Why he always does this? - Page 5

Originally posted by: Krinya

No I don't think it's her mistake. She is not in a position to decide anything for abhir ... She can't see him , she can't meet him ..she is bound by the court judgement ..till now she was trying to see abhir but she knew it's wrong and it might backfire ..that's why she was acting crazy n her family understood....when she decided for abhir then too she was bashed and now also...not everything she will do is perfect , but when it comes to a mother child relation there r lot of unsaid things ..the writers need not explain us their relationship.

See even before also she did a lot of wrong stuffs. Like when abhir was sick her first priority was hiding the truth, that I won't go to abhimanyu for the treatment . If abhinav wouldn't be there,madam even won't have come to ud for treatment. Later also more than her kid,she was focused on abhinav ji ko bura lagega. Later on also she didn't took any wise decisions. She knew how bad her ex mil is, then also she was on each little misunderstanding used to came and grab abhi's collar. You have to be a little wise,sane , clever for your kid. If you won't use your brain for the well being of kid,then what is your brain for?? A lot of ak's choices are questionable and you can't deny that.

You know what's most irritating ? Abhin decides let's give a chance to Dr but he tells this to akshara. Arre call up abhim and inform him that we're going for sometime to kasauli bec akshara is unstable ..

Work itv to work, sometimes characters send their brain for holidays 😂😂and in ye rishta this happens way to much.

Abhin duffer doesn't pick up abhimanyus calls? Why? And not goenkas calls ? "Main unko kya kahoonga" Abe kya kehna hai yahi kehna hai jo sach hai that akshara is serious .

Dr Birla keeps yelling akshara , mere bache ki ma but can't deliver one simple message to goenkas or abhin that he is getting the order canceled and he is bringing abhir to kasauli , he is ready to give up on abhir if he wants ? Why was he quiet when surekha asked him?

As far as I have watched abhi had told goenkas that he will revoke the court orders. Idk if we are watching the same show.

Goenkas have NOW stopped talking to abhim?🤪 After all that he did to akshara and this custody drama , apni neend se jaag gaye. And jaag gaye toh just tell abhim that akshu is unwell , let's all take abhir to kasauli.

Goenkas are worst family ever. When abhimanyu literally did bad with ak,they were like he is our son and all and now when abhi wants to revoke court orders,and even is ready to give up on abhir if he wants, goenkas are showing him attitude.

Idk what they are upto. I feel they are enjoying this drama with popcorn hence knowingly doing these stupid decisions.

Manjari mata is on different plane altogether but she won't be questioned or asked to apologize bec she's the one who's the karta dharta of this kaand.

She is mata. I have nothing to say about her.

Originally posted by: R.G.C

Obviously they are called out, I myself call them out, but the point is that in those there will be plethora of replies completely denying his faults or push it on some other characters 😆. While on the other side of spectrum Abhinav, Ak, etc nobody defends when it is clearly their stupidity

See I have seen people even defending them also. Idk about you but have seen preety much of their supporters also supporting their wrong actions in the name of wd.😆. And Manju to has no excuse only to be defended still is defended

Well if maata can be defended idk what else is there to talk about. I can understand somewhere all the characters but maata and bp NEVER😆. Nice meeting you too!😊

He did tell Goenkas but what Krinya is trying to say is when he saw that they are not ready to trust him, he should have maybe dropped a message to either of Akshnav, to cool down the situation at their place. With everything happening around him, its hard to trust Abhim. One day he is shouting on Ak that meri maa bhi maa hai, and blaming Ak for being the reason for his mother’s insecurities, then next day he is fighting for Ak’s rights? He stays mum when whatever his mother’s conversations with Abhinav were are revealed, etc. How to trust a man like that?😅 Kabhi Arohi se shadi karna hai, kabhi apni shadi shuda ex wife ko propose karna hai? He continuously flips and its hard to keep track of the same. So even though I strongly dislike Goenkas😆, but their mistrust of Abhim is understandable to me.

Coming to Ak, I think Krinya was only talking about the current scenario when she said its not Ak’s fault. Mostly because this thread holding Akshnav’s responsibility towards Abhir fleeing, which I would second her opinion, its not Ak’s fault here. I agree to your point though that it was stupid of her not choosing her child’s health as top priority during Abhir’s surgery track, but I do understand the character’s dilemma and fear. She acted out in fear of losing Abhir to Abhim, and uss point pe usse hope hoga kya pata that koi aur doctor bhi mil sakta hai, usually aisa nhi hi hota hai ki poori duniya mein 1 hi doctor koi surgery kar paye😆. Anyways, still yeah, she could have handled the situation with more maturity

Originally posted by: Harry-potter

Originally posted by: R.G.C

He did tell Goenkas but what Krinya is trying to say is when he saw that they are not ready to trust him, he should have maybe dropped a message to either of Akshnav, to cool down the situation at their place. With everything happening around him, its hard to trust Abhim. One day he is shouting on Ak that meri maa bhi maa hai, and blaming Ak for being the reason for his mother’s insecurities, then next day he is fighting for Ak’s rights? He stays mum when whatever his mother’s conversations with Abhinav were are revealed, etc. How to trust a man like that?😅 Kabhi Arohi se shadi karna hai, kabhi apni shadi shuda ex wife ko propose karna hai? He continuously flips and its hard to keep track of the same. So even though I strongly dislike Goenkas😆, but their mistrust of Abhim is understandable to me.

