Fatmagul Thread # 4 - Page 63

Originally posted by: angel_juhi04

I am posting sumthn abt Anise's suicide. I am not supporting suicide but wat she did was d reality of many women in loveless marriage. Anise was forcibly married to Fahrettin n was separated 4m her love. AnFa may have consummated n had a kid due to society's pressure. There is a show on Star Plus Jaana Na Dil Se Door where d heroine is forcibly married to another man in return of d lover's life who is d hero. D heroine is rude to d hero n his family or sumthn like dat as she can't love any other man apart 4m d hero. Who knows Anise's lover was also threatened to be killed. Also, its a rural Islamic society where love marriages r seen as wrong. Even Mukaddes once said dat wen she was a child, a woman was killed in her village for being pregnant out of wedlock. I am again saying dat I don't support Anise's suicide but d pain she was going is d pain hundreds of women go thru due to forced n loveless marriage. Its not easy to love any other man especially wen u r cruelly separated 4m ur love. Its not a desi show of our desh dat 2 people in loveless n forced marriage will have a happy ending. Dis show is showing d reality of d actual happening in d world. D last straw for Anise was her lover committing suicide judt cuz she got pregnant wid another man. She felt betrayed at his chauvinistic mind along wid feeling bad for his death. Many women like Anise go into depression due to such situation n don't get normal even after years. They either lose their mental balance or commit suicide. They r not able to cope wid their feelings even wen they a kid. So, wateva happened I don't think it to be either Anise or Fahrettin or even Meryem's fault for hiding d letter but d fault was of only Anise's family n society.

Originally posted by: angel_juhi04

FG was right in slapping Kerim. Wat d hell was he thinking before grabbing her? Still, I don't think he wud have raped her otherwise it will butcher his character n there will be no difference between him n E-S-V. I think he wud have stopped by himself even if she did not slapped him.

Originally posted by: shalu79

Agree with u that FG was right in slapping him. But from where did u get this vague idea that there can be even a possibility of rape attempt by Kerim on FG. I am not saying that he is right in what he did but I can understand his state of mind.

That scene is very heart breaking but at the same time very beautiful. Hopefully, zindagi wont mess with the translation.

N as shown in the precap he never said Mujhe tumare kareeb aane do.

Its was his desperate plea for love from FG.😳

PLS post original dialogues of SLAPGATE as soon as possible after the telecast.

So...when is/was the right time for Maryem to share Mummy's Mine Letter
*pun intended*

Kerim was barely six year old boy when the tragedy strikes his life.
He is taken under the wings of Sr.Maryem & Maryem. They claim to never read the letter for years to come.
By then Sr. Maryem dies, Maryem is too fragile to continue her life. No courage to share the letter.
Kerim is shown to be pre-teen by then.
Pre-teens are the most formative years in a lifetime. The value systems get their foundation based on which a super structures of a Kerim, Erdo, Meltem, FG ...infact anyone is built.
If the letter had reached then...the confused kid would have run away from to end up in a juvenile rehab(if that existed )...else drifted...either good or bad.

Couple of years later, Kerim is a teenager, raring to take on life, rebel without a cause, more of hormones than a head! (Apologies to any teens out here). He would understood the letter half baked more to his convenience ...a begin to be misogynist. Now these complexities are difficult to shake off...unlike its mindless desi drama like an ASR. Kerim would rather use his energies having a good education, military service, have a fling with Kristine etc.

Now Kerim is 26 years old. He is much beaten after the rape incident, unplanned marriage & adversities in life. He is in a better position to understand the complex realities, relativities etc since he is already living in one such world.
There would have been no other timing than this age/phase of Kerim's life...IF this "mine " had to be stepped. Else it was easier Maryem to play mine sweeper & move it to next level.
On the hind sight...MQ triggered this unwanted mine sweep play...by hastily writing to a dad with assets.
Lets believe...whatever happens...happens for the best.
Deg F arrives for redemption
Maryem & Kadir get closer
Kerim to realize Maryem's intentions
Kerim & FG play another lets learn to love
MQ should realize...all have their fair of problems
And Finally Kerim its a classic case of.lost n found !!

And waiting for exploding acting from the cast
*selfish viewer*sucker for drama and grey shades*

Originally posted by: NavyaKavya30

It breaks my heart to watch Kerim in this condition *sigh* and I don't think I have the heart to watch him ' sort of ' force himself on her so I am going to skip first 10 minutes of the epi 😭

How come dat kameena buddha easily removed Kerim 4m d job? He told him in an indirect way dat he is fired nas he left he told others to not let him even stand here if he comes again. Really felt bad for him. Ghalib wud have never removed him like dat had he been alive.

Originally posted by: angel_juhi04

I am posting sumthn abt Anise's suicide. I am not supporting suicide but wat she did was d reality of many women in loveless marriage. Anise was forcibly married to Fahrettin n was separated 4m her love. AnFa may have consummated n had a kid due to society's pressure. There is a show on Star Plus Jaana Na Dil Se Door where d heroine is forcibly married to another man in return of d lover's life who is d hero. D heroine is rude to d hero n his family or sumthn like dat as she can't love any other man apart 4m d hero. Who knows Anise's lover was also threatened to be killed. Also, its a rural Islamic society where love marriages r seen as wrong. Even Mukaddes once said dat wen she was a child, a woman was killed in her village for being pregnant out of wedlock. I am again saying dat I don't support Anise's suicide but d pain she was going is d pain hundreds of women go thru due to forced n loveless marriage. Its not easy to love any other man especially wen u r cruelly separated 4m ur love. Its not a desi show of our desh dat 2 people in loveless n forced marriage will have a happy ending. Dis show is showing d reality of d actual happening in d world. D last straw for Anise was her lover committing suicide judt cuz she got pregnant wid another man. She felt betrayed at his chauvinistic mind along wid feeling bad for his death. Many women like Anise go into depression due to such situation n don't get normal even after years. They either lose their mental balance or commit suicide. They r not able to cope wid their feelings even wen they a kid. So, wateva happened I don't think it to be either Anise or Fahrettin or even Meryem's fault for hiding d letter but d fault was of only Anise's family n society.