Abir rajvansh - my prized possession - Page 3

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Beautiful post🤗 we all know how much you cherish this man, and I understand your dilemma and feelings towards his impulsive actions .

Believe me give it time, like in today's episode we will come to know more about the events of the night but more importantly the deep-rooted emotions of Abir and Mishti. Which will give us better insight as to why the did what they did 3 months ago👏❤️

Diyu this is for you...more love for Abir 'the prized possession'.

https://twitter.com/Ajeeb_Fangirl/status/1283967110213890049

full cred to twitter acc - loved the way she explained it all👏

aww Nandu thank you dear for understanding 🤗🤗

finally dil kush hua yaar seeing them progressing... thanks for the twitter post dear its been long since i read such... 🤗

And nandu its actually our love n care for him that is not letting us agree with him or support him knowing he is wrong that doesnt waver our love... i understood him even during breakup so its not like i dont get his emotions of course i get it so only i dont support him, when our loved ones do some mistake we actually correct them to help them, isnt the same that abir does with kunal he loves his nanko so much so only he fights with him bcoz he cant see him going in wrong path same with us yaar we cant see abir doing something he shouldnt..

until now i have admired their love, his compassionate self... you remember i said in episode thread that even if i love AbiNal bond i want them to set a limit to their relationship...

same i'm saying for mishbir dear, i'm not a fan of blind love having experience n seen people in blind love i know what can it do to people, i cant see it as goals or admire it, they need each other bcoz they love each other but that love shouldnt blind you to the extend that you dont realize that your doing is actually not helping them, we saw in episode too mish herself said what she needs n admire that girl so much for thinking straight even in this situation, this is one thing i find missing in abir he is too over protective n that doesnt help the other at all... so i think its fair to say that this time too i dont agree with abirs this overprotectiveness....

Looobsssss you for this post mere light🤗🤗

Will read and be back🤗🤗

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Diyuuuuu 🤗🤗🤗 Thank you is a small word for this post yaara , I am in tears while typing this, i can completely understand your feelings today, I remember since baba track we have been saying this that guy is already suffering a lot and hence we just understood him and never judged him but since we know the character too much we can understand what are his insecurities and where are the higher chances of his suffering , its just a concern for him and mishti at the moment and not a judgement

I know mishti is nor a criminal, she did what she did in self defense and she shouldn't be feeling guilty and afraid to speak her mind, abir should definitely be getting her ready to face the world confidently and not advise to let it go , she needs a closure, abir needs a closure.

I understand abir not only as a supportive husband but as a supportive son , son in law , brother, brother in law , as an in individual, that's why in m situations in the AT or here , usually I find in the situation where people criticise him but I keep understanding and defending him , currently I am extremely happy to see that its the reverse case here

There are 2 sides of a coin , hence two sets of consequences, I am also in 2 minds now , I believe that he let go off a lot of legal issues and family issues by keeping the raaz to himself and deciding to heal mishti and make her forget it since she is already not at fault, but my other mind says he invited another set of issues because the family is already suspicious that something is wrong , mishti is still not healed and extremely vulnerable and it seems those light hearted moments are just making her forget but not really heal , varun has reached his house, wait for him to start his game , abir's added responsibility to handle ketki also now ! What if the police again enters and asks that if you were there at the crime site , why did you hide it ? Hai koi jawab ? Aur agar jawab hai toh pehle kaha ghum rahe the ?

As we were discussing yesterday about benba and baba, ke benba was right in case of baba but always choose to hide her fears , today her single mistake is costing her a messy relationship with abir

How long will they live under the fear that someday they will be doomed or caught?

I care for mishbir, I understand them and that's why a permanent solution is needed here for their own sanity, long term problems ke short term solutions nahi nikaal sakte , simple

This time he is way too emotional given that its abir the love of his life - Mishti , in emotions we take decisions which seem right but practically they might not be viable on long term basis

Yes our legal system is a tough nut to crack , but he is abir rajvansh , who owns an NGO that works for the upliftment of underprivileged women and children , he made an tracker app for government services, his family is influential enough to handle the media and even mishti's family for that matter, they can easily hire a top notch lawyer and medical professional to help her out in the best way possible, arrange security for her , this way also he can protect her , there is no problem in protecting, we are just saying that there are much better long term ways to do that , an opinion thats all

Rahi RV family ke members ki baat, toh let me tell his once and for all , even if mishti will die, they will blame her ghost.... does it really matter to them if abir reveals the truth or not? They are anyways going to blame her

People who are saying ke police , doctors, media , family , questions, legal system in sab se darr ke chup ho ke baith jao , agar saalon pehle draupadi ne tumhari tarah socha hota ke family , legal system , society ke darr se alag hone ke darr se chup hoke sab bhool jaati hun, toh mahabharat hoti ?

