The inexplicable pull of Zindagi Gulzar Hai - Page 30

[QUOTE=RockChicGirl]Zaroon making an issue out of Kashaf receiving Osama's proposal was ridiculous. But dont you think he had a point that Kashaf should have told him atleast about Osama's proposal. Afterall Osama was his best friend and he was probably embarrassed that his wife never told him that he had proposed to Kashaf. [/QUOTE/]

Originally posted by: RockChicGirl

Zaroon making an issue out of Kashaf receiving Osama's proposal was ridiculous. But dont you think he had a point that Kashaf should have told him atleast about Osama's proposal. Afterall Osama was his best friend and he was probably embarrassed that his wife never told him that he had proposed to Kashaf.

I think it never would have croossed inKashaf,s mind that its such a big issue . Zaroon is just behaving like a spoilt brat . Then when talking to himself that she should have apologized to me after all i am her shauhar . Poor chap is so happy with this Shauhar tag .Can not help laughing at Zaroon and his antics but he is just yearning for Kashaf,s attention .Her Izhar e dil .😆 Is it right word ? Now these dramas have made me speak so many urdu words .

Originally posted by: RockChicGirl

Zaroon making an issue out of Kashaf receiving Osama's proposal was ridiculous. But dont you think he had a point that Kashaf should have told him atleast about Osama's proposal. Afterall Osama was his best friend and he was probably embarrassed that his wife never told him that he had proposed to Kashaf.

Shreya ab poocha hai toh get ready for my rant.😉😆

I think it never crossewd Kashaf's mind to mention Osama's proposal to Zaroon. Poor guy (Osama) had no ehmiyat (Neerja I m in d same boat as u as far as using urdu words are concerned😉) in Kashaf's thoughts. It's not tht she deliberately kept this a secret from Zaroon. And u know dis kind of thing happens with me a too and I always end up fighting with my husband coz he accuses me based on his assumptions and not my intentions. I too tell him it's your thinking and den usually he realizes tht it's not my actions, but his assumptions tht were wrong.

Also here I find more Zaroon's fault coz he keeps changing his stance. First he tells Kashaf he's upset coz Osama had proposed to her nd he didn't knw abt it. Later he says he's angry not abt the proposal, but coz Kashaf informed Sir Abrar abt the fight and still later from waht he tells his dad, it seems he's upset tht other than himself, there were others too who wanted to marry Kashaf.

Originally posted by: khamosshhh

Shreya ab poocha hai toh get ready for my rant.😉😆

I think it never crossewd Kashaf's mind to mention Osama's proposal to Zaroon. Poor guy (Osama) had no ehmiyat (Neerja I m in d same boat as u as far as using urdu words are concerned😉) in Kashaf's thoughts. It's not tht she deliberately kept this a secret from Zaroon. And u know dis kind of thing happens with me a too and I always end up fighting with my husband coz he accuses me based on his assumptions and not my intentions. I too tell him it's your thinking and den usually he realizes tht it's not my actions, but his assumptions tht were wrong.

Also here I find more Zaroon's fault coz he keeps changing his stance. First he tells Kashaf he's upset coz Osama had proposed to her nd he didn't knw abt it. Later he says he's angry not abt the proposal, but coz Kashaf informed Sir Abrar abt the fight and still later from waht he tells his dad, it seems he's upset tht other than himself, there were others too who wanted to marry Kashaf.

this is my first post on this forum ! . i was in college when i had seen the drama dhoop kinare and it was so good ! ... quite by chance i had seen the movie khoobsurat and then zgh . ! ... zgh has been truly mesmerizing drama for me and today i had to write about it !. maybe i will watch and follow fawad's next one also on tv !. . i was really taken aback to see him as zaroon - fawad was so natural, effortless and totally into his character ...i had seen the movie khoobsurat and the role was totally suited for fawad ... but .here in zgh he is so different yet so perfect in his acting and moreover he possesses a superstar like persona ...one just cannot ignore him and watch other characters when he appears on the screen ..of course sanam was also excellent in her acting ... the chemistry of both the leads has been magical and real at the same time . ...though kashaf was highly pessimistic and negative nowhere the negativity of the girl engulfs the viewers- on the other hand her every bitter lament is outsmarted by her mom ,sister and also zaroon, zaroon is so large hearted and full of life that it becomes clear that kasahaf needed only zaroon in her life to complete her and to address her complexes by giving a final burial to her fears . kashaf had rightly rejected osama's proposal as the spark was totally missing in osama and kashaf's scenes ! he was the ever sensible guy and therefore totally unsuitable for her ! ..the title track enthuses hope and imparts a pleasantness to the whole drama . [ to be contd in the next post ! ]

