The inexplicable pull of Zindagi Gulzar Hai - Page 44

Originally posted by: khamosshhh

Agree with you. I suppose consciously he didn't think abt son-daughter as such, but guess sub-consciously as u said abt indulging in 'boy stuffs' he wanted a son. But as Kashaf said he never let her feel ehsaas-e-kampti for having daughters and even he mentioned how happy he was to hv a complete family, nd so he never had an urge to hv a boy to make his family complete.👏👏👏

Yup for all the boy stuff fathers do with their sons like playing cricket etc. Just like mothers do girl stuff with daughters like dressing up. 😆
Having two kids I guess was shown as Zaroon's decision...Kashaf expected that like her mother she would have to keep trying to have sons.

Originally posted by: .Hajmola.

Yup for all the boy stuff fathers do with their sons like playing cricket etc. Just like mothers do girl stuff with daughters like dressing up. 😆
Having two kids I guess was shown as Zaroon's decision...Kashaf expected that like her mother she would have to keep trying to have sons.

Haan true dat. It does seem dat it was Zaroon who was happy with 2 kids.

BTW u now in my case it's d other way round. It's I who used to play cricket with my son and am such a bad mother to my daughter as I just can't do all these girly stuffs with her nd no wonder she's such a tomboy.😳😆

^^^Dont call yourself a bad mother. You are teaching your daughter she is no different than any boy. 👏

Munira Di, 🤣🤣 Agar aisa hota toh Zaroon wud have called her for a towel! 😉 Kashaf Sahiba haath badhati towel ke liye toh Zaroon unhe andar kheech leta! Phir wud have started all the bathroom romance crap! Yuckkk!! 🤢 Aur Di.. Dont call urself a bad mother! I too cant do all the girly stuff, So I may end up end up doing sumthing weird!! 😆 Or show my Kids, Zindagi Gulzar Hai and series of Fawad Khan! Hayee.. I wud tell them that he cud be ur Pappa! 🤣🤣 And regarding Zaroon, I think he never had any preferance in the matter of kids! All he wanted were healthy kids who wud fill his home wid happiness and make his Zindagi Gulzar!! ⭐️

Originally posted by: khamosshhh

Haan true dat. It does seem dat it was Zaroon who was happy with 2 kids.

BTW u now in my case it's d other way round. It's I who used to play cricket with my son and am such a bad mother to my daughter as I just can't do all these girly stuffs with her nd no wonder she's such a tomboy.😳😆

Originally posted by: Bubbly_Shanaya

Munira Di, 🤣🤣 Agar aisa hota toh Zaroon wud have called her for a towel! 😉 Kashaf Sahiba haath badhati towel ke liye toh Zaroon unhe andar kheech leta! Phir wud have started all the bathroom romance crap! Yuckkk!! 🤢 Aur Di.. Dont call urself a bad mother! I too cant do all the girly stuff, So I may end up end up doing sumthing weird!! 😆 Or show my Kids, Zindagi Gulzar Hai and series of Fawad Khan! Hayee.. I wud tell them that he cud be ur Pappa! 🤣🤣 And regarding Zaroon, I think he never had any preferance in the matter of kids! All he wanted were healthy kids who wud fill his home wid happiness and make his Zindagi Gulzar!! ⭐️

Originally posted by: Neerjaa

Munira you are not alone .i used to play cricket and all kind of stuff like climbing the tree and then pick the Jamun for the other children also . I do not think that Zaroon wanted a son ,,he seems to be ok with any gender ,yes he is perfect one to spoil the girls and Now Poor Kashaf is running after all three of them .

Hahaha. We r sailing in d same boat.

U know guys I called myself a bad mother dat's coz when my daughter is with her female cousins dey really play all those girly stuffs nd she enjoys those too and knowing my daughter I wont be surprised if in a few years time she starts questioning me on Y I couldn't hv been more feminine and played girly stuffs with her!😆😆 She's one independent minded and outspoken female nd no ways I can get away from avoiding her questions d way I do with my son.😆

Aur poor Kashaf kuch nahin. Madam is enjoying from far d joys of parenthood and Zaroon is beinjg the hands-on parent.😆

Originally posted by: khamosshhh

Hahaha. We r sailing in d same boat.

U know guys I called myself a bad mother dat's coz when my daughter is with her female cousins dey really play all those girly stuffs nd she enjoys those too and knowing my daughter I wont be surprised if in a few years time she starts questioning me on Y I couldn't hv been more feminine and played girly stuffs with her!😆😆 She's one independent minded and outspoken female nd no ways I can get away from avoiding her questions d way I do with my son.😆

Aur poor Kashaf kuch nahin. Madam is enjoying from far d joys of parenthood and Zaroon is beinjg the hands-on parent.😆

Hewre agree with you as Zaroon told Kashaf earlier that he will take care of the kids and he is now domsiticated husband and also told Kashaf that he is scared of her . God they must be leading adventerous life where none of them is less and both head strong . This spice must be keeping their journey full of blossoms .

I think, If I had to write the story of Zindagi Gulzar Hai after a few years.. Then it wud be Zaroon spoiling his "Jaan's" Or Daughters to a pulp and Kashaf wud be running after them lyk the Strict Matron. Then As I am the writer, I wud've included myself too! 😉 As In a New addition to Zaroon's Office.. Wudnt have demanded any love from him but wud still keep loving him! 😳 If I talk abt me, I too havent been very girly girly from my childhood. Yes, I had a craze for Barbies but I never had this habbit of dressing up and stuff. Mainly cuz Im the only daughter of my parents, and my father being from Defence have never been biased towards Girls or Boys. I've been loved and pampered equally but still had grown up as a strong individual female cuz My Father never considered me less than his son.. And my parents have never ever tried for a boy after my birth. Im their one and only.. Also shayad being frm Defence Background, I hate these girly stuffs of dressing up, makeup, gossip etc.. 😊 Tomboyish Alwys!!

Now having watched quite a few Pak dramas, must say ZGH did not have many typical scenarios like other dramas tend to have.

It does not hv the typical cousins being paired nd I for 1 don't actually have any issues coz it's permitted in my religion and my parents themselves are cousins, but in most drama dis is shown and it gets repetitive.

Also dey have not shown the leads getting divorced or re-married or taking second wives. Of course dey show Kashaf's father having 2 wives, but that was I suppose the curx of the way the character Kashaf was shown, so very much essential.

There is no love triangle, which is a pretty common occurrence in otehr dramas . Zaroon-Asmara relationship was very much independent of Zaroon-Kashaf and it was never a Kashaf-Zarron-Asmara kind of triangle. Even when Asmara supposedly comes between Zaroon and Kashaf, it was nothing more than misconception on Kashaf's part and misunderstanding, than there being something between Zaroon and Asmara.