Is Mishti being fair ? Spoiler - Page 2

Originally posted by: vssdp

She asked kuhu why she accepted bracelet from kunal during her courtship period

That was a valid question!!!

Kuhu is not a nice person in my opinion. Kuhu is always harping on Mishti for everything so if Mishti does do something, she has my complete support. Kuhu has everything but it’s never enough.

Originally posted by: Namzie1226

That was a valid question!!!

Kuhu is not a nice person in my opinion. Kuhu is always harping on Mishti for everything so if Mishti does do something, she has my complete support. Kuhu has everything but it’s never enough.

I didn't even felt sympathy for kuhu during courtship though she handled it well but she could have said her feelings to family, they would've supported her, mahaanta dikhane ki zarurat nahi thi. Aur agar dikhayi bhi to mishti ko baar baar Ye bolkar ki tune mera rishta cheena and all that she made her character worse.

I am just thinking that mishti has realized abir's feelings by painting but she knows that the painting was painted by abir in courtship days only, so what's her thoughts on abir

Originally posted by: fangirl1012

I will agree to disagree. The song change by Mish in the start of the show was not a deliberate attempt to kick Kuhu out of the sequence. Rather it was a decision made by Mish who was emotionally very low at that time. Nope nada I didn't see I did you a favor attitude during the job phase from M's end. Lol actually Kunal was the one who asked Mish not to continue otherwise M had qualified. Also before that Kuhu was shown to be clueless about doing a job. Only when she got to know Mish is doing one she thought of applying. Mish didn't let Kuhu know that she had gotten the job first.Also your point on Mish having feelings for Abhir during courtship our baseless as she didn't have any feelings for him apart from friendship. Both Abhir and Kuhu were shown in love though. Even I was weirded out on how easily Kuhu accepted Kunal's bracelet. She even guarded it fiercely and was so blind to all of Kunal's fault in the whole track. Kuhu has nothing but down right mean to Mish on numerous occasions. She has said things that aren't even worth mentioning here to Mish. So, yeah I don't see her as the victim here the one time Mish talks back.

Whatever might be the reason for her changing the song this definitely hurt Kuhu and all she could was say sorry .This was not the only time this happened even during the Sufi nights it was planned that Kuhu will sing as well but Mishti forgot about that and got carried away with her song . These small things definitely creates distances between people especially if they are not on good terms. Even during fishtailing exchange I don’t remember Mishti asking Kuhu if she was ok if she accepts the guy who rejected her .Just like Mishti Kuhu has feelings too and expecting everytime for her to understand Mishti’s feelings is not fair .

Mishti definitely has feelings for Abir during her courtship with Kunal and it was quite evident during fire accident . Kuhu accepted the bracket as a token of friendship and I see nothing wrong here .She has feelings for Kunal but she never tried to come between them nor took advantage of the misunderstanding between Kunal and Mishti . If that was wrong then agreeing to marry the guy her sister liked was equally wrong .

I would appreciate if Mishti gives back when she has point but not when she has to do for the sake of it .Since most of you raised this point Kuhu got the job on her own and from what I remember the HR said she finalized two girls only after Meenu insistence Mishti was called first .Even if she was the first choice , I am doing you a favor is not needed . Once should be humble and Kuhu behavior doesn’t justify Mishti’s “I am better than you” attitude .

I am a Mishbir shipper too but I equally like Kuhu Kunal as characters. I am not expecting Mishti to be Mahaan but at the same time being arrogant and “ I did you a favor” attitude doesn’t make Mishti any better than Kuhu .Humbleness is always appreciated

Originally posted by: yyyy

Whatever might be the reason for her changing the song this definitely hurt Kuhu and all she could was say sorry .This is the only time this happened even during the Sufi nights it was planned that Kuhu will sing as well but Mishti forgot about that. These small things definitely creates distances between people especially if they are not on good terms

Mishti definitely has feelings for Abir during her courtship with Kunal and it was quite evident during fire accident . Kuhu accepted the bracket as a token of friendship and I see nothing wrong here .She has feelings for Kunal but she never tried to come between them nor took advantage of the misunderstanding between Kunal and Mishti . If that was wrong then agreeing to marry the guy her sister liked was equally wrong .

