Originally posted by: sharadrocks
I found her dialogues wish washy and not to the point ā¦all she had to say was she was not mentally ready to take on the responsibilities of child rearing .. she wanted time to realise her professional dreams ..this was all that required to be said.. I donāt disagree with the part about how a woman alone can decide she is mentally and physically fit to be a mother ā¦I felt the scene was not well-written.. Armaanās response was tepid because her lines were not to the point ..her emphasis was simply not on her dreams !
Personally I believe they should have written abhira's dialogue emphasizing that it's understandable for armaan wishing a baby since he has achieved his goals and he is age appropriate for it.
Knowing the age difference between them he should grant her some time to first become a proper adult who is mentally, emotionally, financially ready for such a step.
It's not too much to ask for.
And I think after marriage armaan will/should realise that. If it's an unplanned pregnancy that's a different issue but they should not start planning right off the start of their married life.
Knowing how many challenges she will be facing once the marriage is done baby will just complicate the matter.
I hope they use this opportunity well, and put a step forward in stoping romanticising motherhood/parenthood. It's a very difficult job and any person who wants a baby should be getting into it with will and complete knowledge of the responsibility.
It is not something that should be done under family or spousal pressure.
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