Humsafar Discussion Thread - Page 110

Originally posted by: harshu.sundas

i would add up some of my opinion.. i agree with the fact that Asher and Khirad had quite some issues regarding their marriage and because it was an arranged one, insecurities and possessiveness was there..

But who on earth would even dream that the mother can play cards like that ? ye sthey had issues, but that does not mean the marriage would break apart due to those issues, they were matured and they would handle it in their own ways just how they did it tonight in the phone convo.. it was not like they themselves created a reason for the insecurities, the reasons were planted by their own mother and manipulators, and only because their love was so so deep and passionate the mother took such a henious step to show her son all that he saw tonight, otherwise along with sara, they tried a lot to develop a status issue, education issue, or even mental compatiblity issue in Asher's thought process, but everything backfired as he was too much about khirad, he loved her so called gaon ga gorapan, her being from a middle class bg but still with mature thoughts, he loved her fashion sense despite that being not too much like his class, infact he even loved how they were a mismatch and still fell in love.. it was the assurance by his moves and him again and again that no such issues can make him abandon her made the mother and sara hit the nail in his self respect, ego, and moreover the blind faith he had on her innocence.. He loved her more because she had developed the faith in him that her love is the only truth and she can never sleep by lying to him, and when the same lady is caught with another man in a private place that too in that condition, a basic human reaction is what Asher gives..

so its just too wrong to say that they had issues and thus people took advantage, its more like they had issues which they had overcome with their love, and thus finding nothing else the mother chose this disgusting step and executed it..

Originally posted by: PyarayAfzal

'Milna' here means you can refuse to have sex with me as this is exactly what khirad did.

Originally posted by: RomAtHeart

I think possessiveness comes naturally with love, especially to the male. In fact, a man is emotionally much weaker than a woman. If he loves you, you become his greatest strength as well as the greatest weakness. That's what was the case with Ashar.

Talking about their relation, I think they were still really afresh in their marraige. They had fallen in love, yes. But things like trust and communication are built over time. Right now, they were delicate, still exploring each other, still learning the dynamics of the marriage. And in a time as such, with cruel people ganging up against you, inclusive of your own mother, it's almost impossible to withstand.

Originally posted by: BlackStar.

Wow, men have some messed up ego, for once the girl prefers doing her work over you, you ignore her all day and don't even apologize to her instead you choose to ignore her and she apologizesThis isn't just the case with Asher but many men.