Why he always does this? - Page 4

Originally posted by: R.G.C

You might not be giving him leverage but he is definitely getting leverage 🤣, I don’t want to say more than this because anyways will get mass reported and deleted😆. But truth is Abhimanyu always gets the leverage at the cost of Abhinav, Akshara, Arohi, Manjari, and now to even Abhir, Roohi, etc😆

Yeah what is this khoon khoon thing ? By this logic dr Birla toh manjari aur harsh ki kamaal combination hone chahiye tha. Aisa hai kya? Is khoon ko kya naam Doon?

Originally posted by: Krinya

You said it wrong. If abhir does something good it's abhimanyus khoon otherwise aksharas "bhagoda " khoon.

Pray tell me why does anyone have to accuse akshara if abhir ran away ? 🙏

From where we can see , he ran away bec dr Birla failed as a parent... The kids couldn't confide in him..hell even they know he wil always listen to his mother . Here both failed as parents, in a way that they couldn't instill faith in abhir .. ..however what abhir is doing now is entirely his doing and partly abhimanyus bec abhir is his responsibility....he didn't explain him in a way that abhir understood and doesn't take a drastic step..

My problem with the opinion of tm is name-calling a 6 yr old child as bhagoda.

Ps I didn't wanna indulge in this debate as it's pointless but still..the word was on repeat mode.

I agree that it's so wrong calling a little kid 'bhagoda' but the problem is some are accusing abhi that he made kid run away and other are saying ak.

That is what I was also trying to say that both failed as parents. Both were and are hot headed.

I even said previously that if there won't be abhinav in the picture,ak was also another manju maata in making. And abhi even after knowing where is the fault, still he didn't took necessary steps on time.

Only parent who was caring for abhir from start till end without getting in stupid ego fights was abhinav. You can say that some of his decisions were good and some were not upto mark.but still he was the only one not falling into this ego game.

Ak fault was that she didn't properly made abhir understand in his earlier run away that doing this is wrong and abhi is also at fault of not taking necessary steps on time.

Kindly carefully read my previous post. I never quoted abhir as 'bhagoda' but my problem was whatever happening people are solely accusing abhi and ak madam is getting leiu of everything in name of wd.

PS: I am neutral fan. Fan of neither party. Hence I am not baised towards any. So anyone can see that how abhi is being made Bali ka bakra now.

Originally posted by: Harry-potter

I agree that it's so wrong calling a little kid 'bhagoda' but the problem is some are accusing abhi that he made kid run away and other are saying ak.

That is what I was also trying to say that both failed as parents. Both were and are hot headed.

I even said previously that if there won't be abhinav in the picture,ak was also another manju maata in making. And abhi even after knowing where is the fault, still he didn't took necessary steps on time.

Only parent who was caring for abhir from start till end without getting in stupid ego fights was abhinav. You can say that some of his decisions were good and some were not upto mark.but still he was the only one not falling into this ego game.

Ak fault was that she didn't properly made abhir understand in his earlier run away that doing this is wrong and abhi is also at fault of not taking necessary steps on time.

Kindly carefully read my previous post. I never quoted abhir as 'bhagoda' but my problem was whatever happening people are solely accusing abhi and ak madam is getting leiu of everything in name of wd.

PS: I am neutral fan. Fan of neither party. Hence I am not baised towards any. So anyone can see that how abhi is being made Bali ka bakra now.

Thx for telling this.

Yes . I know ..I mentioned that the word bhagoda was used in the og post which is quite triggering , otherwise it's not my place to reply in a pointless debate.

No abhi is not being made Bali ka bakra he has his share of mistakes..he couldn't connect with abhir ..all that the kid wanted was a connection with his parents and everybody was telling him that abhir isn't happy..if he made a little bit of effort in making sure akshara gets access to abhir , and his mother stays away , abhir won't run away today. At least make both of them talk everyday , sleep with his son, give him extra time..talk to him, convince him that he will take him to akshara whenever he wants..Instead he started accusing akshara ke woh roz roz aati hai abhir se milne ? Instead of talking to kanhaji, talking to abhir would be better..it took aksharas illness and abhir running away to wake him up, seriously!

