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Originally posted by: Jayati321

I just hope kuch aur hua hoga. Let's wait till tom. I will be very disappointed if Mishti was crying and sunaoing Kuhu that she didn't get the first rasoi ki naik(the necklace)😆

she wont cry for neg and first rasoi thing... i mean if she cries also its for different reason...

the morning condition of mish is relatable yar... im not married but even i was mish i will react same like that only...that i got up late and i dont want to disappoint anyone... even its love or arranged that feeling will be there...

nidhi mami is always there to bring back mishti's past in present... she said in sangeet that juhummer tym at mishti's father came or what... this jhumar thing happened when kunal and mish GD tym...

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Word vaishu.. 👍🏼

Main kuhu ke baare mein aadha ghanta bhi accha nahi soch sakti, I tried to empathize to her subah but now realized we can't emphasize with person who's doing something without any reason 🤣

Originally posted by: Jayati321

Bold- This is exactly what i wanted to say. Thank God you said it properly.😃

Chalo koi toh hei jo mere tarah soch raha hei. 😆

LOL no, you are not alone. Main kal se yehi bol rahi hoon 😆....the precap was weird and I can only hope the writers don’t make Mishti one of those typical bahus dying for saas ki acceptance and neg 🙄

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Exactly. Who’s acceptance is Mishti craving so badly? If it’s from Meenu, that will just be ridiculous after all that’s happened. And the rest of the family is anyways affectionate towards Mishti....so what is she getting so anxious about? 😕

The writing is again poor on this front and very contrived simply to force this insecurity drama from Mishti’s side as well and make it seem like both sisters are insecure to the same level and getting played by Meenu 🙄

It’s not that Mishti can’t be manipulated by Meenu since Meenu is quite clever....but the way the scenes are being shown for Mishti feeling insecure over not getting some aashirwaad for one rasam is going overboard.

Confident Mishti comes and goes as per writing convenience 🤷‍♀️😆

see mish and meenu has worst face off ever...

mish has baggage of breaking GD with kunal, leaving nannu on mandap, kuhu's life is hell bcoz meenu and kunal hated her...

meenu is being over sweet and to atleast match her expectations she wants to try...

if we get married and we stay in joint family... we want to make a cordial relationship with everyone... even we know them before marriage is different thing and after marriage is different thing...

during navratri tym mish is not ready to face family after abir baba asked mish's hand for abir... she is not that confidentwen it comes to family...

abir's love is there but yar kitna past baggage hain... her insecurities should be shown...

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL I understand what you are trying to say, Diya. But here’s my issue with this.

Who gets to define these “limits” that Mishti is presuming will be followed? Kuhu does. Who gets to define what “limelight” is? Kuhu does. So what makes Mishti think that Kuhu will follow any LOGICAL behavior about this? 🤷‍♀️

This is why I find Mishti delusional and frankly kinda stupid about this. She actually thinks a token ceasefire will make Kuhu mature and nice to her? 😕😆....Come on, Mishti.

Kuhu is the one who defines what limelight means to her so she will do whatever she feels like even if Mishti presumes she isn’t doing anything to “steal Kuhu’s limelight”.....Mishti merely existing near Kuhu is enough for Kuhu to feel her limelight is threatened 😆.....and the fact that Mishti STILL doesn’t get this despite ALL that has happened shows that it’s kind of willful delusion on her part 🤷‍♀️

I may not personally agree with Mishti being this hypersensitive about needing acceptance from the woman who has always sabotaged her relationship with Abir, but chalo maan liya it’s new bahu vibes so Mishti is being hopeful about a new beginning for her in a new family. But even then....she shouldn’t expect any different from Kuhu....what gets swept away as “bachpana” is basically Kuhu always trying to put Mishti down...which is why she kept making a big deal of Mishti not cooking rather than trying to support her. If Mishti is actually expecting support from Kuhu, then also she’s delusional. Lol

Mishti is taking unnecessary pressure on herself when she has a loving and supportive husband. Instead of being happy with that, she is more sensitive and worried about acceptance and aashirwad from the rest of his family. And the point is, everyone is nice to her right now anyways, but she is getting caught up in labels like “neg” and “pehli rasoi”....as if these material things will decide her acceptance level.


I don’t know if Mishti will ever realize that she is chasing ghosts in a sense. Yeh sab ek neg se fix nahin hone wala.....and she needs to make choices about defining her happiness on her own terms or defining it per societal expectations 🤷‍♀️

Ok now i get the issue 😆

what i said is mish trying to solve all this in what she thinks is right way... but i do agree that is not right... infact mish dealing with kuhu in closed doors is itself is wrong i had problem about this since start... i wanted that to come out in open n everyone to know about what all kuhu does n this be an open issue... now here too mish is trying all possible way to keep kuhu away from her life, she doesnt want or expect kuhu support but wants her to stay away... but her ways are definitely not a guaranteed one mish knows that too...

remember the shaadi day dialogue mish asked kuhu why are you not happy with anything you get, i talk like this with you bcoz you behave this way with me... mish knew what kuhu problem is but she doesnt know how to deal with it... she just needs a solution n tries giving that by trying to convince kuhu in some way even thought thats not reliable.. if you notice even if mish has good intention her way of dealing are always little messy... mish opening up about this can bring some solution maybe... but until she deals with it all alone is not gonna lead to anything good for her..

