Is Mishti being fair ? Spoiler

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Posted: 6 years ago
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This is one topic I wanted to make from a long time but never did for unknown reason . Today’s scene between Kuhu and Mishti made me open this topic . Before I say further I am not supporting anyone here but trying to see the whole situation from different angle

Kuhu and Mishti were never close and their relationship are not like that of sisters but can we blame Kuhu alone for the distance that’s created between them . From the first few episodes we have seen if Kuhu has taunted Mishti then Mishti has never cared for Kuhu’s feelings either be it changing the song at the last minute and forcing Kuhu not to participate in the performance she was so eager to be part of or completely ignoring Kuhu’s feelings when the rishta was exchanged and agreeing to marry the guy who rejected her sister . Add to this have seen “ I did you a favor” attitude from Mishti from quite some time be it during the Job fiasco where Mishti wanted Kuhu to be grateful because Kuhu landed the job because of Mishti rejecting it . Without knowing anything what made Mishti feel that Kuhu did not get the job on her merit . If Meenakshi hadn’t intervened Mishti might not have got the offer first . Today again we saw where Mishti said she is the reason for the rishta happening . If I remember correctly Kuhu never asked Mishti to help but it was Mishti who did on her own for some reason . I am not supporting Kuhu blaming Mishti nor Mishti who thinks all good things in Kuhu’s life is because of her . Tomorrow when the truth of Kunal and Kuhu relationship will be out will Mishti take the blame of that ?

Another thing which did not go well with me was Mishti claiming Kuhu of coming between her and Kunal during courtship. From what I remember Kuhu never tried creating rift between them nor tried to woo Kunal . I must say in a very dignified manner she handled the rishta exchange and its very sad that none of her family member recognized that . Even during her first date with Kunal Kuhu and Abir tried to save their date by trying to stay away from them . I felt it was unfair of Mishti to blame Kuhu of coming between them .If Kuhu blames Mishti blindly then Mishti is no less .

Lastly , accusing Kuhu of accepting the bracket from Kunal and trying to woo him was too bad . Kunal and Mishti were in courtship where they were not engaged the question of Kunal being Mishti’s guy doesn’t fit here and secondly if Kuhu secretly loved Kunal the Mishti was getting close to Kunal brother too . She fell in love with Abir during her courtship with Kunal not after her engagement got cancelled . If Kuhu accepted Kunal’s bracket then Mishti and Abir we’re enjoying each other company while working and Mishti had risked her life for Abir’s painting and in no way it was because of friendship

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyyy

This is one topic I wanted to make from a long time but never did for unknown reason . Today’s scene between Kuhu and Mishti made me open this topic . Before I say further I am not supporting anyone here but trying to see the whole situation from different angle

Kuhu and Mishti were never close and their relationship are not like that of sisters but can we blame Kuhu alone for the distance that’s created between them . From the first few episodes we have seen if Kuhu has taunted Mishti then Mishti has never cared for Kuhu’s feelings either be it changing the song at the last minute and forcing Kuhu not to participate in the performance she was so eager to be part of or completely ignoring Kuhu’s feelings when the rishta was exchanged and agreeing to marry the guy who rejected her sister . Add to this have seen “ I did you a favor” attitude from Mishti from quite some time be it during the Job fiasco where Mishti wanted Kuhu to be grateful because Kuhu landed the job because of Mishti rejecting it . Without knowing anything what made Mishti feel that Kuhu did not get the job on her merit . If Meenakshi hadn’t intervened Mishti might not have got the offer first . Today again we saw where Mishti said she is the reason for the rishta happening . If I remember correctly Kuhu never asked Mishti to help but it was Mishti who did on her own for some reason . I am not supporting Kuhu blaming Mishti nor Mishti who thinks all good things in Kuhu’s life is because of her . Tomorrow when the truth of Kunal and Kuhu relationship will be out will Mishti take the blame of that ?

Another thing which did not go well with me was Mishti claiming Kuhu of coming between her and Kunal during courtship. From what I remember Kuhu never tried creating rift between them nor tried to woo Kunal . I must say in a very dignified manner she handled the rishta exchange and its very sad that none of her family member recognized that . Even during her first date with Kunal Kuhu and Abir tried to save their date by trying to stay away from them . I felt it was unfair of Mishti to blame Kuhu of coming between them .If Kuhu blames Mishti blindly then Mishti is no less .