Abhinav was once upon a time a better parent but since he lied to abhir abt financial burden and didn't clear it and now taking akshara to kasauli so that abhim gets to bond with abhir , I feel he deserves the exit now . Least they cud do as parents is to talk to abhir everyday and ensure him that they love him and they're trying to get him back...

Akshara , well, I see no fault of hers other than listening to bakwas advices from everyone. She confronted abhim on correct issues but yes , if she used a better tone and talk to him calmly, things would be different for her..I don't really wanna blame her at this time as she's been acting loony without abhir for quite some time And before that , the fear of losing her son made her do some ridiculous things which she shouldn't have.

Overall all the elders are at fault and they must not show things like the child running away from.home ..its the worst that any parent can go through

Originally posted by: Krinya

Thx for telling this.

Yes . I know ..I mentioned that the word bhagoda was used in the og post which is quite triggering , otherwise it's not my place to reply in a pointless debate.

No abhi is not being made Bali ka bakra he has his share of mistakes..he couldn't connect with abhir ..all that the kid wanted was a connection with his parents and everybody was telling him that abhir isn't happy..if he made a little bit of effort in making sure akshara gets access to abhir , and his mother stays away , abhir won't run away today. At least make both of them talk everyday , sleep with his son, give him extra time..talk to him, convince him that he will take him to akshara whenever he wants..Instead he started accusing akshara ke woh roz roz aati hai abhir se milne ? Instead of talking to kanhaji, talking to abhir would be better..it took aksharas illness and abhir running away to wake him up, seriously!

Abhinav was once upon a time a better parent but since he lied to abhir abt financial burden and didn't clear it and now taking akshara to kasauli so that abhim gets to bond with abhir , I feel he deserves the exit now . Least they cud do as parents is to talk to abhir everyday and ensure him that they love him and they're trying to get him back...

Akshara , well, I see no fault of hers other than listening to bakwas advices from everyone. She confronted abhim on correct issues but yes , if she used a better tone and talk to him calmly, things would be different for her..I don't really wanna blame her at this time as she's been acting loony without abhir for quite some time And before that , the fear of losing her son made her do some ridiculous things which she shouldn't have.

Overall all the elders are at fault and they must not show things like the child running away from.home ..its the worst that any parent can go through

See you also has written that ak is listening to the bakwaas ideas of those who are around her, that is her mistake. A lot of people will tell you a lot of things. It's you, who as a parent should decide what is good for your kid and what is bad. There only ak failed as a mother. She listened to those useless ideas and gave importance to other more than her kids suffering.

Isn't abhi doing the same as ak. As she listened to those pathetic ideas, abhi is also listening to her maataji. Hence even after wanting to help he is not able to.

Both bio parents are giving people around them and their opinion more importance than their heart.

See, abhinav can only suggest ak. It was ak from the start till end who has taken all the decisions regarding abhir. So ak as a mom she should think about her kid well being and make good decisions.

( My granny( though she also loved me but just because everyone around me was into doing house works hence ) once told my mom that why she ins't teaching some housework to me, everyone is teaching their kids but my mom resisted and told that it will be my daughter's choice. If she would want to learn ,she will learn if not then I am not going to force. And everyone learns things when need arises. So she will also learn when she will feel like it.

Not like ak,my mom didn't listened to others. It is mother's decision,you can't just push that aside saying that because of useless ideas,she went wrong. In fact if I have to point out ,I can point a lot of fault in ak as a mother but still parenting is not about being perfect. It's a learning process. People learn slowly. But still you can't give clean chit to ak.)