If years back maa parvati had decided that I won't fight against the demons because I might lose my dignity, peace, love, life, would she be called Maa Durga ?

Abir is at the moment being all emotional, that's why he is not able to form a straight policy but he is all protective of mishti, putting up his best efforts and I am sure there is more to it diya !

He never disappointed us till date , diya at least I can say this for us , and he won't disappoint us in future too ....

Once again, thank you for this.....bohot saari jhappis and GGCs 🤗👎🏼🤗

Post itna pasand aaya that I liked it 3 times 😆😆

aww Uru guruji 🤗🤗

i feel you jaan finally dil kush hua seeing the episode 🤗

@bold - Words words you, you just summed up my entire post in these lines... i was struggling to say this n you did it.... we will be the last one to judge abir, the one who understood him even when he broke up wont we know how he feels, his emotions and how he reacts... thats the main reason we are not able to agree with this...

@bold italic - this is simply amazing uru.... this is what is answered my mishti in the episode that she needs a closure, in turn will give a closure to abirs fear.... hiding, forgetting n moving on is definitely not an option in this matter,... some way or other this is gonna come out the boys family will not stay calm, its needed to fight for whats right, and being mishti fan i think thats the first trait of her that everyone admire about her.... so its unfair to say that she should let it go....

you have pointed out the best example uru draupadi n maa durga,,, be it then or now girls should be encouraged to come out without the fear of society n set example to everyone....

and i think we are forgetting abirs words to bade papa on why he loves mishti "log kya kahenge ise hume koi farak nahi padna chahiye, kehna asan hai par mishti actually do it", she is an inspiration to many girls bcoz of this so saying she should fear of society is so unfair..

if mishti thought the same she wouldnt have fought with her father

fought for courtship

fought for ketki, kuhu

for her identity, her chashma

stood against marrying someone who is not compatible to her

stood against mehul, meenu or kunal or anyone

the girl who always fights for right without caring about society is going through so much now but even now she wants to do the right, confessing n getting a closure... maybe her ways are not right considering her situation but this is what will give permanent solution....

and also seeing abir is the one stopping her its not fair to support it....

the main reason i dont support this is abirs state of mind now, in his over protectiveness he is not helping mishti... isnt the same we did when abir was protective of kunal which led him to do more wrong, now why support abir for the same... i am not a fan of blind love i have admired his love, compassionate trait but now he is losing self in this and i can very well understand this having experience with blind love this is no good for a person... i dont stand this at all... i cant say its goals...

ofcourse uru this man will never disappoint us.... 😎❤️ ye heera hai hamesha, and heera gets more shine everytime its put tp test, he will emerge out stronger.... our love is like abirs love for kunal, when he does wrong abir berates him, doesnt mean he doesnt love kunal but its his love n care that my brother is not right makes him do that likewise its our love thats making us say all this.... ❤️

aww 3 likes i noticed now only uru thank you so much dear, i totally feel you, pour out whatever you want in this thread... 🤗 lotzz of love n GGC's for you too guruji 🤗

Originally posted by: ruhi19

hi... i read every one replies and their views... so im keeping my view and replies for others...

first thing...its mishti's call to say what she experienced with family not Abir's.. he has to wait until she is mentally stable and express herself either for family or in police station...

u cant force mentally ill patient to talk with her closed one's or any other...

particularly these type of people need utmost care.love and support... each and every thing should be according to mishti's wish not abir's... because as some said abir is not any antaryaami to read mishti's mind 24*7... mishti ahs to voice it out...

so only thing abir should do is patience and listen to her and make her self believe in her and what she did, which he is doing perfectly and yes its his responsibilty to find remedy too but not hurting mishti... in this type of stress some times even a safety pin sound is unbearable... so abir has to do according to mishti's behaviour and her wishes...