If we are keeping scores then what about all the trash Kuhu has been saying to Mish. She hasn't said sorry about that. However, being the bigger person Mish should have said sorry to her sister. These small things create distances if we let them. Honestly these are petty things that should never matter when it comes to a geniune siblings. But Kuhu accusing Mish for all the troubles in her life, linking Mish to her father and blaming her for stealing her families love. Mish deserves an apology too. If you can give Kuhu that ground that she accepted the bracelet as a token of friendship then why can't you see that all Mish had for Abhir from her side was friendship. She never once thought about Abhir in that way.

Originally posted by: fangirl1012

If we are keeping scores then what about all the trash Kuhu has been saying to Mish. She hasn't said sorry about that. However, being the bigger person Mish should have said sorry to her sister. These small things create distances if we let them. Honestly these are petty things that should never matter when it comes to a geniune siblings. But Kuhu accusing Mish for all the troubles in her life, linking Mish to her father and blaming her for stealing her families love. Mish deserves an apology too. If you can give Kuhu that ground that she accepted the bracelet as a token of friendship then why can't you see that all Mish had for Abhir from her side was friendship. She never once thought about Abhir in that way.

Definitely ! If Kuhu hurts Mishti then she needs to apologize as well just like Mishti. I am not gonna justify Kuhu’s action by calling it trivial issue or give Kuhu’s emotional state of mind as an excuse

These petty things over a period of time become bigger ones so one should not take people for granted. Siblings rivalry doesn’t happen just because of some big issues these small ones over a period of time combined with family members treatment becomes huge problems

I am giving benefit of doubt for all . I am not gonna hold Kuhu responsible for having feelings for Kunal because she tried her best to move on and never came between them . If I can gush over Abir’s love for Mishti even during courtship period then I will extend the same to Kuhu Kunal as well

Originally posted by: adni143

anyway i am loving how mishti is with kuhu

because being itv show i fear that they dont make female lead mahan and understanding

for job thing mishti actually got the job kuhu was second choice meenu just asked for it but even after all this mishti rejected and kuhu got that place and in her lala land of kunal she lost that job also and blamed mishti

to be fair mishti has to be like this to tackle with kuhu type girl

she never unnecessarily blamed kuhu she just asked why she took bracelet from whom she was courting'if we remeber that bracelet was even for mishti and kuhu the brainless just took it without quistioning

anyway i want this type of mishbir who dont do sacrifice and become mahan and be most understanding

everyone should fight for their own right mishti till now always fought for what she consider is right and even expect kuhu as she told u should have complained or told that i like kunal

anyway i hope in future even she would be like this

and u this if she would be really understanding then those varsha jasmet or kuhu has let her live they would have eaten that girl alive

Kuhu did not have a choice to fight for Kunal . If Kunal was on her side she could have but least she expected was not to accept Kunal’s proposal for Mishti . It was not even a day Kuhu was humiliated BM started with how Kunal was a perfect match for Mishti totally ignoring Kuhu’s hurt and neither did Mishti think of checking with Kuhu if she was ok . We all remember Kuhu’s taunt but not her way of making up to Mishti . She did feel bad for lashing out at Mishti and in many occasions did try to calm down the nervous Mishti during courtship.

Kuhu tried to move on from a guy who was not interested and I think that was the best decision . I wish she did the Sam ego day but unlike us she doesn’t know the game Meenu and Kunal are playing with her .I feel similar incident might have happened in the past where Mishti’s feelings was given more prominence over Kuhu and that might have created insecurity in Kuhu .Unknowingly Maheswari were insensitive towards Kuhu . It was not like Kunal Mishti were in love that they could not reject the alliance for the way one of their daughter was treated .

I am not expecting Mishti to take crap but I don’t like her it’s because of me you got everything attitude either . This does t make Mishti any less than Kuhu .

Siblings are usually that way, fight fight and fight, some even like cats and dogs, but it's only with each other. When it comes to the others, they would be the first person who comes in support. All these petty fights don't matter in the bigger scheme of things because the care and affection is always there. Please don't say that kuhu and Mishti are similar, they are poles apart! Mishti even with the petty fights with kuhu has never wished anything bad for her and infact tried to help her. But kuhu being the selfish herself, just wants to be happy, and how does it matter for her if this means that Mishti has to suffer, she is happy and thats enough for her. Whatever heartbreak is coming to her when Kunals real intentions are out, she completely deserves it. You can't create a love story of your own by destroying some body else's..

