Why Abhira will eventually forgive Armaan? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Krinya

But I see a lot of potential in anshuman & abhira , not only chemistry wise but plot wise. I dont want to see sensual scenes & frankly , if they write anshuman well & not flip him from time to time, they will achieve this also..

You already have the answer. They won’t write such plots or scenes. Also, chemistry is a subjective thing. Those who find chemistry in Abhimaan; for them Arman’s character is forcefully deteriorated so (as per X commentary) it’s nothing wrong for them to find chemistry . I used to see chemistry in them during the IPL phase but suddenly they flipped him from a reserved man to a road side majnu. Didn’t sit well with me. Uske baad to hint pe hint diya and chemistry ka toh swaha ho gya.

So true!

Anupama can be hell cringe and creepy but atleast she sunao everyone when needed and didn't spare anyone! Even we used to wait during Anuj track that now she will band bajao who?

Here Abhira feels like she loves getting tortured!

As someone wrote that her wiring needs to get checked, it really is needed. She reminds me of Saxena who says "I Like It" when gets slapped by people, only difference is Abhira loves getting emotional abuse.

Originally posted by: Dr_strange_100

So true!

Anupama can be hell cringe and creepy but atleast she sunao everyone when needed and didn't spare anyone! Even we used to wait during Anuj track that now she will band bajao who?

Here Abhira feels like she loves getting tortured!

As someone wrote that her wiring needs to get checked, it really is needed. She reminds me of Saxena who says "I Like It" when gets slapped by people, only difference is Abhira loves getting emotional abuse.

I just want to know kitna months ho Gaya Anshuman and Geetanjali ko aake?

Originally posted by: Tani16

I am predicting Abhira will forgive Armaan eventually and will end up with him, based on her ever forgiving personality and perpetual love for Armaan:

When Abhira was introduced in the beginning of Gen 4, we all thought she is another Sai Joshi. She was shown to be feisty and overly talkative and fixated over being a lawyer, so we didn't really expect her to have such a big, bleeding heart where she forgives everyone or more accurately doesn't get mad at people even when they do the most vile, horrible things to her.

Case #1: Vile Vidya: She has been extremely horrendous and abusive to Abhira, derailed most of her marriage, has been the cause of her brother's accident and subsequent disability, never ever even apologized for her actions, separated Shivani and Armaan, don't forget how she cursed Abhira and Armaan and taunted Abhira for her infertility, and has Abhira ever even talked back to her? We compared Abhira with Anupama, but at least Anupama admonishes Baa, gives her paanch panno ka bhaashan every episode, but here Abhira does not say anything. No matter what Vidya says or does, she will always be her maa.

Case #2: Dadisa: Dadisa has also not spared Abhira and also never apologized for her actions. Abhira has definitely been meaner to Dadisa than Vidya, yet she still clings to her. Even after knowing that dadisa separated Armaan and Shivani, she didn't tell Armaan because she didn't want to break the family. When they moved back, she happily celebrated dadisa's birthday. Dadisa instigated Ruhi, called Abhira irresponsible and stupid for pretending to be pregnant, said she can never be pookie's maa, but Abhira didn't care. It's like nothing fazes Abhira, she just became closer to Dadisa by the end.

Now after the 7 year leap, Abhira who was not even treated or regarded as bahu as become Dadisa's and Vidya's beti. Abhira who could have left the city and established her career, stayed back and took care of the oldies. Abhira who found them work and helps them so they can live on some scraps of pride. Abhira who never abandons family.

Abhira was never angry at her mom for hiding so much about her past, never angry at the Goenkas for casting out her mom, never angry at Ruhi after they made up after the wedding. No matter what Ruhi said about her mom, in the pregnancy track for BSP, she never insulted her or talked back. All she wanted was everyone to love her. Abhira's endless patience did pay off though. Ruhi and Abhira became close as sisters after BSP and Pookie tracks and the Ruhi got to know the truth of the childhood incident and gracefully accepted it. Abhira got the Goenkas love, she got her brother Abhir.

