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Posted: 15 years ago
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simi had warned abhi in the park that if your dad finds out about us he will kick you out then where will we live?. Even his dad told him all you have is your jeep. Will you live in there?.
stil he sold his jeep and gave simi ring which he later burned it.👎🏼
Now abhi is destitue. Is that waht he wanted to give simi after getting married to her?.
Why didn't he go elsewhere to find a job and went to nakul knwoing once he marries simi he will not be able to go to nakul.
How absurd?
Now abhi has simi but nothing as he spent all his money getting her and what she gave her back burning it?👎🏼😭
this is really unrealstic absurd. CVS defiantely need to get out of this
simi should not help abhi at all and let him grow up by learning from his mistakes. as 2 wrongs does not make it right.
Why abhi did not take any warning and kept acting like a immature boy thinking getting simi in his life will solve his problems.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Yeah Ramas- U R rIght! Why abhi did not take any warning and kept acting like a immature boy thinking getting simi in his life will solve his problems.


Even I've posted a similar reply to some other post- 'Simmi's Scared" {Actually I'm very very Suprised n Shocked to see that Simmi is Scared to See Omi but She was not scared while walking on the dark ,lonely Streets with nowhere to go!}

Yes, it's very unbeleivable that Abhi did not have an idea that he'll lose his Job
and his Flat and even he wouldn't have a place in his father's house so if he hasn't made ANY plans about where to go after getting married,how can we call him 'Very matured'?? All the While we have been hearing that Abhi's much more matured than his age but is this an Example? They could've been attacked by criminals at Night when Abhi was on the Streets with Simmi.... and Instead of being worried about his New Wife with ,loads of Jewellery on her and both of them being Insecure n Unsure of Where to go they show Abhi totally Carefree n counting Stars!!!!!🥱
Do we call such a person 'matured' let alone 'Very Matured"????????????????😕
Edited by iamindian - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: iamindian

Why abhi did not take any warning and kept acting like a immature boy thinking getting simi in his life will solve his problems.


Yeah,Even I've posted a similar reply to some other post- 'Simmi's Scared"

That it's very unbeleivable that Abhi did not have an idea that he'll lose his Job
and his Flat and even he wouldn't have a place in his father's house so if he hasn't made ANY plans about where to go after getting married,how can we call him 'Very matured'?? All the While we have been hearing that Abhi's much more matured than his age but is this an Example? They could've been attacked by criminals at Night when Abhi was on the Streets with Simmi....

I so agree with you. Abhi acted very immaturely not thinking about his and simi's future putting her in danger last night. He should have secured place to live bfore deciding to get married,
Abhi acts maturely solving simi's problems but alwasy goofs up solving his own problems.and this is the biggest example of his imaturtiy. Let us hope he learns soon. I am sure we will see them soon getting there own place. they are both are highly educated and bright.
Exerience is the best teacher.
Edited by ramas - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramas

simi had warned abhi in the park that if your dad finds out about us he will kick you out then where will we live?. Even his dad told him all you have is your jeep. Will you live in there?.

stil he sold his jeep and gave simi ring which he later burned it.👎🏼
Now abhi is destitue. Is that waht he wanted to give simi after getting married to her?.
Why didn't he go elsewhere to find a job and went to nakul knwoing once he marries simi he will not be able to go to nakul.
How absurd?
Now abhi has simi but nothing as he spent all his money getting her and what she gave her back burning it?👎🏼😭
this is really unrealstic absurd. CVS defiantely need to get out of this
simi should not help abhi at all and let him grow up by learning from his mistakes. as 2 wrongs does not make it right.
Why abhi did not take any warning and kept acting like a immature boy thinking getting simi in his life will solve his problems.

