Hey...Kash...! First of all...sorry for not replying earlier...it just slipped my mind...! 😕
What a bright and thoughtful analysis...! On a personal note...I think not the character Shaurya that should be toned down...but the dialogues, to make it a little bit less offensive and regressing for those who're disturbed by such languages...!
Me...I'm not taking it negatively...because, I'm hear to watch an intense love/hate story...and not, some boring lovey dovey one...! For me...Shaurya and Mehek are fictive characters...so, I'll just brush off all the negative vibes...and enjoy the show...!
I completely agree with you...it's too early a stage to tone down Shaurya character...! By doing so...not only the character will be ruined...but, the show also will lost it's real essence...!
As long as we don't get a flashback of Shaurya past...we can't say that his actions and behaviors are out of character...! There's is a story behind every person...! There's a reason why Shaurya is the way he is...! Everyone deals with unimaginable pain in their own way...and everyone is entitled to that without judgement...!
You're so right...Kash...! One becomes very chary and suspicious about anyone and of everything...when one goes through life feeling constantly used and cheated...and it does nothing, but make you bitter...! May be..Shaurya went through such situations in the past...which are hurting him from inside and which are still very much present...!
But...I'm ready to give these behaviors of Shaurya towards Mehek a miss and not condemn him...only if there's a genuine reason behind it...! I don't want him to turn out be a snobbish swine who has an offensive air of superiority...and tends to ignore, humiliate and disdain anyone regarded as inferior...!
Though...I didn't like the fact that Shaurya put Pammi and Mehek in the same basket...! After...that Delhi cooking fiasco...he keeps on calling Mehek a cheater...! From which angle is Mehek a cheater...? Wasn't it Shaurya himself who encouraged Mehek to take part in that competition...assuring her that she's doing nothing wrong, as she's only giving a helping hand...? If in the eyes of Shaurya...Mehek is a cheater...then, sorry Mr Shaurya Khanna...in my eyes, you're even a bigger cheater...as you've encouraged a cheater to cheat...!
Secondly...whatever, problems Shaurya has with middle-class people and their alike...it's un-acceptable and unjustifiable to make fun of a woman extra body weight...and that too coming from a man...! It's so insulting and humiliating for a woman...😕