Pathetic Abhi and Ungrateful Simi - Page 4

Originally posted by: SValeCalGal

Yes, my dear, I have heard of Harold and Maude. Are you comparing their romance to the same movie? Give me a break.

All things said, you weren't kidding about having everything spelt out . . . explicitly for you . . . no, I'm not comparing the 2 romances (whatever that would entail) . . . I suggest that age is not always a factor . . . furthermore, it should have no bearing on anything . . . whoever made the comment about it being UNTHINKABLE that a 22 yr old could be attracted to a 30 year old is astonishngly lacking a basic understanding of human behavior which even on a good day is a mind boggling enigma! Plain Jane notwithstanding, it is absolutely possible for 2 people to be in love despite what others consider proper or their own physiognomies allow . . . in this instance the writers are not far off the mark . . . sorry, but while I'm not about to disclose my age (not quite a Maude yet), I've been on the planet long enough to know humans to be bizarre to unimaginable levels . . . particularly when the emotional part of the brain is in the driver's seat . . .

All the hysteria about this is hysterical! 😊

Have you not seen the earlier episodes???

Well . . . I kinda got entrapped a wee bit late into the serial but not that far behind . . . why do you keep harping about the character being plain as chalk incapable of attracting anyone much less an Abhi type kid . . . why does that hold such fascination for you? To the point that you would puke?! Ever read the phantasmagoria that came out of the Bronte sisters?!! Now there's bizarre . . . second to none . . . characters totally demented . . . but not like any demented apt to be seen on the road . . . yet, people lap it up . . . and you're not familiar with the case (some 8 years ago was it?) of that teacher (cannot recall her name) who while married seduced one of her middle school students (he looked mature for his age)?!! Then she got time to cool her heels in the slammer for statutory rape? Then she came out, divorced her husband, married the love of her life and began procreating?!! Oh . . . all along he loved her too!!

THAT"s real life darling! I'll try and dig it up if there is interest . . .

KB is almost rrefreshing in comparison . . . it certainly is a veritable 'breath of fresh air' in comparison to the other stuff on Indian TV that rightfully causes one to regurgitate. My faith in the ability of Indian TV to be relatively iconoclastic is no longer irretrievably shattered . . . that's not to suggest that KB will not descend into unadulterated drivel some day . . . we're just not there yet . . .

Originally posted by: sajibabe

i . yes simi is not attractive,but has a heart of gold & is very giving & that's why abhi was drawn towards her, as he never met some one so selfless & hence fell in love with her simple nature

not every guys goes for a thin stick sexy looking wannabe models,there are guys who would prefer simple girls like simi,then those party loving babes who change there boyfriends like there skirts. yes simi has insecurities thanx to her psycho,vile, bully mother ,but abhi understands that & it will be his love that will make her overcome those niggling doubts about her self,thanx to her mother who always criticised her on her weights,age & looks

this show is brilliant it's dealing with issues that have been brushed under the carpet before,love happens between a younger guy & elder woman all the time. also there are 2 types of guys, those who are only after one thing & the makers of this show have beautifully portrayed that element, in the neetu & that evil vicky story line. whilst on the other hand they are showing a sensible & genuinely in love guy like abhi, for whom compatibility & simplcity holds far more importantance, than how sexy his woman should look.

so for me this show is refreshing change, from all those boring saas bahu sagas, im just baffled that this type of stigma still exists in 21st century.it's ok for older guy to a romance a teenager,but when the man is younger it becomes an issue. just hope makers keep the show as realistic & simple as they have done so far. im loving it & so are many others

Originally posted by: ramas

exactly this is how I feel about simi and abhi love does not see race color or size . love is blind and that is the reason I loved saat phere where Nahar a handsome rajkumar falls in love with a dark girl from an ordinary family who has ben rejected all her life by man because of her color.. I love this show and abhi simi because they are some real ppl and fragile with all their vulnerability and thier flaws

Simi is a very desirable womn and not every one goes for perfect figure dumb head bimbo. some men prefer their partner to be smart inteligent and good hearted person who they can trust with their lives . In this age such girls are in rarity as most every one wants to get maried and snatch away a son from their parents just like Anita. With Simi in abhi's life abhi will never have to worry about his family.

I don;t understand why every one is asking why simi should be prize possetion?. Because she has a heart of gold and that is her best quality apart from that she can lay her life for the ppl she loves and she proved that to abhi already so why wouldn't abhi think simi is the best thing that happened to him He already said such thing indreictly to simi in the temple after anuj anita's wedding. To me that is a enough exlanation.

Beside love needs no explanation ye to kisiko kisi ke satth ho jata hai.

Originally posted by: Laila2009

writers have given reason why abhi loves simi?. and that is the whole dialogue before Abhi gives simi flowers and that itelf is enough explantion. Abhi calls simi his teacher and that he has learn to live from her how a person can sacrifice herself for other's happiness. but then when you love some one so much then you do those things for them anyway so it is no longr a sacrifice., simi you have changed my life. No you have changed me. plz warch that epidode one more time.

Infact abhi told simi indirectly how much he loves her and why? But simi wanted to hear the solid truth with those words ILU. and wriiters have to give also for viewers sake.

Edited by ramas - 15 years ago

some ppl think making other 's happy makes them happy that may not he the case for others.

Originally posted by: ramas

liailla look around you will find ppl who live for others especially It is what makes them happy and there is nothing wrong with it. apne liye sab jite hai par dusro ke liye jine me jo maza hai woh dusro ke liye jeene wale hi jante hai.

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Originally posted by: ramas

liailla look around you will find ppl who live for others especially elder siblings/ I tis what makes them happy and there is nothing wrong with it. apne liye sab jite hai par dusro ke liye jine me jo maza hai woh dusro ke liye jeene wale hi jante hai.

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Originally posted by: Laila2009

Ramas, You are loosing focus here. Now you are talking about the rest of the world making sacrifices. So what? We're talking about Simi and how this is a characteristic that Abhi is supposed to like in her when it is this very characteristic that got her into the marriage with RB. How then can this be an admirable quality? To say that the rest of the world does it doesn't make it one and has nothing to do with the fact that it also does not go with the original premise of the storyline and the fact that the creatives have gone completely of course.