The New Ruhi - My Opinion - Page 3

Originally posted by: bajarbattu

A luxurious and comfortable upbringing is not a recipe for happiness. Goenkas compensated Ruhi with obsessive love and fulfilment of all her wishes even the most ridiculous ones (throwing Akshara out of their home) for her most grave loss. Grave as per their thinking.

This encouraged the child to develop abnormal thoughts about love, ownership in relations, family and subservience.

It may be Abhira's story in Gen 4, but when the big revelation happens about Abhira being a Goenka, there is going to be more trouble for Ruhi than for Abhira. Abhira may be immatured, but her mother has passed on to her a sense of compassion and understanding of people's needs. Abhira will be able to get herself together faster than Ruhi, who will most probably crack under the pressure of asking for the unthinkable as a child. (she confessed on holy day, that she missed her Akshara maasi the most, and they showed the scenes where Ruhi was having mutually affectionate moments with her maasi) And Abhira being her mum's daughter and with her Maheshwari-Singhania ancestry would move heaven and earth to let Ruhi have that attention from both the families. She will have by then understood that Ruhi behaves like a clinging vine because of her own insecurities. In that way Abhira even though she is younger than Ruhi, is the stronger personality.

I agree on her love for Armaan being superficial... But the problem is that this can be said about Armaan too. Both fell for each other because they liked each other for their looks. It was literally love at first look. This maybe love, but not the everlasting kind of love, not the 7 janam wala love. That kind of love grows and deepens over time. It deepens because of time spent together, experiencing each other over serious obstacles in the mutual relationship.

It is the reason for Armaan's weaning interest in Ruhi and rising affection for Abhira. Even when he is shown being lost in eye contact with Ruhi, it is because of her looks. Not because of her as a person. While in Abhira's case, his growing affection is because of her as a person. Even her irritating ways have become a habit for him, he misses her when he is alone. I actually love their slow burn romance. This one is going to burn in the fires that are created by Dadisa and Fufasa and just become more golden.

I love the layered story of these four - Armaan - Abhira - Rohit - Ruhi ................. Its going to make for many many tracks and hopefully we get to see a longer Gen 4 story. So many possibilities.

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much love, light and laughter,
Battu.

Very well write up. I believe abhira will be the one to get her out of her trauma and help her out.

Originally posted by: sweta2005

y would writer show reasoning y ruhi accepted rohit'd rishta after miscommunication on phone when same Writers were hailed when a mother chsnged a father's name on birthcertificate after same miscommunication on phone,where no realisation or introspection was shown,same will happen now

Akshara was punished by the court for this it's done and dusted in s3 lol

Criminal akshara got punishment for her sins very late in the form of getting shot and dying a pathetic death.

She was convicted and imposed with punishmemt for the crimes she did , but the audience was never fortunate enough to see her in jail.

Originally posted by: bajarbattu

If they are not ruhi haters... then they should write better language.

In my books, immoral, characterless, are not words that I would use for people I have neutral feelings for.

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much love, light and laughter,
Battu.

Agar woh aisa hai toh aisa hi use karenge na.... She is not neutral.. U can call people like vidhya, Kajal,manisha as neutral who say bad things but later understand and accept it.. Someone who doesn't understand anything and doesn't know their limit and eye on another married man all the time how can u call them neutral.. She is grey.. Positive hogi when she takes a clear cut decision.. Either walk away with armaan legally or walk alone..

Originally posted by: bajarbattu

If they are not ruhi haters... then they should write better language.

In my books, immoral, characterless, are not words that I would use for people I have neutral feelings for.

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much love, light and laughter,
Battu.

When you marry one brother to stay close to other brother, when you continue to lust after your married BIL, you are immoral and characterless (you here is of course Ruhi). How does calling a spade a spade become hating?

Garvita is not a nuanced performer. She paints in broad strokes and she does that well. So far as Ruhi goes, I think the present portrayal is probably closer to what they initially saw. Somehow their vision got derailed by a lot of things and Ruhi started coming across as desperate and her eyes were lust filled when she saw Armaan. We don’t know if the offscreen dynamics had anything to do with it. Ruhi 2.0 wants Armaan’s attention but I really don’t see any physical chemistry between them. She is like this troublesome kid whom he ends up indulging. I am not seeing any great angst either with regard to her lost love. She feels like this stubborn kid who is determined to chase after the prize that eluded her. It is more about zidd than any great love. Also possibly, the losses in her childhood have made her cling on to people whom she considers her own. She doesn’t want to lose Armaan. What kind of a fool marries their ex’s brother just so they can be close to them?! I see it as a sign of self-obsession, where she will thoughtlessly do whatever she does to get what she wants. She does not have a strong moral core, this could be again because of her unresolved trauma. She is also sly as seen from the time she spoilt Armaan’s white shirt to how she brought up the court case to subtly influence the family against Abhira. So she is definitely not naive or innocent, she won’t fight straight but rather try to undermine the opponent through underhand tactics. She has grown physically but her emotional and mental growth are stunted. This is what I feel about Ruhi 2.0 at least. She might still be redeemed if she finds a counsellor who will gently nudge her to see the error of her ways rather than actively encourage her delusions!

