The biggest difference between Ruhi and Armaan - Page 8

Originally posted by: LiveLifeHonest

Ruhi is wrong and no one is denying that. Her deeds should come out, but it is too late because Mahaan Abhimaan kept quiet earlier. Even if it comes out now, on what moral grounds can the Poddar family, Armaan or Rohit scold her when Armaan and Rohit committed the bigger crime of kidnapping a baby? Both of them are immoral as well.

I noticed you used the word 'punishment' for Armaan and 'jail' for Ruhi. Shouldn't both to jail being criminals? Why the double standards?

They are already justifying Armaan's mistakes. Why turn Ruhi more vile? If turning another character evil after one's of Ruhi's kaands is considering whitewashing Ruhi, why isn't turning Ruhi more evil after Armaan's crime not considered whitewashing Armaan? What is the point of 'realising mistakes' when one keeps making the same mistakes and hurting people again? He is a total hypocrite- apologies don't make anything right; you need to show remorse and fix the situation. Armaan is not making the situations better, only worsening them with his stupidity. If he doesn't go to jail in this track, what is the difference between the writers' approach to him and Ruhi? Both are criminals who didn't go to jail.

@Bold Underlined - Crime is a crime ! When you are so particular abt sending criminals to jail then Ruhi shld be the first to go considering her evil acts started from before.

@Bold - I mentioned punishment in my first post and then you mentioned abt Armaan and Rohit being jailed and so I said Ruhi had to be jailed for her previous kaands.

@Italicized - Difference is Armaan being called out for his wrong doings by everyone(characters) openly and Ruhi's vileness is always kept under wraps and she being treated as one acchi sachi insaan.

I have mentioned before, Armaan is wrong and he will get his due for it. Ruhi also should get it was my whole point. Please try and comprehend my reply rather than quoting as double standards.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

Ruhi is not punished by people..she gets karmic punishment…she does bad stuff and people she loves are taken away from her ..its always been like that..and she’s left sad and miserable..but instead of humbling herself and stopping her vile ways..she continues doing bad stuff and she suffers more…that’s Ruhis life cycle ..until,she reforms and becomes a good person..she’ll continue losing people she loves..although she loves herself more than anyone else 😂

@Bold - Agree to this completely but for once I want her to be called out in front of everyone (characters in the show) and she face humiliation for her vileness. She had zero remorse while accepting her kand of naming an infant "Ashubh" and still none in the family knows this. This is what I was highlighting that she should be called for her kaands and be shamed like how leads are called out every time by everyone in the show. My ask is from the writers who are so consistent in keeping her kaands under the wraps.

Originally posted by: LiveLifeHonest

Agreed. Using his hypocrisy to defend him only makes him look more worse. Adding onto your point, what is ironical that Ruhi's traumatic past cannot be used to justify because she is an adult, but Armaan's traumatic past and 'Rohit forcing him' can be used to justify Armaan despite him also being an adult.

I just picked up another hypocrisy- some ask for jail for Ruhi for kidnapping and emotionally blackmailing Armaan to marry her, but cannot accept Armaan going to jail for kidnapping a baby. I don't understand what is the difference between their crimes in terms of law.

If u see Ruhi had more traumatic past than Armaan since she lost both her parents at the age of 7 and then her another father figure poppy also left behind his ungrateful ex wife n son who just needed him after that abhinav died otherwise they treated him like a thrash..Imagine a 7 yrs old losing all her family and then left behind with great grand parents who could have died any time n more than them ruhi took care of them..When a person like ak who was involved in Ruhi's both parents death then obviously she would hate ak n everything related to her..And then Armaan ditched her n two timed her with abheera n then her own husband donated her child to a woman whom she hates the most..I m not saying Ruhi is saint since she has done some terrible deeds too for which she is already punished n she has lost way too much than Armaan or Abheera.When Armaan can be justified after keeping Ruhi's baby without her consent then everything can be justified.

I have always said Ruhi is wrong and should go to jail. Please check my previous posts- I have always stated that Ruhi is a villain and have not defended her. I have no issues with her going to jail. Some fans have problems with the word ‘jail’ being used for Armaan. If you’re one of those fans who agree that Armaan and Rohit too need to go to jail, I’m sorry that I misunderstood you.

i don’t mind using the word jail for both Ruhi and the Poddar brothers are both are equally wrong to me.

His wrongs get called out but what is the point? He goes on to commit a crime. He gets called out what he is never punished properly. If you look at the trend, every punishment is half-hearted. Ruhi’s vileness is covered up, but she does suffer karma for her actions.