Thx buddy 😘

Yeah I heard him telling goenkas that he wil get the order canceled but when he knew that akshu is seriously ill, he cud have told them he is getting abhir to kasauli. When surekha asked him that akshara ko yahan Udaipur wapas bula ke kya ho jayega and whether he is ready to share abhirs custody or give up custody , he just stood there. Na Haan bola na na...in that case how r goenkas to trust him that he cares for akshara or abhirs wish ? They also didn't request him to send abhir to kasauli so that akshara recovers ...it was a circus going on.

The thing is putting your point across clearly , is it that difficult ? Drop in a msg to sharmaji that he is bringing abhir to kasauli and tell abhir and goenkas the same.

Today every thing is gone wrong

They could have informed Goenka's in the morning , immediately, could have started the search.

It is very difficult when a 6yr old goes missing @

Manju is more focused that Akshu is acting sick , that woman who can't stay away from her grown up son for a short while , accusing Akshu !

They clearly knew Abhir was not happy could have spoke to Ruhi more !

Even Ruhi is not telling any one any thing related to Abhir , look like she too lost trust on her family !

So ridiculous the way they handing this

🤣

At the end AbhiM ( Manj may say Akshu is the xause because she fell sick 🤣)

AbhiN dies saving Abhir , because Akshu fell.sick , w

She had no right to fall sick or be sad because Abhir's bio connection was more to Manju

Ahkshu is just Mother , kept the him in side her womb, but Manjari is the grand mother ( father's Mother ), Manj has more right , for beta Dr her INSECURITIES are the main concerned over even Abhir's sadness 🤣

AbhiM can humiliate Akshu again (round 2)🤣 white day 02

Manju's tears the precious tears value mire than every one 🤣

Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

Today every thing is gone wrong

They could have informed Goenka's in the morning , immediately, could have started the search.

It is very difficult when a 6yr old goes missing @

Manju is more focused that Akshu is acting sick , that woman who can't stay away from her grown up son for a short while , accusing Akshu !

They clearly knew Abhir was not happy could have spoke to Ruhi more !

Even Ruhi is not telling any one any thing related to Abhir , look like she too lost trust on her family !

So ridiculous the way they handing this

🤣

At the end AbhiM ( Manj may say Akshu is the xause because she fell sick 🤣)

AbhiN dies saving Abhir , because Akshu fell.sick , w

She had no right to fall sick or be sad because Abhir's bio connection was more to Manju

Ahkshu is just Mother , kept the him in side her womb, but Manjari is the grand mother ( father's Mother ), Manj has more right , for beta Dr her INSECURITIES are the main concerned over even Abhir's sadness 🤣

AbhiM can humiliate Akshu again (round 2)🤣 white day 02

Manju's tears the precious tears value mire than every one 🤣

Originally posted by: Aashiqanafan

I know someone very close who has this type of relationship with his mother. No his mother is not a vile woman. But the level of dependancy between Mom -Son resembles AbhiM and ManjuMata. So such sons exist in large numbers especially in Asian culture where sons treat their Moms as babies.

Me too know some one , the Mom is not bad but dependency is so irritating for the wife 🤣

It really exists

Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

Me too know some one , the Mom is not bad but dependency is so irritating for the wife 🤣

It really exists

See It's so wrong calling someone out who loves their mother.everyone has different way of showing love and different relationship with their mom. I don't find any wrong in loving a mother like a baby. When we are kids our mom pampered us and loved us so when she will be old , ofcourse I will also love her ,the way she loved me.

It's so bad. Unless the husband is even agreeing on mother's wrong behaviour and if the mil is abusive or trying to intrude in the personal affairs of husband -wife , I don't see any fault in depending on mother or loving her. Just because you have got a wife doesn't mean you should not care for your mom or not love and adore her.

Originally posted by: Harry-potter

See It's so wrong calling someone out who loves their mother.everyone has different way of showing love and different relationship with their mom. I don't find any wrong in loving a mother like a baby. When we are kids our mom pampered us and loved us so when she will be old , ofcourse I will also love her ,the way she loved me.

It's so bad. Unless the husband is even agreeing on mother's wrong behaviour and if the mil is abusive or trying to intrude in the personal affairs of husband -wife , I don't see any fault in depending on mother or loving her. Just because you have got a wife doesn't mean you should not care for your mom or not love and adore her.

She is suffering in a way ! Better don't comment

Loving any ones mother is good not some thing bad ,any thing beyond a level is not good

Do you know any thing about that person. Or the situation , don't comment then theat specific person only knows what is going on in her life ! Don't generalise every thing according to ITV

Loving and obsession are different , any ways it is of topic so I don't want to further this !

Since you quoted me I had to reply !