Even now, she made the oldies go for Krish's engagement because for her, he is her little brother no matter what venom he spews or what actions he took. She has no anger for anyone, then how does one expect her to have anger for Armaan? Right now, she is pain solely because Armaan is engaged to Geetu otherwise she would have accepted him back in a heartbeat.

I don't want to delve in how many times Abhira has forgiven Armaan, that's been done many times in this forum but instead lets talk about why Abhira will forgive Armaan.

Because Armaan has her precious Pookie. Losing a baby, is the worst thing for a parent. Even worse than the baby dying. In Pookie's worse case scenario, aside from being dead, she could have been sold to human traffickers and raised in a brothel. Or she could have been in a bad orphanage, and sexually and physically abused. Best case scenario, taken in a good orphanage and adopted by a decent couple. But then even if Abhira found her Pookie, and she was adopted, how would she get her back?

At least now Pookie has been raised safely by her biological single father Armaan. Right now, Geetu is not her mother and she knows she's not her real mother. It would have been different if Armaan had married Geetu 7 years back just like it was the case of Akshara and Abhinav. Here there is a still a chance for Pookie and Abhira to bond as mother and daughter. However the chance lies utterly in Armaan's hand. Even if Abhira fights custody for her daughter, Pookie would not choose her over Armaan. I do expect initially after learning Abhira is her mom, she would dislike her for separating her from Geetu. She will not instantly bond with Abhira and will miss Geetu. Only Armaan can help Abhira get her Pookie back. I am not sure how Anshuman will fit in this scenario expect they can drag Maira is Pookie's revelation and show Abhira deciding to marry Anshuman but at the end she learns Maira is Pookie.

Ideally, Abhira would happily get rid of Armaan forever and move on with Anshuman. But cvs have not written Anshuman as Anuj. At least I don't see his screen presence as that. Abhinav was a far more memorable cameo and yes it was his chemistry with Abhir and Akshara-Abhinav-Abhir chemistry as a family that really clicked. But I don't see any chemistry between Abhira and Anshuman except he is a really nice guy and fell for Abhira in a few weeks.

Given the episodes the way they are TILL TODAY, I just have one question: Will Abhira go back to Armaan easily or will she give him grief left right and centre before going back to him?

Originally posted by: Krinya

But I see a lot of potential in anshuman & abhira , not only chemistry wise but plot wise. I dont want to see sensual scenes & frankly , if they write anshuman well & not flip him from time to time, they will achieve this also..

There is no chemistry or biology in anupama show , still its running at top position for years.

Imo chemistry b/w abhiman was nill bata sannata to begin with so I don't understand why chemistry will be the reason to keep them together...ultimately its the ph wish how they wanna go about it ..

Exactly, to me story builds the chemistry! Sometimes, even if same actors repeat, they wouldn't have same spark or "chemistry" like their previous shows! That's one of the main reasons why doppelganger tracks ALWAYS fail! Chemistry purely depends on how makers treat characters, their arc and story!!

Armaan or Abhira were never likable character to me, I mean I used to like Abhira to;; the point she was with Madhav teaching Armaan much needed lesson! After their marriage track both characters were horrible and together were disaster!

But for change, if Abhira does move on and accept possibility of finding new path for herself, and not for any baccha or pyaar, I think it will be better arc...

And @TM - You have stated all the reasons very clearly why this generation is horrible and does not meet the mark of legacy show it used to be! Characters like Sr. Akshara and Naira were stronger than lameness they got with Akshu and Abhira... and ML, they keep destroying worse every gen... And you would hope that atleast in this gen, makers would have learnt their lessons, but naa!! Rishi, Bhavna and whole set of writers are bunch of brainless fools...

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Nice post. 🫶🏻👏🏻

Given the episodes the way they are TILL TODAY, I just have one question: Will Abhira go back to Armaan easily or will she give him grief left right and centre before going back to him?

abhi pookie ka sach toh bahar ane do

Originally posted by: Nydv

abhi pookie ka sach toh bahar ane do