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

when its about favourite blame on writers when its about hated ones it's the character. All are written by the same writers. Abhira had a simple life without any blames or baggages on head taken for granted or in gratitude like her mother had in her time. Her mom kept the child free of those blames gave a happy free spirited life which gave her confidence and strength. Being a single mom she gave that security to the kid. What her mom can't take stand against truth she taught the kid. In a way she rectified her mistakes in life giving that teachings to her kid. But only thing she did was she didn't tell about her past life to her kid might be it's not wanted for her or thought not to get back to old relations. Today Manish dialogues shayad kuch thread is left over so if we do this puja it will be good. Ak always wanted manish to excuse and accept her back which was shown in bits in mandir shadi as her dream, her convo with ruhis poppy when abhir got good marks in school. Her version was when they didn't call me why should i talk. When on death bed manish refused to accept her saying you are already dead for us she lost her last chance. Ruhi as child has that feeling of fatherless child a single mom and the kid was taunted badly in function for not having a father. Though her poppy gave her that unconditional love a parent is always a parent either father ir mother . She had to share her poppy with her cousin brother accepting the reality with maturity. She was shown as jealous girl first but slowly with poppys words she understood the value of brother in her life.This girl had Baggage of deaths and abandonment issues with her loved ones. Abhira too has no father but single parent love was there for her though she misses that father love which she feels in madhav. Whereas ruhi lost her own parents and parent figures her poppy her masi which she acknowledged on holi. 90 ,80 yr old great grand parents gave love shelter and security ti kid but will they be equal to parents any day who give confidence, trust and unconditional love correct the kids when they do mistakes . Ruhi has her past journey along with losing loved ones in her life next. Rohit without giving a chance left her easily listening to corner talks and his brothers sacrifice. No brother can atay that way infront easily in the name of ar gratitude on poddars. Ruhi wanted to be near arman its told always and arman knows it. He never pointed her love on him or disrespected her. Definition of love is as per writers any day in story not according to us and our thinking. If they put Ruhi in that place means they want to show her that way only either positive or negative or grey. A fl has many ups and downs in her journey with her mistakes, mus,egos , attitude or misjudge people in her impulsiveness. She is accepted as flawed fl easily. Wheres other characters are highlighted badly as they don't like it. Acceptance of characters is needed to understand them properly.

Couldn't agree more. FLs are not so mahan that they are the epitome of moralists. We saw how much of a moralist Ak was. Giving gyaan to how Ruhi is immoral when other characters also do unethical conduct seems ridiculous.

Ruhi's character is complex and she has abandonment issues and void of parents' love when she was a child. No granparents love is equal to parents' love. Their affection is different. While grandparents tend to dote grandkids/great grandkids, Parents tend to guide their kids apart from showering love and affection. Ruhi lost her mumma and father figure in her life and she is living with a trauma, yet she still has the innocence side in her nonetheless. When it comes to Armaan, she is concerned about him and fear of losing him because of her past issues. She would have very well moved on with Rohit or moved out from Poddars if Armaan hadn't given her hopes.Some might say she sees Abhimaan hugging, bed sharing and all. But she still holds on to her love for Armaan because she has faith in his love for her despite she was shown jealousy from her side. Her flaw I see is her love for Armaan which is fueled by Armaan himself with 1 year deal marriage.

funny thing is makers are copying same to same crashed thing ,creativity for new generation name which fl used as pyar ki nishani in s3,their fl dream sequence with her ex ,but not copying any thing from major couple things anything, peopl others copy thing which are hit,not which are not hit or saleble

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Originally posted by: Manny_123

Couldn't agree more. FLs are not so mahan that they are the epitome of moralists. We saw how much of a moralist Ak was. Giving gyaan to how Ruhi is immoral when other characters also do unethical conduct seems ridiculous.

Ruhi's character is complex and she has abandonment issues and void of parents' love when she was a child. No granparents love is equal to parents' love. Their affection is different. While grandparents tend to dote grandkids/great grandkids, Parents tend to guide their kids apart from showering love and affection. Ruhi lost her mumma and father figure in her life and she is living with a trauma, yet she still has the innocence side in her nonetheless. When it comes to Armaan, she is concerned about him and fear of losing him because of her past issues. She would have very well moved on with Rohit or moved out from Poddars if Armaan hadn't given her hopes.Some might say she sees Abhimaan hugging, bed sharing and all. But she still holds on to her love for Armaan because she has faith in his love for her despite she was shown jealousy from her side. Her flaw I see is her love for Armaan which is fueled by Armaan himself with 1 year deal marriage.

Originally posted by: sweta2005

funny thing is makers are copying same to same crashed thing ,creativity for new generation name which fl used as pyar ki nishani in s3,their fl dream sequence with her ex ,but not copying any thing from major couple things anything, peopl others copy thing which are hit,not which are not hit or saleble