Episode Air Date July 20, 2023 & other discussion [DT Note: pg-6] - Page 39

Originally posted by: Neerasi29

I don't think writers have decided any story ahead coz they haven't been able to decide to go ahead with Abhira or keep Sharma couple...and if Akshara realizes her mistake..they will have to decide for one couple..and they are trying to stretch it as loooooong as they can ..which appears stupid as their FL will be so ruined no one will care about her being together with anybody anymore..she won't be able to be redeemed than other way round

I agree things have been stretched unnecessary now

Nothing makes sense

Originally posted by: Nothingtosay

And w/o cliff’ing one of the characters, they cannot decide on a couple. There is no way this AA is going to realize anything and leave, on top Mrs. Sharma won’t let him go. The only way is to cliff him - but we know that’s not going to happen anytime soon.

At time of leap I read some interview that said TRP was low coz dance and song couldn't sustain show..they wanted to bring new character to bring some complexity in order to move story ahead..jyada hi complex and messy ho gaya..writers phas Gaye apni hi complexity me😂 till Zama guy is there we are stuck with AA..till the time they get another notice and they vanish him same way he came

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Waise by what angle are these episodes proving Abhi a bad father?

From what I can see, at every single point, he is being shown trying to get through to Abhir, make him feel safe/understood....trying to teach him the right things like controlling his anger, resolving things by saying sorry.

Where in any of this has Abhi proved to be an incapable father? When the deck has been sharply stacked against him from the beginning by Ak by erasing him as a father and on top of that sending Abhir to him after breaking his heart.....in such a scenario, Abhi has tried the best he can to provide solace and comfort to his child.

He has not failed as a father in any way....even if narratives will be pushed to blame him for the current situation and Abhir's pain. Meanwhile Abhir ki mom who actually broke his heart is still chilling in her self-righteousness that Abhir is only unhappy over being away from Sharmas and in Birla house.

It is Akshara who has been proven a failure as a parent first and foremost in preparing her child for a truth she herself deliberately hid from him all his life. Her pompous presumption that simply hiding the truth forever will spare Abhi from any mental trauma regarding this was way too ridiculous to begin with.

This show is running on narrations that after white day Abhi has done some unforgivable crime and can never be redeemed and has no right to be a father..then whatever Manjari and toxic Birlas do Abhi is responsible for it and it's all right to be blamed for being their family..and then Akshara being woman and mother is now victim of white day and whatever she does is always right. Abhi is most misunderstood character here.

Originally posted by: Neerasi29

This show is running on narrations that after white day Abhi has done some unforgivable crime and can never be redeemed and has no right to be a father..then whatever Manjari and toxic Birlas do Abhi is responsible for it and it's all right to be blamed for being their family..and then Akshara being woman and mother is now victim of white day and whatever she does is always right. Abhi is most misunderstood character here.

Abhimanyu not giving up even in the face of impossible odds is what's making the show for me right now.

Imagine learning that you have a 6 year old son who considers someone else Papa and then you are thwarted at every chance from wanting to tell your son the truth, wanting to be a part of his life. You are invalidated as a father on every level. Still you somehow miraculously get your son's custody and now all of your son's pain is being blamed on you. You are being blamed for not allowing the delusion to continue unchecked. You are being blamed for your son's pain because no one tried to ease him into the truth and even now everyone prefers that you just disappear so that they can resume the family life that was built by snatching your rights. It is presumed that your son won't care either way whether or not you exist cuz he has already been fed 6 years of a life where you didn't exist.....imagine calling THAT justice or the "right thing" in this story😆.....that because your rights were already snatched away and everyone's gotten comfortable with that, why don't you just get lost and let everyone's lives continue as usual😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Abhimanyu not giving up even in the face of impossible odds is what's making the show for me right now.

Imagine learning that you have a 6 year old son who considers someone else Papa and then you are thwarted at every chance from wanting to tell your son the truth, wanting to be a part of his life. You are invalidated as a father on every level. Still you somehow miraculously get your son's custody and now all of your son's pain is being blamed on you. You are being blamed for not allowing the delusion to continue unchecked. You are being blamed for your son's pain because no one tried to ease him into the truth and even now everyone prefers that you just disappear so that they can resume the family life that was built by snatching your rights. It is presumed that your son won't care either way whether or not you exist cuz he has already been fed 6 years of a life where you didn't exist.....imagine calling THAT justice or the "right thing" in this story😆.....that because your rights were already snatched away and everyone's gotten comfortable with that, why don't you just get lost and let everyone's lives continue as usual😆