Lastly , accusing Kuhu of accepting the bracket from Kunal and trying to woo him was too bad . Kunal and Mishti were in courtship where they were not engaged the question of Kunal being Mishti’s guy doesn’t fit here and secondly if Kuhu secretly loved Kunal the Mishti was getting close to Kunal brother too . She fell in love with Abir during her courtship with Kunal not after her engagement got cancelled . If Kuhu accepted Kunal’s bracket then Mishti and Abir we’re enjoying each other company while working and Mishti had risked her life for Abir’s painting and in no way it was because of friendship

I did not agree with you completely like the job thing, mishti got selected by some hr then meenakshi came to know about it

But I agree about courtship period, kuhu definitely handled it well and abir also realized his love for mishti in courtship time,if mishti Blamed kuhu for this, will she blame abir too🤔

Personally as a mishbir shipper I am very happy that mishti back answered kuhu because I can't tolerate Kuhu's blame game more

Edited by vssdp - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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When did Mishti accuse kuhu of coming between her and Kunal? I might have completely missed that part!

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Originally posted by: amithu

When did Mishti accuse kuhu of coming between her and Kunal? I might have completely missed that part!

She asked kuhu why she accepted bracelet from kunal during her courtship period

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Posted: 6 years ago
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anyway i am loving how mishti is with kuhu

because being itv show i fear that they dont make female lead mahan and understanding

for job thing mishti actually got the job kuhu was second choice meenu just asked for it but even after all this mishti rejected and kuhu got that place and in her lala land of kunal she lost that job also and blamed mishti

to be fair mishti has to be like this to tackle with kuhu type girl

she never unnecessarily blamed kuhu she just asked why she took bracelet from whom she was courting'if we remeber that bracelet was even for mishti and kuhu the brainless just took it without quistioning

anyway i want this type of mishbir who dont do sacrifice and become mahan and be most understanding

everyone should fight for their own right mishti till now always fought for what she consider is right and even expect kuhu as she told u should have complained or told that i like kunal

anyway i hope in future even she would be like this

and u this if she would be really understanding then those varsha jasmet or kuhu has let her live they would have eaten that girl alive

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: adni143

anyway i am loving how mishti is with kuhu

because being itv show i fear that they dont make female lead mahan and understanding

for job thing mishti actually got the job kuhu was second choice meenu just asked for it but even after all this mishti rejected and kuhu got that place and in her lala land of kunal she lost that job also and blamed mishti

to be fair mishti has to be like this to tackle with kuhu type girl

she never unnecessarily blamed kuhu she just asked why she took bracelet from whom she was courting'if we remeber that bracelet was even for mishti and kuhu the brainless just took it without quistioning

anyway i want this type of mishbir who dont do sacrifice and become mahan and be most understanding

everyone should fight for their own right mishti till now always fought for what she consider is right and even expect kuhu as she told u should have complained or told that i like kunal

anyway i hope in future even she would be like this

and u this if she would be really understanding then those varsha jasmet or kuhu has let her live they would have eaten that girl alive

I agree. Mishti is different from the other extra mahaan female leads of ITV which is actually realistic.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I thank the makers that they never tried to show Mishti Mahaan.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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comparing abir friendshi with bracelet thing

mishti was always open of her friendship she not tried to hide on asking the truth she was totally unaware of her feeling she was honestly courting kunal andnot wanted the rishta to break

mishti today giving back to kuhu to being thankful

first kuhu should actually be thankful if not thankfull then atleast she would not be doing this blame game mishti just gave back

and for stage thing

i actually even blame mishti for that

but dont know why u want mishti to be understnding when kuhu herself is not mishti try to understnd but kuhu as always do blame game

and if kuhu does blame game and mishti try to understand then u dont feel she will total bully mishti like all other itv show female lead who always does sacrifise on the name of ehsaan or being most understanding person

Edited by adni143 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyyy

This is one topic I wanted to make from a long time but never did for unknown reason . Today’s scene between Kuhu and Mishti made me open this topic . Before I say further I am not supporting anyone here but trying to see the whole situation from different angle

