Originally posted by: suryavni
In addition to my earlier post on surrogacy I would like to put light on to a rather conveniently ignored fact...
A surrogate goes through a simple procedure of implantation and in the ensuing month a hormonal balancing takes place in her body to sustain the foetus within her womb and she is very well capable and rightfully capable of demanding a no pain / minimum pain delivery... whether it is surgical or natural.
But what about the medical procedures the donor mother is subjected to...?
They are not extracting her single egg from the monthly ovulation cycle...
In ART or assisted reproductive technique..
The donor mother is subjected to super / hyper ovulation...
As ladies we know how we feel during ovulation..this is 100 times that distress..and use of pain relievers are not recommended.
Moreover she is taking hormonal pills to produce the required 10-15 eggs instead of the normal one and that is enough to imbalance the hormonal activities in the donor mom...
People who take Mishty''s plight with silliness do need to account this too...even it is not shown on the series yeh rishte kuhuness ke...
She is as much entitled to hormonal outbursts as Kuhu is being given lenience to...
But she is keeping her sanity even when psychological abuse and menial work are added to her tolerance...
Of course any one can say why she should tolerate Kuhu...?
Just as I saw someone commenting Mishty should have informed Kuhu beforehand that she had prepared milkshake for her ...!
Kuhuness is real...her self respect and self preservation is real but for life she can't get or make herself a milkshake...??
The pain of a donor mom is as real as the surrogate... whether the surrogate torture herself every moment thinking the donor mom is happy that's upto her....
I am appalled at the writers who wouldn't even try to check simple facts before writing...if it's a common saas bahu ,fantasy, paranormal thing they could have used their wild imagination...
But surrogacy...??
Belittling the biological parents..
Misrepresentation of facts...
Even I would check before using a particular word in particular context in my FF...🤷
And they get paid for this thrash..!!??