MishBir n the Band aid theory

Hola peps 😃

its been long since i posted in MF... here something i loved in today episode.. and its gonna be a long rant.. bear with me 😆

Abir - "tab iss ghar mai jhagde hote haina mujhe bhi aise lagta hai jaise meri kisi body part pe cut lagaya.. uss waqt mujhe jo samajme aata jaise lagta hai vaisa kar deta hu.. sochna bhi nahi padta instinct hai... tumhe bhi apne aap samajme ajayega.. tum bhi sab kuch teek kardogi..."

Abir -"Ghar aisa hota hai jahan chot ek ko lage dard sab ko mehsoos hota hai.. humare ghar jaisa nahi yahan sab log akele hi apni pani takleef ki saath jeete rehthe hai" (a dialogue from initial episode after rishta exchange)

These both dialogue has a connection.. Abir gets hurt n feels the pain of each member of the family when there is a fight n he wants to give them immediate relief n he never cared even if in that process he will get hurt..

he just follows his instinct on what can reduce their pain.. he expressed his emotions n also answered her question on how he tries to keep family together..

example baba track end he was the one who bough baba to that house when he realized he is the one reason for the fight n problem in family his first thought was to take him away from the family... he even said while taking mehul out "i'm taking him away, apse dur"... n then he had his private confrontation... he followed his instinct there.. he didnt care how he felt about the sudden truth but his first thought was taking him away from family...his only mistake there was not informing family about his thoughts or what he is gonna do..

coming back to the topic

he didnt agree he is right nor did he say he wants her to follow him he just advised her to follow her instinct like he had done n she will do the right thing by herself...

when she asked what if things go out of hand like what if she wasnt able to manage the situation even after following her instincts...

abirs reply is something he promised her i'll be a step behind you so that i can catch you when you fall.. so here he said come to your partner n i'll always be there for you... abir believes in giving mish lead n let her handle things..(to know more about this read uru's shiv parvathi post)❤️

note there they are not talking about what happened but on what can they do in future when they are put in such a situation.. here they are only talking about managing a situation not finding a solution there is a difference between both...

here mish got two things his emotions when family fight happens, his advice about following her instinct... before she returned the papers to kunal she thought of only these two things which she understood from abir...

she knew kunal hasnt given her this on own but on meenu insistence.. kuhu is not happy with it... so she knew this will bring problem in family which will mean again a cut for abir(he will feel be hurt), and also she knew its not her rights as its kunals hardwork... she followed her instinct of doing right n also made sure family n inturn abir is not hurt.. both things went hand in hand in this situation.. she did the right thing n also didnt bring a jhagda in family by explaining why she is doing this n also showed her acceptance "message received"..

this is her first success of handling a family situation... this is the same mish i wanted who do the right thing, the girl who refused to work with bp as she wanted to be independent.. she returned something which is rightfully not hers... here she handled it more maturely by doing everything in open n right person n time..

they knew this is not gonna be the same in all situation.. thats why the second dialogue what if things go out of hand... that is related to the party kunal giving parul the right... here they did right but then situation has gone out of hand.. we are yet to see how they will handle all this...

finally rant over... hope i made some sense... and thank you to everyone who have completed reading this.. 😆🤗

Even before reading... I can say I’ll love the post😎🤗🤗🤗

will read n respond me dear 🤗🤗

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

Even before reading... I can say I’ll love the post😎🤗🤗🤗

will read n respond me dear 🤗🤗

Cool 🤗

aww thank you sweetie... do read and give your kidhki thod review... 🤗🤗

Ritu

Tum sab Mera Dil Khush Kar dete ho

I was personally happy that she returned back the company acknowledging that she's been accepted by her debar in his own way

Res

Unres 😆

Finally read fully

👏👏👏👏amazing post diyu

The baba's track and the shivratri track

You analysed the situation for abir beautifully 🤗

And explanation about mishti's decision 👏

Loved reading your post 🤗

u made sense...

i loved your theory...

u explained it fablously...

i can relate more to the epi after this...

i hope mish understand this and heals abir's pain...

love u diyu for this post...

the way u explained abir giving lead to mishti and keeping his promise of being a step of back of her and support her...

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Hola peps

its been long since i posted in MF... here something i loved in today episode.. and its gonna be a long rant.. bear with me

Abir - "tab iss ghar mai jhagde hote haina mujhe bhi aise lagta hai jaise meri kisi body part pe cut lagaya.. uss waqt mujhe jo samajme aata jaise lagta hai vaisa kar deta hu.. sochna bhi nahi padta instinct hai... tumhe bhi apne aap samajme ajayega.. tum bhi sab kuch teek kardogi..."

