I have a close friend whose brother is a very successful psychiatrist. One day Ryan told us that the reason most relationships fail to takeoff, is because the timing is not correct.

If I apply Ryan's advice to your situation, then it means - you may be ready, but Adam may not be ready. So get to know each other. And if summer is not enough, then there is fall, winter, spring ...

Keep an open mind. In the end, you have nothing to lose ... you have gained a friend.

I hope things work out for the best. 😊

Have a great weekend !!!


Edited by simi2006747 - 16 years ago

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