Conditional love of a insensitive brother - Page 4

I have complaints about him how he treat Abhira.But he shouldn't be nice to her just because Abhinav treat him nicely.We don't ask this to siblings whose both parents are common . Because for Abhir, Abhinav abhi bhi uska papa hain,not step.thatswhy he always looks at his family picture with Abhin and Ak.So he loves Abhinav and considers him his own,it's not gratefulness for raising him up even after not being son.According to him uske mamma papa uska hain ,he dint consider them as Abhira's .

Anyway it's all not a reason to behave with her rudely.Time needed for developing Sister brother bond .He still can be considerate towards her.Can find out the truth in a neutral way.he don't do all these things

Originally posted by: elizamerin

I have complaints about him how he treat Abhira.But he shouldn't be nice to her just because Abhinav treat him nicely.We don't ask this to siblings whose both parents are common . Because for Abhir, Abhinav abhi bhi uska papa hain,not step.thatswhy he always looks at his family picture with Abhin and Ak.So he loves Abhinav and considers him his own,it's not gratefulness for raising him up even after not being son.According to him uske mamma papa uska hain ,he dint consider them as Abhira's .

Anyway it's all not a reason to behave with her rudely.Time needed for developing Sister brother bond .He still can be considerate towards her.Can find out the truth in a neutral way.he don't do all these things

Originally posted by: Debospeaks

Isiliye Abhira need to stay at mussoorie for some time. Alone and not around any of her biological relatives.

Yes I also want the same.Eventhough Armaan did a big mistake to her,the one who cared for her most was Armaan only.If she going to leave him,why would she go to that G fossils and Abhir who at this moment choose Ruhi's vileness over Abhira's pain .she better go to Mussourie.Thats her home in real sense not G house

Originally posted by: elizamerin

Yes I also want the same.Eventhough Armaan did a big mistake to her,the one who cared for her most was Armaan only.If she going to leave him,why would she go to that G fossils and Abhir who at this moment choose Ruhi's vileness over Abhira's pain .she better go to Mussourie.Thats her home in real sense not G house

Originally posted by: Debospeaks

This is the reason why Akshara didn't disclose anything regarding her past to Abhira. She knew they are of no use to her.

If they are just useless,phirbhi teek hain.But they will use her to cover up sirat legacy daughter's mistakes.But when the time she needed them,they will throw her under the bus.Akshara learnt it with her whole life.Now Abhira also has to go through this from step 1?

Originally posted by: elizamerin

Ruhi is creating new new misunderstanding s in Abhir's mind about Abhira in every episode.He is nt even trying to clarify the truth .Then how will them understand each other?it will be like the journey of Armaan understanding Abhira.it will take months to clear all of it.tab tak who knows what kands he will do in his destructive mode.

And also kisi ke saath Sula karne main aur kisiko blindly blame karne main difference hain.

Yeah that is worrisome.. Maybe now that she exists P house, probably she will go to G house there she may bond with Abhir well.. He can see what kinda girl his mom raised alone.. they dint have much alone time together.. This can be very good opportunity..

We can hope dakshu to give tough time to his so called bio mom so that she can leave both Ab and Ab alone

Originally posted by: Debospeaks

This is the reason why Akshara didn't disclose anything regarding her past to Abhira. She knew they are of no use to her.

Akshu knew there is nothing good to talk about G family

But why does hulk ki mameri behen and her fans even want any love from Abhir. I have learnt from this forum that Birlas and especially Abhi was a pathetic human, so why should his son, an Birla blood even love kachri? And that too unconditionally?

Kachri is a perfect combination of bhagodi and bachachor.. use kisi ki zaroorat nahi hai.. and she has creepyman with her.. dono miya biwi kaafi hai khudki and dusro ki life jhand karne keliye…

Mohit has said Abhir is grey character with negative shades.. toh let villain Abhir and vamp Ruhi who have Birla blood stay away from achi, sachi, muchi, tuchi kachri and her tail creepyman.. RuBhir are insensitive toxic red flag like Abhi and don’t deserve to be around pure souls like abheekmaan who steal kids and snatch other’s rights✌🏻…

IMHO abhir being reluctant and abhorrent to his family members including his half-sister is a natural behavior. Because Kairav lived with the goenkas throughout but Abhir had his everything taken away by foolishness of the adults in his family. Kids with traumatised past needs compassion to overcome the bitterness of past. Abhira always had her mother but abhir during his childhood had a bunch of stupid adults lying and hiding important truths about his existence and there's none ever since. A friend of mine once told her kid doesn't eat sweets because he's never fed since birth, similarly abhir is deprived of love and affection since childhood. Only his brief interactions with his extended family is of custody battle, hospitalisation and more extreme events. This gen seem to be about kids getting out of the emotional quagmire left by their parents.

Originally posted by: AKHIAWAL

Abhir is behaving like abhira needs to be saneast girl to be his sister. Like she needs to be complete innocent. Dudh ki dhuli. Woh pata lagayega abhira acchi hain ya buri. Kaun aisa karta hain bhai? Behan hain Teri. Ladki acchi ho ya na ho. Matlab agar perfect insaan nehi hui to tu Behan nehi manega? His mindset is still of a 6 year old. Same jealousy and insensitivity. Does he not realize ke she is Abhinav, his Papa's only nishani. His blood. Abhinav gave his everything to abhir and that's how he is treating abhira? Usko ruhi pe bharosa hain jisse woh bas 6 saal ke umar main mila tha woh bhi sirf kuch month ke liye. Aur uski maa ne abhira ko 21 saal tak. He still believes ruhi soooo blindly? Maybe that's birla blood talking. The way he break the baby news to abhira I thought okay he hates abhira. Phir aise Armaan ko push kiya, aise behave karna jaise he cares for his sister? Who is even writing his character?

This again is the hypocrisy of Akshara irrespective of her past baggage, she should've explained everything and normal people would do that. Abhira has the need to know about her extended family and the notion of kissi kaam k nahi hai is very bad and akshara had burnt all her bridges because things didn't work out for her.

Originally posted by: Debospeaks

This is the reason why Akshara didn't disclose anything regarding her past to Abhira. She knew they are of no use to her.