I agree with the gist of your post Ramas - in fact I had posted in another thread yest that walking with your beloved around the streets of Delhi at night is not carefree romanticism, it is irresponsible. Simi has already experienced that. Even dabhas have drunk truck drivers at night. Lets hope Abhi had been to that dabha before and knew it for a safe one!
Then again not entirely fair to say Abhi did not plan ahead - he did get a job and flat from Nakul, and everything would have worked out fine if Simi had told Nakul about her roka with Abhi immediately and not tried to marry him under false pretences. I am sure Nakul would have accepted it (since there was no firm commitment at that stage) and Abhi could have continued working with Dagar Co.
Not only that, if Simi had let her dad tell Nakul, the humiliation at the marriage could have been avoided, and SimBhi could have worked on winning over Manju and Mr T.
In short there is only person really responsible for their current situation - homeless, disowned - and that is Simi herself. And did she have plenty of warning!
Edited by Bana - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bana

I agree with the gist of your post Ramas - in fact I had posted in another thread yest that walking with your beloved around the streets of Delhi at night is not carefree romanticism, it is irresponsible. Simi has already experienced that. Even dabhas have drunk truck drivers at night. Lets hope Abhi had been to that dabha before and knew it for a safe one!
Then again not entirely fair to say Abhi did not plan ahead - he did get a job and flat from Nakul, and everything would have worked out fine if Simi had told Nakul about her roka with Abhi immediately and not tried to marry him under false pretences. I am sure Nakul would have accepted it (since there was no firm commitment at that stage) and Abhi could have continued working with Dagar Co.
Not only that, if Simi had let her dad tell Nakul, the humiliation at the marriage could have been avoided, and SimBhi could have worked on winning over Manju and Mr T.
In short there is only person really responsible for their current situation - homeless, disowned - and that is Simi herself. And did she have plenty of warning!

O yes bana i totally agree with the highlighted points !! The BIG IF has caused this beause of the IF which would have happened then these were not going to be the circumstances.. Simi is also equally at fault !!
Abhi did get his job with a flat but yes he lost it since Simi didn't allow her dad to speak abt the Roka to nakul's family way before when he was suppose to !!
So we cannot take Abhi's fault due to whidh all this is happening

I totally agree with you !!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Please don't misunderstand as I totally agree with everyones comments 300% but you all have forgotten that the way we think is all with a level head. But Simbhi would not have been thinking like that at the time. Abhi was so scared that Simi would go through with this wedding because she is the sacrificing Queen that he knew she would be capable to go and marry Nakul just for her mothers and sisters sake. Although we say they knew this was going to happen when you are so desperately in love with someone you do not think outside the square. You do not think of what is going to happen after. All that you are able to see is the present and lets face it Abhi was very persistent that simi was going to be his and nobody elses. Simi being older was also to blame as she knew very well that Abhi is very stubborn and acts on his impulses immediately unlike simi who does things to please others. Lets hope this has taught them a lesson and they both mature very quickly. Simi although is older I feel at times she is like a child. Always needing someone to hold her hand and reasure her that what she does is correct and not thinking what the future would hold. I agree she should have let Rajinder go to Hitlers house and tell Nakul that simi is in love with Abhi and her heart belongs to him only. In all fairness Nakul is not at fault here I just hate how he turned to the dark side and acted so disgusting with Abhi not knowing of course that Abhi wanted to tell Nakul the truth all along. I feel to sum it up there are so many people who are at fault here for Simbhis misfortune.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bana

I agree with the gist of your post Ramas - in fact I had posted in another thread yest that walking with your beloved around the streets of Delhi at night is not carefree romanticism, it is irresponsible. Simi has already experienced that. Even dabhas have drunk truck drivers at night. Lets hope Abhi had been to that dabha before and knew it for a safe one!
Then again not entirely fair to say Abhi did not plan ahead - he did get a job and flat from Nakul, and everything would have worked out fine if Simi had told Nakul about her roka with Abhi immediately and not tried to marry him under false pretences. I am sure Nakul would have accepted it (since there was no firm commitment at that stage) and Abhi could have continued working with Dagar Co.
Not only that, if Simi had let her dad tell Nakul, the humiliation at the marriage could have been avoided, and SimBhi could have worked on winning over Manju and Mr T.
In short there is only person really responsible for their current situation - homeless, disowned - and that is Simi herself. And did she have plenty of warning!

