Why Akshara should say sorry for Neil - Page 2

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

Yes, Akshara should apologize to Manjari for being a daughter she was unable to protect her son that day. She even failed to stop him from going out rather than she let it go out of control.

If tomorrow Arohi takes Abhir with her and just because Arohi wanted to save someone and Abhir gets killed in that process will Akshu forgive her thinking her intention was good? She will seek an explanation from Arohi why did she risked Abhir's life.

Even may hate her for risking abhir's life for her sacrifice. If Akshu forgives Arohi on that day. It will just show that Abhir was just a trophy for her. She never loved him and she is okay to lose him too so all this custody drama has no meaning.

I can understand Manjari's extreme hate for Akshu because she lost her son and to date, she has not got any explanation for what exactly happened with her son. and Akshu just acts like my pain is more than anyone's pain.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Read my reply to Krinya.

Please stop derailing the topic.

It’s simple question and genuinely i was wondering it…it’s now derailing topic it’s partvof it…if this one gets proper answer then half of this adoption and manjiri matter goes away

Originally posted by: Indira1211

I think akshara doesn’t care about what manjeri or abhimanyu think,of her or if they still blame her for Neil’s death anymore..because she’s done with that irritating mother son duo. She has moved on and is happily married to a man she loves. She just wants her son back. So now that she got her law degree she’ll focus on that. Abhimanyu and manjeri can go fly a kite for all akshara thinks of them.. in the end it will be manjeri and abhimanyu who will apologize to akshara 👍and ask for her forgiveness for blaming her for Neil’s death.’

Because in ITV FL will always wins at end 🤷‍♀️✌️😜

Originally posted by: chaipaani

What happened with Neil we all know. How it happened we all know. Yes Neil was an adult but somewhere the zid of Akshara and her getting hyper that they should do something quickly led to what happened to Neil.

Not what Happened actually he Died. A family lost the son, AbhiM lost his younger brother, Aaruhi her husband, Ruhi her father.

I am not saying that Akshara killed Neil and WD is justified but she is responsible.

I genuinely feel that Akshara for once should say sorry to the Birla family, Manjari and Aaruhi specially. This might give a little peace to all of them.

Here is an example of basic courtesy:

Suppose X person is driving the car and Y is sitting next to them they both met with an accident. Both not at fault but Y died.

It's very natural for X to once say sorry for your loss to Y's family.

Let say Y's family is blaming X. Still X can say I am so so sorry for your loss Y was equally important to me if not more but i am not at fault even though I despite the moment we decided to go for the ride only if things didn't happen the way it did. I am sorry.

Making fun of AbhiM for mentioning Neil. i am shocked they are mostly the ones talking about Akshara's pain on WD and all. Is Akshara the only human in show only she is allowed to be angry, to feel emotions?

I hope Akshara soon realises that what others too lost coz of her actions. Yes she didn't Kill Neil but she led him towards his death.

And I hope Manjari too realises the impact of words on others and tone herself down.

You know i watched white day again..coz of different perspectives ..I had forgotten finer details...Akshara got phone call and started getting hyper ..we should help them..I should be with them..if we don't do something bad will happen to those girls...police will take 20 min..goons will run away ..we have to stop them ..it was initiation..it wasn't Neil's idea to begin with...she created all that panic .oh Abhis call isn't reachable ...it's now in us to stop them..what would you do Neil if these girls were realated to you..then when they reached the location of that truck .she started getting out of car physically to go stop those Goons unarmed..which made Neil stop her saying see your condition think of your babies..I can't put you in spot..I will do instead what you are wanting to do.. someone who is unarmed.. untrained...wanted to stop goons who were doing human trafficking ...would have weapons ..not waiting for police..all they had to do was note that vehicles number and message police and that would have traced them..and that is shown in every crime serial u watch..you cannot objectify exact percentage of blame of who was responsible for Neil's death..but that decision taken was extremely reckless stupid... unrealistic and no one in right mind will take it. The only thing is Aarohi put this thought in everyone's head ..that blame was started by Aarohi..tujhse meri khushiyan dekhi nahi gayi and all that standard blames..if u see carefully when Manjari listens to that sentence then she started this blame..everyone repeatedly told Akshara at least with 50 times please..that if you don't want to worsen trauma of Manjari and Aarohi..just move out of their site for some time...but Akshara still was in same room that I too want to be near Neil..it escalated every thing..what was focussed that u promised u won't go to convert but u did..the only thing apology no apology blame no blame..guilt no guilt...Akshara needs to realize the decision taken cost one life .and it lead to extreme pain to everyone. If she expects everyone to understand her pain of miscarriage which was absolutely her fault .then she should understand absolutely same pain of Manjari losing her son.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

I think akshara doesn’t care about what manjeri or abhimanyu think,of her or if they still blame her for Neil’s death anymore..because she’s done with that irritating mother son duo. She has moved on and is happily married to a man she loves. She just wants her son back. So now that she got her law degree she’ll focus on that. Abhimanyu and manjeri can go fly a kite for all akshara thinks of them.. in the end it will be manjeri and abhimanyu who will apologize to akshara 👍and ask for her forgiveness for blaming her for Neil’s death.’

