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Posted: 4 years ago
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Indeed surrogacy is a beautiful thing provided who becomes the surrogate....so choose wisely live well 😃


Mishbir ne toh nahi ki wise choice hopefully aam janta will learn their lesson !

Also approach proper legal and medical experts before deciding on such complex decisions of life , tv show ko apna benchmark na banaye cuz this show focuses on everything that is not supposed to be done in complex situations 👎🏼


PS: one more lesson , meethi meethi bholi bhaali baton mein na phasein, keep your eyes and ears much open and brain working always...satark rahein, savdhan rahein

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Onyourface

Indeed surrogacy is a beautiful thing provided who becomes the surrogate....so choose wisely live well 😃


Mishbir ne toh nahi ki wise choice hopefully aam janta will learn their lesson !

Also approach proper legal and medical experts before deciding on such complex decisions of life , tv show ko apna benchmark na banaye cuz this show focuses on everything that is not supposed to be done in complex situations 👎🏼


PS: one more lesson , meethi meethi bholi bhaali baton mein na phasein, keep your eyes and ears much open and brain working always...satark rahein, savdhan rahein

satark rahein, savdhan rahein aur corona se bachkar rahein 😳

kitne kanjoos hai na, ITV ke families- experts se counselling lene ke liye itna sochte hai 🤣


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dvanshi123


But according to kuhu she is mishti's apni as she keeps on repeating it in every episode

yes, it’s is true that She is Mishti’s apni... but the question is - what is Mishti to her? Can she answer the question?
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: abhilashasharma

satark rahein, savdhan rahein aur corona se bachkar rahein 😳

kitne kanjoos hai na, ITV ke families- experts se counselling lene ke liye itna sochte hai 🤣



Correction abby , counselling ka sochte kab hai 🤣🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago
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In addition to my earlier post on surrogacy I would like to put light on to a rather conveniently ignored fact...

A surrogate goes through a simple procedure of implantation and in the ensuing month a hormonal balancing takes place in her body to sustain the foetus within her womb and she is very well capable and rightfully capable of demanding a no pain / minimum pain delivery... whether it is surgical or natural.

But what about the medical procedures the donor mother is subjected to...?

They are not extracting her single egg from the monthly ovulation cycle...

In ART or assisted reproductive technique..

The donor mother is subjected to super / hyper ovulation...

As ladies we know how we feel during ovulation..this is 100 times that distress..and use of pain relievers are not recommended.

Moreover she is taking hormonal pills to produce the required 10-15 eggs instead of the normal one and that is enough to imbalance the hormonal activities in the donor mom...

People who take Mishty''s plight with silliness do need to account this too...even it is not shown on the series yeh rishte kuhuness ke...

She is as much entitled to hormonal outbursts as Kuhu is being given lenience to...

But she is keeping her sanity even when psychological abuse and menial work are added to her tolerance...

Of course any one can say why she should tolerate Kuhu...?

Just as I saw someone commenting Mishty should have informed Kuhu beforehand that she had prepared milkshake for her ...!

Kuhuness is real...her self respect and self preservation is real but for life she can't get or make herself a milkshake...??

The pain of a donor mom is as real as the surrogate... whether the surrogate torture herself every moment thinking the donor mom is happy that's upto her....

I am appalled at the writers who wouldn't even try to check simple facts before writing...if it's a common saas bahu ,fantasy, paranormal thing they could have used their wild imagination...

But surrogacy...??

Belittling the biological parents..

Misrepresentation of facts...

Even I would check before using a particular word in particular context in my FF...🤷

And they get paid for this thrash..!!??

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: abhilashasharma

yes, it’s is true that She is Mishti’s apni... but the question is - what is Mishti to her? Can she answer the question?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: suryavni

In addition to my earlier post on surrogacy I would like to put light on to a rather conveniently ignored fact...

A surrogate goes through a simple procedure of implantation and in the ensuing month a hormonal balancing takes place in her body to sustain the foetus within her womb and she is very well capable and rightfully capable of demanding a no pain / minimum pain delivery... whether it is surgical or natural.

But what about the medical procedures the donor mother is subjected to...?

They are not extracting her single egg from the monthly ovulation cycle...

In ART or assisted reproductive technique..

The donor mother is subjected to super / hyper ovulation...

As ladies we know how we feel during ovulation..this is 100 times that distress..and use of pain relievers are not recommended.

Moreover she is taking hormonal pills to produce the required 10-15 eggs instead of the normal one and that is enough to imbalance the hormonal activities in the donor mom...

People who take Mishty''s plight with silliness do need to account this too...even it is not shown on the series yeh rishte kuhuness ke...

She is as much entitled to hormonal outbursts as Kuhu is being given lenience to...

But she is keeping her sanity even when psychological abuse and menial work are added to her tolerance...

Of course any one can say why she should tolerate Kuhu...?

Just as I saw someone commenting Mishty should have informed Kuhu beforehand that she had prepared milkshake for her ...!

Kuhuness is real...her self respect and self preservation is real but for life she can't get or make herself a milkshake...??