The problem is selective judgement and that’s the only reason retaliation is happening. No one is a saint in the show, but whenever Abhim does something it gets defended no matter what. Abhir ran away to meet Abhim in the hospital and it was hailed on how it is khoon ka rishta and soul bond between Abhirmanyu, but Abhir doing the same now because of his mother, then her parvarish is being questioned. While truth is that its just a serial and the writers are just writing whatever😆. There is a lot of Godly treatment given to Abhimanyu’s character, that’s the problem, its so bad that I have seen even Manjari’s actions being defended for that, which is problematic. It is so bad that characters like Abhinav who are the least problematic also suffer the brunt. It is so bad that any character who worships Abhim becomes the best character in the world while anybody who doesn’t becomes the worst, even child characters are not left. I don’t see any comments about Goenka family being a good non toxic household but Birla family gets defended on that too, despite having abusers, traumatic childhoods, birth secrets, manipulative elders, doctors who operate drunk, bully children, people who hide proofs and send innocent people to jail, and a lot more.

Regarding Abhir running away, I don’t think any mother will teach their kids to do something so reckless, but they are still kids. If a kid is getting lost it is on the people taking care of him at that moment. I was the one who said it was the Goenka’s negligence earlier when Abhir ran away from Goenka house to meet Akshnav at court. Similarly this time its clearly the Birlas’ fault for not taking care of the kid. First of all I feel ITV houses are the least secure houses, its so easy to run away without getting noticed🤣, I don’t why we lock our houses at night, we should also live this openly🤣. Next why did nobody go to check on the kids that night, usually they keep going almost every night? Its just a stupid plotline, the writers wanted him to run away so he ran away, lol. Blaming parvarish for this is meaningless, its more of a case of negligence, and such things usually only happen in ITV.

Originally posted by: R.G.C

The problem is selective judgement and that’s the only reason retaliation is happening. No one is a saint in the show, but whenever Abhim does something it gets defended no matter what. Abhir ran away to meet Abhim in the hospital and it was hailed on how it is khoon ka rishta and soul bond between Abhirmanyu, but Abhir doing the same now because of his mother, then her parvarish is being questioned. While truth is that its just a serial and the writers are just writing whatever😆. There is a lot of Godly treatment given to Abhimanyu’s character, that’s the problem, its so bad that I have seen even Manjari’s actions being defended for that, which is problematic. It is so bad that characters like Abhinav who are the least problematic also suffer the brunt. It is so bad that any character who worships Abhim becomes the best character in the world while anybody who doesn’t becomes the worst, even child characters are not left. I don’t see any comments about Goenka family being a good non toxic household but Birla family gets defended on that too, despite having abusers, traumatic childhoods, birth secrets, manipulative elders, doctors who operate drunk, bully children, people who hide proofs and send innocent people to jail, and a lot more.

Regarding Abhir running away, I don’t think any mother will teach their kids to do something so reckless, but they are still kids. If a kid is getting lost it is on the people taking care of him at that moment. I was the one who said it was the Goenka’s negligence earlier when Abhir ran away from Goenka house to meet Akshnav at court. Similarly this time its clearly the Birlas’ fault for not taking care of the kid. First of all I feel ITV houses are the least secure houses, its so easy to run away without getting noticed🤣, I don’t why we lock our houses at night, we should also live this openly🤣. Next why did nobody go to check on the kids that night, usually they keep going almost every night? Its just a stupid plotline, the writers wanted him to run away so he ran away, lol. Blaming parvarish for this is meaningless, its more of a case of negligence, and such things usually only happen in ITV.

See I don't know about anyone else but I have never gave abhimanyu a godly treatment. His actions are really not defendable. The problem is on both side. One side is biased towards abhi and others are on ak.

All three has somewhere failed being a parent in which abhinav is the least problematic.

Bold: I have written somewhere already that the show writers are on weeds. Like why the doors are not locked in anyone's house. Also abhi got abhir after so much drama. So atleast he should be attentive towards him or try to be with him. Who leaves a kid in night alone who is just uprooted from his family. Didn't he also wanted to secure connection with him?

