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Posted: 15 years ago
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That Vishal is a friend? Instead of wanting to mow Nakul down and wipe Mili's tears at the same time, he spouts some line about being a friend for ever and walks out?

What's the use of that - Mili needs someone who will trust her and empathise with her suffering, do everything to make her smile again and bring her tormentor to justice. Someone who will stand by her even if it means displeasing his parents. What if she had been assaulted after the roka or even marriage - would he have left her with promises of friendship?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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s u r very true ,what's use of friend who doesn't support u in such a emotional moment and when she needs a person who can trust her and understand her feelings,i think in this case abhi and omi r still far better bcoz they would have been supportive against their own family too.that's true friendship and love .still vishal can also ask y she did not trust him .?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i would have loved to see vishal saying he wont leave her alone in this situation as he is going to marry her and he trusts her not others ........... wats the point of him saying alll this , a guy who never stands for a gal when needed willl never be able to be her strength.,....... if he loved her instead of giving that friendship and support he would have stayed wit hher ...............
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: JayaV

i would have loved to see vishal saying he wont leave her alone in this situation as he is going to marry her and he trusts her not others ........... wats the point of him saying alll this , a guy who never stands for a gal when needed willl never be able to be her strength.,....... if he loved her instead of giving that friendship and support he would have stayed wit hher ...............

I think the same can be said about mili, vishal was going to be her life partner. no matter what advise Abhi gave her, she should have told vishal the truth before having her roka. If this happened after marriage wouldnt she have told him. Under the circumstances I feel Vishal was pretty decent.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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if abhi would be there in the place of vishal and simi in the place of milli, then abhi would have beaten nakul black and blue and would make nakul ask forgiveness from simi. This is the contrast between our new hero, vishal and all time favourite, abhi. I still remember the way, abhi supportd simi when rb tried to molest her. Hats off abhi.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bana

That Vishal is a friend? Instead of wanting to mow Nakul down and wipe Mili's tears at the same time, he spouts some line about being a friend for ever and walks out?

What's the use of that - Mili needs someone who will trust her and empathise with her suffering, do everything to make her smile again and bring her tormentor to justice. Someone who will stand by her even if it means displeasing his parents. What if she had been assaulted after the roka or even marriage - would he have left her with promises of friendship?

I think that is the contrast they want to show between Abhi and Vishaal. Vishaal is a bit of a wimp and prefers to do his parents bidding. I also was stunned that he walked away from Mili instead of staying their and supporting her. It goes to show that his parents wear the pants in that relationship. "I'll call you" is what he said to her. I was also disgusted at the WHOLE family who didn't want to ask Mii the truth and jumped ship when they saw something going on that bothered them.
HECK why would I want to get my daughter married to someone like that who couldn't be there for my daughter when she was a victim of an attempted rape. And this BLAME for the rape victim as if she is some type of woman who slept around and is of low character has to stop.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bana

That Vishal is a friend? Instead of wanting to mow Nakul down and wipe Mili's tears at the same time, he spouts some line about being a friend for ever and walks out?

What's the use of that - Mili needs someone who will trust her and empathise with her suffering, do everything to make her smile again and bring her tormentor to justice. Someone who will stand by her even if it means displeasing his parents. What if she had been assaulted after the roka or even marriage - would he have left her with promises of friendship?

So agree with you. Vishal should have comforted mili and tell her he fully trust her and be with her no matter what and make her open upto him.
That is what a friend will do . He should have asked to talk to mili privately as he is going to marry her I am sure. Mili is hurting big time and needs to be comforted.
So what is vishal doing walking out on her. He is not a bachcha, He should have told his parentes mom dad you go I will come back later and be with sethis especially Mili. if he still considers about forming a relationship with her.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Agree with you Bana.As we say that a friend in need is a friend indeed.What is the need for such friend.If Vishal didn't know Mili earlier then he might leave.But as a friend he need to wait their.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I culled this from one of my earlier post on Vishal. He's no hero in my eyes.
If he's so great why did he leave the Roka with his parents today. A good man would stand by his woman no matter what. Mili needs his support now more than ever. If he reacts like this before pre-marriage I don't think he will be any better after. Please, find Mili a real man ASAP.

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