What she thinks of them, if she is involved with another man or not, whose wife she is, whose mother she is, whose ex wife etc etc she is doesn't matter.

Neil died she was involved. She is partially responsible. Sorry doesn't mean hey AbhiM let's get married again.

Sorry means I understand that because of me you lost someone special.

She can simply say I don't even care if you accept my apology or not, what you think, if you still blame me and what Abhimanyu did to me was not justified but still I am sorry that somewhere because of my and Neil's decision he died. I regret his death too he was special to me as well.

I wish things did not happen how it.

Your comment exactly describe Akshara's state of mind. Main toh khush hun apne life mein mere ko kya tumhra bhai mar gya toh. This behaviour is inhumane too. Unapologetic.

As Abhimanyu's behaviour isn't justified that day and somewhere he is still paying for his mistakes.

Similarly no matter what no doesn't change the fact that Neil died, Akshara was part responsible and she refuses to accept her role in the whole mishap.

Akshara's intention wasn't wrong. She just wanted to help those girls but her way of helping is questionable.

She initiated that dumb decision of going to concert scene, when she had high risk pregnancy & was completely unarmed. Neil asked her to inform police & then he suggested to go back to Birla House. But she emotionally manipulated by saying " Mein Khud ko maaf nahi kar paungi " ..

More than what happened that day, what happened after that pisses me off..She absolutely has zero guilt for whatever happened that day.. Neil's statement "Bhabhi hum kar hi kya sakte hai, ghar chalte hai " should haunt her for life.

She dragged Neil to that situation & Neil went there because he was protecting Akshara.. When Neil went out to fight with the goons, she was sitting inside the car & I was like behen, agar car mein hi baithe rehna tha to waha gayi kyu... She came out of the car only when Neil was about to die.

Neil kept doing things that Akshara wanted to do because he was protecting Akshara.. Neil died while saving Akshara, not even NGO girls.. And eventually it was police who came on the right time & saved Akshara & NGO girls..

Neil's life was sacrificed for Akshara's stubbornness & dumb decision when eventually it was police who saved NGO girls & Akshara. .. Neil died while protecting his bhabhi & she has absolutely zero guilt about it.

Even on white day, Abhimanyu said the same thing that her intention was not wrong but her way of helping was definitely wrong. And still she shamelessly keeps saying "meri kya galati hai ".

Akshara didn't kill Neil but she is directly responsible for the incidents that lead to Neil's death... There is something called survivor's guilt which is absolutely missing in her..

When Aarohi said Akshara that Abhir is lucky to have 2 fathers but Roohi has none, there should have been some guilt & remorse on her face but she is so insensitive that she didn't even flinch for a second. How insensitively she keeps saying "Neil mar gaya", " meri kya galati hai " , "chhoti si galati "

She must apologize to Manjiri, Aarohi & Roohi specially but I know that will never happen

Originally posted by: Indira1211

I think akshara doesn’t care about what manjeri or abhimanyu think,of her or if they still blame her for Neil’s death anymore..because she’s done with that irritating mother son duo. She has moved on and is happily married to a man she loves. She just wants her son back. So now that she got her law degree she’ll focus on that. Abhimanyu and manjeri can go fly a kite for all akshara thinks of them.. in the end it will be manjeri and abhimanyu who will apologize to akshara 👍and ask for her forgiveness for blaming her for Neil’s death.’

If she has moved on let her follow the court rules and meet her son only during weekends like how other ppl do it.

She should never expect anything from abhi and manjari if she really moved on. Why should she say abhi took her son where as she herself gone to court for custody.

Let her fight her son's case and meet her son on weekend than going to manjari expecting that manjari will welcome her with cocount and flowers for killing her son and taking her another son's right to be called as father and taking away her potha. and glorifying some one else as abhir's dad where as she herself did not give any opportunity to abhi to fullfill his duty as a father.

It's akshu's mistake that she thinks birla's will be happy seeing her in birla house with out having an ounce remorse for whatever she has done till now.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Also, this is similar to how Akshara today changes the topic from Neil's death to court case.

But no counter argument will change the fact that Akshara was indirectly involved and she owe an apology to the family

Manjari called abhinav a thief for stealing her pota . She went mental when abhir wrote abhir abhinav Sharma. Obviously she has no regard for relations formed by love and affection..legal or illegal is a moot argument . When she has been acting like a hypocrite all along ,not able to understand anybodys pain why should anyone acknowledge hers ?

