The inexplicable pull of Zindagi Gulzar Hai - Page 31

Originally posted by: khamosshhh

IMO both he and Kashaf stretched the whole Osama proposal beyond it's expiry date😆 and Zaroon had started to realize tht is was such a trivial issue to begin with, but he had no graceful way to exit, as Kashaf wasn't d one to give him an easy way out. Do u realize tht actually finally neither Kashaf nor Zaroon apologized or made attempt to end teh issue and it was never really resolved.😆

Originally posted by: RockChicGirl

Yes if anything else his dad made him realize he was being ridiculous...but bechara couldnt find a way to patch up. He attempted it thru the lunch but got pissed off. 😆

Not apologizing...I think thats the beauty of their patch ups. In both their major fights none of apologizes to the other. They just break the ice and make up. Thats because they are missing each other so much that apology or ego doesnt matter once the ice is broken.

I think Zaroon only apologizes for the university incident couple of times.

Yeah when I saw it the first time and it got over, I was like oh but they have not resolved so many issues as we r so used to everything getting resolved in dramas and things ending neatly, howeevr illogical it maybe. But in ZGH tht was not the case. Importance is shown of the relationship and how both of them value it so much to let go of trivial issues and latching onto what is significant and tht's their marriage, their children, their family and their love. 😳

thanks khamosshhh ! for appreciating it . many times i have felt that after i had watched a scene twice in zgh it reveals a different meaning as if there are hidden layers in the spoken words between the characters 😆. zaroon's astute guess about kashaf 's sudden' off mood '. due to his mom's apprehensions and his subsequent handling of it by apologizing to kashaf was so cute ! zaroon was clever in extracting the info from osama 😆 but his childishness in making it such an issue was displayed in the coming scenes ...kashaf was not wrong but she was adamant in not bowing before him both were stubborn yet the meaningless fight was becoming unbearable to both of them especially to zaroon kashaf as usual was more composed and calm in this entire issue 😆 her ref to writing a book upon zaroon's stupidities was bang on ! even the confrontation scenes of kashaf and zaroon were hinting at their love and desperation for each other ! . the entire love story was subtle, not ott, genuine and a treat to watch !

Originally posted by: mm250314

thanks khamosshhh ! for appreciating it . many times i have felt that after i had watched a scene twice in zgh it reveals a different meaning as if there are hidden layers in the spoken words between the characters 😆. zaroon's astute guess about kashaf 's sudden' off mood '. due to his mom's apprehensions and his subsequent handling of it by apologizing to kashaf was so cute ! zaroon was clever in extracting the info from osama 😆 but his childishness in making it such an issue was displayed in the coming scenes ...kashaf was not wrong but she was adamant in not bowing before him both were stubborn yet the meaningless fight was becoming unbearable to both of them especially to zaroon kashaf as usual was more composed and calm in this entire issue 😆 her ref to writing a book upon zaroon's stupidities was bang on ! even the confrontation scenes of kashaf and zaroon were hinting at their love and desperation for each other ! . the entire love story was subtle, not ott, genuine and a treat to watch !

Yeah the subtlety and implications, instead of blurting everything out aloud, is beautifully shown between Zaroon and Kashaf. Her very musings in her diary abt all those little actions tht Zaroon does for her and her family shows how in reality too, it's not words tht make a relationship work, but tht care and attention one gives tht goes a long way in strengthening ties, especially spousal ones.

IMO, Both Zaroon-Kashaf stretched the Osama thingy wayy much than necessary. Acc to me, Zaroon was wrong being the all time Sariyal in this whole issue. And Kashaf too was wrong when she told abt the fight to Sir Abraar. Cuz Osama was just an option for Kashaf. She just considered him as a good frnd, and later on when he got married she blew him out cumpletly. Even If It was me, I wud have done the same thing. Why bother abt the options when I chose him. And it doesnt matter anyways! I agree she shud hve told him but then It really didnt need Zaroon to be that Hyper and go around being a child. Regarding Kashaf, I think it wasnt right on her part to discuss her fight wid Zaroon. I think, its best to keep sumthings between 2 ppl only. I agree there shud be transperancy between two ppl in a relationship lyk marriage but Zaroon shudnt make such a fuss abt petty things. Even he had a broken engagement wid Asmara but Kashaf didnt make such a fuss abt it. And I dont think she eva questioned him abt the reasons.