Abir -"Ghar aisa hota hai jahan chot ek ko lage dard sab ko mehsoos hota hai.. humare ghar jaisa nahi yahan sab log akele hi apni pani takleef ki saath jeete rehthe hai" (a dialogue from initial episode after rishta exchange)

These both dialogue has a connection.. Abir gets hurt n feels the pain of each member of the family when there is a fight n he wants to give them immediate relief n he never cared even if in that process he will get hurt..

he just follows his instinct on what can reduce their pain.. he expressed his emotions n also answered her question on how he tries to keep family together..

example baba track end he was the one who bough baba to that house when he realized he is the one reason for the fight n problem in family his first thought was to take him away from the family... he even said while taking mehul out "i'm taking him away, apse dur"... n then he had his private confrontation... he followed his instinct there.. he didnt care how he felt about the sudden truth but his first thought was taking him away from family...his only mistake there was not informing family about his thoughts or what he is gonna do..

coming back to the topic

he didnt agree he is right nor did he say he wants her to follow him he just advised her to follow her instinct like he had done n she will do the right thing by herself...

when she asked what if things go out of hand like what if she wasnt able to manage the situation even after following her instincts...

abirs reply is something he promised her i'll be a step behind you so that i can catch you when you fall.. so here he said come to your partner n i'll always be there for you... abir believes in giving mish lead n let her handle things..(to know more about this read uru's shiv parvathi post)

note there they are not talking about what happened but on what can they do in future when they are put in such a situation.. here they are only talking about managing a situation not finding a solution there is a difference between both...

here mish got two things his emotions when family fight happens, his advice about following her instinct... before she returned the papers to kunal she thought of only these two things which she understood from abir...

she knew kunal hasnt given her this on own but on meenu insistence.. kuhu is not happy with it... so she knew this will bring problem in family which will mean again a cut for abir(he will feel be hurt), and also she knew its not her rights as its kunals hardwork... she followed her instinct of doing right n also made sure family n inturn abir is not hurt.. both things went hand in hand in this situation.. she did the right thing n also didnt bring a jhagda in family by explaining why she is doing this n also showed her acceptance "message received"..

this is her first success of handling a family situation... this is the same mish who wanted do the right thing, the girl who refused to work with bp as she wanted to be independent.. she returned something which is rightfully not hers... here she handled it more maturely by doing everything in open n right person n time..

they knew this is not gonna be the same in all situation.. thats why the second dialogue what if things go out of hand... that is related to the party kunal giving parul the right... here they did right but then situation has gone out of hand.. we are yet to see how they will handle all this...

finally rant over... hope i made some sense... and thank you to everyone who have completed reading this..

Diyyyaaaaaa🤗

You gave me something to think about.😊And infact I was thinking that Abir certainly has this habit of 'managing first and explaining later' . and it certainly explains his band aid theory.

When something happens, he tries to manage it first instead of explaining, like the boutique scene where he went behind Kunal first without even talking to Mishti.

Even after doing the 'managing first' he is reluctant to give any explainations since in his mind it always equals as justifications. And he always prevents Mishti also from giving justifications, like in the pre party of Kuku wedding he stopped Mishti from giving justifications to Kunal.

Somehow, your theory also fits how he handled Kuhu. When Kuhu was badmouthing Mishti he didn't find it necessary to give any explainations to Kuhu about what he thinks about Mishti. Also, it fits how he stops people from giving justifications.

He is a person who understands people (or he thinks he understands) without them giving any explainations for their behaviour. For eg, in the initial episodes he wanted Mishti to understand his love without him declaring it.

He expresses his love through actions. Mishti is a person who needs words also to know someone loves her.

Somehow, his band aid theory can have a positive impact on Mishti or maybe it can backfire also.

He made her think abt the fact that more than the truth sometimes you have to try to understand the emotions of other people also before taking a decision.

Hope I made sense😆

Diya!!🤗

Saving to read the rest of tis khidki tod anlysis once I finish watching all episodes👍🏼

res

Will be back with my thoughts

Originally posted by: meen123

Ritu

Tum sab Mera Dil Khush Kar dete ho

I was personally happy that she returned back the company acknowledging that she's been accepted by her debar in his own way

meen you forgot my name 😒😆

but thank you dear... finally you are getting back to forum little by little... 🤗

haina i was waiting for the time when she will return n thank god she did... that was so mish like...

Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

Res

Unres 😆

Finally read fully

👏👏👏👏amazing post diyu

The baba's track and the shivratri track

You analysed the situation for abir beautifully 🤗

And explanation about mishti's decision 👏

Loved reading your post 🤗

haha finally vaishuuuuuuuuu 🤗

thank you dear.. 🤗 kya haina ki in morning after episode mind just gets blocked bcoz of emotion after sometime if we calmly think like abir we can understand them... 😆 ajeeb couple hai this is just like their 5 min tak during nish mish sangeet... 😆