Originally posted by: chabalas

@Bold Underlined - Crime is a crime ! When you are so particular abt sending criminals to jail then Ruhi shld be the first to go considering her evil acts started from before.

@Bold - I mentioned punishment in my first post and then you mentioned abt Armaan and Rohit being jailed and so I said Ruhi had to be jailed for her previous kaands.

@Italicized - Difference is Armaan being called out for his wrong doings by everyone(characters) openly and Ruhi's vileness is always kept under wraps and she being treated as one acchi sachi insaan.

I have mentioned before, Armaan is wrong and he will get his due for it. Ruhi also should get it was my whole point. Please try and comprehend my reply rather than quoting as double standards.

Originally posted by: chabalas

@Bold - Agree to this completely but for once I want her to be called out in front of everyone (characters in the show) and she face humiliation for her vileness. She had zero remorse while accepting her kand of naming an infant "Ashubh" and still none in the family knows this. This is what I was highlighting that she should be called for her kaands and be shamed like how leads are called out every time by everyone in the show. My ask is from the writers who are so consistent in keeping her kaands under the wraps.

Intentions!!! That’s a major difference.,, between armaan and ruhi… armaan does not do things with a wrong intention…. But ruhi always dies then with a wrong I intention….

Ruhi married rohit yo stay close to armaan…. But armaan wanted rohit ki happiness….

Armasn did not take the baby from rohit with an intention to make ruhi unhappy and sad….

Armasn did not ask ruhi to name the baby with an intention to hurt her…. But ruhi had the whole wrong intention….

So yes, intentions matter…. Ruhi is a vamp ne Aise she has all the wrong intentions of troubling people…. Armasn never has such intentions!!!

Originally posted by: Indira1211

Ruhi is not punished by people..she gets karmic punishment…she does bad stuff and people she loves are taken away from her ..its always been like that..and she’s left sad and miserable..but instead of humbling herself and stopping her vile ways..she continues doing bad stuff and she suffers more…that’s Ruhis life cycle ..until,she reforms and becomes a good person..she’ll continue losing people she loves..although she loves herself more than anyone else 😂

Ruhi can get away with anything because she has childhood trauma. She will never be held responsible for any of her actions because she has childhood trauma. She should be forgiven even without asking for forgiveness because she has childhood trauma.

It’s time we should stop abusing childhood trauma when it’s convenient for us because people with childhood trauma don’t do what Ruhi does. Ruhi should go see a psychiatrist for her childhood trauma instead of abusing it and ruining peoples lives.

Originally posted by: The_Best

So a 6 year old innocent child losing her father and then mother was her karma for her non-existent crimes? Since you hate Ruhi, so it may be fun for you to assume that. But anyone watching it neutrally know no one suffers as much as FL in shows (in 99% of shows). So don’t worry Abhira’s karma is going to come back. This happy baby track is also a fake happiness she got from Ruhi’s baby. It is not real nor lasting for long.

You’re not neutral if you think karma will hit Abhira who has no idea the baby isn’t hers but won’t hit Ruhi who does everything deliberately and still gets away with it.

Abhira once she finds out will give Ruhi’s baby back, have her own baby, and Ruhi will forever envy Abhira and her baby lol.

Karma doesn't hit anyone in ITV. It all depends on ratings. Abhira isn't at fault here but she will be the one to suffer cos in ITV the FL suffers regardless. Don't expect any sense in ITV. I have binge watched many ITV shows and what the FL gets everywhere and everytime is just DDP and in the end they die prematurely. We expect bad to be punished and good to be appreciated but it always ends in disappointment. So, just watch it as a work of fiction without getting attached to any character. As far as people like ruhi are concerned, in real life such people suffer and require constant therapies, medications and heavy anti depressants since they have ruined someone else's life but here in ITV they never get their dues. Just watch itv as a timepass, nothing else.

Originally posted by: Noorain13

You’re not neutral if you think karma will hit Abhira who has no idea the baby isn’t hers but won’t hit Ruhi who does everything deliberately and still gets away with it.

Abhira once she finds out will give Ruhi’s baby back, have her own baby, and Ruhi will forever envy Abhira and her baby lol.

Originally posted by: Noorain13

You’re not neutral if you think karma will hit Abhira who has no idea the baby isn’t hers but won’t hit Ruhi who does everything deliberately and still gets away with it.

Abhira once she finds out will give Ruhi’s baby back, have her own baby, and Ruhi will forever envy Abhira and her baby lol.