The inexplicable pull of Zindagi Gulzar Hai - Page 59

Originally posted by: .Hajmola.

The ladies of ZGH with Mahira

all the ladies look lovely. sanam is too simply dressed. the dark shade of lipstick suits MK, gorgeous and I love that bag of hers. 😳

Sundas!! 😆 That I have noticed too. ☺️ You know I soo feel lyk keeping a hand on Zaroon's chest and feel his heart thudding in the ribcage.. Dhak Dhak! ❤️

In Badin, when Z meets K again he muses "she is changed", what exactly did he mean here?In the novel when Z meets K again and also felt the same, it was implied that he thought so coz there were some changes in her appearance and dressing(he noticed that she didn't cover her hair) looked straight in his eyes and saw her smiling for the first time in the party(that's where they meet in the book)but the drama version of K was always like that even in college. I didn't really get this part in the show.

Originally posted by: -Symphony-

In Badin, when Z meets K again he muses "she is changed", what exactly did he mean here?In the novel when Z meets K again and also felt the same, it was implied that he thought so coz there were some changes in her appearance and dressing(he noticed that she didn't cover her hair) looked straight in his eyes and saw her smiling for the first time in the party(that's where they meet in the book)but the drama version of K was always like that even in college. I didn't really get this part in the show.

I also think sometimes the same things are viewed differently based on maturity and experience. I feel the changes were more in Zaroon's thinking than Kashaf herself. Hence it was Zaroon who started looking at Kashaf differently. Like about dropping her home...her behavior in college made him furious. But in Badin when she again refused to take lift from him..he laughed at it and didnt mind it. Rather he appreciated that her habits of not staying out till late etc hadnt changed.

Originally posted by: .Hajmola.

I also think sometimes the same things are viewed differently based on maturity and experience. I feel the changes were more in Zaroon's thinking than Kashaf herself. Hence it was Zaroon who started looking at Kashaf differently. Like about dropping her home...her behavior in college made him furious. But in Badin when she again refused to take lift from him..he laughed at it and didnt mind it. Rather he appreciated that her habits of not staying out till late etc hadnt changed.

Originally posted by: .Hajmola.

I have wondered the same too. I think he meant she has turned into a strong and confident woman. When he was in Badin he kinda took the back seat while Kashaf planned everything and led the delegation. At one point he comes to sit in the front seat beside the driver but he finds Kashaf has already taken the place. Zaroon played the task of escorting the guests...he took a backseat and spent the time observing her.

This was different from the Kashaf who was out rightly rude to him from the start in college. She was now capable to putting up a professional veneer. Plus she was more sure in her ways.

Originally posted by: .Hajmola.

I also think sometimes the same things are viewed differently based on maturity and experience. I feel the changes were more in Zaroon's thinking than Kashaf herself. Hence it was Zaroon who started looking at Kashaf differently. Like about dropping her home...her behavior in college made him furious. But in Badin when she again refused to take lift from him..he laughed at it and didnt mind it. Rather he appreciated that her habits of not staying out till late etc hadnt changed.

Originally posted by: Neerjaa

Something best about ZGH was that it showed that with passing of time people do change in their thinking . Zaroon got more matured but remained the same determined person . He learnt from Sara,s mistakes in her married life .

Originally posted by: -Symphony-

Yeah he indeed was more mature by then.I think his experience with Asmara brought some clarity in his mind regarding the kind of person he wanted in his life.I feel this refusal to take lift thingi has been pivotal in their love story.If I remember correctly Zaroon did smile the 1^st time itself when she refused his lift in the college.This is the point I feel he subconsciously started admiring her.He ofcourse got furious the next time around and they had a huge fight but that fight led to some introspection from his side and for the 1^st time he questioned himself asto whether this girl specifically had problem going with HIM. And ofcourse in Badin which u mentioned, the final blow IMO, it was like a point of no return from there on.

The bold in blue: Thats true...I think at that point Zaroon really started admiring her...from that point on he became the hunted than the hunter. 😆
The next time he was furious but to be fair he had genuine reasons. When he dropped off Asmara and Kashaf got off from the car and refused to come with him...he was really concerned for her safety which she was risking due to her own stupidity. At that point there was no intention to impress her...only to see her back home safe. Though yes his initial intention for offering lift to Kashaf was to implement his patao Kashaf plan.
Badin refusal was final blow...as you said earlier the way he looks at her when she leaves...it was as if he had decided then that this is the woman he wants to spend the rest of his life with.