Career oriented woma(e)n of this show... Added Shefali's clip pg1 - Page 4

Why on earth can’t Kairav move to Mumbai with Muskaan if he really loves her! Is it necessary for him to live in Goenka Shanty all his life!

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Originally posted by: Sukriti4u

Certainly! In this show, it's evident that all the characters are in a hurry to tie the knot. The female characters tend to get married soon after falling in love, and then they find themselves seeking permission from their husbands or in-laws to pursue their studies or careers.

Muskaan finds herself dealing with Kairav's insecurities, and it's striking how much he resembles his father in this aspect. Kairav's expressions reflect the typical signs of insecurity and anger. Similarly, Naira faced similar insecurities from Kartik, who was constantly jealous and doubtful of her. However, Naira displayed immense strength and resilience, becoming a true lioness who fought for her rights and choices. She pursued her dreams in Mumbai and never let anyone hinder her aspirations. On the other hand, Muskaan appears afraid of Kairav atleast for now.

Exactly! Mimi's comparison was quite stupid...

Naira's way for her own success used to be away from Crazy Goenkas and that seems best route even for Muskaan... And more for her 🤣 since she isn't even 2% of what Naira ever was...

Muskaan is just a sad sack... Atleast for Kairav they could bring in reason of Anisha's stint...

Kartik and Naitik both had lot of ego issues but Naitik and Akshara used to deal very maturely and they had lot of support from Singhaniyas in solving their differences.

@Adhya, what were those days when Naitik was just out of coma and trying to solve his differences with Naksh, it was back then right that Akshara had taken up more into family business na?

Kartik was so much worse than Naitik, and his family, specially this Mimi were like main reason for the differences between Kaira 🤣 and same woman giving lectures on Tajurba is hilarious...

Seriously this is where Birlas take a cake of being better...

Originally posted by: Criticiser

Why on earth can’t Kairav move to Mumbai with Muskaan if he really loves her! Is it necessary for him to live in Goenka Shanty all his life!

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I was trying to find his stupid explanation from kal ka episode... He said his whole business is in Udaipur and can't leave... Bhai yeh toh kabhi office mein aise dikha nai... 🤣

But dono mein se koi kum nai hai... Muskaan couldn't extend honeymoon cuz of her boss and Kairav can't leave Udaipur because of his employees...

Originally posted by: R.G.C

That kinda happens in real life too sadly, women having to take permission. Maybe not everywhere but tier 2 or tier 3 cities mein hota hai. And that is because of the stereotyped gender roles society has given both men and women. Men cannot become stay home dads and are pressured to take over the role of being breadwinners whereas women are expected to take care of home and family, even in many families where women are free to work, they still have a choice to take a break because there is no expectation on us to be the earning part of the family, whereas boys don’t have that kind of a fancy choice to take a break, because they are always obliged to earn

I missed this comment. But I had to say that they may go that route of home-stay dad with AkshNav.

Like he would be there spending time with kids while Akshara will work in office. They may show it in subtle way like Kuch Rang... I think they already tried dealing it in this show with Parth-Shefali but failed because of leap.

Thanks to entertainment industry the word permission is now being replaced by discussion and it's happening two way in major cities. It's matter of whole family.

The whole reason for gender based stereotype was because of the stereotyped roles in society where woman would handle homes and man would be at office. So, it's assumed that woman can easily follow man in his endeavors and be his support system. But with changing time, education and awareness that becomes difficult when both couple prefer working to support family - Double income. And in that case, one cannot stay restricted to one partner's work arrangement. I agree that till date, it's 90% still woman who ends up making all adjustments, but luckily 50% of that 90% is out of their own choice and willingness and not compromise atleast in metropolitan cities - I talk of Mumbai Pune kinda cities. 😆

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Exactly! Mimi's comparison was quite stupid...

Naira's way for her own success used to be away from Crazy Goenkas and that seems best route even for Muskaan... And more for her 🤣 since she isn't even 2% of what Naira ever was...

Muskaan is just a sad sack... Atleast for Kairav they could bring in reason of Anisha's stint...

Kartik and Naitik both had lot of ego issues but Naitik and Akshara used to deal very maturely and they had lot of support from Singhaniyas in solving their differences.

@Adhya, what were those days when Naitik was just out of coma and trying to solve his differences with Naksh, it was back then right that Akshara had taken up more into family business na?

Kartik was so much worse than Naitik, and his family, specially this Mimi were like main reason for the differences between Kaira 🤣 and same woman giving lectures on Tajurba is hilarious...

Seriously this is where Birlas take a cake of being better...

Yes. Akshara started working in the family business when Naitik was in a Coma. After his recovery, Naitik was shown to be both jealous and proud of AKshara. But then he was generally insecure about his position in the family. It was difficult for him to cope with all the changes that his family had gone through in six years. Especially Naksh

Frankly it was stupid of muskan to say that her career and job is more important ..we are to believe that she can't find another job in Udaipur, she can't refuse transfer (no company would sack their employees over transfer , max they don't promote) , she can't find a middle way out ?

