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ramas

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Posted: 15 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: bee5
exactly all that feeling of bigness is gone from seeing Nakul as Nakul may very ell be abhi's mentor who made or making him feel so little so abhi has lost that place in his mind. Thai has nothing tio do with simi. Currently abhi is down with his insecurities and behaving such a wy. like I said before abhi feels simi is her addiction, obsession and prozed possession no one should touch. That is wht he sent theat reporter to wedding and played all his cards right. Abhi fell in love more so because RB wanted her and now he is thinking Nakul may want her. adn he can not loose simi. He said himself I am not afraid of any one and I am not going to loose you. But inside he jnows he hs nothing to offer right no and Nakul has everything he can offer to simi. That is wah tis kiling abhi inside and we see a compleltelu new totally vulnerable totally insecure Abhi.

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Laila Banu

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Posted: 15 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: ramas
it is more realsitic and that is how they want it ot be with little daramatization to attract viewers.
thier strategy one day take viewers on the top and then shock them to death next day. . Abhi is no ram and simi is no sita they are 2 characters with their flaws what ever we call them.

They are attracted because they are some what similar with good hearts. Simi needed a support her knight and abhi needed to help some one and they are thrown together.

Abhi intially pitied her and felt sympaty for her while simi liked him because she can talk to him whenevr she is sad and abhi would listen to her and try to help her and the whole thing grew in love. But it is a kiddie love which will take time to grow into a mature relation till then they will go thru lots of such big little quarrels. and we need you. so just hang in there dear.

Ramas, there is nothing realistic about this show - it's an Indian drama for starters. I don't even mind the up and downs, it is the whole direction and take of these characters.

Thanks for trying to encourage us to hang in there - you are forever the optimist. I have to say you have done a far better job with these characters then the creative team. I would have rather watched your KB version then theirs. Please don't disappoint us with your next offering otherwise some of us will really heart broken. 😳

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Laila Banu

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Posted: 15 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: bee5

Ramas,
agreed they are no Ram-Sita and they have their flaws .. yes, I wouldn't want to see Ramayan again and I thought this serial is about real people and real problems ... not going to the extremities of the real problem...or over dramatization of the real problems....
I seriously can't digest how and when Abhi fell in love with Simi ... yes, Simi is not a usual person Abhi would meet /met in the past , but its not the 1st time for him to talk to a older girl then how and when and why did he get attracted and fell in love?
Separately these 2 are good-at-heart kind of people ... but that is not enough for someone to fall in love with that too if the person happens to be 10 yrs older .........

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Well said Bee, I agree with you that the way Abhi and Simi fell in love was very poorly done. We, my friends and I, are discussing the show and we all agree, there is nothing that makes sense as to what attracted Abhi to Simi. A glance at her at the mandir is not enough upon which to build a relationship or explain why a 22 year old would fall for a 30 year old plain Jane (overweight girl who has been rejected multiple times).

Like you said, these are two nice people but that's not enough to explain what would make them click. In the beginning the show was doing a good job building their relationship and I hoped that they would have more Abhi and Simi scenes to help move the story forward.

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ramas

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Posted: 15 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: Laiila2009
Ramas, there is nothing realistic about this show - it's an Indian drama for starters. I don't even mind the up and downs, it is the whole direction and take of these characters.

Thanks for trying to encourage us to hang in there - you are forever the optimist. I have to say you have done a far better job with these characters then the creative team. I would have rather watched your KB version then theirs. Please don't disappoint us with your next offering otherwise some of us will really heart broken. 😳

lailla my version will keep you own toes but with goodness in hiuman beings I mean most chracters. Infact next update is a biggest surprise to all it willl be abhi's confession I can not say anything more then that and I try my best to not to disappoint.. But my version of simi is a modern woman she may consider her man her huby a devta but on ocassion she won't mind slapping him if the time and place requires it. out of her love for him.

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ramas

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Posted: 15 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: bee5

So, wouldn't that make Abhi totally a Mr. wrong for Simi? A relation cannot sustain if 'ego' is the basis for the relation!
We are coming back to yesterday's discussion of a diff thread....

No it won't as the love and attraction will bring them together. By now they are already madly in love. That is why abhi has forgotten simi is older and over weight and all except today, And waht he said he truely did not mean that. Today's abhi was or is not a real abhi. I dont see anything wrong with abhi simi relations as i have seen such relations work. so why not give abhi simi a chance.