abir didnt took his call for mishti at right time in RJV's... mishti gone trough mental trauma and physical too by kuhu in resort abir just tried to stop her but he didnt kept his things correctly infront of them...

mishti's highest fears are home breaker tag , she did everything after her marriage to keep family in peace but everyone are haunting with swords towards her, so she lost herself one by one and last thing is resort mein akhele rehna... she lost her mental stability as its final nail in coffin and later assault , so she dont even want to face anyone nor want to talk...

as far i remember, abir asked mishti to talk with BP-BM, after the incident but she didnt spoke and it continued for 2 days , may be she spoke to after some time but she never had courage to tell what happened with her.... its easily understandable... until and unless we try to accept and come out of it, no one can help that person, they just give baby steps only and thats what abir did...

coming to death of person is by excessive alcohol not by hit and mishti should accept this and say with full confidence that what she did is right...

why mishbir stay in that spot and prove themselves innocent, by going from there they invited more trouble then , its not that easy to prove innocence even u r in that spot, its not mishti ne keh diya or abir ne keh diya tho police and law maan jayenge... its like we think...

i accept they invited problems but hiding and by going from there but its more realistic thing any person do...

yes, the references of parvati and draupadi are mentioned, so yes they fought because they are mentally fit for that, so they fought and yes in dwarpar yug and prethayug every one believe in woman and her words of whne says she is victim but we are in kalyug, here everyone believes in lies and insulting in women, no one believe a woman , more over they will make woman character less and a call girl... so when a woman is ready to fight by thinking of all these odds then she have to step forward not before that...

the great RJV will family everything against mishti, how influential and genius abir may be, in our society positive statement from family is not accepted but negative statement from family can be accepted and they will easily believe too...

right now mishbir are in catch 22 situation, kidhar bhi jaaye they will face trouble and we all know abir , he always makes situation with minimum damage control, so by hiding it he is making minimum damage control for mishti as she to come out of it... he can put guns on her to come out of it...

the way mishti is behaving and her mental condition, she will even say what she hadnt done too... mishti who is a fighter lost her fighting ability, she is literally getting to everyone words and not even thinking what she is done right, example abir's coffee convo with mishti, we all know what happened that night but abir made her believe she did everything, next is kuhu's blame game and we all know who is at fault, if mishti is in her regular angry chorni avatar, she answers but here she is blaming her self more and more and this situation she cant confess to police...

abir is still in feminist side and thinking from mishti's view as she is not in her senses to think for herself...

one more example of ram-sita. people asked sita do agni pravesh as she stayed in lank for some time and after that also when she became pregnant, some people didnt believe sita is pure and she is bearing ram's child and even ram didnt took stand for her made lost her husband and everything... when ram realised its his mistake then sita proving her self respect went to mother earth but not returned to ram... so its husband's prime responsibility to prove wife's innocence and take stand for her... abir is doing that, which he failed miserabely before...

P.S: the flash back is just one petal of a flower. there are more petals into it and seeing monday precap, its looking like a trap than assault... because when assault happened no one is there but the varun behaving is showing he knows how the monster face is and he knows mishbir activities from 3 months and mishti;s fear for red color too...

Ruhi thanks for putting out your thoughts dear 🤗

Ok firstly we are not at all involving mishti in this... we know what mindset she is in, and no one is asking abir to force mishti to confess... actually its in contrast as we go by episode mishti wants to confess and abir is stopping her.... this is what we are saying, she has every right to do what she wants to get out of guilt and abir is stopping her bcoz he cant lose her, asking her to forget n move on is what is forcing mishti which is absolutely wrong.... bcoz in saturday episode also mish herself said what will give her closure n clearly abir was hesitant then too but she convinced him.... it was clear from episode that mishti the girl who is actually traumatized is thinking straight but abir is not....

all we are talking about here is abir n his mindset and why he is wrong not about mishti at all...

and yes mishti's way is wrong she cant go to police and confess and thats why i suggested he needs to get legal advice, and ruhi being a business woman even you would get legal advice if necessary for business naa, even i have lawyer friends n take their advice in legal matter, its not like they will ask abir to take mish n go surrender in police station. they are the people who will help in getting them legally cleared, abir doesnt have any connection with rjv or their acquaintance he is an independent businessman, he has his own contact from police to celebrity to every high officials they will be ready to show him right way to proceed with this.... thats what we suggested,....