Kuhu and Mishti were never close and their relationship are not like that of sisters but can we blame Kuhu alone for the distance that’s created between them . From the first few episodes we have seen if Kuhu has taunted Mishti then Mishti has never cared for Kuhu’s feelings either be it changing the song at the last minute and forcing Kuhu not to participate in the performance she was so eager to be part of or completely ignoring Kuhu’s feelings when the rishta was exchanged and agreeing to marry the guy who rejected her sister . Add to this have seen “ I did you a favor” attitude from Mishti from quite some time be it during the Job fiasco where Mishti wanted Kuhu to be grateful because Kuhu landed the job because of Mishti rejecting it . Without knowing anything what made Mishti feel that Kuhu did not get the job on her merit . If Meenakshi hadn’t intervened Mishti might not have got the offer first . Today again we saw where Mishti said she is the reason for the rishta happening . If I remember correctly Kuhu never asked Mishti to help but it was Mishti who did on her own for some reason . I am not supporting Kuhu blaming Mishti nor Mishti who thinks all good things in Kuhu’s life is because of her . Tomorrow when the truth of Kunal and Kuhu relationship will be out will Mishti take the blame of that ?

Another thing which did not go well with me was Mishti claiming Kuhu of coming between her and Kunal during courtship. From what I remember Kuhu never tried creating rift between them nor tried to woo Kunal . I must say in a very dignified manner she handled the rishta exchange and its very sad that none of her family member recognized that . Even during her first date with Kunal Kuhu and Abir tried to save their date by trying to stay away from them . I felt it was unfair of Mishti to blame Kuhu of coming between them .If Kuhu blames Mishti blindly then Mishti is no less .

Lastly , accusing Kuhu of accepting the bracket from Kunal and trying to woo him was too bad . Kunal and Mishti were in courtship where they were not engaged the question of Kunal being Mishti’s guy doesn’t fit here and secondly if Kuhu secretly loved Kunal the Mishti was getting close to Kunal brother too . She fell in love with Abir during her courtship with Kunal not after her engagement got cancelled . If Kuhu accepted Kunal’s bracket then Mishti and Abir we’re enjoying each other company while working and Mishti had risked her life for Abir’s painting and in no way it was because of friendship

I will agree to disagree. The song change by Mish in the start of the show was not a deliberate attempt to kick Kuhu out of the sequence. Rather it was a decision made by Mish who was emotionally very low at that time. Nope nada I didn't see I did you a favor attitude during the job phase from M's end. Lol actually Kunal was the one who asked Mish not to continue otherwise M had qualified. Also before that Kuhu was shown to be clueless about doing a job. Only when she got to know Mish is doing one she thought of applying. Mish didn't let Kuhu know that she had gotten the job first.Also your point on Mish having feelings for Abhir during courtship our baseless as she didn't have any feelings for him apart from friendship. Both Abhir and Kuhu were shown in love though. Even I was weirded out on how easily Kuhu accepted Kunal's bracelet. She even guarded it fiercely and was so blind to all of Kunal's fault in the whole track. Kuhu has nothing but down right mean to Mish on numerous occasions. She has said things that aren't even worth mentioning here to Mish. So, yeah I don't see her as the victim here the one time Mish talks back.

Edited by fangirl1012 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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actually kuhu deserve that kind of reply only..mishti asking about bracelet thing is not wrong, since kuhu accepted that she was liking kunal since the first meeting. also mishti saw how upset kuhu was when engagement was fixed, indicating kuhu was nurturing her feelings for him during the courtship period also. the same cant be said about mishti as she was unaware of her feelings for abir.. even we cant blame abir coz he knew about his own feelings during the courtship period and not before that..

i agree about mishti changing songs during performances and making kuhu angry cant be justified..mishti needs to say atleast a sorry eventhough it is of no use..kuhu is so selfish that she hates mishti for all love and care being shared with her.

about the job thing, mishti never let kuhu know that the job was first given to her. also kuhu has approached mishti for help to unite with kunal. mishti voluntarily did things but kuhu asked for help too..

i really hate kuhu for being such a selfish and self centered girl. she is best for kunal as both are same in terms of evilness🙄

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