I mean if older man with younger woman works why not older woman and younger man going against the norms of the soceity I had 2 marriages in my family my brother 8years older than my bhabhi and my devar 10 years older than my devrani and all are happy so why not?

Why discriminate against older woman younger man marriige? and love conquers all.

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Laila Banu

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Posted: 15 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: bee5
Excellent points; again as the viewer why has Abhi fallen in love with Simi? As viewers we have not been given this informaiton.

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Laila Banu

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Posted: 15 years ago

#27

Ramas wrote:

exactly all that feeling of bigness is gone from seeing Nakul as Nakul may very ell be abhi's mentor who made or making him feel so little so abhi has lost that place in his mind. Thai has nothing tio do with simi. Currently abhi is down with his insecurities and behaving such a wy. like I said before abhi feels simi is her addiction, obsession and prozed possession no one should touch. That is wht he sent theat reporter to wedding and played all his cards right. Abhi fell in love more so because RB wanted her and now he is thinking Nakul may want her. adn he can not loose simi. He said himself I am not afraid of any one and I am not going to loose you. But inside he jnows he hs nothing to offer right no and Nakul has everything he can offer to simi. That is wah tis kiling abhi inside and we see a compleltelu new totally vulnerable totally insecure Abhi

Ramas, I appreciate your attempts to explain what's going on here, but this is the very approach that I despite. First the fact that Simi has become his addiciton and obession - it's a horrific move that I have said that makes Abhi pathetic and weak. Second, if the rationale is that Abhi wanted Simi because RB wanted her, and now Nakul, then it goes to show that the writers of the show know nothing about relationships or what forms the basis of them.

An insecure Abhi looks horrible.🤢

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bee5

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Posted: 15 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: ramas
No it won't as the love and attraction will bring them together. By now they are already madly in love. That is why abhi has forgotten simi is older and over weight and all except today, And waht he said he truely did not mean that. Today's abhi was or is not a real abhi. I dont see anything wrong with abhi simi relations as i have seen such relations work. so why not give abhi simi a chance.
I mean if older man with younger woman works why not older woman and younger man going against the norms of the soceity I had 2 marriages in my family my brother 8years older than my bhabhi and my devar 10 years older than my devrani and all are happy so why not?

Why discriminate against older woman younger man marriige? and love conquers all.

Ramas, I do agree that there are lot of real life examples and they are leading a happy life ... I would also want Simi to have Abhi .. I am not against it at all...This was the main reason why I started watching the show ...but the creatives are doing showing the part you are explaining ... like you are telling madly in love ... possessive ... what made Abhi think Simi is a (in ur words) "prized possession"??

Edited by bee5 - 15 years ago

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Shanti

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Posted: 15 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: bee5
Wow I was thinking on the same lines!!!😳 Abhi has become Mr . wrong now!!! But the Ego cannot be the factor of his change of nature I hope he can clarify it with Simi soon and get back with the good Abhi we all have seen

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sajibabe

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Posted: 15 years ago

#30

i am sorry don't want to offend the person who created this post,but i can't believe it some one from 21st century, has such a narrow & ageist mind. age is just a number it's the compatibility that matters most, in a long term relationship. yes simi is not attractive,but has a heart of gold & is very giving & that's why abhi was drawn towards her, as he never met some one so selfless & hence fell in love with her simple nature

not every guys goes for a thin stick sexy looking wannabe models,there are guys who would prefer simple girls like simi,then those party loving babes who change there boyfriends like there skirts. yes simi has insecurities thanx to her psycho,vile, bully mother ,but abhi understands that & it will be his love that will make her overcome those niggling doubts about her self,thanx to her mother who always criticised her on her weights,age & looks

this show is brilliant it's dealing with issues that have been brushed under the carpet before,love happens between a younger guy & elder woman all the time. also there are 2 types of guys, those who are only after one thing & the makers of this show have beautifully portrayed that element, in the neetu & that evil vicky story line. whilst on the other hand they are showing a sensible & genuinely in love guy like abhi, for whom compatibility & simplcity holds far more importantance, than how sexy his woman should look.

so for me this show is refreshing change, from all those boring saas bahu sagas, im just baffled that this type of stigma still exists in 21st century.it's ok for older guy to a romance a teenager,but when the man is younger it becomes an issue. just hope makers keep the show as realistic & simple as they have done so far. im loving it & so are many others

Edited by sajibabe - 15 years ago

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