I can low-key understand Ruhi - Page 3

Ruhi is not evil and I don’t even think they will turn her evil completely as Rishta never works on villains ,total evil and vamps. Even today she is feeling bad for Abhir and MG because he lost all the relationships because of her.

But she is being stupid, senseless and immature . She lost all her loved ones when young but she still have a family who took care of her and they all treat her like a queen ,don’t know why Birla’s left her though. And she is not a teenager ,she is a 28 yr old strong , independent with a supportive family. What if Armaan said no to the marriage she still have the option to cancel the marriage ,even Rohit asked her couple of times if she is sure and she shamelessly married Rohit spoiling his life just to stay near to Armaan ? How did she believe he will always love her ? When she is already complaining that he broke his promise ? Did she really expect him stay bachelor all his life ? And what exactly is her plan ?She is ready for EMA and cheat Rohit ??How’s that even justified ? And why she is even blaming Abhira in all this ? It has to be the other way ,

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

Ruhi is definitely not evil and I don’t even think they will turn her evil completely as Rishta never works on villains ,total evil and vamps. Even today she is feeling bad for Abhir and MG because he lost all the relationships because of her.

But she is being stupid, senseless and immature . She lost all her loved ones when young but she still have a family who took care of her and they all treat her like a queen ,don’t know why Birla’s left her though. And she is not a teenager ,she is a 28 yr old strong , independent with a supportive family. What if Armaan said no to the marriage she still have the option to cancel the marriage ,even Rohit asked her couple of times if she is sure and she shamelessly married Rohit spoiling his life just to stay near to Armaan ? How did she believe he will always love her ? When she is already complaining that he broke his promise ? Did she really expect him stay bachelor all his life ? And what exactly is her plan if he downer her married ? She is ready for EMA and cheat Rohit ??How’s that even justified ? And why she is even blaming Abhira in all this ? It has to be the other way ,Abhira should slap these 2 min noodle soulmates . For hiding things from her..I wish Rohit have exposed these 2 infront of the whole family instead of running away.

I wouldn't say she's not evil. She knowingly destroyed an innocent man's life just so that she can freely lust after his brother. That's not just immoral, but evil too. At least to me it is. Ruhi is using her past tragedies to get away with her every wrong action. Just like her Dida and Poppy, who destroyed others' lives and then cried victim. There's a clear pattern.

Originally posted by: shahi10

I wish Ruhi can just run away somewhere and start afresh. Basically she needs an Akshu Kasauli chapter with an Abhinav.

Ruhi is often labeled as evil, but for me she's more of a selfish and little too immature for a woman of 30, dealing with trauma from abandonment. What she need is healing and time away but instead of instigated by Swarna more in wrong path.

Armaan, too, has played a part in fueling her delusions, yet he seems to gain brownie points now that he to set boundaries and taking care of abhira.

In the real world, people often share stories of attempting to win back their exes, sometimes resorting to unethical means. It's not a taboo subject, and it happens more frequently than we might think. Now, getting back to the main point, I strongly feel that Ruhi's behavior is morally questionable. Leave Abhira and Armaan that is a deal marriage ,Armaan himself told her but what about Ruhi's Marriage with Rohit ? Unlike Armaan and Abhira, Rohit never intended for a deal marriage. And that is what bothers me is, her selfishly hurting Rohit ,plus wanting to do EMA with Armaan even knowing she is herself married to another.

If Ruhi showed the intent to remain away from Armaan especially after basically feeling intuitively that Rohit left after finding out about her-Armaan and that guilt itself making her distance herself - then I'd say she's reasonable.

But she's not doing any of that.

Despite knowing everything about Armaan Abhira equation she has the audacity to take out her anger on Abhira instead of Armaan. Why?!

Ok lets say she's struggling to cope. But her anger at being cheated or being left alone etc etc should be at Armaan. Abhira did nothing to her. abhira was rightfully curt with Ruhi because Ruhi was unreasonable in interfering in Abhira matters, rude to Abhira despite Abhira taking flak for Rubis mistakes leading to her losing a golden chance at work. Despite all this Abhira was bigger person and apologized. But Ruhi is projecting on Abhira as if Abhira is her punching bag. Who the F does she think she is?!

But i dislike Armaan more than Ruhi. He is messing things up. If he didn't give in to placating Ruhi she might get message but he leads her on. And then he leads on Abhira too.

I don’t have to reply because you have written everything! I agree with you, and May we also add that it took her 1 day to decide to move on from someone she thought she is her new soul mate. Nobody was pressuring her to get married to Rohit. Her grandparents told her to take her time to decide, but she quickly answered yes to marrying a complete stranger because she thought she got stood up. I don’t understand how even Arman can be blamed for this.
secondly, he clearly told her that he can never share a romantic relationship with her, because she is engaged to his brother. That’s his standard! How can she think he will marry her after she has already married the brother? He said that twice that they will never share a romantic relationship even if he wasn’t married. It doesn’t matter how nice to her he is to her.
She is not a victim! She never was!
Worst of all, she is playing a victim card against Abeera! Like, this girl hasn’t even give enough time to mourn her mom yet. This girl was forced to marry a stranger and moved in a house full of haters. This girl’s husband doesn’t even love her yet, and again she is still a young child compared to you. You even get her in trouble with your evil act ( because a coward would have been sorry behind the scene) she did that deliberately even though she knows how important Abeera’s Carter is to her.
Wooo I hate her character! No ambition, pretending to care about family members even her grannies, running after a married brother in law. I don’t know why anyone can defend her character. I find nothing good in her except her beauty.?

Great post and great read and I respect an love reading honest POV from others. I hope there is more out there

Now my take on your topic, Do I understand where Ruhi coming from NOPE.