The pain of a donor mom is as real as the surrogate... whether the surrogate torture herself every moment thinking the donor mom is happy that's upto her....

I am appalled at the writers who wouldn't even try to check simple facts before writing...if it's a common saas bahu ,fantasy, paranormal thing they could have used their wild imagination...

But surrogacy...??

Belittling the biological parents..

Misrepresentation of facts...

Even I would check before using a particular word in particular context in my FF...🤷

And they get paid for this thrash..!!??

Very informative. I had no idea about this. Thanks a lot for pointing it out and addressing underlying issues.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: vinutha91

Very informative. I had no idea about this. Thanks a lot for pointing it out and addressing underlying issues.

Thanks.. Uninformed ppl may get swayed by the. Portrayal of surrogacy here..just wanted to clarify

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: suryavni

In addition to my earlier post on surrogacy I would like to put light on to a rather conveniently ignored fact...

A surrogate goes through a simple procedure of implantation and in the ensuing month a hormonal balancing takes place in her body to sustain the foetus within her womb and she is very well capable and rightfully capable of demanding a no pain / minimum pain delivery... whether it is surgical or natural.

But what about the medical procedures the donor mother is subjected to...?

They are not extracting her single egg from the monthly ovulation cycle...

In ART or assisted reproductive technique..

The donor mother is subjected to super / hyper ovulation...

As ladies we know how we feel during ovulation..this is 100 times that distress..and use of pain relievers are not recommended.

Moreover she is taking hormonal pills to produce the required 10-15 eggs instead of the normal one and that is enough to imbalance the hormonal activities in the donor mom...

People who take Mishty''s plight with silliness do need to account this too...even it is not shown on the series yeh rishte kuhuness ke...

She is as much entitled to hormonal outbursts as Kuhu is being given lenience to...

But she is keeping her sanity even when psychological abuse and menial work are added to her tolerance...

Of course any one can say why she should tolerate Kuhu...?

Just as I saw someone commenting Mishty should have informed Kuhu beforehand that she had prepared milkshake for her ...!

Kuhuness is real...her self respect and self preservation is real but for life she can't get or make herself a milkshake...??

The pain of a donor mom is as real as the surrogate... whether the surrogate torture herself every moment thinking the donor mom is happy that's upto her....

I am appalled at the writers who wouldn't even try to check simple facts before writing...if it's a common saas bahu ,fantasy, paranormal thing they could have used their wild imagination...

But surrogacy...??

Belittling the biological parents..

Misrepresentation of facts...

Even I would check before using a particular word in particular context in my FF...🤷

And they get paid for this thrash..!!??

Wow, I didn’t know all these details about the donor mother’s pain and hormonal imbalance!

Thanks so much for sharing! This is so informative!

Of course the sh**ty writers of this show don’t care about donor mother’s physical and psychological distress! They only want to belittle the donor parents because they cannot have kids the regular way! 😡
These people are extremely narrow minded, regressive and cruel in their attitudes towards infertility and reproductive problems!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: suryavni

In addition to my earlier post on surrogacy I would like to put light on to a rather conveniently ignored fact...

A surrogate goes through a simple procedure of implantation and in the ensuing month a hormonal balancing takes place in her body to sustain the foetus within her womb and she is very well capable and rightfully capable of demanding a no pain / minimum pain delivery... whether it is surgical or natural.

But what about the medical procedures the donor mother is subjected to...?

They are not extracting her single egg from the monthly ovulation cycle...

In ART or assisted reproductive technique..

The donor mother is subjected to super / hyper ovulation...

As ladies we know how we feel during ovulation..this is 100 times that distress..and use of pain relievers are not recommended.

Moreover she is taking hormonal pills to produce the required 10-15 eggs instead of the normal one and that is enough to imbalance the hormonal activities in the donor mom...

People who take Mishty''s plight with silliness do need to account this too...even it is not shown on the series yeh rishte kuhuness ke...

She is as much entitled to hormonal outbursts as Kuhu is being given lenience to...

But she is keeping her sanity even when psychological abuse and menial work are added to her tolerance...

Of course any one can say why she should tolerate Kuhu...?

Just as I saw someone commenting Mishty should have informed Kuhu beforehand that she had prepared milkshake for her ...!

Kuhuness is real...her self respect and self preservation is real but for life she can't get or make herself a milkshake...??

The pain of a donor mom is as real as the surrogate... whether the surrogate torture herself every moment thinking the donor mom is happy that's upto her....

I am appalled at the writers who wouldn't even try to check simple facts before writing...if it's a common saas bahu ,fantasy, paranormal thing they could have used their wild imagination...

But surrogacy...??

Belittling the biological parents..

Misrepresentation of facts...

Even I would check before using a particular word in particular context in my FF...🤷

And they get paid for this thrash..!!??

Dat's quiet informative

Seriously in all d show dey always try to prove a surrogate mother to be so mahan n ppl think nly dey under go through pain conveniently ignoring d donor mother. How dey conveniently neglect her mental n physical pain.

Some one should viral dis post.

Edited by Sarcastic_me - 4 years ago

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