I can low-key understand Ruhi - Page 2

Originally posted by: bangtanARMY

I understand what Ruhi has against Ar. But why is she taking it out on Ab? She smiles and laughs with Ar but gets angry with Ab? There's absolutely no justification for her incoherent screaming and screeching towards Ab.

Woman blaming woman huh (I mean this towards Ruhi the self proclaimed feminist)

Ye hota hai in reality.

Armaan se wo pyar krti hai. Isi liye reaction alg de rhi hai.

But gussa, frustration and jealousy with abhira real me hoti hai in such situations.

But she needs to think about her own peace and dignity

Even if we accept that bechaari Ruhi is struggling to get over Armaan and it was true love for her and she's genuinely guilty for ruining the life of an innocent man like Rohit who clearly didn't just up and leave but left because he found out about her and Armaan (Ruhi knows this in her heart) - if we put aside all this also- she's essentially blaming Abhira for Armaans deeds and is giving Armaan a free pass. Why?! Abhira didn't do anything wrong. Armaan agreed to marry her and she has literally no one in the whole frickin world. She's an orphan who atlesst has a chachi and p nanu or whatever. What about abhira?!

And if she genuinely wants to get over a breakup like any sensible person would instead of pining over a married man whatever be the terms of his marriage- she would deliberately distance herself. Stop meeting him, find a job or hobby, visit P Nanu for extended periods until Rohit is back or straight up leave saying she will think about returning if and when Rohit returns. She's got a home to return to and a loving family too. She can easily find something else to do.

But she has chosen to stay in poddar house to make goo goo eyes at her ex who didn't take a stand for her. Why doesnt she have any negativity towards the man who dumped her easily?! Was her lifelong plan to be married to one brother and pine for her jeth?! Did she think Armaan would never get married ?! Or did she think he'd suddenly decide that he will announce to family that he wants to be with his bhabhi?! Or was her plan that Armaan should remain single until she forces herself to love Rohit?! Like WTF!

She should be dying in guilt that Rohit is missing/maybe dead and should leave. But instead she's made herself victim and Abhira the villain because her plan is- get Abhira out of the way and probably work on convincing family and Armaan about her and Armaan saying Rohit is never coming back. How pathetic and dimwitted is that?!

And if she really wants that , then let her be brave and cone clean to Abhira. Why not tell Abhira- "I am Rohits wife but I love Armaan and I cant stand you and him as spouses. So please leave and i will continue to hit on my jeth"

Abhira will definitely leave if she hears this.

But she won't disclose also because she knows no one in her own family or Poddars will stand her presence if she tells them the truth.

Cant sympathize with a dumbass woman like Ruhi who has zero self introspection and logic.

Originally posted by: Pinecone

Even if we accept that bechaari Ruhi is struggling to get over Armaan and it was true love for her and she's genuinely guilty for ruining the life of an innocent man like Rohit who clearly didn't just up and leave but left because he found out about her and Armaan (Ruhi knows this in her heart) - if we put aside all this also- she's essentially blaming Abhira for Armaans deeds and is giving Armaan a free pass. Why?! Abhira didn't do anything wrong. Armaan agreed to marry her and she has literally no one in the whole frickin world. She's an orphan who atlesst has a chachi and p nanu or whatever. What about abhira?!

And if she genuinely wants to get over a breakup like any sensible person would instead of pining over a married man whatever be the terms of his marriage- she would deliberately distance herself. Stop meeting him, find a job or hobby, visit P Nanu for extended periods until Rohit is back or straight up leave saying she will think about returning if and when Rohit returns. She's got a home to return to and a loving family too. She can easily find something else to do.

But she has chosen to stay in poddar house to make goo goo eyes at her ex who didn't take a stand for her. Why doesnt she have any negativity towards the man who dumped her easily?! Was her lifelong plan to be married to one brother and pine for her jeth?! Did she think Armaan would never get married ?! Or did she think he'd suddenly decide that he will announce to family that he wants to be with his bhabhi?! Or was her plan that Armaan should remain single until she forces herself to love Rohit?! Like WTF!

She should be dying in guilt that Rohit is missing/maybe dead and should leave. But instead she's made herself victim and Abhira the villain because her plan is- get Abhira out of the way and probably work on convincing family and Armaan about her and Armaan saying Rohit is never coming back. How pathetic and dimwitted is that?!

And if she really wants that , then let her be brave and cone clean to Abhira. Why not tell Abhira- "I am Rohits wife but I love Armaan and I cant stand you and him as spouses. So please leave and i will continue to hit on my jeth"

Abhira will definitely leave if she hears this.