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Originally posted by: Neerasi29

You know i watched white day again..coz of different perspectives ..I had forgotten finer details...Akshara got phone call and started getting hyper ..we should help them..I should be with them..if we don't do something bad will happen to those girls...police will take 20 min..goons will run away ..we have to stop them ..it was initiation..it wasn't Neil's idea to begin with...she created all that panic .oh Abhis call isn't reachable ...it's now in us to stop them..what would you do Neil if these girls were realated to you..then when they reached the location of that truck .she started getting out of car physically to go stop those Goons unarmed..which made Neil stop her saying see your condition think of your babies..I can't put you in spot..I will do instead what you are wanting to do.. someone who is unarmed.. untrained...wanted to stop goons who were doing human trafficking ...would have weapons ..not waiting for police..all they had to do was note that vehicles number and message police and that would have traced them..and that is shown in every crime serial u watch..you cannot objectify exact percentage of blame of who was responsible for Neil's death..but that decision taken was extremely reckless stupid... unrealistic and no one in right mind will take it. The only thing is Aarohi put this thought in everyone's head ..that blame was started by Aarohi..tujhse meri khushiyan dekhi nahi gayi and all that standard blames..if u see carefully when Manjari listens to that sentence then she started this blame..everyone repeatedly told Akshara at least with 50 times please..that if you don't want to worsen trauma of Manjari and Aarohi..just move out of their site for some time...but Akshara still was in same room that I too want to be near Neil..it escalated every thing..what was focussed that u promised u won't go to convert but u did..the only thing apology no apology blame no blame..guilt no guilt...Akshara needs to realize the decision taken cost one life .and it lead to extreme pain to everyone. If she expects everyone to understand her pain of miscarriage which was absolutely her fault .then she should understand absolutely same pain of Manjari losing her son.

I re-watched it too and Hence made this post.

Her impulsiveness took Neil's life and here her attitude is choti si galati.

Atleast learn that before taking such actions consequences k baare sochlena hai.

And then to see how we defend this with another counter arguments is funny.

No matter what they say. This happened and Akshara was involved atleast accept your role in it. Tell AbhiM that he was wrong that day and she isn't that bad a person but she is sorry. Basic courtesy.

To even say she is happy married to the man she loves why should she apologies to her ex and his family. Cause she was the reason her ex and his family lost a son for that. How hard it is. How is moving on is at all related to it.

With this logic if Abhimanyu moves on then doesn't matter Akshara Abhir lives or died that day. He has moved and his happy with the new wife.

Seriously 🤣

Originally posted by: CreativeBuff

Akshara's intention wasn't wrong. She just wanted to help those girls but her way of helping is questionable.

She initiated that dumb decision of going to concert scene, when she had high risk pregnancy & was completely unarmed. Neil asked her to inform police & then he suggested to go back to Birla House. But she emotionally manipulated by saying " Mein Khud ko maaf nahi kar paungi " ..

More than what happened that day, what happened after that pisses me off..She absolutely has zero guilt for whatever happened that day.. Neil's statement "Bhabhi hum kar hi kya sakte hai, ghar chalte hai " should haunt her for life.

She dragged Neil to that situation & Neil went there because he was protecting Akshara.. When Neil went out to fight with the goons, she was sitting inside the car & I was like behen, agar car mein hi baithe rehna tha to waha gayi kyu... She came out of the car only when Neil was about to die.

Neil kept doing things that Akshara wanted to do because he was protecting Akshara.. Neil died while saving Akshara, not even NGO girls.. And eventually it was police who came on the right time & saved Akshara & NGO girls..

Neil's life was sacrificed for Akshara's stubbornness & dumb decision when eventually it was police who saved NGO girls & Akshara. .. Neil died while protecting his bhabhi & she has absolutely zero guilt about it.

Even on white day, Abhimanyu said the same thing that her intention was not wrong but her way of helping was definitely wrong. And still she shamelessly keeps saying "meri kya galati hai ".

Akshara didn't kill Neil but she is directly responsible for the incidents that lead to Neil's death... There is something called survivor's guilt which is absolutely missing in her..

When Aarohi said Akshara that Abhir is lucky to have 2 fathers but Roohi has none, there should have been some guilt & remorse on her face but she is so insensitive that she didn't even flinch for a second. How insensitively she keeps saying "Neil mar gaya", " meri kya galati hai " , "chhoti si galati "

She must apologize to Manjiri, Aarohi & Roohi specially but I know that will never happen

Thank you 🙏🏻

This is exactly what I meant. She wasn't responsible the way they all balmed her but her way of actions did led him toh his death. She must apologize to the family atleast once.