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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: ~*Mehwish*~

@xsweetbabygyalx omgg you r seriosulyy! he like me back too ?? my bestfriend said this same thing to me many timeee! i cant ask him for be friends. bc i kneww his friends didnt like me =( but few friends of him re my friends too but didnt really talk wit them.. but i cant be friends with adam. bc im soo scareddd! lol
when hes getting closer to me then my heart is getting beatt so fasstt and nervoussss!😆😳
yeastursday soo werid. because when i was like walkingg on stairs.. and i saw adam was there. and he turn so fast and see me. then he was like lil smile and we have a lock eyes. 😳 then he looked at other wayy. then i kept walking and he tried move lil and his bag is almost touch me.. 😆😕😳
Okay i better stop talking about adam anyway thanks yu all for helpp!! love ya all!

i cant answer that question of him liking you back or not because I don't know 😆 but from my experience and knowledge i think he might as guys do want to keep the girl they like a secret from their friends but shy guys tell their friends first about the girl who they like. Since you said you guys almost kissed, he looks at you and smiles.....i think he might.. Don't ask him to be friends 😆 just start talking to him as you talk to all your friends first to be comfortable with him because if you talk to him one on one, you will observe his behavior patterns. Mehwish jab tak aap khud Adam se baat nahin karogi toh aap aisi darti rehengi aur dar khud nahin jaata, aapko himmat rakni zaroori hai.....try to ask him out......don't worry this is normal in love (heart beating fast n being scared) just start off your conversation with a simple HI while smiling......smile back at him, guys go crazy over a girl's smile.......believe me.....my boyfriend does crazy things just to get that tiny smile on my face, he even once made a fool out of himself and goes through soo much trouble just to get a smile on my face.
I have an idea.....instead of telling him you love him first.....make it special.....meaning.....ask him out for a movie or something......talk to urself in front of the mirror, that will help u build some confidence in talking to him one on one......try to make yourself comfortable asking him out to whatever place you want to hang out with him......just as the person above me has said......try not to be scared......even though this is my 4th year, i still do get nervous sometimes when talking to my boyfriend one on one as of today.....i dont get scared though......i try to relax before saying something to him......smiling works for guys......remember Smile Back at him.....he cn possibly fall in love with you more.
Best of Luck 😉
Edited by xsweetbabygyalx - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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@simi2006747 okay thanks so much for advice =]
@ xsweetbabygyalx wow thanks so much for that.. yu know im always smileee! haha if he smile to me then i will smile back at him always
and i cant understand hindi.. =( what's this jab tak aap khud Adam se baat nahin karogi toh aap aisi darti rehengi aur dar khud nahin jaata, aapko himmat rakni zaroori hai means?
thank you so much for give me alot of advicess!! =D
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Posted: 16 years ago
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u shud say it 2 him de truet.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: ~*Mehwish*~

@ xsweetbabygyalx wow thanks so much for that.. yu know im always smileee! haha if he smile to me then i will smile back at him always

and i cant understand hindi.. =( what's this jab tak aap khud Adam se baat nahin karogi toh aap aisi darti rehengi aur dar khud nahin jaata, aapko himmat rakni zaroori hai means?
thank you so much for give me alot of advicess!! =D

ohh im very sorry, I didn't know you didn't know hindi 😳.....no worries i can translate it for you in English😊......what i said there is until you don't talk to adam yourself, you are gonna continue being scared and the fear doesn't go away by itself, one has to try to conquer his/her fear.....you have to be brave and strong....that's what jab tak aap khud Adam se baat nahin karogi toh aap aisi darti rehengi aur dar khud nahin jaata, aapko himmat rakni zaroori hai basically means. My advice to you is, don't be scared talking to him as you do with the rest of your friends, you have to be brave to talk to him. I myself get nervous sometimes talking to my boyfriend one on one but i talk to him because i know i have to.
Best of Luck! 😉
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Posted: 16 years ago
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@ .x.Shilky.x. .. i cant do it .. im really soo scared.! =(
@xsweetbabygyalx .its ok..yeah your right .. i should talk wit him like noraml. but i cant do itt!..how can i talk wit him ?? like hii or ??😕😆😳
please help me how to be friends wit him =S but i dont think we wil become friends....
Edited by ~*Mehwish*~ - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: ~*Mehwish*~

@xsweetbabygyalx .its ok..yeah your right .. i should talk wit him like noraml. but i cant do itt!..how can i talk wit him ?? like hii or ??😕😆😳
please help me how to be friends wit him =S but i dont think we wil become friends....

I am not saying be his friend.....😆.....i am saying you know how you're comfortable talking to your guy friends.....you know how you start a conversation with them normally.....try to do the same with him.
you can try talking to yourself in front of the mirror first......start off with "hi" while smiling "how are you?.....do you have any plans for Friday?.....I was thinking may be we can go watch a picture together then some lunch, what time is good for you?" or whatever you want to tell him.....you have to try.....be brave.....you can do this......trust me, once you talk to him, you will feel much better.
before you talk to him.....breathe in from ur nose and out from ur mouth.....squeeze ur hand by makin a fist......do this repeatedly until u feel relaxed.
Idea - whn he looks at u and smiles......smile back at him the second he smiles at u.....then if he's standing away from you from a distance.....wave HI while smiling.......if he's close to you, say "hi" then start off your conversation.....u can use the dialogue i gave u above 😆 or u can make ur own up.
Best of Luck 😉

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