How would an Ex feel? - Page 7

Originally posted by: --Priyaa--

Many couples are married for years.. maybe 25 plus years doesn’t mean they are the happiest some pretend to be happy but it’s mostly a platonic loveless marriage of convenience..the years of marriage doesn’t prove anything..sometimes few days or months of proper love even the most heartbreaking yet beautiful ones are far more impactful and real than these marriages that last forever..

Sooo all elders and parents celebrating 60years or 25-30years of togetherness r not happy should have be separated or divorced…got it✌️

Originally posted by: Krinya

Matlab I can't have my opinion but you can have yours ? I am not proud of akshara, I didn't say you're proud of abhim, it's shameful for the character to be in dola re dola mode always ...he respected her moving on but he himself never moved on when he decided upon the separation....

He was the one to divorce akshara so own it up and move on... Why hang up on the person who he divorced in spite? Then claim to love her till the end of this world?

Akshara was never disloyal to abhin nor did she give any mixed signals to abhimanyu . It's entirely your interpretation. She was very clear to him in the temple.

Even Akshara is also in flipping mode sometimes she is nice to Abhi sometimes she starts the blame game..She keeps changing her words,decisions,choices..Akshara isn’t a flawless character either and Wd both made their mistakes and were impulsive..the characters too have moved on from Whiteday to Monday,Tuesday,Sunday..so the discussion : who was more right or wrong on WD won’t lead to a specific answer as usual..it will go in circles..since it’s too complicated..

Originally posted by: Annabethhoney

Sooo all elders and parents celebrating 60years or 25-30years of togetherness r not happy should have be separated or divorced…got it✌️

Yes in the 90s or till recently many elders and parents were stuck in loveless marriages since divorce was considered far more a taboo than now and was not a socially accepted concept..so they silently endured everything and continued with a marriage which was more of a compromise.

Originally posted by: Annabethhoney

Sooo all elders and parents celebrating 60years or 25-30years of togetherness r not happy should have be separated or divorced…got it✌️

I don't think she meant all. She meant many. There's a difference and it's a fact.

Also, Akshara and Nav were in sense of Marriage started their married life a 2-3 months ago from when Nav died. That too half the time they were struggling to get the sense of security.

For 6+ years Akshara and Nav were in a marriage of convenience where Akshara had no clue that Abhinav is falling for her.

If It was that Abhimanyu from the past.....

His reaction for Ex would be Y Y Y ? ( Kyun Kyun Kyun)😆

But now he is not feeling anything bad.... Just helping her out....

Originally posted by: chaipaani

I don't think she meant all. She meant many. There's a difference and it's a fact.

Also, Akshara and Nav were in sense of Marriage started their married life a 2-3 months ago from when Nav died. That too half the time they were struggling to get the sense of security.

For 6+ years Akshara and Nav were in a marriage of convenience where Akshara had no clue that Abhinav is falling for her.

Exactly..Till those 6+ years they were just friends living under a roof sleeping on separate beds indicating that’s it’s clearly a loveless marriage and a compromise for the happiness of the child and an answer to the traditional society..they weren’t even the best of friends since Akshara kept many a secrets from Abhinav..including the identity of her ex husband Abhimanyu,her financial background her singing skills to name a few..if you are comfortable enough with someone you tend to be an open book and not a box of secrets..

But when Abhimanyu returns suddenly Akshara Abhinav love story starts out of nowhere which was totally unconvincing for me personally.. like Akshara suddenly trying hard to move forward with Abhinav..when she could have done this all these 6 years which was long enough time..

Originally posted by: Amru4krish

If It was that Abhimanyu from the past.....

His reaction for Ex would be Y Y Y ? ( Kyun Kyun Kyun)😆

But now he is not feeling anything bad.... Just helping her out....

He is done with asking kyuns because she plays the blame game and gaslights so he finds it pointless to argue with her or prove a point anymore😆

..also she is in a tough situation now and he is empathetic enough to help her heal and get better..

Originally posted by: --Priyaa--

He is done with asking kyuns because she plays the blame game and gaslights so he finds it pointless to argue with her or prove a point anymore😆

..also she is in a tough situation now and he is empathetic enough to help her heal and get better..

Exactly.... Those Kyuns in the past has given way to too many kyuns....

If he had not asked those kyuns... He would have escaped....

Bas abh he needs to say no more kyuns.... only bas bas bas.... 😆

Originally posted by: Amru4krish

Exactly.... Those Kyuns in the past has given way to too many kyuns....

If he had not asked those kyuns... He would have escaped....

Bas abh he needs to say no more kyuns.... only bas bas bas.... 😆

After asking the kyuns he was like “kyun I asked those kyuns” and is done..😆 Now he silently suffers or just waits till the truth is revealed..soon as usual Akshara and Goenkas arrive with their sorrys and later act like nothing happened..😌

Originally posted by: Krinya

Matlab I can't have my opinion but you can have yours ? I am not proud of akshara, I didn't say you're proud of abhim, it's shameful for the character to be in dola re dola mode always ...he respected her moving on but he himself never moved on when he decided upon the separation....

He was the one to divorce akshara so own it up and move on... Why hang up on the person who he divorced in spite? Then claim to love her till the end of this world?

Akshara was never disloyal to abhin nor did she give any mixed signals to abhimanyu . It's entirely your interpretation. She was very clear to him in the temple.

Maybe you do selective reading!!! Not my problem!!!

Anyway, Akshara did ran to abhi when he met with accident, which made him think that she too is still in love with him and this is not my interpretation. Its in the episode, you can watch it if you want!!!! And it was true, she was still into abhi until then, it's only after Manju bashed her, she decided to flip 360 and started hailing her so called fake marriage!!!! And that's in the episode too!!!!

Also, if abhi still loves Akshara, what's the problem, just because he gave divorce impulsively, doesn't mean he should stop loving her!!! There are many couples around the world, who decide to separate, not because they are out of love, because of their compatibility issues!!!