Despite warning - Page 2

Originally posted by: shanti05

O yes bana i totally agree with the highlighted points !! The BIG IF has caused this beause of the IF which would have happened then these were not going to be the circumstances.. Simi is also equally at fault !!
Abhi did get his job with a flat but yes he lost it since Simi didn't allow her dad to speak abt the Roka to nakul's family way before when he was suppose to !!
So we cannot take Abhi's fault due to whidh all this is happening

I totally agree with you !!

They both are responsible for all this. So true she alwasy stopped his dad from telling nakul or dadi. and abhi knowing simi should have had some security if he was going to marry her.Nakul might have been even angrier before. He could have told him when he cahlenged nakul that we both love each other but som ehow simi is forced to marry you since her parents give u there words.

Originally posted by: Bana

I agree with the gist of your post Ramas - in fact I had posted in another thread yest that walking with your beloved around the streets of Delhi at night is not carefree romanticism, it is irresponsible. Simi has already experienced that. Even dabhas have drunk truck drivers at night. Lets hope Abhi had been to that dabha before and knew it for a safe one!

Then again not entirely fair to say Abhi did not plan ahead - he did get a job and flat from Nakul, and everything would have worked out fine if Simi had told Nakul about her roka with Abhi immediately and not tried to marry him under false pretences. I am sure Nakul would have accepted it (since there was no firm commitment at that stage) and Abhi could have continued working with Dagar Co.

Not only that, if Simi had let her dad tell Nakul, the humiliation at the marriage could have been avoided, and SimBhi could have worked on winning over Manju and Mr T.

In short there is only person really responsible for their current situation - homeless, disowned - and that is Simi herself. And did she have plenty of warning!

I totally agree with you Bana.

1. When they were walking on the streets in the night, I was also thinking - this girl just a few days back had escape from the goon being on the street alone and Abhi knows it too. Have they both forgotten? There are real incidents in Delhi where eventhough the boy was there with the girl in a car, the girl was raped/abused. Don't these two know anything how unsafe Delhi streets are?

2. Drunk drivers in dhaba - agree again.

3. Agree again that if Simi had informed Nakul or let RS inform the Dagars this wouldn't have happened. Abhi would have had his job, as well as the flat. Nakul fights Abhi only bcos he think that it is only Abhi who is behind Simi and not Simi too.

4. All this useless, reckless, irresponsible homeless thing would not have happened if Simi was truthful when she was necessary to be one. I too hold only Simi responsible for this situation. That is the reason why that day in my comments of the episode, I had written Manju should have slapped 2,3,4 more to Simi (though I do not agree to some of Manju's doings). This is also what I had written in my comments in the post 'Shame on you Sunshiners' a few days back.

after seeing all this problems abhi and simi facing, people will think twice before falling in love.

Originally posted by: ssree

after seeing all this problems abhi and simi facing, people will think twice before falling in love.

the cvs guessed tat the last few episodes were good and people are enjoying , so they messed it up. 😡

Originally posted by: ramas

so true about family and friends Abhi is a rich kid . I am sure he has lot of resources if anita can hire goons and spend money on anything. It is unbelivable abhi has no money or friends or any other relatives who can help them and he has to go destitute on his wedding night.

So true abhi always knows how to cheer up simi. and they both did very well supporting each other despite the situation.

They could have called RS at least he could have come up with some solution and what is with not worrying him. He was more worried not finding them They could have spent night in his shop better alternative than dhaba at least they could have had some privacy.

Simi's dalogue papaji aapka sir nahi jukayungi sounds funny. waht if something would have happen to her in night and whole world come to know about it. what is the harm in taking help from own dad rather than from Omi.😲

but we cant ingnore the fact that his marriage was not planned he had to take the deciesion in an hurry or else he would have lost simi his love,its only bcoz of manju and neetu 's stupid decision,we even cant ingnore that he had found a job with flat ,if it was not in a hurry ,i think simi and abhi would have talked to nakul about their love and convinced him also as it is said that he is a nice guy ,( note : i feel that nakul also love simi) and even RS tried to inform them about that simi's roka to nakul and dadi,he had tried twice.simi and abhi are on road bcoz of neetu's fault,manju's stupidity,and anita and anuj's wrong intensions,and even abhi 's father misunderstanding

Originally posted by: bee5

I totally agree with you Bana.

1. When they were walking on the streets in the night, I was also thinking - this girl just a few days back had escape from the goon being on the street alone and Abhi knows it too. Have they both forgotten? There are real incidents in Delhi where eventhough the boy was there with the girl in a car, the girl was raped/abused. Don't these two know anything how unsafe Delhi streets are?

2. Drunk drivers in dhaba - agree again.

3. Agree again that if Simi had informed Nakul or let RS inform the Dagars this wouldn't have happened. Abhi would have had his job, as well as the flat. Nakul fights Abhi only bcos he think that it is only Abhi who is behind Simi and not Simi too.

4. All this useless, reckless, irresponsible homeless thing would not have happened if Simi was truthful when she was necessary to be one. I too hold only Simi responsible for this situation. That is the reason why that day in my comments of the episode, I had written Manju should have slapped 2,3,4 more to Simi (though I do not agree to some of Manju's doings). This is also what I had written in my comments in the post 'Shame on you Sunshiners' a few days back.

I agree with you Bee.. If Simi had opened her mouth way before the wedding we would have had a lot better to see between simi and abhi

Originally posted by: RoyalT

Ramas Simi has to help Abhi now. He is her husband afterall. They are in this together. They took vows before God. He's only 22 and just growing. They can grow together. Yes, she warned him. But Abhi has never really cared about his dad's house or money. He asked to be sent to boarding school to get away from him. Simi has some growing to do as well even though she is 30. She has never lived away from home. Two grown people with two college diplomas between them can make it on their own. It's only been two days y'all. They are destitute and tired. A day or two at the dhaba won't kill them. Abhi himself told Guru Ji all I have to give Simi is my jeep. He already knew his limits but couldn't forsake his love for Simi. Why is everyone being so harsh towards Abhi all of a sudden? Have we forgotten all of the good things he has done already like saving Simi, reopening Papa Seeth's store, helping Anita and Anuj get married, etc. etc? What doesn't kill us makes us stronger. And I for one feel that the Simbhi will be stronger despite the obstacles ahead of them. I still have complete faith in them.

I want them to find their way out !! I thought when he went to the saree shop he wud have asked that uncle if you know of any good place for accomodation !! I would have loved if some third person have helped them and from there their story starts of struggle and how they ovbercome it together !!

Nowe again we see Omi or RB in the picture and somehow these two will have top be their eshaan noka Mautaaj