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Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

haha you tried empathizing with her 🤣 yaar i've crossed that limit long back... 🤣

Exactly...

Our focus was ,is and will always be on MishBir and Mishti,Abir separately...I really don't care what others do,especially Kuhu. Let's watch tom's episode.We will get to know what made Mishti to say all these. I can't see an insecure Mishti.😭aur woh bhi Kuhu se...chaa..

Originally posted by: Jayati321

Exactly..😆 We can only blame the writers for this poor writings. Just to show kitchen politics jhatpat shadi karwa diya MishBir ki. Now full on kitchen politics led by BigBen. Makers should tone down BigBen's over excitedness. Itni uchak uchak ke khushi jata rahi hei,dekhkar mujhe diabetes hojayegi.😡

Mujhe toh already diabetes de chuki hai Meenu ki OTT fakeness 🤢😆.....seriously I feel like gagging each time she makes OTT sugary comments and I facepalm that AM can’t see through her obvious fakeness 🤦‍♀️

BTW did anyone notice the face Meenu made when she saw AM having a staring moment during the cooking face off? I cracked up 🤣....ekdum chidh gayi Meenu 😛

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Exactly. Who’s acceptance is Mishti craving so badly? If it’s from Meenu, that will just be ridiculous after all that’s happened. And the rest of the family is anyways affectionate towards Mishti....so what is she getting so anxious about? 😕

The writing is again poor on this front and very contrived simply to force this insecurity drama from Mishti’s side as well and make it seem like both sisters are insecure to the same level and getting played by Meenu 🙄

It’s not that Mishti can’t be manipulated by Meenu since Meenu is quite clever....but the way the scenes are being shown for Mishti feeling insecure over not getting some aashirwaad for one rasam is going overboard.

Confident Mishti comes and goes as per writing convenience 🤷‍♀️😆

Ok i dont know what i'm saying is making any sense or not... but this is what i think whenever mishti's issue comes n goes...

a persons confidence level is tested at many different places, one cannot be confident always cant have same opinion n confidence in every situation... so here mishti's confidence is also tested in different situation, its not the same situation always... she keeps trusting meenu but as time goes by she even gave benefit of doubt bcoz of past experience.. now too i dont think she trusts meenu completely but giving her a chance... same with kuhu i dont know how to explain but mishti's confidence her issues regarding different situation are explored for her to grow more stronger... not only for her but for other character growth too... the ehsaan thing even though it was there before it got a closure in nannu track bcoz bp/bm are dealing with it in a more mature way now...

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I don’t have a problem with Mishti having baggage and insecurities. But what’s the point of all this when her funda in life is to keep brushing things under the carpet?

The writers keep dragging this for drama, that’s it. Abir sees everything but doesn’t initiate a serious discussion with Mishti....and she herself downplays things to keep peace.

These random outbursts and sudden need for acceptance from Meenu is pointless if Mishti refuses to address larger issues.

Agar shaanti se rehna hai toh define your own happiness rather than constantly being confused when you need acceptance and from whom. The past cannot be changed....and all the broken rishte were not Mishti’s fault. She will be always blamed by people like Kuhu, Meenu and Jas regardless. It is up to her to stand up for herself and not let other people define her happiness.

lets see what happens tmrw...

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: Sigh, you’re right 😆....it’s the words that affect Mishti more than the neg...I wish it wasn’t so ....the otherwise sensible and mature Mishti gets affected by family waale making random comments about abshagun and Mishti not being a good enough bahu 😕.

Pata nahin when she will realize she is going about this the wrong way 🤷‍♀️.....how will Abir make her realize? He is being supportive in general but he needs to talk to her more directly to make her see sense. Or maybe she needs a big jhatka as usual to wake up

Writers will likely drag this to torture us....I should stop expecting a sensible Mishti in the coming days

haha i know but its a general saying too words hurt more than action... 😆 how much ever confident mish is still it affects her too..

Mmm direct talk from abir n them dealing with it.. i think abir is on way to that today room scene was just a start to that.. tomorrow seeing mish cry abir is not gonna give any consolation words alone so we can expect abir trying to talk it out with mish... it might be dheere dheere as makers love drama but mishbir will talk it out slowly... 😆

Originally posted by: Jayati321

Exactly...

Our focus was ,is and will always be on MishBir and Mishti,Abir separately...I really don't care what others do,especially Kuhu. Let's watch tom's episode.We will get to know what made Mishti to say all these. I can't see an insecure Mishti.😭aur woh bhi Kuhu se...chaa..

True Jayu.. i love mishbir as hubby wifey now n whatever we are getting is satisfying me 😆

ohhkk i dont think mish is insecure of kuhu nah thats not possible... it has to be something more lets wait for episode... 🤗

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Mujhe toh already diabetes de chuki hai Meenu ki OTT fakeness 🤢😆.....seriously I feel like gagging each time she makes OTT sugary comments and I facepalm that AM can’t see through her obvious fakeness 🤦‍♀️

BTW did anyone notice the face Meenu made when she saw AM having a staring moment during the cooking face off? I cracked up 🤣....ekdum chidh gayi Meenu 😛

I noticed this.. 🤣 i was like seriously meenu 😲🤣 yaar nowadays i just mute it whenever she starts her sweet talk i can even handle her manipulative self talk, her daravani avtar but not this over sweetness 🤣 even her excitement for the first rasoi felt so fake dont know if its rupalji or its how they actually wanted it to look fake.. 😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Mujhe toh already diabetes de chuki hai Meenu ki OTT fakeness 🤢😆.....seriously I feel like gagging each time she makes OTT sugary comments and I facepalm that AM can’t see through her obvious fakeness 🤦‍♀️

BTW did anyone notice the face Meenu made when she saw AM having a staring moment during the cooking face off? I cracked up 🤣....ekdum chidh gayi Meenu 😛

Yaah yaah i noticed it. Her reaction was like Haye re mera beta mere haath se nikal gaya.🤣😆

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

I noticed this.. 🤣 i was like seriously meenu 😲🤣 yaar nowadays i just mute it whenever she starts her sweet talk i can even handle her manipulative self talk, her daravani avtar but not this over sweetness 🤣 even her excitement for the first rasoi felt so fake dont know if its rupalji or its how they actually wanted it to look fake.. 😆

Same here. I can tolerate her daravani avtaar,but can't digest this over sweetness. 😆It looks very odd/fake. Poor Rupal maam. But in real life she is like this enthu over sweet person. maine kafi interviews mei notice kiya hei. In that ganpati visarjan video she is the one who was pushing Rhea and Kaveri to dance.She was also dancing with them. 😆

Originally posted by: Jayati321

Bang on post Pali.👏Agree with each and every points you have raised.

By the way what is your take on about Mishti's reaction in the precap? Mine is like ...seriously Mishti what is wrong with you? You should be happy that apshagun /manhoos haar didn't come to you.😆

I can see that makers are trying to show both the girls are not perfect. I can relate to Kuhu,coz we all have seen her insecurities. But Mishti's behaviour which is actually bothering me. This is not Mishti 1.0 or Mishti 2.0... This is Mishti 3.0 who has learnt nothing from her past. After detectivegiri her new mission is to get the best bahu award(so called family acceptance) from BB.Why is it even necessary? Is it not enough that she is married to Abir with both the families approval after all that hurdles. Drama ke liye kuch bhi...

Jayu, I think Mishti isn't upset about the Haar.

I think Mishti is upset at the fact that even after both the sisters promised ceasefire to each other, Kuhu still went ahead to sabotage her function. Upset because Kuhu didn't honor her part of the promise...

We will know the reason in a few minutes anyway 😆