But she won't disclose also because she knows no one in her own family or Poddars will stand her presence if she tells them the truth.

Cant sympathize with a dumbass woman like Ruhi who has zero self introspection and logic.

I agree 💯. What armaan and ruhi did with Rohit is the most wrong thing here.

Especially armaan, ruhi was and is still an outsider for Rohit.

Poor Rohit.

Even if the reason of ruhi marrying rohit was for some revenge against armaan for disowning her, I would have supported her to some extent. But she married him only to stay close to armaan makes me feel so disgusted.Not even a tinge of self respect and basic human consideration.Thats the biggest reason why I cant connect to the character.

I seriously can't with these flipper soulmates 😐

Harr 2 mins me apna POV change karte hai dono

Ruhi - I'll make frnds with Abhira then in nxt moment I will lash on her unnecessarily 😵‍💫

Armaan - In one scene he will hug Abhira , make her eat with his hands then in nxt scene he will run behind Ruhi to pacify her , to say sorry

What they actually want they don't even know themselves aur immature, childish Abhira ko kehte hai

Yeah, I understand Ruhi too, and I dislike men like Armaan who are with the girl and then leave girl midway because they couldn’t stand up to their love and give them heartbreak. What I also don’t understand is the hate Ruhi gets for marrying Ruhi because while I know it was wrong of her, but Armaan is the bigger wrong for being fine with her marriage with his brother. He claims to love his brother more than himself but allowed them marrying. He not only broke Ruhi’s heart but also did wrong to his brother. That being said I still like Armaan’s character despite his wrongs because as long the character is watchable for me, I am okay with it and Armaan’s character is watchable so that’s good for me.

I don't sympathise Ruhi even a little bit. I mean she is not mourning over her husband disappeance but over why her brother in law giving more attention to his wife rather than her. See i understand to get iver someone takes time but for that you have to put efforts. She is not doing that she peek in there room and say "how could they come close" what was actually in her mind that she married rohit honestly. Even now she is waiting for armaan like "armaan aayega heroes ki tarah slow mo mein bhag kar aur kaske isse gale lagayega aur bolega duniya gayi bhad mein hum dono apne pyaar mein". Dude mere saath aisa hota naa toh i was like " bhag mere pass itna faltu ka time nahi hain kisi phatu ke liye wait karne kaa ". And also if armaan is wring so is ruhi agar woh nahi bola toh tu bol leti behan bhagwan ne jo zubaan abhira ko sunane ke liye di thi uska hi use kar leti.

I do feel sorry for her at times but when she gets rude with abhira and blames her, i can't like her.

But i don't dislike her either as she lived a life without her mother, infact she lost her whole family in one day after aru died. She doesn't know Abhimanyu & abhir are dead, so just imagine how she must be feeling that her father figure never once spoke to her and came to see her. Even Abhira had a difficult life but atleast she had her mum, but roohi was raised by 2 goenka senior citizens.

She needs to understand that abhira didn't come uske and armaan ke beech mein . It was her decision to get married to someone after her lover ghosted her, and after her engagement she came to know her husband is her lover's Bhai. Isme Abhira ki kya galti hai if Armaan is weak & couldn't stand up for roohi and his so called love?

& What was roohi thinking while marrying Rohit? If she didn't want to move on and wanted to continue her emotional affair with Armaan , why spoil Rohit 's life?

Originally posted by: bangtanARMY

I understand what Ruhi has against Ar. But why is she taking it out on Ab? She smiles and laughs with Ar but gets angry with Ab? There's absolutely no justification for her incoherent screaming and screeching towards Ab.

Woman blaming woman huh (I mean this towards Ruhi the self proclaimed feminist)

Originally posted by: AuthorSneha

I do feel sorry for her at times but when she gets rude with abhira and blames her, i can't like her.

But i don't dislike her either as she lived a life without her mother, infact she lost her whole family in one day after aru died. She doesn't know Abhimanyu & abhir are dead, so just imagine how she must be feeling that her father figure never once spoke to her and came to see her. Even Abhira had a difficult life but atleast she had her mum, but roohi was raised by 2 goenka senior citizens.

She needs to understand that abhira didn't come uske and armaan ke beech mein . It was her decision to get married to someone after her lover ghosted her, and after her engagement she came to know her husband is her lover's Bhai. Isme Abhira ki kya galti hai if Armaan is weak & couldn't stand up for roohi and his so called love?

& What was roohi thinking while marrying Rohit? If she didn't want to move on and wanted to continue her emotional affair with Armaan , why spoil Rohit 's life?