Hey Neetu! I don't post on the forum for this show much, but had to come out of hiding to say that I completely agree with you, and it's very refreshing to see this perspective expressed on the forum! Somehow from day one, it's Kuhu's character who has made the most sense and been the most relatable to me. Can she be petty and immature? Sure, but at least she is up front about what she wants and how she feels; I really like that in her.

For me, it's not hard to understand why she resents Mishti, who treats her like a child and basically sees her as a way to pay off her debt to the Maheshwaris. Like you said, Kuhu never asked for her help and from what I can see, whatever genuine headway Kuhu made with Kunal (they were progressing well before Shweta exposed Abir and Misthi) was in spite of Misthi, not because of her. It also didn't sit right with me that Mishti felt it was okay to lock Kuhu up (multiple times) while she rode out to meet Abir in the middle of the night. Both of them made the promise to Vishambar not to meet the Rajvansh boys but somehow Mishti's transgressions are always overlooked. I honestly blame the elders of the family for this rift -- they treat the girls very differently and it reflects in their behaviour towards one another.

I am really hoping in this track to see a genuine relationship form between the two of them, when Kuhu realises how they are being played. I thought it was interesting that she pushed the idea of the Saurav rishta to see if Misthi really does love Abir -- she is trying to get all the facts and keep her relationship safe in the mean time. It's not ideal, but I see her reasoning. It's also interesting that two sibling bonds are being reversed -- Kunal and Abir were supposed to be super close but we can see that Kunal is easily manipulated by BB. On the other hand, Mishti and Kuhu seem to have a hostile relationship but I think (hope, really) this track will ultimately reveal the genuine concern they have for each other.

Originally posted by: Samanalyse

Hey Neetu! I don't post on the forum for this show much, but had to come out of hiding to say that I completely agree with you, and it's very refreshing to see this perspective expressed on the forum! Somehow from day one, it's Kuhu's character who has made the most sense and been the most relatable to me. Can she be petty and immature? Sure, but at least she is up front about what she wants and how she feels; I really like that in her.

For me, it's not hard to understand why she resents Mishti, who treats her like a child and basically sees her as a way to pay off her debt to the Maheshwaris. Like you said, Kuhu never asked for her help and from what I can see, whatever genuine headway Kuhu made with Kunal (they were progressing well before Shweta exposed Abir and Misthi) was in spite of Misthi, not because of her. It also didn't sit right with me that Mishti felt it was okay to lock Kuhu up (multiple times) while she rode out to meet Abir in the middle of the night. Both of them made the promise to Vishambar not to meet the Rajvansh boys but somehow Mishti's transgressions are always overlooked. I honestly blame the elders of the family for this rift -- they treat the girls very differently and it reflects in their behaviour towards one another.

I am really hoping in this track to see a genuine relationship form between the two of them, when Kuhu realises how they are being played. I thought it was interesting that she pushed the idea of the Saurav rishta to see if Misthi really does love Abir -- she is trying to get all the facts and keep her relationship safe in the mean time. It's not ideal, but I see her reasoning. It's also interesting that two sibling bonds are being reversed -- Kunal and Abir were supposed to be super close but we can see that Kunal is easily manipulated by BB. On the other hand, Mishti and Kuhu seem to have a hostile relationship but I think (hope, really) this track will ultimately reveal the genuine concern they have for each other.

It’s so good to see you Sam . As always , very well articulated . It felt so good to see someone share the same view as me .

I think makers have given multiple hints in the past regarding Kuhu’s insecurity and the biggest one during Rishta exchange . I would hold mostly BM responsible for this . Even in today’s Kuhu was sure BM would not come without Mishti .

Mishti decided to help Kuhu without being asked and later when she felt guilty about hiding it from BM and BP she wanted to reveal everything to Maheswari . Kuhu never asked for help and it should be Kuhu’s decision to come clean about her relationship status . Somewhere Mishti feels she is better Lin everything compared to Kuhu so she wants to decide what’s best for Kuhu like locking her in her room .

Tomorrow when Meenu and Kunal’s truth will be out it will not be Kuhu who misjudged them but Abir and Mishti will be equally responsible for not realizing the true intent of Meenakshi and Kunal .