Just saw the scene were Mahima is saying that Abhir is not happy in this house and these 2 snatched him from the Sharma couple…his face 😒 it looked like he will give away his rights?! Esp if Manjari revokes the weekend visitation rights w/o his knowledge 😖 I wish atleast Abhir opens up. Wow - this guy is stuck in all directions 😒 what a character 😓

Haha I also wasn’t sure if Neela aunty was her. I don’t watch a lot of shows. I am not aware of many characters. But that image was like strict Teaćher come mil feel. 😜😜😜

Originally posted by: Nothingtosay

Just saw the scene were Mahima is saying that Abhir is not happy in this house and these 2 snatched him from the Sharma couple…his face 😒 it looked like he will give away his rights?! Esp if Manjari revokes the weekend visitation rights w/o his knowledge 😖 I wish atleast Abhir opens up. Wow - this guy is stuck in all directions 😒 what a character 😓

Yes, when Mahima accused him of being the sole cause of Abhir's pain, he deffo looked to be having that moment of self-doubt.

But I don't think he will give up anything since Ak will come and rile him up again by screaming at him and throwing more accusations. He may have given up his rights if Ak didn't show up every day to challenge him and try to disrespect him as a father. That is what is stopping him from totally giving up.

I don't think anyone will give up until Abhir does something extreme or has a breakdown.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Abhimanyu not giving up even in the face of impossible odds is what's making the show for me right now.

Imagine learning that you have a 6 year old son who considers someone else Papa and then you are thwarted at every chance from wanting to tell your son the truth, wanting to be a part of his life. You are invalidated as a father on every level. Still you somehow miraculously get your son's custody and now all of your son's pain is being blamed on you. You are being blamed for not allowing the delusion to continue unchecked. You are being blamed for your son's pain because no one tried to ease him into the truth and even now everyone prefers that you just disappear so that they can resume the family life that was built by snatching your rights. It is presumed that your son won't care either way whether or not you exist cuz he has already been fed 6 years of a life where you didn't exist.....imagine calling THAT justice or the "right thing" in this story😆.....that because your rights were already snatched away and everyone's gotten comfortable with that, why don't you just get lost and let everyone's lives continue as usual😆

i also feel the same .. everyone blaming abhi of seperating abhir from ak ..

but what about ak seperating him from his son for 6 years and even making his son believe abhinav is his only dad , so that he can never consider abhi his father,

ak dialogue ,"tum abhir ke pitha kabhi nahi ban sakte " hearing it and seeing her behaviour i truly believe she had brought nav just so that abhir never accepts abhi as his father.

and fact of custody case . what were all of them expecting when they told him abhir should never know of his existence or , he could meet to abhir once or twice a month when they comeback from kasauli , or he could meet abhir at weekend . that abhi will believe they will never take away his son from him.

when he very well know ak is capable of that and much more ,

custody case was just so that just as abhi said he could meet abhir whenever he wants wherever the hell he wants.

imagine ak wiining custody will she allow abhi to meet abhir in weekdays??

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Abhimanyu not giving up even in the face of impossible odds is what's making the show for me right now.

Imagine learning that you have a 6 year old son who considers someone else Papa and then you are thwarted at every chance from wanting to tell your son the truth, wanting to be a part of his life. You are invalidated as a father on every level. Still you somehow miraculously get your son's custody and now all of your son's pain is being blamed on you. You are being blamed for not allowing the delusion to continue unchecked. You are being blamed for your son's pain because no one tried to ease him into the truth and even now everyone prefers that you just disappear so that they can resume the family life that was built by snatching your rights. It is presumed that your son won't care either way whether or not you exist cuz he has already been fed 6 years of a life where you didn't exist.....imagine calling THAT justice or the "right thing" in this story😆.....that because your rights were already snatched away and everyone's gotten comfortable with that, why don't you just get lost and let everyone's lives continue as usual😆

That's accurate sum of this serial...all problems for all characters is coz Abhi exists 😂 is it too much expectation from writers that's someone sometime calls out this hypocrisy

Originally posted by: Nothingtosay

Just saw the scene were Mahima is saying that Abhir is not happy in this house and these 2 snatched him from the Sharma couple…his face 😒 it looked like he will give away his rights?! Esp if Manjari revokes the weekend visitation rights w/o his knowledge 😖 I wish atleast Abhir opens up. Wow - this guy is stuck in all directions 😒 what a character 😓

And u know he is only one who is still trying to play fair..not stooping down to everyones level..my only wish is since Abhir is like Abhi sticks for the truth..he should understand his father even if whole world doesn't ..I think Abhi won't care for anything else.