And giving draupadi, maa durga example is fit here bcoz mishti is a girl who is setting example in this kalyug to be like them.... be it then or now girls should be encouraged to come out without the fear of society n set example to everyone....

and i think we are forgetting abirs words to bade papa on why he loves mishti "log kya kahenge ise hume koi farak nahi padna chahiye, kehna asan hai par mishti actually do it", she is an inspiration to many girls bcoz of this so saying she should fear of society is so unfair..

if mishti thought the same she wouldnt have fought with her father

fought for courtship

fought for ketki, kuhu

for her identity, her chashma

stood against marrying someone who is not compatible to her

stood against mehul, meenu or kunal or anyone

the girl who always fights for right without caring about society is going through so much now but even now she wants to do the right, confessing n getting a closure... maybe her ways are not right considering her situation but this is what will give permanent solution....

and also seeing abir is the one stopping her its not fair to support it....

the main reason i dont support this is abirs state of mind now, in his over protectiveness he is not helping mishti... isnt the same we did when abir was protective of kunal which led him to do more wrong, now why support abir for the same... i am not a fan of blind love i have admired his love, compassionate trait but now he is losing self in this and i can very well understand this having experience with blind love this is no good for a person... i dont stand this at all... i cant say its goals...

And isnt it unfair to say abir failed miserably before n doing it right now.... the man who stood by her even when her family couldnt, she herself decided to give up, at every point he stood by her, just bcoz he thinks from everyones perspective, which mishti too herself does, doesnt mean he failed as a husband,...

why support abir now when everyone criticized him for the same reason before,... hiding kuhu truth for time being bcoz he didnt wanted more problem for mishti only bcoz of meenu calling out the sisters which is happening now... hiding kunals truth bcoz he wanted to protect his baby brother who is like a son to him in fear of losing him, hiding kunal running away truth bcoz he didnt want anyone to point a finger at mishti clearly stated by kunals letter during kuku shaadi, and also now he is doing the same in fear of losing mish n protect her which is also not helping her.... every time he was wrong we demanded him to say the truth n find a solution but why he is right now.... now he is not even finding a solution but only trying to protect mishti which is not a permanent solution to bring mishti out of this...

Going by your PS, i think what we are saying is right bcoz with so many people lurking around, trying to hide everything n moving on is the grave mistake, if they are not prepared to atleast face the situation when police comes to arrest mishti through meenu or kuhu or varun they will be blank n lost, this is what we are warning,... then wont everyone blame abir for not doing anything or expect abir to do the same as we are suggesting now...

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

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Awww cool lobbbsss you too 🤗🤗🤗

take your time darling.... 🤗

PS: idiot check your PM, i'm angry on you, you still havent replied to my message i sent somedays back too 😒

I won't try to justify Abir but the situation isn't as clear as it seems, Mishti was blaming herself for a crime she didn't commit, one has to go to court and hold her ground, the law is already against women in this case, how can she prove it happened in self-defense, when she keeps saying that she killed him?

Why should she go to prison for fighting a rapist?

Abir said it was her right to protect herself, First Mishti has to hold her ground and understand that the only one responsible for that death was the guy trying to molest her, women are not responsible for it, moreover he died due to alcohol poisoning not because of Mishti, if it wasn't Mishti, it would have been someone else, what if she couldn't protect herself?

This is different from -

Nishant - Abir didn't attack him, Nishant didn't go back to check on Abir, Abir helped Mishti first then went back to check on the guy but found out from the police about his death

Kuhu - Mishti didn't hit the guy because she was jealous of him, Mishti has NO reason to regret her actions, Kuhu spiked Mishti's drink because she was insecure and jealous, Mishti did nothing to her

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

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take your time darling.... 🤗

PS: idiot check your PM, i'm angry on you, you still havent replied to my message i sent somedays back too 😒

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Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Ruhi thanks for putting out your thoughts dear 🤗