PS: I don't know why we are debating on such a crap show. No one is Saint here. We can only say is one is a little less worse than other one in comparison. I have written earlier also

In yrkkh world: more grown up you are= more duffer, stupid and toxic you are.

Kids are more sane than adults here.

Ak is sane than bp and abhir is more smart than ak. And you can make similar comparison with other characters too.

You may not, but he is getting God treatment. Ak-Abhinav do get called out, for instance their way of sending off Abhir was called out by all. Abhinav suggesting them to go back to Kasauli was called out. And so on. I don’t think anybody would disagree about how stupid those decisions were😆. Nobody disagrees on BP’s contribution to reopening of the custody but Manjari’s contributions are forgotten😆. So yeah, you can compare😆.

Originally posted by: Harry-potter

See you also has written that ak is listening to the bakwaas ideas of those who are around her, that is her mistake. A lot of people will tell you a lot of things. It's you, who as a parent should decide what is good for your kid and what is bad. There only ak failed as a mother. She listened to those useless ideas and gave importance to other more than her kids suffering.

Isn't abhi doing the same as ak. As she listened to those pathetic ideas, abhi is also listening to her maataji. Hence even after wanting to help he is not able to.

Both bio parents are giving people around them and their opinion more importance than their heart.

See, abhinav can only suggest ak. It was ak from the start till end who has taken all the decisions regarding abhir. So ak as a mom she should think about her kid well being and make good decisions.

No I don't think it's her mistake. She is not in a position to decide anything for abhir ... She can't see him , she can't meet him ..she is bound by the court judgement ..till now she was trying to see abhir but she knew it's wrong and it might backfire ..that's why she was acting crazy n her family understood....when she decided for abhir then too she was bashed and now also...not everything she will do is perfect , but when it comes to a mother child relation there r lot of unsaid things ..the writers need not explain us their relationship.

You know what's most irritating ? Abhin decides let's give a chance to Dr but he tells this to akshara. Arre call up abhim and inform him that we're going for sometime to kasauli bec akshara is unstable ..

Abhin duffer doesn't pick up abhimanyus calls? Why? And not goenkas calls ? "Main unko kya kahoonga" Abe kya kehna hai yahi kehna hai jo sach hai that akshara is serious .

Dr Birla keeps yelling akshara , mere bache ki ma but can't deliver one simple message to goenkas or abhin that he is getting the order canceled and he is bringing abhir to kasauli , he is ready to give up on abhir if he wants ? Why was he quiet when surekha asked him?

Goenkas have NOW stopped talking to abhim?🤪 After all that he did to akshara and this custody drama , apni neend se jaag gaye. And jaag gaye toh just tell abhim that akshu is unwell , let's all take abhir to kasauli.

Manjari mata is on different plane altogether but she won't be questioned or asked to apologize bec she's the one who's the karta dharta of this kaand.

Originally posted by: R.G.C

You may not, but he is getting God treatment. Ak-Abhinav do get called out, for instance their way of sending off Abhir was called out by all. Abhinav suggesting them to go back to Kasauli was called out. And so on. I don’t think anybody would disagree about how stupid those decisions were😆. Nobody disagrees on BP’s contribution to reopening of the custody but Manjari’s contributions are forgotten😆. So yeah, you can compare😆.

I get it. Feels like you are also a neutral viewer. The only difference between you and me is that I have seen posts on manju mata as well as abhi being called out too. That's why I am a little away from what you are saying.

Everyone is stupid here and everyone has their share of faults. Those who despise abhi are also in the picture. You may have not seen but I have seen post on abhi being called out too and ak being supported for her every actions in the name of wd. But I won't deny that abhi also get defended over wd also which is wrong.

Anyway, it was quite a healthy debate. Nice to meet you here.

Obviously they are called out, I myself call them out, but the point is that in those there will be plethora of replies completely denying his faults or push it on some other characters 😆. While on the other side of spectrum Abhinav, Ak, etc nobody defends when it is clearly their stupidity😆. And Manju to has no excuse only to be defended still is defended😆. Nice meeting you too!😊