Originally posted by: RockChicGirl

And dont forget later he calls it his stupidity. 😆I think one issue snowballed to another issue for Zaroon. He is overall a possessive guy...even more about Kashaf. It was possessiveness which manifested in multiple forms-from righteous anger at not knowing about the proposal to being upset over Abrar knowing about their fight to Kashaf not bothering to salve his ego. I do agree...for Kashaf that proposal wasnt even a big deal or important enough to be remembered or discussed. But I think at that moment Zaroon was embarassed that he didnt know about it. He shrewdly got it out of Osama...but Osama was expecting him to know already.

I like teh way u put it and yup totally agree. Poor fellow thought he was angry at Kashaf for all the right reasons, but Kashaf being Kashaf didn't gv him an inch and he ended up almost apologizing and finally admitting it was stupid on his part to hv fought over the Osama issue with Kashaf.

Originally posted by: khamosshhh

from waht he tells his dad, it seems he's upset tht other than himself, there were others too who wanted to marry Kashaf.

Originally posted by: mm250314

this is my first post on this forum ! . i was in college when i had seen the drama dhoop kinare and it was so good ! ... quite by chance i had seen the movie khoobsurat and then zgh . ! ... zgh has been truly mesmerizing drama for me and today i had to write about it !. maybe i will watch and follow fawad's next one also on tv !. . i was really taken aback to see him as zaroon - fawad was so natural, effortless and totally into his character ...i had seen the movie khoobsurat and the role was totally suited for fawad ... but .here in zgh he is so different yet so perfect in his acting and moreover he possesses a superstar like persona ...one just cannot ignore him and watch other characters when he appears on the screen ..of course sanam was also excellent in her acting ... the chemistry of both the leads has been magical and real at the same time . ...though kashaf was highly pessimistic and negative nowhere the negativity of the girl engulfs the viewers- on the other hand her every bitter lament is outsmarted by her mom ,sister and also zaroon, zaroon is so large hearted and full of life that it becomes clear that kasahaf needed only zaroon in her life to complete her and to address her complexes by giving a final burial to her fears . kashaf had rightly rejected osama's proposal as the spark was totally missing in osama and kashaf's scenes ! he was the ever sensible guy and therefore totally unsuitable for her ! ..the title track enthuses hope and imparts a pleasantness to the whole drama . [ to be contd in the next post ! ]

Hey welcome and very nicely put.😊👏👏

Waiting for ur next post.😆

Originally posted by: khamosshhh

I like teh way u put it and yup totally agree. Poor fellow thought he was angry at Kashaf for all the right reasons, but Kashaf being Kashaf didn't gv him an inch and he ended up almost apologizing and finally admitting it was stupid on his part to hv fought over the Osama issue with Kashaf.

Originally posted by: RockChicGirl

This part...Zaroon had stepped into the ridiculous. He even says he is demanding loyalty from his wife and equates getting proposed to disloyalty.

Yet when Zaroon had himself proposed to Kashaf and she asks him if he thinks he is the only one left for her he says 'No I admit...aur bhi log honge'. 😆

IMO both he and Kashaf stretched the whole Osama proposal beyond it's expiry date😆 and Zaroon had started to realize tht is was such a trivial issue to begin with, but he had no graceful way to exit, as Kashaf wasn't d one to give him an easy way out. Do u realize tht actually finally neither Kashaf nor Zaroon apologized or made attempt to end teh issue and it was never really resolved.😆