So true may be both are iresponsible. But abhi knew simi will never tell So he was fighting all their battles himself why he never thought of their future. he even knew simi had no money since she borrowed from him. Why did he burn the money and ring when he knew he wanted to marry simi at ny cost, He should have taken ring and money. At least they would not have problem now.
I am surprised both leave house with no money on them adn simi even takes off her jewlwry . you ron't have to wear it You can keep it tied and put it in the corner of saree or something. She got that from her parents. at least she should have taken her jewelary. When Mr T ask abhi to leave whe did not say leave everything behind. How stupid of them to leave like that.
Simi is as much at fault suggesting abhi to burn or put it in ground. She should aave told him to buy back his jeep for the sake of their love.
I don't know what tehy both were trying to prove doing such stupidity.
I mean what kind of huby will walk her wife in the middle of night on emptry streets the way simi was looking.
they have shown abhi typical 22 year old who only thinks with his heart and no brain.
Simi is worst despite being 30 she acts like a teen. She only becomes mature when Manju asks her to sacrifice herself to save her family destrying her own self taking abhi along.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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So the focus is now how immature Abhi is by marrying Simi and loosing what ever he had
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bana

I agree with the gist of your post Ramas - in fact I had posted in another thread yest that walking with your beloved around the streets of Delhi at night is not carefree romanticism, it is irresponsible. Simi has already experienced that. Even dabhas have drunk truck drivers at night. Lets hope Abhi had been to that dabha before and knew it for a safe one!
Then again not entirely fair to say Abhi did not plan ahead - he did get a job and flat from Nakul, and everything would have worked out fine if Simi had told Nakul about her roka with Abhi immediately and not tried to marry him under false pretences. I am sure Nakul would have accepted it (since there was no firm commitment at that stage) and Abhi could have continued working with Dagar Co.
Not only that, if Simi had let her dad tell Nakul, the humiliation at the marriage could have been avoided, and SimBhi could have worked on winning over Manju and Mr T.
In short there is only person really responsible for their current situation - homeless, disowned - and that is Simi herself. And did she have plenty of warning!

I don't think Simi and Abhi had much choice and at best Abhi tried to make best of a bad situation they were in, so he used humor to take her mind of the whole situation bearing in mind he needed to do something quickly. So I don't think he was trying to be carefree about the situation.
The Dabha looked safe from the outside so it seems he had some idea of what he was doing.
I agree with your overall post; Abhi did plan ahead but unfortunately things backfired. Had his father not been so stubborn and listened to his son, Simi would be the bahu of the Tarneja household. SImi could have prevented a lot of these things had she taken the initiative - after all didn't she grow a spine the day she beat up those guys? Looks like it was very short-lived. I do hold Simi responsible for the situation. Let's hope it was for the best but now that Omi is helping who knows...
Some of this story makes no sense - no bank account, job that is suddenly no existence with no explanation as to what happened, no family and friends?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Laila2009

I don't think Simi and Abhi had much choice and at best Abhi tried to make best of a bad situation they were in, so he used humor to take her mind of the whole situation bearing in mind he needed to do something quickly. So I don't think he was trying to be carefree about the situation.
The Dabha looked safe from the outside so it seems he had some idea of what he was doing.
I agree with your overall post; Abhi did plan ahead but unfortunately things backfired. Had his father not been so stubborn and listened to his son, Simi would be the bahu of the Tarneja household. SImi could have prevented a lot of these things had she taken the initiative - after all didn't she grow a spine the day she beat up those guys? Looks like it was very short-lived. I do hold Simi responsible for the situation. Let's hope it was for the best but now that Omi is helping who knows...
Some of this story makes no sense - no bank account, job that is suddenly no existence with no explanation as to what happened, no family and friends?

so true about family and friends Abhi is a rich kid . I am sure he has lot of resources if anita can hire goons and spend money on anything. It is unbelivable abhi has no money or friends or any other relatives who can help them and he has to go destitute on his wedding night.
So true abhi always knows how to cheer up simi. and they both did very well supporting each other despite the situation.
They could have called RS at least he could have come up with some solution and what is with not worrying him. He was more worried not finding them They could have spent night in his shop better alternative than dhaba at least they could have had some privacy.
Simi's dalogue papaji aapka sir nahi jukayungi sounds funny. waht if something would have happen to her in night and whole world come to know about it. what is the harm in taking help from own dad rather than from Omi.😲
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