I find Ruhi to be an entitle spoiled selfish woman (Not Child) but a grown woman that feel unaccountable for nothing, is all me me me aur me or it's your fault. Give me a break on her Cry me a River attitude.

I get all you say about Armaan could've have asked one of the cousins to call her and said he had to get out of town for family, but he had a phone and his plan is to call but due circumstances not in his control we all know what happen with his phone, and when he finally got opportunity what did Ruhi do, she Blocked him.

So what she didn't know Armaan was related to Poddar family but she knew Armaan, knew them right, cause she and her family celebrated with Poddars at the resort. Alright she made a hasty decision and got engage and even though Rohit say wait for marriage she agree. So when she finds out the truth now that the man she agree to marry isn't just a Poddar, but Armaan younger brother, why didn't stop the engagement. Armaan explained his reason, so why did she need him to save her, why didn't she make the decision, it's her life.

I'm not going to watch that part again but I don't remember Armaan promising to love Ruhi forever, I know he said in that moment he still had love in his heart for Ruhi. The girl on her own, decided to marry to be close to Armaan for what reason and what purpose what that serve?

I keep reading Armaan is a fault which, I agree for not telling his family, mostly Rohit about being in love with Ruhi. But this part about leading Ruhi, I don't see it. Armaan may have been naive and stupid to try and put Ruhi in the friend zone so fast, to take her into confidence to say his

"Legal Marriage" is deal for 1 year like is legally bonding, is just a deal on hand shake .

Not once since Armaan got married did he use the L word or pursue Ruhi in anyway. It has been Ruhi disrespect the MS she always clutching around her neck as she follows Armaan and talk about them being soul mate and blaming him for not fighting for their love. Armaan told her yes my marriage may be a deal but yours isn't, so accept it and move on and that would make him very happy.

If you ask me I'll say what Ruhi feel for Armaan isn't love but obsession, that she saw him first so he belong to her and nobody else. Ruhi grew up in posh life with people that love her but yet act like a victim, who grew up in orphanage.

Armaan is idiot for talking on both sides of his mouth for worrying about Ruhi pain cause he feel responsible, which he's not but never take the time to think that reason brother left was cause he find out the truth.

Every thing can be forgiven " if she could act "

The " lust, seductive, burn 🔥 with the want to be with him , to want to be with him ... some sizzling chemistry "

Nothing there she can't even act 🙄

From what I remember Armaan said something along the lines of "mere dil mei sirf tumhari liye jaga hai" or "mere dil mei sirf ek ladki ke liye jaga hai aur woh ho tum". Basically something along the lines that Ruhi will be Armaan's forever love. It was definitely said during their confrontation. I can see with Armaan that it might've been a time of desperation for him and a highly emotional moment. I think Armaan had also encouraged her to get married to Rohit for his happiness and his family's happiness because at that time Rohit was over the moon to get married to Ruhi.

Originally posted by: pyar-ishk

Great post and great read and I respect an love reading honest POV from others. I hope there is more out there

Now my take on your topic, Do I understand where Ruhi coming from NOPE.

I find Ruhi to be an entitle spoiled selfish woman (Not Child) but a grown woman that feel unaccountable for nothing, is all me me me aur me or it's your fault. Give me a break on her Cry me a River attitude.

I get all you say about Armaan could've have asked one of the cousins to call her and said he had to get out of town for family, but he had a phone and his plan is to call but due circumstances not in his control we all know what happen with his phone, and when he finally got opportunity what did Ruhi do, she Blocked him.

So what she didn't know Armaan was related to Poddar family but she knew Armaan, knew them right, cause she and her family celebrated with Poddars at the resort. Alright she made a hasty decision and got engage and even though Rohit say wait for marriage she agree. So when she finds out the truth now that the man she agree to marry isn't just a Poddar, but Armaan younger brother, why didn't stop the engagement. Armaan explained his reason, so why did she need him to save her, why didn't she make the decision, it's her life.

I'm not going to watch that part again but I don't remember Armaan promising to love Ruhi forever, I know he said in that moment he still had love in his heart for Ruhi. The girl on her own, decided to marry to be close to Armaan for what reason and what purpose what that serve?

I keep reading Armaan is a fault which, I agree for not telling his family, mostly Rohit about being in love with Ruhi. But this part about leading Ruhi, I don't see it. Armaan may have been naive and stupid to try and put Ruhi in the friend zone so fast, to take her into confidence to say his

"Legal Marriage" is deal for 1 year like is legally bonding, is just a deal on hand shake .

Not once since Armaan got married did he use the L word or pursue Ruhi in anyway. It has been Ruhi disrespect the MS she always clutching around her neck as she follows Armaan and talk about them being soul mate and blaming him for not fighting for their love. Armaan told her yes my marriage may be a deal but yours isn't, so accept it and move on and that would make him very happy.

If you ask me I'll say what Ruhi feel for Armaan isn't love but obsession, that she saw him first so he belong to her and nobody else. Ruhi grew up in posh life with people that love her but yet act like a victim, who grew up in orphanage.

Armaan is idiot for talking on both sides of his mouth for worrying about Ruhi pain cause he feel responsible, which he's not but never take the time to think that reason brother left was cause he find out the truth.

Thank you for putting this out so well and in detail. Agree completely.

I believe that Ruhi's still misunderstood Armaan intention (and somehow Armaan is also being blamed). She continues to believe that somewhere in his heart, he has feelings for her. She doesn't consider the potential consequences of their actions and has created a bubble around herself where she is always right. When the truth finally comes out, she can claim that both she and Armaan were in love first, using it as justification for her actions. Their separation was caused by Abhira coming between them and their families' interference.