Originally posted by: Bubbly_Shanaya

IMO, Both Zaroon-Kashaf stretched the Osama thingy wayy much than necessary. Acc to me, Zaroon was wrong being the all time Sariyal in this whole issue. And Kashaf too was wrong when she told abt the fight to Sir Abraar. Cuz Osama was just an option for Kashaf. She just considered him as a good frnd, and later on when he got married she blew him out cumpletly. Even If It was me, I wud have done the same thing. Why bother abt the options when I chose him. And it doesnt matter anyways! I agree she shud hve told him but then It really didnt need Zaroon to be that Hyper and go around being a child. Regarding Kashaf, I think it wasnt right on her part to discuss her fight wid Zaroon. I think, its best to keep sumthings between 2 ppl only. I agree there shud be transperancy between two ppl in a relationship lyk marriage but Zaroon shudnt make such a fuss abt petty things. Even he had a broken engagement wid Asmara but Kashaf didnt make such a fuss abt it. And I dont think she eva questioned him abt the reasons.

You know Kashaf telling Sir Abrar abt her fight with Zaroon did not go down well with me either, but I can still justify her actions. It wasn't tht she deliberately called to tell sir Abrar abt Zaroon. Also she saw sir abrar as a father figure and knew he was fond of Zaroon and he was actually the only common link between zaroon and kashaf, who knew both of dem. So yes Kasahf shouldn't hv told him, but at least Sir Abrar was equally important to both of them.

But U know what I can't justify is Zaroon telling Asmara tht he had made a mistake in marrying Kashaf. Now I really wish dey had not shown dat, coz Asmara was after all someone who was engaged to Zaroon and used to dislike Kashaf. The only redeemable thing was dat Asmara herslef told Zaroon tht he was wrong! If Zaroon wld hv told his sister I too wld hv understood, but Asmara was a big let down.

I agree wid you Di.. But still I feel that Kashaf shudnt have told Sir Abraar abt it. Afterall, Its their personal life. And you this is the thing which have been running in my mind since a few days! If Zaroon wud have told Sara abt it then it wud have been OK! But Asmara was, his ex fiance and dislyked Kashaf. But It was nyc of her to advice Zaroon. It shows that, She has also got sum brains over tym. 😆

Originally posted by: khamosshhh

You know Kashaf telling Sir Abrar abt her fight with Zaroon did not go down well with me either, but I can still justify her actions. It wasn't tht she deliberately called to tell sir Abrar abt Zaroon. Also she saw sir abrar as a father figure and knew he was fond of Zaroon and he was actually the only common link between zaroon and kashaf, who knew both of dem. So yes Kasahf shouldn't hv told him, but at least Sir Abrar was equally important to both of them.

But U know what I can't justify is Zaroon telling Asmara tht he had made a mistake in marrying Kashaf. Now I really wish dey had not shown dat, coz Asmara was after all someone who was engaged to Zaroon and used to dislike Kashaf. The only redeemable thing was dat Asmara herslef told Zaroon tht he was wrong! If Zaroon wld hv told his sister I too wld hv understood, but Asmara was a big let down.

I can see why he did that...the fight happened because he met her. Plus when you are down you need someone speak with. Because of the rules of their relationship Zaroon wasnt able to discuss it with anyone else. I am not saying what he did was right...just that I can see why he did...what he did. As for Asmara I dont think she really changed. She was gloating that Zaroon and Kashaf were having trouble. And as soon as Zaroon took Kashaf's side she got irritated like always.
Couple of more things about Asmara-Zaroon-When they break up I found it weird that Zaroon chup chap heard her without answering...not like him.
Also why was Asmara so eager to rekindle her friendship with Zaroon. She seems always interested in men who isnt her husband/fiancee. 😡

To be fair to Zaroon he tried many times to catch Kashaf's eye and patch up...if only she had budged an inch. 😆

Originally posted by: RockChicGirl

I can see why he did that...the fight happened because he met her. Plus when you are down you need someone speak with. Because of the rules of their relationship Zaroon wasnt able to discuss it with anyone else. I am not saying what he did was right...just that I can see why he did...what he did. As for Asmara I dont think she really changed. She was gloating that Zaroon and Kashaf were having trouble. And as soon as Zaroon took Kashaf's side she got irritated like always.
Couple of more things about Asmara-Zaroon-When they break up I found it weird that Zaroon chup chap heard her without answering...not like him.
Also why was Asmara so eager to rekindle her friendship with Zaroon. She seems always interested in men who isnt her husband/fiancee. 😡

OK i see what u r getting at, but u know I found it demeaning to their relationship whn d husband goes nd tells a 3rd person, tht too someone he was once engaged too and did not part in d most amicable terms, and knows tht she does not like his wife, tht he made a wrong decision by marrying Kashaf and den he sd something more too. Now Kashaf was wrong too in telling Sir Abrara abt their fight, but she didn't say things abt regretting marrying him or something to dat extend. I find both of dem wrong, but I find Zaroon more so, just coz of whom he revealed to and the extent he went to.😆