How would an Ex feel? - Page 5

Originally posted by: Krinya

It's not something to be proud of . He continues to love a woman who he willingly divorced & later who was somebody's wife and he himself was committed to her sister..... Dr Birla s integrity & dignity is in negative. The concept of personal space, boundaries and their will is alien to him...he is far far worse than akshara...

At least akshara was committed to abhin while he was alive , she never stepped the line , she was well within her boundaries ..after her husband passed away she is free to stay single or re marry but that was never the case with abhim.

Lol clearly you value different things. Some people value love beyond society's meek definitions and that is what the story itself is about. Abhi's unyielding, sometimes insane wala love.

Why is abhimanyu the only one who is obliged to show dignity while these two women akshara and arohi have free pass to change partners shortly after their deaths , separation. Arohi doesn't even seem to remember neil whom she has a child with . Akshara changes partners in a blink. She doesn't even feel guilty for her dead child , doubt if she even loves abhir. AbhiM isn't supposed to showcase his best behavior to these goenka sisters.

How is continuing to love a person is not something to proud about? By your logic, Abin loved Akshara for 6 years even though it was clearly not reciprocated from her end? He was in her personal space, completely within her boundaries with such feelings inside him, knowing Akshara never had them for him. Not until she started sending him mixed signals(after UD trip maybe). So AbhiN should be ashamed of his love?

I don’t understand why Abhimanyu is viewed under microscope for his love honestly. Except for that temple scene where he genuinely believed Akshara loved him back and was under the effects of medicines, Abhi never even addressed her as Akshara. Only Mrs. Sharma. He respected her moving on. Respecting her moving on and still continuing to love her is not a bad thing unless he hounds her everywhere by repeatedly harrasing her by confessing and making her feel uncomfortable. As far as Arohi is concerned, we all understand it is an always a coparenting on the paper relationship explained many times by both parties. Abhi was and is always honest to Arohi abt his forever love. Even Arohi wouldn’t have moved on or even had romantic relationship with Abhi if Abrohi had happened. We are forgetting Neil is Abhi’s brother.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

Lol clearly you value different things. Some people value love beyond society's meek definitions and that is what the story itself is about. Abhi's unyielding, sometimes insane wala love.

My definition doesn't include divorce wala love..dunno about you.

Originally posted by: Ambajee

How is continuing to love a person is not something to proud about? By your logic, Abin loved Akshara for 6 years even though it was clearly not reciprocated from her end? He was in her personal space, completely within her boundaries with such feelings inside him, knowing Akshara never had them for him. Not until she started sending him mixed signals(after UD trip maybe). So AbhiN should be ashamed of his love?

I don’t understand why Abhimanyu is viewed under microscope for his love honestly. Except for that temple scene where he genuinely believed Akshara loved him back and was under the effects of medicines, Abhi never even addressed her as Akshara. Only Mrs. Sharma. He respected her moving on. Respecting her moving on and still continuing to love her is not a bad thing unless he hounds her everywhere by repeatedly harrasing her by confessing and making her feel uncomfortable. As far as Arohi is concerned, we all understand it is an always a coparenting on the paper relationship explained many times by both parties. Abhi was and is always honest to Arohi abt his forever love. Even Arohi wouldn’t have moved on or even had romantic relationship with Abhi if Abrohi had happened. We are forgetting Neil is Abhi’s brother.

Howz abhimanyus insane divorce love comparable to abhinavs one sided love to his wife ?😕

Abt the 2nd para , yes he respected her boundaries but he was always indecisive about his ...

For coparenting , two people need not marry specially when one of the spouse can't move on from his ex who he divorced willingly... Don't tell me you were OK with abhim marrying arohi 😆 it was fine if they were marrying for ruhis sake ..but this time around , akshara wasn't in the picture ..and emotional detachment was a pre requisite ..both abhim and arohi were being ridiculous to go ahead with it.

Originally posted by: Krinya

It's not something to be proud of . He continues to love a woman who he willingly divorced & later who was somebody's wife and he himself was committed to her sister..... Dr Birla s integrity & dignity is in negative. The concept of personal space, boundaries and their will is alien to him...he is far far worse than akshara...

At least akshara was committed to abhin while he was alive , she never stepped the line , she was well within her boundaries ..after her husband passed away she is free to stay single or re marry but that was never the case with abhim.twice he committed to arohi and backed off...divorce we all know ..others don't operate on his moods and whims...

I didn't ask you to be proud of it!!! I stated the fact that's shown in the show.

Also if you think it's wrong, it's your opinion. Unlike akshara he wasn't hiding his feelings!!!! Which is 200% better in my opinion. Akshara was the one who gave mixed signals to him at the first place!!! When he was calling her before his accident, she was avoiding him, if she was so loyal to abhinav, she could've answered him and scolded him!!! Instead after his accident she ran to him like paro!!! And up to that point she was still in love with abhi!!! So in my opinion you shouldn't be proud of Akshara!!! As she was not loyal to her husband in the last 6 yrs!!! Married someone, but was In love with someone else for 6 long yrs. 😆😆

Originally posted by: Krinya

My definition doesn't include divorce wala love..dunno about you.

Lol!!!

Again hypocrisy in my opinion

Abhinav too was secretly loving Akshara, when they clearly had arrangement wala marriage and Akshara had made I very clear to abhinav that she cannot be a wife to him!!

Originally posted by: Krinya

My definition doesn't include divorce wala love..dunno about you.

Yep, my definition of love definitely transcends legalities like that.

Oh let’s give that WD a rest shall we. Abhimanyu and Akshara even if mis-suited at times loved each other and Abhir is a product of that love. A love so pure Akshara turned fugitive to save AbhiM hands. (Zero logic fyi)

You and I both know WD was a one day outburst. An outburst that also indicated his love for her wellbeing and his children’s. They were heavily influenced by family. You are telling me Akshara wasn’t influenced by BP to lock Abhi in jail? It’s the same. The divorce sequence was to show she was free to legally married AbhiN.

Also, Look at Muskaan, a minor disagreement, surekha instigation and we are already running to the hills. On a side note, Kasauli seems to be a sanctuary for separated couples.

and no, I do not agree on Abhrohi 😆 I don’t pretend how the writer’s great mind worked here becos poppy could have easily adopted Roo as his legal child and she could have called him Papa. Something even AbhiN should have done all these 6 years considering Akshara was studying law for that very purpose 🤣

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

Lol!!!

Again hypocrisy in my opinion

Abhinav too was secretly loving Akshara, when they clearly had arrangement wala marriage and Akshara had made I very clear to abhinav that she cannot be a wife to him!!

Lol this. I feel like it's so stupid to even discuss boundaries of relationships per this show. There have never been any real boundaries and relationships are insane in this show. What we can discuss is feelings and feelings don't have any boundaries. Otherwise the show is also about the fact that the relationship is not definable by any human standards. Yeh Rishta Kya kehlata hai is a rhetorical question and if we want to think of any answer it would be yeh Rishta Pyar ka kehlata hai. And thats it.