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Originally posted by: India_TV

it did.....hurt him....😂

abhir even refused to call his dadda...😂

and abhi oly let him stay with sharmas because abhir clearly declared, else he will run away...

makers e dikhaya hai..😂

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

well if you keep insulting Abhimanyu someone who supports him will respond eventually. Just like when Akshara/Abhinav are criticized and few people swoop in. 😂

And I am waiting for Akshara’s suffering and realization… But not very hopeful regarding her realization - theres hardly any brains in her to process things.

Originally posted by: Anu234

Abhimanyu k pas ab aur koi option nhi tha after abhir saying ki mei apne mummy papa k sath rehna chahta hu toh kya Paisa kya court ki decision kuch maine nhi rakhta bacche k wish k aage.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Kal kaha , abhinav vanishing promo air ho chuka hai 😆

Maker ki annouements , makers ke vanishing promo se bhag nahi sakte na 😆
As I said bacche can’t change or REJECT parents 😆 And yeh toh sadiyo se chala aa raha sanatan satya hai jisko kisi kal ki zarurat nahi 😆

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

By the way, after rejecting Abhimanyu and his role as father - why is Akshara planning picnics to make him happy? Earlier she was fine letting him die without knowing about Abhir! What type of rejection is this that she can’t stay happy if he is sad? 🤔

Bacche mata pita ko Reject nahi kar sakte and mata pita apne janm diye hue bacche ko REJECT nahi kar sakte .

In fact janm denewale mata pita kabhi apne bacche ke liye second option nahi hote.

REJECT , Second option yeh sab words janm dene wale maata pita and bacche par apply ho he nahi sakte. In words ka janm dene wale mata pita yah santaan ke samne koi wajood he nahi hai and yeh baat sadiyo se chali aa rahi hai and duniya don’t need serial maker to establish this fact on television.

Fun toh akshara ne banaya tha na neil ki death ka ! Isiliye toh guilt ya sorry dekhne ko nahi mila.

Now Akshara and Abhinav out of their own will want to cheer up Abhi because they can’t be happy unless Abhi is happy- which makes no sense especially for Akshara- she has been wanting Abhi just to leave her happy family alone and to go back to Kasauli- now he did that but now she is worried because Abhi isn’t happy. In what world, will someone be happy after being rejected by their own child and demoted to a friend.

So like Abhi goes against Akshara- she isn’t happy. Abhi gives her what she wants and leaves them alone- she isn’t happy.

So what exactly is Abhi supposed to do? He isn’t allowed to have time to get over his emotions?

Also, shouldn’t Akshara and Abhinav be dealing with their financial condition- this was brought up many times plus their child had a medical condition where they didn’t have enough money. You never know what can happen in the future- Abhir can fall sick again. So why aren’t they focusing on bettering their financial conditions instead of worrying about Abhi’s feelings when he never asked them to.

Originally posted by: verve

@bold Agreed.

But AB's unhealthy codependency with his mother & him being a bad husband are established narratives in the show.. So I wasn't much surprised with him choosing his mum repeatedly over AK.

My concern is what was the need to play victim in front of the family of that very ex-wife whom he himself divorced saying their relationship is a catastrophe. Whom he blamed for multiple deaths.

His behavioural trait of being a perpetual victim in front of everyone like his mother is detestable!!

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This man truly is a live definition of selfishness . He can only be happy when he gets what he wants that too he can't handle. He can never be happy in the happiness of people he apparently loves ? What an attitude ! On what basis he claims to love abhir so much ? Just like he loved akshara once upon a time 🤯

The poor kid tries to reach out to him but he is just standing there , absorbed in his pity party.

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

First of all, I have no idea and I did not say where I said kids are like chocolate and when one is gone, you should be happy with the other. I am explicity stating this so you will not misunderstand me again.

My idea is he is sad. He says he has got nothing to live for. According to that he had nothing to live for when Neil and his unborn children died and he threw Akshara out. But he still found a reason to live in Roohi and his mother. The fatherless child of his brother. She became one of the sole reasons apart from his mom to live.

Now he gets Abhir, Roohi takes a backseat for him. It was explicitly shown in some episodes especially picnic ones. Now Abhir has rejected him and wants to live with his parents. What Abhimanyu Birla can't take is rejection. He becomes sad. Anyone will be. Even Akshara was when she had to give Abhir to Abhimanyu.

But saying I don't have reasons to live when there is Roohi who loves her poppy to the core, it feels like just because he cannot be with his khoon, nothing else matters. And it is not even like Abhir is dead (God forbid), he is with his mom where Abhimanyu can meet him anytime he wants. He is financially so well off, he can fly to Kasauli anytime he wants. That's how custody works in divorces, right? Do parents wash their hands off the other kid's responsibility because one of their kids is with the mom is the question? Akshara got weekends. He can come visit Abhir on weekends. Why is he blowing this out of proportion? Akshara used to wait for weekends so she can spend time with Abhir. She got sick only when Manjari suspended all kind of her visitation rights.

Again, let's see today's episode. Your 6 year old son without whom you cannot apparently live with is, standing behind you, hugging you. What does he give prominence to? His feelings, not the kid's. Who will make a kid feel guilty because the kid just asked for their wish? (I know Akshara and Abhinav did and I do not agree with it all but the context is different. It was not selfish reasons or taking revenge on Abhir because he hurt their feelings or anything, not supporting what they did. Just saying context is different.)

Abhimanyu's character has been very consistent since the beginning of season 3. He hasn't changed even a bit. And that is exactly the problem. In a way the core of his personality is just like Aarohi's pre leap. Both of them want to be the centre of the universe and everyone else to revolve around them. The only difference is the modus operandi. Aarohi schemed, plotted and manipulated. Abhimanyu shouts, breaks stuff, cries and gaslight others. I think Abhimanyu felt entitled for this wanting to be the centre of attention because of his mom and how she raised him. And everytime Akshara showed any priority towards anyone other than Abhimnayu he used to behave so badly making her feeling extremely guilty.

I hope this is clear.

Just tagging Noorain here, since you asked about rejection.

Oh please how his mom's terrible, codependent parenting turmed him into an entitled manchild who cannot take a "no" from anyone even as an adult.

Only this mother-son relationshio is precious. A six y/o should definitely be sensible enough to know the nuance of how his wish to live with his parents might hurt the feelingz of an adult of x years. Such a selfish kid he is! See how Ruhi cares for the said adult despite him going MIA from her life without an explanation just a couple of months ago!

Edit :this was definitely sarcasm about how Manjari's parenting skills might be off-limits to criticism that got reported and edited. It doesn't make any sense now lol

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