@bold - this i agree... the neg was not something mish cares about but the words family throw at her does.. the nervousness is something common in every bride, it will take time for her to be content with her husband n all but as of now its natural for her to get this hyper thats what i meant... Abir said in morning naa about exam, making life beautiful, mish needs time to understand all this... even in nish mish track she was pressurized with family ehsaan until she realized how wrong she is so now too its just a start to new life so she is getting hyper with time mish will learn with abirs help that she doesnt need to be the ideal bahu that everyone describes...

i tried explaining what i think of all this yaar hope its somewhat ok 😆

Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

Main kuhu ke baare mein aadha ghanta bhi accha nahi soch sakti, I tried to empathize to her subah but now realized we can't emphasize with person who's doing something without any reason 🤣

haha you tried empathizing with her 🤣 yaar i've crossed that limit long back... 🤣

Originally posted by: ruhi19

see mish and meenu has worst face off ever...

mish has baggage of breaking GD with kunal, leaving nannu on mandap, kuhu's life is hell bcoz meenu and kunal hated her...

meenu is being over sweet and to atleast match her expectations she wants to try...

if we get married and we stay in joint family... we want to make a cordial relationship with everyone... even we know them before marriage is different thing and after marriage is different thing...

during navratri tym mish is not ready to face family after abir baba asked mish's hand for abir... she is not that confidentwen it comes to family...

abir's love is there but yar kitna past baggage hain... her insecurities should be shown...

I don’t have a problem with Mishti having baggage and insecurities. But what’s the point of all this when her funda in life is to keep brushing things under the carpet?

The writers keep dragging this for drama, that’s it. Abir sees everything but doesn’t initiate a serious discussion with Mishti....and she herself downplays things to keep peace.

These random outbursts and sudden need for acceptance from Meenu is pointless if Mishti refuses to address larger issues.

Agar shaanti se rehna hai toh define your own happiness rather than constantly being confused when you need acceptance and from whom. The past cannot be changed....and all the broken rishte were not Mishti’s fault. She will be always blamed by people like Kuhu, Meenu and Jas regardless. It is up to her to stand up for herself and not let other people define her happiness.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Exactly. Who’s acceptance is Mishti craving so badly? If it’s from Meenu, that will just be ridiculous after all that’s happened. And the rest of the family is anyways affectionate towards Mishti....so what is she getting so anxious about? 😕

The writing is again poor on this front and very contrived simply to force this insecurity drama from Mishti’s side as well and make it seem like both sisters are insecure to the same level and getting played by Meenu 🙄

It’s not that Mishti can’t be manipulated by Meenu since Meenu is quite clever....but the way the scenes are being shown for Mishti feeling insecure over not getting some aashirwaad for one rasam is going overboard.

Confident Mishti comes and goes as per writing convenience 🤷‍♀️😆

Exactly..😆 We can only blame the writers for this poor writings. Just to show kitchen politics jhatpat shadi karwa diya MishBir ki. Now full on kitchen politics led by BigBen. Makers should tone down BigBen's over excitedness. Itni uchak uchak ke khushi jata rahi hei,dekhkar mujhe diabetes hojayegi.😡

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

haha you tried empathizing with her 🤣 yaar i've crossed that limit long back... 🤣

🤣🤣diyu I was trying to be mishti but #notpossible 😉🤣

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Ok now i get the issue 😆

what i said is mish trying to solve all this in what she thinks is right way... but i do agree that is not right... infact mish dealing with kuhu in closed doors is itself is wrong i had problem about this since start... i wanted that to come out in open n everyone to know about what all kuhu does n this be an open issue... now here too mish is trying all possible way to keep kuhu away from her life, she doesnt want or expect kuhu support but wants her to stay away... but her ways are definitely not a guaranteed one mish knows that too...

remember the shaadi day dialogue mish asked kuhu why are you not happy with anything you get, i talk like this with you bcoz you behave this way with me... mish knew what kuhu problem is but she doesnt know how to deal with it... she just needs a solution n tries giving that by trying to convince kuhu in some way even thought thats not reliable.. if you notice even if mish has good intention her way of dealing are always little messy... mish opening up about this can bring some solution maybe... but until she deals with it all alone is not gonna lead to anything good for her..

@bold - this i agree... the neg was not something mish cares about but the words family throw at her does.. the nervousness is something common in every bride, it will take time for her to be content with her husband n all but as of now its natural for her to get this hyper thats what i meant... Abir said in morning naa about exam, making life beautiful, mish needs time to understand all this... even in nish mish track she was pressurized with family ehsaan until she realized how wrong she is so now too its just a start to new life so she is getting hyper with time mish will learn with abirs help that she doesnt need to be the ideal bahu that everyone describes...

i tried explaining what i think of all this yaar hope its somewhat ok 😆

@bold: Sigh, you’re right 😆....it’s the words that affect Mishti more than the neg...I wish it wasn’t so ....the otherwise sensible and mature Mishti gets affected by family waale making random comments about abshagun and Mishti not being a good enough bahu 😕.

Pata nahin when she will realize she is going about this the wrong way 🤷‍♀️.....how will Abir make her realize? He is being supportive in general but he needs to talk to her more directly to make her see sense. Or maybe she needs a big jhatka as usual to wake up

Writers will likely drag this to torture us....I should stop expecting a sensible Mishti in the coming days