The biggest difference between Ruhi and Armaan

is that Armaan always faces consequences for his actions

1) They gave him a long-drawn redemption track for his behavior toward Abhira. Everyone from Madhav to Abhira to Manish called him out.

They gave him scenes and dialogues, highlighting how much he regrets his actions. Then came a phase where he worked on his actions

https://x.com/agni_jyotsna/status/1809051044128678240

https://x.com/agni_jyotsna/status/1823198750816211422

There was accountability on his part for all his actions. There was realization, regret, and repentance

2) Everyone berated Armaan for leaving Ruhi at the altar. Manish Goenka slapped him countless times. He begged Ruhi for forgiveness

3) When Rumaal's truth was revealed, Armaan was again called out by everyone - Abhira, Manish, and DadiSa. Armaan accepted his mistake and regretted hurting both Ruhi and ABhira. Apologized and made boundaries with Ruhi.

4) Rohit came back and Armaan faced his anger for all the hurt he caused his younger brother.

Armaan is completely wrong in this baby swap situation and Ruhi deserves to get her back. I am sure when truth comes out Armaan will be called out by everyone. He will face everyone s wrath, which he very well deserves

But for all her actions, there has been absolutely zero accountability on Ruhi's part.

That s why Armaan and Ruhi are not on the same level. That s why Armaan will always remain a better human being, because he takes responsibility for his actions.

If characters saying things to another character is the base of someone suffering consequences of their actions, then what is happening with Abhira? What happened with Armaan for doing wrong things is what happens with Abhira in every track, she was abused and cursed for not being able to have a child

She is facing consequences of what?

ITV works by end result, Armaan got the woman he loves, he has a stable career, he is the most important part of his family's business

Ruhi lost the man she loves, her husband prefers taking care of his bhabhi over his wife and she lost her child too

Ruhi is still facing consequences of that one decision, ultimately marriage to Armaan's brother was the worst decision of her life

Originally posted by: WhimsicalMind

If characters saying things to another character is the base of someone suffering consequences of their actions, then what is happening with Abhira? What happened with Armaan for doing wrong things is what happens with Abhira in every track, she was abused and cursed for not being able to have a child

She is facing consequences of what?

ITV works by end result, Armaan got the woman he loves, he has a stable career, he is the most important part of his family's business

Ruhi lost the man she loves, her husband prefers taking care of his bhabhi over his wife and she lost her child too

Ruhi is still facing consequences of that one decision, ultimately marriage to Armaan's brother was the worst decision of her life

I mean if you cannot differentiate between a man being called out for his wrong actions, and a woman being cursed without any fault of hers then that's on you

His consequences were when he lost the love of his life, when his brother openly hated him, and when he was thrashed in front of hundreds of people.

He worked hard to earn their trust and forgiveness

He worked hard for everything that he has managed to gain - both personally and professionally

Don't you see that Armaan has shown genuine regret for all his wrong doings? Tell me something has Ruhi ever shown even half of it?

Ruhi on the other hand never faced any consequences for her actions. Never

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

I mean if you cannot differentiate between a man being called out for his wrong actions, and a woman being cursed without any fault of hers then that's on you

His consequences were when he lost the love of his life, when his brother openly hated him, and when he was thrashed in front of hundreds of people.

He worked hard to earn their trust and forgiveness

He worked hard for everything that he has managed to gain - both personally and professionally

Don't you see that Armaan has shown genuine regret for all his wrong doings? Tell me something has Ruhi ever shown even half of it?

Ruhi on the other hand never faced any consequences for her actions. Never

Exactly. While Armaan was facing consequences of his action, Ruhi was chilling as Rohit's wife and plotting to get Armaan back. The day Ruhi Birla faces half the ire Armaan faced for his wrong actions, I'll start taking that woman seriously. But nah, she gets away with every wrong actions, be it morally wrong or legally punishable. Ab toh she has got lifetime free pass thanks to Poddar brothers' nonsense.

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

I mean if you cannot differentiate between a man being called out for his wrong actions, and a woman being cursed without any fault of hers then that's on you

His consequences were when he lost the love of his life, when his brother openly hated him, and when he was thrashed in front of hundreds of people.

He worked hard to earn their trust and forgiveness

He worked hard for everything that he has managed to gain - both personally and professionally

Ruhi on other hand never faced any consequence for her actions. Never

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You are the one saying that these characters calling out Armaan is somehow punishment for him, I was asking you Abhira is being punished for what? Because these characters do it to her in every other track

Ruhi never faced any consequences? I can totally see her living happily with the man she loves, raising her child and naming it, wait that never happened

Who is doing all that? Armaan

After stealing her child, he is happily celebrating with the woman he loves, planning future of the child he stole

Ruhi is a bitter woman who is reduced to someone whose husband prefers his bhabhi's pain over hers, her baby is taken from her and unknowingly she is cursing her own child and I think, she'll lose it too

Originally posted by: WhimsicalMind

If characters saying things to another character is the base of someone suffering consequences of their actions, then what is happening with Abhira? What happened with Armaan for doing wrong things is what happens with Abhira in every track, she was abused and cursed for not being able to have a child

She is facing consequences of what?

ITV works by end result, Armaan got the woman he loves, he has a stable career, he is the most important part of his family's business

Ruhi lost the man she loves, her husband prefers taking care of his bhabhi over his wife and she lost her child too

Ruhi is still facing consequences of that one decision, ultimately marriage to Armaan's brother was the worst decision of her life

When Rohit re-entered it was like new beginning for everyone, just like Ar got woman that loved him with his flaws similarly Ruhi got man that loved her with her flaws. After few days drama he accepted her and gave her love, respect and care but what she did?