Ok firstly we are not at all involving mishti in this... we know what mindset she is in, and no one is asking abir to force mishti to confess... actually its in contrast as we go by episode mishti wants to confess and abir is stopping her.... this is what we are saying, she has every right to do what she wants to get out of guilt and abir is stopping her bcoz he cant lose her, asking her to forget n move on is what is forcing mishti which is absolutely wrong.... bcoz in saturday episode also mish herself said what will give her closure n clearly abir was hesitant then too but she convinced him.... it was clear from episode that mishti the girl who is actually traumatized is thinking straight but abir is not....

all we are talking about here is abir n his mindset and why he is wrong not about mishti at all...

and yes mishti's way is wrong she cant go to police and confess and thats why i suggested he needs to get legal advice, and ruhi being a business woman even you would get legal advice if necessary for business naa, even i have lawyer friends n take their advice in legal matter, its not like they will ask abir to take mish n go surrender in police station. they are the people who will help in getting them legally cleared, abir doesnt have any connection with rjv or their acquaintance he is an independent businessman, he has his own contact from police to celebrity to every high officials they will be ready to show him right way to proceed with this.... thats what we suggested,....

And giving draupadi, maa durga example is fit here bcoz mishti is a girl who is setting example in this kalyug to be like them.... be it then or now girls should be encouraged to come out without the fear of society n set example to everyone....

and i think we are forgetting abirs words to bade papa on why he loves mishti "log kya kahenge ise hume koi farak nahi padna chahiye, kehna asan hai par mishti actually do it", she is an inspiration to many girls bcoz of this so saying she should fear of society is so unfair..

if mishti thought the same she wouldnt have fought with her father

fought for courtship

fought for ketki, kuhu

for her identity, her chashma

stood against marrying someone who is not compatible to her

stood against mehul, meenu or kunal or anyone

the girl who always fights for right without caring about society is going through so much now but even now she wants to do the right, confessing n getting a closure... maybe her ways are not right considering her situation but this is what will give permanent solution....

and also seeing abir is the one stopping her its not fair to support it....

the main reason i dont support this is abirs state of mind now, in his over protectiveness he is not helping mishti... isnt the same we did when abir was protective of kunal which led him to do more wrong, now why support abir for the same... i am not a fan of blind love i have admired his love, compassionate trait but now he is losing self in this and i can very well understand this having experience with blind love this is no good for a person... i dont stand this at all... i cant say its goals...

And isnt it unfair to say abir failed miserably before n doing it right now.... the man who stood by her even when her family couldnt, she herself decided to give up, at every point he stood by her, just bcoz he thinks from everyones perspective, which mishti too herself does, doesnt mean he failed as a husband,...

why support abir now when everyone criticized him for the same reason before,... hiding kuhu truth for time being bcoz he didnt wanted more problem for mishti only bcoz of meenu calling out the sisters which is happening now... hiding kunals truth bcoz he wanted to protect his baby brother who is like a son to him in fear of losing him, hiding kunal running away truth bcoz he didnt want anyone to point a finger at mishti clearly stated by kunals letter during kuku shaadi, and also now he is doing the same in fear of losing mish n protect her which is also not helping her.... every time he was wrong we demanded him to say the truth n find a solution but why he is right now.... now he is not even finding a solution but only trying to protect mishti which is not a permanent solution to bring mishti out of this...

Going by your PS, i think what we are saying is right bcoz with so many people lurking around, trying to hide everything n moving on is the grave mistake, if they are not prepared to atleast face the situation when police comes to arrest mishti through meenu or kuhu or varun they will be blank n lost, this is what we are warning,... then wont everyone blame abir for not doing anything or expect abir to do the same as we are suggesting now...

yes mishti is a girl who fought against society norms and abir is a man who supported her, but right now mishti lost herself and seeing his strength loosing self made abir loosing himself... we know abir is always emotional. not a god decision maker and he always be with person who is weak, same here mishti is weak this, she is not usual angry chorni to take stand for herself nor talk with abir...

talking to lawyer or taking legaal advice , yes he should do it but again they will ask mishti and she ahs to answer.. its not that easy u think or not it look like.. im just saying abir needs to time think rationally, let him come out from mishti's attack first... he will think on all possible things...

