Conditional love of a insensitive brother

Abhir is behaving like abhira needs to be saneast girl to be his sister. Like she needs to be complete innocent. Dudh ki dhuli. Woh pata lagayega abhira acchi hain ya buri. Kaun aisa karta hain bhai? Behan hain Teri. Ladki acchi ho ya na ho. Matlab agar perfect insaan nehi hui to tu Behan nehi manega? His mindset is still of a 6 year old. Same jealousy and insensitivity. Does he not realize ke she is Abhinav, his Papa's only nishani. His blood. Abhinav gave his everything to abhir and that's how he is treating abhira? Usko ruhi pe bharosa hain jisse woh bas 6 saal ke umar main mila tha woh bhi sirf kuch month ke liye. Aur uski maa ne abhira ko 21 saal tak. He still believes ruhi soooo blindly? Maybe that's birla blood talking. The way he break the baby news to abhira I thought okay he hates abhira. Phir aise Armaan ko push kiya, aise behave karna jaise he cares for his sister? Who is even writing his character?

When he will flip to abhira he will be abhinavs son..when he needs time to understand situations and people he is a birla ?

Anyways. Suwarna asked him to be like kairav. Kairav never supported akshu fully & specially when he was most needed, this was irrespective of the fact that akshu was his bio sister ..so at max he will be diplomatic to both ruhi & abhira or tilt towards ruhi more like his mama kairav did to arohi...kyunki goenkas ke khoon mei hai biasedness

Though even I think the way of revelation could have been better but I don't think we can judge him as brother this soon.

He himself is confused now.

And it's just a week so it will take time.

Just because he revealed the truth he is birlas ka blood n not fake sharma ji ka son..Haan sach chupata to woh fake sharma ji ka beta hota kyunke sach chupane ki adat sharma ji ko thi..

Did he asked Sharma ji to give him anything? That fraud wanted to fill his empty photo frames that's why he stalked a pregnant woman n trapped her in live in..

Originally posted by: zohakhan7

Just because he revealed the truth he is birlas ka blood n not fake sharma ji ka son..Haan sach chupata to woh fake sharma ji ka beta hota kyunke sach chupane ki adat sharma ji ko thi..

Did he asked Sharma ji to give him anything? That fraud wanted to fill his empty photo frames that's why he stalked a pregnant woman n trapped her in live in..

I will cut him some slack.. He is yet to bond with both these girls and yet to learn their identities..

When armaan who lived with Ro all his life can't see how vile he is, how can someone who missed entire childhood and upbringing with sisters understand who they are and what they are..

He is yet to bond with Ab or Ar or Ru.. His perception of Ru was that of 6 yr old Ru who helped him escape house to meet his parents in kasauli.. That little baby who supported him in tough times at Burrrla house.. It's too early to pass judgement about him..

Originally posted by: zohakhan7

Just because he revealed the truth he is birlas ka blood n not fake sharma ji ka son..Haan sach chupata to woh fake sharma ji ka beta hota kyunke sach chupane ki adat sharma ji ko thi..

Did he asked Sharma ji to give him anything? That fraud wanted to fill his empty photo frames that's why he stalked a pregnant woman n trapped her in live in..

Abhinav gave him everything, so he need to support irrespective of everything.Just because abhira is Nav's only nishani. Wow, this perspective itself is bad. It remains me of some novels, in which one person is suppose of support the other irrespective of right and wrong, just because the person or their parents did something good to the other.

About support, we can't accept to believe our own bio siblings to support us without any sense of judgment. Here abhir is just a half sibling to abhira. In case of truth of the kid, Abhir did nothing wrong, Nurse told him Armaan swapped the baby, he told it to both families and Armaan accepted it. Only thing that he failed is he doesn't know the involvement of Rohit in the mess.

About the correct time, no time will be correct as the mess already happened. Abhira and ruhi are bound to face this.

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Kya zamana aagaya hai, standing for truth makes you insensitive while stealing kids and snatching other’s rights makes you pookie bbg hara jhanda🤦‍♀️

Abhir doesn't know Abhira. they are practically strangers who are bound by blood. Akshara never told Abhira about Abhir & he probably was raised in an orphan and hence he gets repulsed by relationships. He is still carrying the baggage of his traumatic past.

While he doesn't know Abhira, he remembers the 6 year old Ruhi & they do have a connection despite everything that happened between them years ago....It's not like Abhir doesn't feel a connection with Abhira, it's certainly there but like he said he is in a confused state where he is trying to make sense of things.

He doesn't like Armaan from the beginning so that is what pushed him apart from Ruhi's phonecall, his own trauma of how his mom was kicked out of the house too & the fact that he himself had gone through a traumatic experience in regards to his parents which is something he did not want baby Daksh to go through...All these things coupled with Abhir's own anger issues & impulsive attitude is what pushed him to break the news to Abhira in the way he did!

What he did was not wrong at all, the way was definitely harsh.

Abhir as of now is grappling with his own condition and circumstances...Ideally, he should form a bond with Abhira while having a soft spot for Ruhi. He can be the common point of connect between the two sisters.

No clue what the writers have in mind though. But personally, I get his motivations and actions.