When life gives you second chance, there are two options either take it or cry upon past.

The one who move on became happy and the one who was fooling her husband again while still stuck on past became unhappy.

Again after Ruhi came back to reality and started reciprocating Ro's feelings she was happy. And a baby was coming to her life, which will make her life more colourful.

But again she started focusing on Ab and her baby more. Why Ab is pregnant? she's taking away my haq. Only my baby should get everything so destroyed sweater and so on.

Isn't it self inflicted unhappiness?

(Baby swap track is entire different thing and she's definitely main victim in this so don't bring this up as this could not be only thing in her defence)

And Ruhi came to Ab and requesting her to not treat Ar in harsh way as he's already in guilt and vo mana raha h.😭

If you'll look at story Ar also had his share of sufferings even if it was indirect way. But from last 1 year

Now he's definitely doing something very wrong by hurting mothers and deserves punishment.

Abhira to ITV FL h vo kuch kare ya nahi, life to jhand hi rahegi.

Originally posted by: WhimsicalMind

Please use ChatGPT if you are having difficulty understanding the sentences

You are the one saying that these characters calling out Armaan is somehow punishment for him, I was asking you Abhira is being punished for what? Because these characters do it to her in every other track

Ruhi never faced any consequences? I can totally see her living happily with the man she loves, raising her child and naming it, wait that never happened

Who is doing all that? Armaan

After stealing her child, he is happily celebrating with the woman he loves, planning future of the child he stole

You might need a tool to understand sentences mate, luckily I don't have that problem.

I am saying that Armaan being hated by two most important people of his life - Abhira and Rohit is his punishment

The context of the scene matters. Its a context of the scene that decides whether it's about a man being rightfully called out for her actions or a woman being cursed without any fault of hers.

By the end of the track, Ruhi will get her baby back

Cant say about Rohit but Armaan will face consequences for his actions. But Ruhi again will get away with all the unnecessary negativity she has shown to Abhira s bay.

Right from the first track of this gen, Ruhi has been handled with Kid gloves. Get away with everything

Originally posted by: Drna7

When Rohit re-entered it was like new beginning for everyone, just like Ar got woman that loved him with his flaws similarly Ruhi got man that loved her with her flaws. After few days drama he accepted her and gave her love, respect and care but what she did?

When life gives you second chance, there are two options either take it or cry upon past.

The one who move on became happy and the one who was fooling her husband again while still stuck on past became unhappy.

Again after Ruhi came back to reality and started reciprocating Ro's feelings she was happy. And a baby was coming to her life, which will make her life more colourful.

But again she started focusing on Ab and her baby more. Why Ab is pregnant? she's taking away my haq. Only my baby should get everything so destroyed sweater and so on.

Isn't it self inflicted unhappiness?

(Baby swap track is entire different thing and she's definitely main victim in this so don't bring this up as this could not be only thing in her defence)

And Ruhi came to Ab and requesting her to not treat Ar in harsh way as he's already in guilt and vo mana raha h.😭

If you'll look at story Ar also had his share of sufferings even if it was indirect way. But from last 1 year

Now he's definitely doing something very wrong by hurting mothers and deserves punishment.

Abhira to ITV FL h vo kuch kare ya nahi, life to jhand hi rahegi.

I don't need a recap, I know what Ruhi has done. I said I see her facing consequences in the story itself, characters saying something to her is not possible because they have to keep her in the house, how else do you explain "Ek hazaron mein" sequence?

Take the car thing - Ruhi went out to check gender, what happened? She had an accident, who is suffering?

I can see she is getting extreme pain instantly, characters don't abuse her but the same husband who was supposed to love her, puts his bhabhi over her, he also gave her expired medicine

I can see that she is facing consequences of her actions instantly

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

You might need a tool to understand sentences mate, luckily I don't have that problem.

I am saying that Armaan being hated by two most important people of his life - Abhira and Rohit is his punishment

The context of the scene matters. Its a context of the scene that decides whether it's about a man being rightfully called out for her actions or a woman being cursed without any fault of hers.

By the end of the track, Ruhi will get her baby back

Cant say about Rohit but Armaan will face consequences for his actions. But Ruhi again will get away with all the unnecessary negativity she has shown to Abhira s bay.

Right from the first track of this gen, Ruhi has been handled with Kid gloves. Get away with everything

You misquoted me so the problem is definitely there, using tools is not wrong, it helps clear unnecessary drama

Same characters who abuse Abhira are those who call out Armaan, what standing do they have to call someone out?

Originally posted by: WhimsicalMind

I don't need a recap, I know what Ruhi has done. I said I see her facing consequences in the story itself, characters saying something to her is not possible because they have to keep her in the house, how else do you explain "Ek hazaron mein" sequence?

Take the car thing - Ruhi went out to check gender, what happened? She had an accident, who is suffering?

I can see she is getting extreme pain instantly, characters don't abuse her but the same husband who was supposed to love her, puts his bhabhi over her, he also gave her expired medicine

I can see that she is facing consequences of her actions instantly

Yeah atleast you accepted she did something wrong hence facing consequences unlike others. Yeah right now she's facing consequences but point is she has any realisation about her mistakes?

Though taking away her kid is not any of her consequence, it's mistake of others for which they will suffer.

Now also she was wishing bad for someone else's kid but she'll face consequence when truth will come out.

@bold - From what I remember he didn't gave them, it was near expiry date or got expired.