what ever abir has to do , its should be from mishti and her strength then abir can do anything... he needs his support system by his side... i really have faith on abir and waiting for more flash backs...

coming to abir, supporting kuhu, kunal, nishant, break up thing..i was never disappointed in abir, the one thing i really disappointed was he didnt even say a word to kuhu when she is bad mouthing mishti and then leaving her in resort... this really not abir but when we had reasoned and understood his pov we left it but now i understand more of him... he is not blind in love, he want to protect her, when he has everything and will open up to family too when he can make everyone shut... morethan anything he should make mishti feel that she is right and he is with him...

its not blind love or over protectiveness.... he kept his first priority has mishti and her health, then other things...

as u mentioned... what will abir do when police come, he has to prepared ,abir is having swords at 2 ends... vo kisi bhi taraf jaaye he will only suffer and due to his guilt and leaving his wife and his everything in resort he cant loose her again , so he want to protect her, this is not called blind love or over protectiveness...he want to hide because he know if it is open mishti has to face many things and for that mishti is still not prepared...

yes abir is influential and he has contacts and everything but he cant take step in haste and dont say 3 months are there what he did, some things need time and he took his time...

coming to abir saying, mishti has to forget everything then, he is not completely wrong... some times if we face it and fight it too the scars cant leave, abir is asking her to forget but its not easy and they both know it... scars dont leave mishti but abir want to erase that...

abir is doing right in making her stable and taking a step after that... he will take step and im waiting for it...

its easy to say, log kya kehenge se farak nahi padta but in reality farak padta hain... 1% hi sahi par padta haina nd here those log will be of RJV esply meenu and kuhu... they wont leave mishti and they torture her for sure as they mishti to leave abir... abir ahs to think in all posiible directions and then action...

Originally posted by: NoraSM

I won't try to justify Abir but the situation isn't as clear as it seems, Mishti was blaming herself for a crime she didn't commit, one has to go to court and hold her ground, the law is already against women in this case, how can she prove it happened in self-defense, when she keeps saying that she killed him?

Why should she go to prison for fighting a rapist?

Abir said it was her right to protect herself, First Mishti has to hold her ground and understand that the only one responsible for that death was the guy trying to molest her, women are not responsible for it, moreover he died due to alcohol poisoning not because of Mishti, if it wasn't Mishti, it would have been someone else, what if she couldn't protect herself?

This is different from -

Nishant - Abir didn't attack him, Nishant didn't go back to check on Abir, Abir helped Mishti first then went back to check on the guy but found out from the police about his death

Kuhu - Mishti didn't hit the guy because she was jealous of him, Mishti has NO reason to regret her actions, Kuhu spiked Mishti's drink because she was insecure and jealous, Mishti did nothing to her

Consulting a lawyer is not the same thing as admitting fault and going to prison. Mishti didn’t do anything wrong when she hit him in self-defense. But when they left the crime scene, understandable though it was, it was not correct. It may mess things up further if they go to the police now, but Mishti would probably understand it better if that thought comes from a lawyer rather than Abir.

Even if it was self-defense, even if it was an accident, I think when you hurt someone you should feel regret. Not guilt, because she didn’t do anything wrong, but regret for hurting another living being. This trait is what I like in Mishti.

Originally posted by: angelfire78

Consulting a lawyer is not the same thing as admitting fault and going to prison. Mishti didn’t do anything wrong when she hit him in self-defense. But when they left the crime scene, understandable though it was, it was not correct. It may mess things up further if they go to the police now, but Mishti would probably understand it better if that thought comes from a lawyer rather than Abir.

Even if it was self-defense, even if it was an accident, I think when you hurt someone you should feel regret. Not guilt, because she didn’t do anything wrong, but regret for hurting another living being. This trait is what I like in Mishti.

The regret is understandable, it would be inhuman if she doesn't feel that things could have been different if she hadn't stayed back etc but she did come out of that guilt in yesterday's episode and I loved the conversation between Abir and Mishti

Consulting a lawyer but which lawyer? Won't their family lawyer tell his family about it? Can they trust a new lawyer with something like this? Abir knows his own mother will present Mishti as a murderer to get rid of her, Mishti's sister will help her in this

Abir did ask Mishti, if she wants to go to BM's house and Mishti said that she can't face herself, how will she face them?