I'm not saying she should put kairav over her career but the opposite is also unfair for them as they're recently married..Kairav should or should not have a say is inconsequential ..she doesn't wanna spend time with him this early in marriage ? 🙄

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

Yes. Akshara started working in the family business when Naitik was in a Coma. After his recovery, Naitik was shown to be both jealous and proud of AKshara. But then he was generally insecure about his position in the family. It was difficult for him to cope with all the changes that his family had gone through in six years. Especially Naksh

The way they dealt with that track was quite good. Thoda over tabhi bhi hua tha but that whole family helped him... Infact they also focused alot on chotu Naksh's discomfort while two bonded...

Kartik had worst outburst of all time.

Originally posted by: Krinya

Frankly it was stupid of muskan to say that her career and job is more important ..we are to believe that she can't find another job in Udaipur, she can't refuse transfer (no company would sack their employees over transfer , max they don't promote) , she can't find a middle way out ?

I'm not saying she should put kairav over her career but the opposite is also unfair for them as they're recently married..Kairav should or should not have a say is inconsequential ..she doesn't wanna spend time with him this early in marriage ? 🙄

It's apparently govt job. Yaar when did she say that Career is more important? She just said that no matter how small is the salary, it's important to her. I don't think she has come to the stage of comparision so far 😆 if they do then they audience will definitely lose any sympathy for her and makers will make her into Anisha 2.0..

But I also found her wanting to go to Mumbai for peanuts quite quite foolish - specifically when she she claims to visit Udaipur via flight every weekend just to be with pati. I mean, usse accha toh sach mein stay here, you will atleast save something or makers should totally stop talking numbers completely.

In reality, truth is all about decision making too as opportunities can come anytime... Some pathetic companies even use those as carrots tbh. At times, you know you are going to be promoted but then you realize you are pregnant or they give you promotion exactly when you are just married, about to be married or just had better opportunity at hand... It all definitely depends on priorities. I believe balancing is just a myth as personal favs will mostly take precedence rather than actually managing expectations. And personal favs could depend on societal expectations, your experiences and other environmental factors. Other times, it could be forced decisions. But for any gender setting right expectations is best way forward as in on a balancing scale which one weighs little more over the other.

In this show, I honestly found Muskan to be more career driven but her marrying so soon after claiming to not trust Kairav is hilarious 🤣. They should have gotten this track before marriage, would have been much easier.

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

It's apparently govt job. Yaar when did she say that Career is more important? She just said that no matter how small is the salary, it's important to her. I don't think she has come to the stage of comparision so far 😆 if they do then they audience will definitely lose any sympathy for her and makers will make her into Anisha 2.0..

But I also found her wanting to go to Mumbai for peanuts quite quite foolish - specifically when she she claims to visit Udaipur via flight every weekend just to be with pati. I mean, usse accha toh sach mein stay here, you will atleast save something or makers should totally stop talking numbers completely.

In reality, truth is all about decision making too as opportunities can come anytime... Some pathetic companies even use those as carrots tbh. At times, you know you are going to be promoted but then you realize you are pregnant or they give you promotion exactly when you are just married, about to be married or just had better opportunity at hand... It all definitely depends on priorities. I believe balancing is just a myth as personal favs will mostly take precedence rather than actually managing expectations. And personal favs could depend on societal expectations, your experiences and other environmental factors. Other times, it could be forced decisions. But for any gender setting right expectations is best way forward as in on a balancing scale which one weighs little more over the other.

In this show, I honestly found Muskan to be more career driven but her marrying so soon after claiming to not trust Kairav is hilarious 🤣. They should have gotten this track before marriage, would have been much easier.

Yaar I heard her telling that my career and job is very Important for me wrh kairav in the bg.

I'm not denying the complexities of it..but why can't she find another job in Udaipur? Govt job even if it's ias or ifs or high level, kisi ka transfer ainavyi nai hota ..they serve for a good number of years before promotion and transfer plus they r given an option with the places too..here she was studying before marriage. ..ye Kaisi job hai😆 Jobs In private sector are no less and she can easily switch as per my guess , if she's capable and confident..

But hum yahan logic kyun discuss kare 🤬

Originally posted by: Krinya

Yaar I heard her telling that my career and job is very Important for me wrh kairav in the bg.

I'm not denying the complexities of it..but why can't she find another job in Udaipur? Govt job even if it's ias or ifs or high level, kisi ka transfer ainavyi nai hota ..they serve for a good number of years before promotion and transfer plus they r given an option with the places too..here she was studying before marriage. ..ye Kaisi job hai😆 Jobs In private sector are no less and she can easily switch as per my guess , if she's capable and confident..

But hum yahan logic kyun discuss kare 🤬

Sach mein logic mat dhoondo... 😆

No no, she wasn't studying working before marriage (thankfully). She moved to Udaipur for Govt. Job only. Socho yeh bewakoof 30K per month se kum ke liye Udaipur bhi shift hui thi 😆 Govt.

Job mein promotion kaise mila woh bhi without working yeh post pehle mein bana chuki hoon 🤣 kyunki... All she did was first run after Abhir, then Kairav, then AkshNav... Job par dhyan kab diya ki usse promotion mil gaya?

Other day too she just said (clip on page 1), that Career and Salary is important to her, which seemed to have offended Kairav. Her point was that she knows that Goenkas being richie rich, but these things still matter to her because it gives her identity but Bhaiyaa was little uncomfortable with the idea.